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[–] 137 points 1 year ago (4 children)
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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    And anything else in that category of blind bag collectables. Can't do anything with it other than decorating a shelf, spend more money than it's worth to get a whole collection and end up with too many multiples you can't get rid of, and fake rarity.

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  • [–] 79 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Twitter or any “microblog”.

    I don’t understand why “following” a person/organisation would be interesting. I would rather follow a topic/community.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    You can do that. But certain voices carry extra weight within communities.

    I followed today's Formula 1 race on both Threads and Mastodon. Both platforms allow you to follow topics and that's what I did. But then I follow the people I find interesting as well

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I was really rooting for Yuki the most and he lost so many places 😭
    granted they did switch something up on him without preparing him for it but still

    otherwise man I hope the FIA learns something from this race, it was bloody horrible. I would've had a more entertaining time going to church with my father and listening to someone preach for an hour and a half 🙃

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    You can tell it's a shit race when the coverage is mostly showing people in 14th-18th position. Normally I like Spa, and I like wet GPs because they're unpredictable. But this was a procession. Not as bad as Monaco, but nearly.

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  • [–] 37 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Vtubers. I get the cute anime girl thing and I like fan art of them as I do other anime. But the models move wayyyyyy to exaggerated. It hits uncanny valley for me.

    Also I don't get the parasocial relationship of chatting in a huge room of other followers. The chat is scrolling by at a hundred miles an hour and you're competing with everyone else for their attention.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    I enjoy watching and chatting in smaller streams sometimes (like, a couple hundred in the chat at the MOST, usually < 100), it’s still parasocial, but tends to be WAY more chill. If it’s a stream with thousands of people, I don’t see the point in chatting, it’s passive entertainment at that point for me, personally!

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    It's 100% uncanny valley for me as well. There's a creator a like who doesn't like to appear on camera much (most of their main content is animated) and wanted to watch their livestreams. They used an avatar and it just weirded me out. It doesn't help that I'm seemingly way more sensitive than usual when it comes to audio and visuals being even slightly out-of-sync.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Supposedly vtubers need to make very exaggerated facial expressions irl in order to make sure the software picks it up and translates it onto the model, which is sometimes unsettling to people when they get in the habit of doing that normally.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I don't get the uncanny valley from them, but I guess that can vary from person to person, so that's fair.

    The thing about chats being filled with too many people for any one person to matter I agree with. But that's a big streamer thing, not exclusively a vtuber thing.

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  • [–] 37 points 1 year ago (15 children)

    The notion that working in the Trades is so great. Coming from a guy did a lot of construction work, trust me it can really suck… also most of the guys in that line of work are assholes.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    We're doing some renovation at the moment. We have a lead contractor who's managing all the trades 'cos I know nothing about construction.

    Every trade we've had - electricians, bricklayers, drainage guy, plumber, carpenter, etc - come as a duo. There's a guy in his late 30s or older who does the thinking, and a kid in the late teens / early 20s who are effectively labourers and lift, push, carry, drill, dig, etc. The life of the senior guy in the pair seems to be pretty good and you know they're well paid. The kids are learning, and in 10 years time will have their own labourer.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I grew up and have put my fair share of time in the trades. They do pay well but if you don't get out of the field, you trade your functioning body for money.

    The one thing I can't wrap my head around is why everyone wants to work so much overtime. Even unions are rocking 50-60 hour work weeks and then claiming they treat you well. It's looked down upon if you only want to work 40.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I'm a software developer, but I spent three months chucking boxes in the back of a truck for General Motors one summer. Some days, my brain is fried after six hours at my job, but the physical labor work I could do for 12 hours and walk out feeling almost refreshed.

    I sometimes wish I could go through a day of work just... doing. Not wracked with indecision or trying to figure out which tradeoff I won't regret in three weeks. The idea of going into a framed house and wiring up electric all day and then going home — without ever having done it or experiencing the downsides of course— it sounds really nice.

    Of course my back and joints couldn't keep up at fifty like they did at twenty-two, and I met a bunch of functional addicts working that job and I wouldn't have wanted to get swept up in that.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    So the most fun I ever had at a job was the after I graduated college and worked as chef, the work was so much fun, the waitresses were hot as hell, I was young in great shape and we all got off work at 1030 went out and partied. I had sex with really sexy women. All I did for about a year and a half was work out, work and hang out.

    It really was an amazing year, but there was no future in it. I often think back nostalgically to that time.

    I hear you man, one of the greatest aspects was I left work at work…

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    [–] 106 points 1 year ago (12 children)

    Watching sports. Playing them, I get. Watching? Never cared for it.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Same reason some people are into watching video games, talent shows or even actors.

    There's loads of interest to be found in spectating a skilled display of any activity if you truly engage with it IMO.

    I sometimes watch sports I've barely got a grasp of the rules for just out of fascination. GAA hurling is the most recent one I can recall getting sucked into for an afternoon.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    i think there's some sports that are a bit acquired tastes, like I don't think the skill is immediately apparent the first time watching soccer, it's "just people running around". The strategy, technique etc is not immediately apparent. As opposed to like skateboard tricks or dry tooling/ice climbing competitions, which also have depth but are impressive without any prior knowledge, imo.

