The relief when I open up Lemmy or Mastodon. It feels like coming home to an experience I didn't realise I was missing. Lemmy has grown enough now that I can look at my feed throughout the day and there will be interesting posts, all with engaging comments and conversations. It's like the internet I grew up on, only better: it's ran by the people, for the people.

Obviously, that doesn't mean the fedi isn't plagued with issues. But it feels fundamentally more culturally healthy than whatever the fuck is going on in big corpo social media.

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[–] 44 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The last remaining bastion of Web 1.0. The forums that had held out got absorbed by Reddit. Its fall seemed to crush all that was left.

What the Fediverse is building is over infrastructure that can last. It’s the first chance at something permanent.

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  • [–] 30 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    you and me both! The existence of fediverse has been doing wonders to my mental health.

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  • [–] 25 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    Lemmy: the Methadone of Reddit addiction!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    That is an enormous compliment to the software. If we're moving ppl even a tiny bit away from psychologically damaging and addictive behaviors that US tech sites cultivate, then we're doing something right.

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  • [–] 28 points 1 week ago* (6 children)

    Hell yeah!

    Reddit is supposedly worth $17 billion, and yet this place feels more alive by an order of magnitude to me so what does that say about the value of this place?

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Honestly yeah. I do have a Reddit account, but I get way more responses and quality interactions here than I do over there anymore. Every comment over there is just someone trying to make a joke these days.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago

    Not just in magnetude, but it feels more evenly spread out too. Even communities/subforums that by other standards would be absolutely silent, if you post something, you may still get a reaction, like a comment, a thumbs up, a boost or crosspost, etc.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Its cozy. I feel we are still becoming a monoculture, but one built around one very specific type of nerdy person.

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  • [–] 43 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I like it here. Got permabanned from reddit formoffering general safety advice to protestors in Minnesota in early 2025.

    Starting an account with Lemmy has been The closest I’ve come to the glory days of Orange-Red vs Periwinkle, and knowing exactly when the narwhal bacons.

    I suspect this site will remain largely unknown for a while, among people that don’t like reading words. I’ll stay a while.

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  • [–] 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

    Fediverse seems like a step in the right direction, but how do I make my feed less depressing ;_;

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  • [–] 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I found this too initially. What I did was (and this may not work for you but it's probably worth a whirl) only subscribe to easygoing / fun / quirky stuff for my "home" feed which I sort by "scaled" then bail into the top twelve hours of the "All" feed to keep up to date with what's happening in the world.

    A quieter, pleasant home feed is a good start to your day.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago

    how do I make my feed less depress

    That's the interesting part of the "old internet", you curate your own feed.

    Fediverse,Technology, and Privacy are chock full of all the news, and right now, there's a lot of negative going around.

    Start by noticing who's posting in those forums and blocking the ones that are generally negative. We have a lot of bot posting that lays one way or the other. There's a Monday morning US time bot that just floods with the most depressing stuff. If you can't get it to sort out with that, start looking at other technology or news communities. Do the same thing there with blocking doom bots.

    You can't pull Artax out of the quicksand, but you can keep him from sinking so fast.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago

    I struggle with this too.

    At the moment I have a huge list of filtered keywords to exclude certain topics or words likely to appear in extreme content. It does cut out a lot of content that I don’t want to see, but doesn’t help with general negativity and doesn’t work with image posts.

    I’m thinking of setting up my own filtering system with sentiment analysis, OCR and image classification so I can make my feed more balanced.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    If you want people to be less depressed, that's one thing. Maybe you could be the change you want to see in the world, or something.

    If you want to just not see depressing things, go back to the matrix and live among them.

    Your choice.

    Tldr: You're awoken to the horrors of reality. "Woke", even. Welcome, Cypher.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    I miss Usenet. This is as close as there is.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I never heard of it untill recently, some say it is still around.

    To be honest I never really understood what it is.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago

    Fedi is where it is at!

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  • [–] 12 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Reddit is looking more and more like a video doom scroll website. Lemmy actually has a lot of text based posts and memes.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago

    I don't go to Reddit anymore, but I imagine it looks like how Facebook looks last time I saw somebody on Facebook, which is to say it's like LinkedIn but with more bots, meaning a garbage fire being actively and perpetually painted.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Lemmy specifically feels like reddit circa 2017 to 2019 and I like it a lot. Its just people posting stuff that's interesting. While reddit had a like, social hierarchy thing, especially with the reddit gold stuff, Lemmy is a lot better at feeling more community focused.

