Opponents say [Washington state] voters were persuaded at least partly because the initiative and its boosters exploited deep-seated prejudices and misunderstandings about transgender people to erode their rights.

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[–] 21 points 1 day ago*

As a WA resident I would like to add:

"The largest donor to support Initiative 638, Brian Heywood, hedge fund manager and founder of Let's Go Washington, the Political Action Committee (PAC) leading the campaign in support of Initiative 638, contributed about $2.23 million. ... Supporters have received $7.74 million, while opponents have received about $2.16 million." source

This fuck has a history of trying to control children: "The unprecedented initiative slate would ... guarantee parents access to information on K-12 school curricula and school medical records." source

He's like our own state version of Elon Musk.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 day ago (10 children)

    It's not all that surprising. It's something like an 80/20 issue. Rights are rights and I think most people are to that point, but things get a bit more wobbly about this specific issue. At least at this point in time. And that's probably even before all the bad faith arguments coming from conservatives.

    It's probably why cons worked to put these kinds of things on ballots - a re-play of the Karl Rove tactic from years ago in order to drive more cons to the polls.

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  • [–] 18 points 1 day ago (9 children)

    I think most people just are very confused about the idea of transgenderism and what it actually means, both to those who are transgender and for everyone else.

    And the answer to this? Education.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 day ago

    I think the issue is that, like it or not, we live in societies segregated by gender (bathrooms, prisons, sports, privileges, requirements) and the idea to just abandon all this doesn't sit well with a lot of people, both on the right and on the left.

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  • [–] -5 points 1 day ago (6 children)

    Or maybe people just want to keep their sports segregated and competitions protected? How many trans athletes breaking records is it going to take to realise they're segregated for good reason

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  • [–] 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    Are the record breaking trans athletes in the room with us? Please share who they are

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    Your proof is one article about a political stunt by a guy who doesnt identify as trans making a statement to discredit a trans athlete that transitioned with hormones and surgery 20 years before the event?

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  • [–] 0 points 14 hours ago

    What is it with “you people” (to use your dividing inflammatory language) and your obsesion with children’s genitals?

    I'm not the one advocating for genital checks so kids can play football.

    Explain why ‘biological males’ are smashing all the women’s world records, as above, if “‘biological males’ are not better at sports than ‘biological women’”?

    They aren't. Even a little. Trans women are middling in most sports, with very, very few exceptions either way depending on the sport and the woman. As evidenced in my actual scientific papers, instead of the feels that you seem to be stuck in.

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  • [–] 40 points 1 day ago (10 children)

    I want to make clear that I support trans people participating in any recreational activity, I support their rights as much as anyone, and that this initiative throws a burden on all female children for the sake of a punishing a few, the competitiveness argument is totally based on assumptions and prejudice not backed by fact-based evidence, the issue is pushed by conservative culture war propagandists, and all that.

    That all said, I don't think most WA voters who voted for I-638 did so because they hate trans people, or think they shouldn't exist as people. Hateful and spiteful people do exist but they are a minority. Rather, on this specific wedge issue, again based on flawed prejudice pushed by conservatives, opinions seem more to be framed around something similar to why 40 year olds can't compete in an Over-50 bracket of a tournament.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    I wasn't eligible to vote for 638, but this nuanced take does a good job of describing around where I am. I'd prefer trans people are validated and can exist in society without fear or issue. Affirming care should be accessible and stigma-less

    I also think natural testosterone production is a crazy-good steroid that improves muscular development. I'm not on board at all with the "checking under skirts" requirements of the bill but just feel uneasy with the nominal advantage of male puberty and it's impact on women's sports. This may get called ignorant, but until I'm asked for it, my opinion doesn't matter at all, so I have some time. And I'm only chiming in here to add credence to rentlar's take.

    It's an effective wedge issue, I'm glad that it mostly didn't work as such, and it sucks that WA folks are going to be subject to the 638

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  • [–] 10 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    but just feel uneasy with the nominal advantage of male puberty and it’s impact on women’s sports.