    For me personally, it's the fan aspect I don't get. What's the point of projecting the us vs. them mentality on some team, "we won", and foflowing a team almost religiously, even building ones own identity around it, at least in part. In general, getting so emotionally invested in it, i don't understand. And it seems to mostly be a team sport thing.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Hopefully I can illuminate

    Team sport fandom traditionally trends with locality. You grow up with going to the local football stadium on the weekend as one of the options for how you spend your time. Your mates have the same choices, so even if you never pick it, you're gonna hear about it at the very least

    If you spend your time with a team, you get to know the players (which is kinda parasocial in most instances, ngl) and in many cases watch them grow over the years into incredible athletes.

    Naturally, people end up proud of the people they support, doing well. It's part of the human condition

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    That makes sense, though at least where I'm from it's usually not local. At least people seem to care most about soccer and ice hockey teams that are not from where they grew up or where they live. Maybe more handed down by parents?

    It's mostly that shared parasocial relationships are weird to me. Like, the benefit of a parasocial relationship is that it helps with loneliness and fill social needs without any pressure. But a shared parasocial relationship, idk. You get pressure/obligations from your peers and you actually have a friend group for fulfilling social needs. at least i never felt an urge to combine my parasocial and social relationships.

    I mean, if it was just some activity you did to spend time with friends, sure, i get it. But it seems like the sport itself is more central than a group of friends, to the point of getting ostracized for liking another team. Or getting into fights over which team is better, that kind of stuff. I know that's not how everyone interacts with team sports, but there is a sizable chunk of people that do take it pretty seriously, and that's where I don't follow why they do that and what they get out of it.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    There are dozens of us!

    My country pretty much lives hockey, so people don't even ask whether you watch, it's assumed you do, so they'll ask stuff like "that match yesterday was awesome, right?" or directly reference something that happened in said match and then look at you like their mind can't comprehend someone doesn't watch hockey.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago*

    I can watch sports I don't play. Like football(both American type and what we call soccer), MMA(although I haven't watched anything in years), basketball(but only NCAA), hockey, the occasional baseball game. I'll make an exception for boxing and tennis, those are watchable even when I was deep into them. But golf‽ How does anyone watch that? I get walking the greens, and hitting it every few minutes yourself, but watching someone else just seems so boring.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    It's fun seeing someone do something with Incredible skill /or great athleticism. Doesn't need to be sport per se performance art like acrobatics or artistry e.g. Bob Ross have similar aspects.

    Some sports I like to watch I have personally partaken in, in that way I can more appreciate the skill needed by the professionals.

    Some sports I don't know at all but I like to figure out the rules by watching and discovering what makes a great play (American Football is in that category for me).

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    [–] 30 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    "Reality TV". Could anythjng be more contrived yet obviously "make it up as you go along"?

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I can't help but wonder how much the popularity of reality TV led us to where we are now. I don't just mean how the US president used to have his own stupid show, but how many people grew up thinking that "watching people create drama" is peak entertainment.

    The same era saw the decline and demise of a number of educational channels and shows. Is it a coincidence? I don't know. All I know is there are lots of adults who grew up watching "reality" shows who now think politics are just a game to "win" and that when their opponents are upset, it's amusing. It's like the concept of empathy or working together don't even enter their minds. Everything is just for entertainment, no matter how serious it is or how many innocent people get screwed over by it.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    “watching people create drama”

    Same reason soap operas are popular and why wrestling used to be huge (maybe wrestling still is huge, but I don't feel like I hear about it as much).

    People like drama. That it's contrived doesn't matter, it's still drama.

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  • [–] 82 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (10 children)

    Most superheroes.

    EDIT: SJW admins confirms that I have indeed been downvoted by Superman and Spiderman

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  • [–] [S] 22 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Same LMAO they're neat but I've always been so meh about them. And there's not even like new ones, it's always the same versions over and over again

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    And there's not even like new ones, it's always the same versions over and over again

    That's the worst part for me, there are thousands upon thousands of superheroes to make movies about, but it's always about the same ones. And you know what the sad part is? That every once in a while we get a different superhero with a cool movie/TV show and it either ends up becoming overused like Batman/Superman (e.g. Spider-Man, or Iron man) or it's completely dropped and forgotten (e.g. Jessica Jones, or Spawn)

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  • [–] 25 points 1 year ago* (4 children)

    It's been 30 minutes: time to reboot Batman again! Let's spend half the runtime of the movie rehashing his origin story just in case there might somehow still be one single person on Earth who doesn't know what Batman's deal is.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I actually don't know, only read it from reddit/lemmy that his rich parents died or something and now he wants revenge against the criminals that killed them?

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Personally superhero movies aremy crowning achievement as far as willing suspension of disbelief goes.

    It's fine that superheroes have powers and/or levels of combat expertise that would be impossible to achieve at their age WITHOUT superpowers. That's just how it is.