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 1 week ago

    I think this is what I love. Whenever I open up Lemmy, it’s like a portal to 7 or 8+ years in the past. To when not everything was engagement driven slop (even tho it was well under way to becoming that back then).

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago (7 children)

    I hardly find any interesting posts. It's mostly memes and tech news.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    Be the change you want to see!

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I am doing my part . Still lemmy is mostly memes, politics and political tech reports

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago* (2 children)

    To be fair the architecture of this place is designed to mitigate centralization and subsequent censorship under centralized networks which is unfortunately inherently political right now, this place is not immune to manipulation but also looking up at the corporate social media world and seeing how much of a problematic dumpsterfire it is underscores why these things are so important and why the Fediverse can be a good vector for politics news.

    I agree though, I want more stuff and more diversity of topics and people!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    When someone is banned from an instance, the instance do not give them the opportunity to transfer their communities they created and have to restart from zero and those communities become modless. Right now even the promise of anti censorship and portability is not there

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  • [–] 12 points 1 week ago

    Fediverse is great. Funnily though I’ll point out it hasn’t “survived” per se during the internet, it’s more so a new in the past few years right, which proves to me great things and the right idea can still be conceived and created no matter if the current environment is shit - we can always say no and build something better.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    The only issue is how difficult it is to onboard. If you don’t spend time building a list of subscribed communities/people, your feed will be very stale.

    I’d love to see something like Bluesky’s starter packs. One button to follow a bunch of people/communities.

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    it's alright. there were a few BBS's I swore I'd never stop connecting to. a few usenet groups.. a few email lists... a few web rings, a few bloggers... a few social media sites ... etc. etc etc etc

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago* (2 children)

    What is BBS? (Gen Z, I'm sorry)

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    Before internet access was common, and for a while after it did become common but still dialup, you could connect and log-in to a Bulletin Board System that people usually hosted out of their home. It would have a theme, usually, and host a mix of discussions, curated and moderated by the owner, plus file sharing, often piracy or a library of resource material.

    It wasn't unusual to belong to a few of them, and because you were dialing in via phone lines, they were usually in your city due to long distance charges, which meant you could meet up in meatspace.

    There was an overlap period where they became internet connected, and a kind of federation developed, and similar internet-only services developed like Hotline that were quite popular for a while (small comeback under way for hotline servers btw).

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  • [–] 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Groupthink here does sometimes hit reddit narwhal beckons levels sometimes, still much better than the modern internet elsewhere

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago

    Some cases of group think, even mob mentality at times, are a culture of the instance/instances of those involved. So if the user spots something in that line, blocking either the instance, or at least the users if instance blocking isn't available, can do wonders.

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    There's a specific thing the OP is pointing at and I want to name it: it's the recovery of a lost social reflex. On the larger platforms you don't actually read the person above you in the thread — you scan for an angle to perform against. The fediverse is small enough that scanning feels wasteful, so you end up engaging with what someone actually said. That's the part that feels like 'coming home.' Not nostalgia for old-internet aesthetics — nostalgia for the posture that small scale forces you back into.

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  • [+] -17 points 1 week ago (17 children)

    Nah. It's a cesspool like 4chan, except for far left.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    If it makes fash like you uncomfortable then we're doing something right here.

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  • [–] -2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    fash like you

    You know, this is so overused it doesn't work anymore

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I'm just stating a plain fact here. Now go crawl back into whatever hole you crawled out of.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago* (10 children)

    Except the far left doesn't systematically stoke violence and hatespeech/hateful ideologies like 4chan/the rightwing.

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  • [–] -3 points 1 week ago (9 children)

    Except the far left doesn’t systematically stoke violence and hatespeech/hateful ideologies like 4chan/the rightwing.

    Thats fucking rich coming from community regularly advocating violence.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Do you mean a community that support the fundamental right to resist oppression?

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  • [–] -1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Oh, so that's how you justify it? Can I try?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    What leftist leaders, groups or movements in power openly advocate for violence?

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  • [–] -3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Hasan Piker? Also just look around the comments about Charlie Kirk assasination.

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