    I might agree if trans atheletes dominated the sports, but they are not.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 day ago (5 children)

    I can at least understand the opposition argument on this one (unlike most other anti-trans initiatives). To them, a trans girl in highschool is just a boy who decided to call themself a girl. They don't understand what would make someone want to do that - they just see the surface level, and that logically resolves to 'A boy can say they're trans to compete against girls'. I can see where they'd object to that. And purely from a competitiveness standpoint, one could argue that a trans girl who hasn't started any hormone therapy or anything of the sort is, in effect, as physically capable as her male classmates.

    And, yes - a boy who just wanted to appear to perform better at sports could in theory do that. It's just that reasonable people tend not to want to pass legislation against an entire class of people because of the potential for a few bad actors. It's like banning N95 masks because someone could wear one to hide their face during a robbery.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    But why focus on boys pretending to be girls and not girls pretending to be boys? Doesn't that just point to the underlying misogyny and pedophilic instincts of the people wanting to inspect little girl genitals?

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  • [–] 24 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    In the context of sports? Because the argument is that testosterone makes boys more physically capable and therefore provides an unfair advantage in sports when they're competing against girls. Since trans boys typically don't have the same levels of testosterone that biological boys do (particularly in high school, where they likely aren't getting hormone therapy or haven't been for long), in their eyes, a trans boy competing in boys' sports would be at a disadvantage.

    As a point of interest, in some states, a girl can choose to try out for the boys' team if they want to, but I'm not aware of anywhere with gendered teams where a boy can try out for the girls' team.

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  • [–] 0 points 9 hours ago

    And purely from a competitiveness standpoint, one could argue that a trans girl who hasn’t started any hormone therapy or anything of the sort is, in effect, as physically capable as her male classmates.

    Good thing that has never fucking happened. Every single league that allows trans women to compete with cis women has always required sufficient time on HRT to erase any advantages a male puberty might have brought.

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  • [–] 6 points 21 hours ago

    I think many "normies" do not even have a good idea, what transpeople really are. They hear "trans" and "boys in girls' sports", and they are imagining a burly transvestite caricature with stubble wresting little girls, and not a twink femboy playing basketball.

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  • [–] 14 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

    Are there even any trans kids playing high school sports in Washington?? Cuz if not then all this did was inconvenience cis high school girls lol

    "Sorry but Susie can't play since she didn't turn in her gender verification form on time"

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  • [–] 1 point 2 hours ago*

    I honestly dont know, but when I was in school boys got physicals to play sports. It was half the reason I didnt want to play school related sports. Did girls not have to do a similar thing? I'm not really sure why sports medicine has always felt sort of fucked up.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 day ago* (1 child)

    Doesn't seem like this should be the responsibility of government so much as the schools and the leagues they belong to. Why should everyone in the state get to decide as opposed to students and parents actually have to contend with the perceived issues?

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  • [–] 0 points 3 hours ago

    Well, one obvious reason is transphobia and let's not pretend that wasn't the motivation for some voters. But the other reason for some is backlash. They see local schools and sport clubs that try to decide this on their own be accused of transphobia and pressured by loud minorities into a different decision, so they want to protect the communities from this harassment with state level rules, since small groups like schools are much easier to bully compared to the state.

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  • [–] 28 points 23 hours ago (5 children)

    Obviously trans people should have full rights and opportunities to participate in society in any way the rest of us can.

    But beyond and aside from that, I will never understand why we have to act like sports are some sacred thing whose purity must be protected. It's people playing with a ball. I genuinely can't imagine why this issue has ever been anything other than "yes let whoever wants to play with the ball play with the ball."

    It is truly weird to me how we not only accept the sports cult, but literally never even scrutinize the field. It's grown-ups playing children games; it's definitely not that serious

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  • [–] 9 points 18 hours ago

    sports are some sacred thing whose purity must be protected

    With that framing, I agree. But that's a strawman. Most people don't care for the romantic vision of a "pure" sport but rather, the general idea of keeping sports fair for kids. 1/2 the rules in all sports are about keeping things fair. Age buckets, weight ranges, gender, a system of leagues (ex varisty vs JV) to sort players on skill level, and so on.

    So if you assume that there are biological differences between men and women that affect fairness within a competitive sport and if you feel those differences largely do not go away until after some form of medical transition and if you think sports are important in kids lives & keeping them fair is important - then you vote the way blue WA did.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 hours ago

    But beyond and aside from that, I will never understand why we have to act like sports are some sacred thing whose purity must be protected. It’s people playing with a ball.

