The problem is you're conflating attacks on a Nazi with attacks on a woman. Those are separate things.
Lemmy has a massive sexism problem but you'll not find me defending that murderous pig. I know you feel very sorry for her and I'm sure that's wonderful for you. I feel very sorry for the people she's hurt (that includes women btw ๐ฑ๐ฑ)
Look, have fun playing civility charades. I'm sure she'll remember you fondly. That just ain't the way I play