    That they solve all major problems by punching people and acting as less murderous COPS, though? THAT'S what I have to force myself to overlook in order to enjoy the escapist silliness I'm watching 😄

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    [–] 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Mobile UI. It sucks. Yet the majority of people online are now connecting from it, and everything wants to be an app.

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  • [–] 50 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    Most social media stuff.

    Omg did you hear X did Y?

    I guess I'm just old but I don't follow most. Even with dogpiling PirateSoftware. Yes, he's wrong and probably lied. I just don't get the hype around it. I'm happy that the hype led to Stop Killing Games getting enough traction though, that was nice.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago

    I've been watching countless PirateSoftware drama videos since it's the clown that keeps on giving. I never bothered with drama channels on YouTube, so I never realized how much of an industry these people made out of it now that I keep getting recommend them. It's sickening.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago

    I've never heard that name in my life, and I'm petty sure I don't care one way or another. My daughter gets wrapped up in internet drama and I can't for the life of me understand why. I am not drawn to drama but were I, there is plenty to be found in my own life. It's all so performative and pointless — the good and the bad.

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  • [–] 20 points 1 year ago*

    Almost anything. As a neurodivergent I seem to be mostly immune and I see the hype circles people are running in and find them bad as all distracts from the immediate issues we are having and should turn our attention to (from personal to global).

    The same in most institutions and companies afaik.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Poekmon: It came out when I was in highschool doing band, theater, occasional sports, a summer job (fulltime), and a parttime job otherwise so I just never got into it. To me, it's a glorified paper-rock-scissors simulator with extra steps and zero nostalgia.

    VTubers: it's just uncanny valley to me. I'm also super sensitive to audio-video sync issues and avatars seemed to always be slightly behind the couple of times I tried to watch it.

    Shorts (and entire social media like TickTock, reels (I think it is called?), etc.): the forcing of vertical video is one reason since I'm almost always watching things in landscape (95% of the time on a TV, monitor, or tablet). I also just want to see more of the same topic, typically, and it's over and now I have to pay a mental context-switching fee.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    when i was in MS, a girl classmate said it was just picture on paper. the current hype/pandemic is due to scalping pokeinvestors trying to gouge prices over it. the pandemic just made everyone stayed home and play pokemon all day. funny thing is nobody said anything about MTG when i was playing HS, and yugioh was hot sht when i was HS, and it was too risky to play it, because people were stealing it from other people.

    it got some resurgence due to people capable of plahying it online. people do criticize the prize mechanic is archaic and should be done away with, i much prefer a life point type mechanic instead.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago

    I struggle to understand hype for most things nowadays.

    It's weird I just don't feel it now.

    I went to see a band I should have went to see 20 years ago. I can't say I felt much hype beforehand. The hype only started when the intro played and the band started walking out.

    Within the first couple of songs I was a mess with happy tears, but everything leading up to it? I was just chill, totally unphased.

    I think I'm broken 👍

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  • [–] [S] 9 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Yea it's decent, but what really takes the cake is that it's far better than what you can get at McDonald's and (at least in my area) it's cheaper than McDs

    Their double double combo is like 10$ compared to McDs pitiful BigMac combo at like 13

    It's not worth flying across the country for like some do, but if I have a choice between McDs or In-N-Out....

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  • I remember when In-n-Out first came to Texas, and the line to try it had the entire highway backed up for miles; People couldn’t even fit in the parking lot, and the line had literally backed up all the way up the highway exit and onto the highway.

    Tried it like a month later, and wasn’t impressed; If I just want a fast food burger, Whataburger is better.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    It's worse than ok. I'd rather have any other common fast food. Fries are stale, shake melted, burger bad. The burger was the best part, but god damn it was a terrible meal. Not worth the meal. I would have rather eaten saltine crackers and peanut butter. We ended up throwing most of it out and going somewhere else.

    Contrary to the negativity, while McDonald's for me is generally considered the bell-curve available absolute 5/10, their food engineering is incredible and worth admiring. They're the one chain that I confidently am in awe of from a scientific perspective, AND, still hold the crown for best Coke.

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  • It's a lot better than other fast food burgers. But it's a pretty basic, straight forward burger. It's fresh ingredients, done simply. And it's why everyone loves it.

    I know of a few places near me where they serve nearly identical burgers, and I love those too.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (5 children)

    Then you go to the east coast and they claim Five Guys is the better In-n-out and holy shit it is definitely not. Even more overpriced and not even as good as a burger king. Sheesh.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Having eaten all 3, Five Guys is the best. But hey, that's why everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Yours just happens to be wrong. 🙂

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Burger King is the best when done properly. I've had godawful burger King and it's by far the closest to innout. Five guys is good tasting, but always melts into a horrible mess, which is basically an automatic fail. If they could solve that (maybe I'll try extra toasted bun next time), I would consider them to be higher ranked.

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  • [–] 71 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    Apple, especially when it was considered a “luxury brand.”

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    It still is considered that, for reasons.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Because Apple is a marketing company

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I had an iPhone once, but realized I couldn't get a torrent client and decided I'll never use Apple again.

    Also if you go to like China, you wouldn't be able to download a VPN app, whereas with Android, at least you can tell a friend who lives in the west to email you a .apk file.

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