    Because you're not thinking big enough. The "trans sports" debate is literally just bigotry. Seriously, go watch the John Oliver piece on it. Every study that has ever been done has found that any advantage trans women and girls have disappears after a few years of hormone therapy. The athletic performance of trans women is well within the range of that of cis women. Believing trans women should be banned from women's sports because they have an unfair advantage has no more scientific validity to it than the old racist beliefs that black athletes couldn't compete fairly in white leagues. The science has been. The studies have been performed. Cis people just refuse to believe them. Their gut feelings outweigh science and our humanity.

    People just vote based on bigotry. Even most liberal "allies" are awful at this. Most liberal allies just see trans women as drag queens, literal men in dresses, as if we don't take medications that completely reshape our bodies on a biochemical level. Morons, even many moronic Democrats, just think "trans woman == man in dress," and conclude that our sports performance must be closer to cis men than cis women. It's just stereotypes and bigotry. That's all this is.

    And that's the problem. Because once you've given into one form of irrational, unscientific bigotry, you have no reason to ever stop. If you won't listen to the science when bigots say trans women have an unfair advantage in sports, you won't listen to science when bigots say that trans women are a threat in women's restrooms and locker rooms. If you don't give a shit about science, you'll have no problem caving to bigots who hand wring about trans kids receiving trans healthcare. It's completely unscientific and bigoted to let a tiny minuscule regret rate influence your conclusion, but if you've abandoned science once, you'll do it again.

    As a trans person, I honestly do not give two shits about sports. But what I DO care about is the precedent it sets. There has never been a state that passed a trans sports ban through its legislature that then didn't also go on to persecute trans people in numerous areas of life.

    Think more than two seconds into the future.

    Remember, Jim Crow was passed because white women didn't "feel comfortable" sharing spaces with black women.

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  • [–] 6 points 21 hours ago

    Agreed, even if trans people absolutely dominated in every sport they participated in, why does the government need to be involved beyond prohibiting discrimination? Let the various sports organizations determine the best way for everyone to be able to participate fairly. It certainly shouldn't be a top issue with all the other problems in the world.

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  • [–] 2 points 21 hours ago (1 child)

    I don't understand why we even have men and women leagues. Make an A league, a B league and a C league. If A League is 90% men for most sports and C league 90% women, so be it.

    There are "biological" women who crush their respective sports and I don't know why they are viewed differently than a trans women who does the same.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    If we lived in a world where people really cared about girl's and women's sports, and fairness, this would be dealt with using science and logic.

    The sex divisions in sports are really "dominant hormone" divisions. So anyone who has started puberty must be divided into the league with which their hormones align.

    The studies say that a trans woman who has been at cis female levels of estrogen and testosterone for two years, has no advantage over a cis woman. That's the criteria. Two years, then good luck.

    It's not hard.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    Not even if gone through puberty and jidt has a bigger frame over all? The other thing I could see happening cause people love to chest is go off blockers till closet to the event.

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  • [–] 5 points 18 hours ago*

    Yes, even if the trans woman has a bigger frame from a testosterone puberty.

    I appreciate that you brought this up, because it does look like a clear advantage. I understand why people assume it is an advantage. However, what the science has shown, is that it ends up being a slight disadvantage.

    Estrogen changes organ function, muscle mass, skin thickness, and many other facets of a human body. It changes these even if you've had a testosterone puberty.

    So, when a trans woman tries to move those heavier bones, she can not move them as fast as a cis woman, no matter what the trans woman does. Because her heart, lungs, muscle fibers, etc, those parts of her body cannot move the bones as fast any more.

    Force = Mass x Velocity

    A cis woman can reach a higher velocity in that equation than a trans woman. And so, she has more force. This means that a cis woman can throw a harder punch, she has a faster run, and a stronger tackle.

    The trans woman cannot hit as hard, tackle as hard, or run as long or as fast, as a cis woman. This is what the science says and what testing has proven.

