all 40 comments

sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] 57 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I know people say you'll be about as good-looking after transitioning as before, but that's nonsense. I've not seen a single trans person who didn't look way better afterwards.

β€» May be biased

  • source
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Feeling well in your shoes does this to a person. Happy people are shinning.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 32 points 1 year ago

    Not only that, but it's wild how much actually caring about your appearance makes a difference. Like, I don't exactly have a beauty routine or do my makeup, but I do actually put some effort in now and people definitely notice.

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    I mean, back before my hairline decided to start trying to imitate Vegeta...

    Oh I absolutely did hate having pictures taken of me, was quite bashful... eventually got away from my very traditional/rightwing family that had imbued me what I can only describe as an 'anti' fashion sense, started to develop my own, even did some gender bend cosplays and such, yeah, I was hot, people told me unprompted lol!

    But for myself personally, its just fun, occasional tourism, I am quite ok with defaulting to identifying as a dude who is just queer/heteroflexible/considerably more open minded than the average straight cishet dude.

    Also, my more or less straight dude presenting, fuck, even 'are you an undercover cop' - passing looks have definitely blindsided a few bigots and misogynist sex pests that needed to get thrown out of bars! >=D

    Now all that being said... do what makes you happy, be who makes you happy, dress such that you feel incredible, be who you really are.

    Hahah, don't let the man keep you down, hahah!

    .........

    Alternatively:

    Yeah, I tried to see if I could crack my own egg, really did...

    gravely cigarette voice:

    Turns out I was just hardboiled.

  • source
  • [+] 18 points 1 year ago (8 children)
  • [–] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Yes, please collect your thigh-highs and preferred Linux distro up at the desk.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Actually they've just informed me that they no longer have copies of arch. So anyone wanting to run it will need to download it themselves. Sorry for the inconvenience.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    Yep, here's your dash of heavy cream, a spatula... please also take not more than two sample packets of spices from the spice rack, in the event that eggshell integrity is comprimised.

    Store these in your pockets, satchel, backpack, handbag, whatever, then please move to the next que'uwu'e of your choosing:

    You may choose the 'hovercat' line if you wish to procede with the operating system determinism test.

    If you wish to proceede with one of the anime character vicarious identification tests, please find the lines identified by either bocchi the rock, neco-arc, madoka kaname... as you can see, there are a large number of potential choices, I think it goes all the way down to sailor moon... that way, you see the signs, that way.

    If you wish to proceede with the post apocalyptic residual self image based interactive simulation test, please follow the folksy securiton on my left toward the sound of distant gunfire.

    If all of these choices sound overwhelming, thats ok, thats valid, youre valid, please feel free to head to the squishmallow lounge zone, an attendant will be with you shortly to ascertain whether or not you would prefer an affirmatory headpat, as well as a single complimentary comfort snack from our selection.

    Before You Leave!

    Please remember that you do in fact already have an egg, and other food items on your person; please do your best to not break of otherwise spill or lose any of these items, each different station will have specific, further instructions for what to do with them when you arrive.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 4 child comments
  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    divebombs into the squishmallow lounge

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I hope you remembered the egg in your pocket...

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

    I AM the egg in my pocket (am a bit borked)

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago*

    flips through guide book

    You... you and your pocket....are inside your pocket?

    ... You put a pocket dimension... inside of another pocket dimension... which is itself?

    flips furiously through guide book

    Uh....yes, indeed you are "a bit borked".

    Please roll a saving throw.

    ... if that is still physically possible / comprehensible.

    Oh boy.

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)
  • Actually, I'll have you know that I just pull a stupid face in all the photos of me.

    (Not me)

  • source
  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (19 children)

    I'm literally the former. Am I an egg?

    edit: /j, because in retrospect, it was slightly ambiguous

  • source
  • hideshow 19 child comments
  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    Order some thigh high socks and see how you feel

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 10 child comments
  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    unironically already have them

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you're a femboy, you might find you're a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum!

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now?

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 4 child comments
  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    How cis does that make you feel?

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)
  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)
  • Well I got to a conclusion that I am trans, bought HRT another skirt, started voice training, told my friends I prefer gender neutral version of my name, failed to get a good top and now I am doubting myself again, because old things that gave me euphoria no longer do that. Only dysphoria from masculine behavior remained and now that I am reading this I feel dumb.

  • source
  • parent
  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Enjoy the introspection. Have been that way all my life. Ask the questions. Explore yourself.

    For me it has ended up being needing actual connection after some neglect. never felt called to anything so I'm what I was born as. But wouldn't have known that if I hadn't tried some shit. You'll know.

    Healing process of self esteem can then make you like yourself. But asking those questions is very important.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    No one's going to break the prime directive. Go do some research.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments
  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Haha I was only joking. While I am insecure about my looks, I'm fully certain that my self-esteem issues don't stem from any dysphoria.

    CC: @DmMacniel@feddit.org @lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org @TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 1 child comment
  • yeah that was me lmao

  • source
  • oh shit. I always hated how I looked in photos and just lived with being ugly and now I get to be hot

  • source
  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    i legit started taking selfies all the time recently, i had like a whole 5 before then that were really just because i wanted a profile picture that wasn't 5 years old

  • source