    Think of it like two people swinging a bat. If one woman has a regular baseball bat, she can hit you hard, and it will hurt quite a lot. If another woman has a bat that is too heavy for her to swing easily, she will not hurt you as much. Even though the bat is heavier, if she can only swing it slowly, it will not hurt as much, and she will get tired of holding and swinging it, much faster.

    As for your statement about cheating, what you are suggesting is no different than what cis women who want to cheat already do.

    Testosterone is steroids. If a cis woman wants to cheat, she can indeed try as you say and take testosterone long before the event, but stop a few months before they test for steroids. A trans woman can do this to. The only difference is where they get their testosterone.

    The same tests that can catch cis women, can catch trans women who cheat this way. Those tests are not perfect, and both women will still sometimes get away with cheating. But this is a problem that sports has, and it is not limited to trans women.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 hours ago (1 child)

    This thread sure turned into a dumpster fire.

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  • [–] 9 points 14 hours ago* (4 children)

    We have weight classes for certain sports. Why not do that with everything?

    There's differences between lots of people. I have two coworkers who are both cis men but one is 6.5ft and the other is 5.7ft with probably 200lbs difference between them...

    Why single out trans people? Why not just, you know, be more fair period if that's the actual goal.

    And then we don't have to deal with creepy ass "prove your sex to me" bullshit.

    So tired of how dumb and incompetent everyone is anymore...

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  • [–] 6 points 11 hours ago

    I doubt you’d have enough kids to play in many categories. To super tall kid or the hefty kid are just SOL because you’d need a full team for them, and none exist.

    The reason it works in wrestling is because that’s two people, total. You just need to find two people, one from either side, and you’re good to go. And either side can agree to fight outside their weight class.

    But you’re never going to manage to do that with a full basketball league for instance, it just isn’t going to happen.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 hours ago (1 child)

    Bring back intramural sports. You know, for fun, not so you can maybe get a scholarship.

    If private equity hadn’t weaseled its way into all levels of kid’s sports and turned it into a way to become a millionaire people would have less of a problem about it.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 hours ago

    @PangurBan @Semi_Hemi_Demigod pick up games of all sorts were common now parents need a professional level of play so they can get ‘high’ on their kids achievements.

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  • [–] 8 points 14 hours ago (1 child)

    I hope this gets thrown out on the basis of sex discrimination

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    blue WA didn't vote for this. the chuds out in the hinterlands did. King County was overwhelmingly against this garbage.

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    These attempts happened in several states in parallel, it really appears coordinated rather than a coincidence.

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  • [–] 4 points 18 hours ago (13 children)

    I wish people The Good Side were open to more nuanced conversations on this topic. There are many reasons why you could oppose trans athletes in girls sports that have nothing to do with transphobia but when that conversation is placed next to the foghorn of hate from The Bad Side, nuance dies.

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  • [–] -1 points 16 hours ago (8 children)

    What, exactly, are non-bigoted reasons you could oppose trans athletes specifically in girls sports?

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  • [–] 6 points 7 hours ago* (1 child)

    I had a draft message that was basically "Before I bother, I want to make sure you engage in good faith. Can we agree on things like your DNA affects your hormones which effect you body development", and a few other really really basic pillars that cannot be reasonably debated. I had to leave so left it as a draft...

    But uh. In the other thread, you already claimed HRT takes full effect instantly in your They do, actually statement. Also your stance implies a pre-18 start for HRT which is a whole other bucket of nuance. You already started nitpicking grammar like a 2012 internet troll. You already started accusing the other dude of feeding into the "Nazi agenda". I just know that you are incapable of good faith discussion on a topic that is inherently touchy without letting your emotions take over.

    So I won't bother engaging further, enjoy having the last word.

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  • [–] 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (5 children)
    • there are some immutable biological differences between males and females. weight/height classes and hormones/blockers don't make these differences go away.
    • women and girls get fewer opportunities to succeed in sports, and letting a male take a spot from a female athlete is a form of bigotry and male supremacy.
    • just let women and girls have something for ourselves for once? males want to get in all our spaces and don't know how to take "no" for an answer
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    What would you have to see to convince you that there are immutable biological differences between males and females? would an example change your mind?

    Please don't assume what I think, where I live, or my education level. (?????? why ??)

    And please don't be rude. I've been on lemmy for years, and Feminism did not start on reddit and 4chan, LOL.

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  • [–] -1 points 10 hours ago

    What would you have to see to convince you that there are immutable biological differences between males and females? would an example change your mind?

    Scientific studies that explicitly show that AMABs on HRT have some type of advantage over cis AFAB. They don't exist in peer reviewed journals, but maybe I'm wrong. Go ahead. Find one. Two of the papers I linked are meta analyses.

    Please don’t assume what I think, where I live, or my education level. (??? why ??)

    I know what you think, because your moderation history and comment history are public on activitypub federated servers, and by god do you post a lot of bigoted bullshit to push your far-right nazi-inspired agenda. Seriously, you people, and I use that term loosely, need to be forcibly reeducated before you're allowed to be out in public.

    And please don’t be rude. I’ve been on lemmy for years, and Feminism did not start on reddit and 4chan, LOL.

    Feminism did not. Trans-exclusionary Radical Feminism did. Because chipping away at the LGBT+ alliance fits the nazi agenda and it's easier to start with the 'weaker' ones.

    Trans people are why gay rights exist in the west. One would do well to remember that, if you want to claim to be a part of the "LGB."

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  • [–] -5 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

    What would you have to see to convince you that there are immutable biological differences between males and females?

    The struggle you're having is that you don't seem to realize that trans women are biologically female.

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  • [–] -4 points 9 hours ago (1 child)

    There really isn't a good reason except bigotry. The science is firm on this. Trans women are biologically female and have no advantage in sports over cis women.

    Your problem is that you're stuck on a bigoted assumption that "trans woman == man in a dress."

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  • [–] 4 points 8 hours ago

    Ah yes, the only possible reason anyone could oppose any possible aspect of any possible trans issue at all is if they are a transphobe. There is no reasonable opposition to any proposed trans issue at all theoretically ever even once at all ever. It's always actually simply hate.

    Good job. Have fun on my loser list.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago (18 children)

    It’s really not that difficult to understand. I’m very liberal but if I was a parent of a teenage girl, I would also be worried about the size and muscle difference in a teenage boy that has just started transitioning. But I also don’t think anyone should be banned from playing sports just because they are transgender. The easiest solution in my mind is just make weight divisions like they do in wrestling for example.

    My boy wrestled in high school and I would have been just as concerned with him wrestling some of those “grown ass men” in high school.

    Remove gender requirements and make weight classes, maybe weight and size limits, or maybe just an open division if the participants/parents aren’t worried for any sport that someone might get hurt because of the size difference.

    There isn’t a perfect solution but I do understand the concern.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 day ago (7 children)

    This would hold some validity in contact sports, much less so in all the other sports. I wouldn't be concerned about my kid's welfare in a swimming competition, for instance.

    But that requires nuance.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

    No, I wouldn’t be concerned about my kids welfare in something like swimming. Basically any sport you are essentially competing against yourself: golf, track, diving, etc.

    I also don’t believe there are many contact girl sports so I’m not sure it even matters that much. Basketball maybe?

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  • [–] 1 point 23 hours ago (3 children)

    Then what exactly is the point of your post? The only things you mention are wrestling, size and muscle difference between boys (and therefore transitioning girls who aren't taking hormones) and girls, wrestling, and weight classes (which are typically used in contact sports). Only one of those has factors that aren't solely issues with contact sports, but the tone of your post implies physical risk, and size/weight would only matter in that context in contact sports, too.

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  • [–] 2 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

    I’m am not for laws like this first and foremost. I am just trying to point out why people would vote for something like this. My point is there is a perceived advantage for men transitioning to female. And apparently, post puberty there is some scientific data to back this up. I am not saying it is true. I am saying there is some data. And I think the only legitimate argument is that because of some of these perceived physical advantages, anything where the safety of the participants comes into question is a basis for separation. Any non-contact sport should just be allowed. Some cis girls are going to be genetically superior than other cis curls. And the same goes for transgender girls. There is always going to be someone bigger, better, stronger regardless of anything else. I don’t live in that state, I do not have teenage girls, so I am not arguing one side or the other.

    If I did have teenage girls, as I said in a previous statement, I’d be like fuck it, let everyone compete. If someone is better than you, and there will always be someone better, work harder, train harder.

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  • [–] 2 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

    First: part of the point of sports in secondary education is team building. Not every kid wants to play football, as much as they want to play football in their school team with their friends and classmates.

    Second, most schools do not have the populations to support more than a handful of teams for the most popular sports, and a single team for less popular sports. This could work for individual sports, like track or swimming, but basketball and baseball might struggle.

    Third: where do you draw the lines? This is a solvable question if Informed by the first 2, but it raises blood pressure.

    I have no personal stake in this. I didn't know I was trans in school. I when I played sports, I played on the boys teams. But the question I come back to is: are trans girls......girls?

    If they are, what is the problem? We don't ban tall girls from girls basketball. We don't ban strong girls from girls wrestling. We celebrate them. Should Michael phelps have his medals revoked because he clearly has natural advantages in swimming?

    The whole controversy is only a controversy if you don't actually think we are the gender we say we are.

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  • [–] 5 points 23 hours ago (1 child)

    I understand the point. And yes everyone should be allowed to participate. I am just playing devils advocate and understanding why parents think this way. Hell I wouldn’t let my own kid play football regardless. It’s brutal. Well full contact tackle. Flag football was really fun in college. And the population problem is always a problem with small schools. I transferred for a tiny high school in WV to a giant school in NC and was floored by some of the sports they had. I don’t even know you could have a high school swim team or golf.

    There isn’t a perfect easy solution. If I had a little girl in high school athletics, I’d be like fuck it, play whatever. If another player is better than you, transgender or not, get better. Train harder. As an adult life is hard. Nothing is fair. What we really should be banning is the rich kids, they’re the ones with the true advantages 😂

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago (5 children)

    So you'd vote for mandatory genital inspections for girls? Because thats what this vote did.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 day ago (4 children)

    No. Absolutely not. If you had actually read my reply the most intrusive check would be stepping on a scale.

    I never said I agreed with the law, just empathized with the concern.

    People need to understand both sides of an argument and the nuance associated with it. Not immediately jump into fully armored social justice warrior.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago* (3 children)

    I read your reply, but disagree with the concern parents have being valid, because its unfounded. There is no scientifically backed proof of trans individuals having an advantage in sports, and trans kids getting gender affirming care are often placed on hormone blockers. The hormones involved in teenagers also wildly fluctuate. I agree with the premise of weight class, but the "concern" parents have about their little girl playing against a big scary "man" with teenage testosterone muscles (their words, not yours, before you say I'm putting words in your mouth) is fueled by misinformation about trans individuals, gender affirming care, and the amount of impact these individuals even have in sports. and as a result we now have genital inspections for kids.

    I dont think people falling for fearmongering is a valid concern, and I think we shouldn't be coddling this kind of concern any more than we should tolerate racist concerns.

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  • [–] 2 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

    Most of the transgender people I have run into were adults that transitioned later in life and that is what most people are exposed to. After puberty, transition is a completely different experience. And yes there are studies that talk about the advantages transitioning post puberty.

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12312191

    https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40820509/

    https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8311086

    Several of these studies show that estrogen and testosterone suppression generally reduce lean mass, muscle size, and some strength measures. However, the evidence is not consistent about how completely those measures converge with those of cisgender women. The last link found that some muscle and strength differences persisted after hormone treatment, including in studies extending to three years.

    So no this is not fear mongering.

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  • [–] -2 points 22 hours ago

    Weird, gross comments about women's bodies you find icky. We already had a system in place for women like us and it was dismantled by morons. Transition isn't a "completely different experience" post puberty for fucks sake.

    Cis people are so gross

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  • [–] 0 points 9 hours ago*

    Your daughter wouldn't be playing with boys. She would be playing with trans girls who have undergone the same estrogen-dominated puberty she did. Have you seen some of these protests? You have dozens of adults screaming at a trans high school girl who you couldn't even pick out of the lineup as "the trans one" without it being pointed out in advance. Imagine a regular girls team, except there are a dozen parents screaming at this one random girl who looks no different and plays no different from her peers. But these monsters believe she is forever cursed with the stain of masculinity, thus she must be destroyed.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    Or maybe people just voted about how they feel on an issue without it being part of some anti trans conspiracy

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