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[–] 129 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

Being hit by a motor vehicle of some sort owned by a large company with deep pockets and suffering a horrific but ultimately temporary injury with absolutely no longer-term health effects that nonetheless results in a seven figure injury settlement

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  • [–] 49 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    Covid time was personally great for me. Vietnam locked things down. We had food delivered. We didn't get sick. At home with the wife and kid. Watching movies and tv. Playing games. Making the second kid. I worked from home for something like 6 to 9 months because my office is in a neighboring province and VN didn't allow travel between provinces until a later relaxing of restrictions after vaccines became available.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago

    I loved Covid, like not the disease or people dying. But the rise in WFH. My company finally wants to cease all WFH and it fucking sucks. I'm ready for another pandemic.

    I can't really do offices, I burn out way too fast. It's not my kind of environment. Covid let me be a functional member of society, it gave me a taste of normalcy. Now all that is being taken away because middle-management needs to justify expensive offices. Offices that also drive up property costs so no one can afford homes.

    Yay~!

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  • [–] 34 points 2 weeks ago

    Lemmyrealpost

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  • [–] 67 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)
  • [–] 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    Never expected to See the one true @rob_t_firefly on Lemmy!

    Only because I See you on Mastodon all the time!

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  • [–] 33 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    I hate to admit it but I’d love to go back to Covid times where I was forced to stay in my house and never leave. I don’t want people dying but I’m so fucking tired.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago

    It wasn't any different for me. I was one of those so-called "essential workers". I still had to go to work. When I wasn't at work, I stayed home and layed in bed and played games. People talked about isolation and loneliness and I was just thinking " First time, is it?".

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  • [–] 27 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    This is the premise of Zom100: Bucket list of the Dead, the main character's job is so shitty, he considers the zombie apocalypse to be a massive improvement over having to go to work and just starts living his best life and doing all the things he never had time for.

    It's very relatable.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago

    I love Haro Aso so much, dude. Alice in Borderlands is just such a beautiful metaphor, I'll never get over it. This has been on my list for a while, I think Im gonna have to read it now.

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  • [–] 24 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    We've hit the point where people find the end of the world is more likely than the end of capitalism

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  • [–] 22 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    Just getting silly here, but what if the people who are harmed by the system come together and abolish the system, because they are the majority?

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  • [–] 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    No joke this is me. I had a major surgical procedure a decade ago. It was a 3 day hospital stay to recover. It's one of the most relaxing, peaceful times of my life, even with all the pain and nurses checking on me. I remember it very fondly.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago

    I had major surgery last year. I was out of work for 2 months. It was the greatest decompression break from work ever, except I went back a week early and before I was really physically ready because I was only getting about 1/4 of my normal paycheck from disability and I was super broke (luckily I had managed to save up enough to pay my rent in advance). I read lots of books and stayed up all night playing video games and looking outside at the night sky.

    It really sucked in other ways. I had 2 entire months where I only spoke to another human maybe 5-6 times and most of those were a coworker who knew I was lonely and would call me during downtime on their shift to check in and see how my recovery was going. It really highlighted how alone and invisible I am in this world and there's nothing quite so sad as being like well my surgeon says I can't lift any weight but I have to get groceries into my apartment somehow and take my trash across the complex to the cans and I have literally no one to ask to do that so I guess I'll just pray I don't rip open all my incisions and eviscerate myself.

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  • [–] 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    Many, many people, including myself, embraced the shit out of COVID.

    That was a pretty clear sign that our society and way of life sucks.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago

    I was almost not at all affected day to day by COVID, I just went to work still because it's isolated, no mask etc even needed.

    But it was soooo much better with less traffic and less people at the stores. Even just, the "one way Aisles" at the stores were so much better. You go in, everything flows so much smoother.

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  • [–] 21 points 2 weeks ago

    Me in France right now.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    What's struck me is how in America, the reality is the opposite of those fantasies. What's that? The nation's capital is being stormed by fascists attempting to kidnap lawmakers and overthrow the electoral process? And I'm still expected to just work like it's just a normal day??

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  • [–] 19 points 2 weeks ago

    Can confirm. This is me. Especially after the last two years. Everything just feels so hopeless, and I'm expected to spend most of my waking hours feeding a system that gleefully kicks us in the teeth every single day.

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  • [–] 17 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    It's easier to imagine a convenient bad thing happening than a good thing happening, I guess?

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    I think it's simply that modern life is too far removed from what our instincts evolved to handle... A shitty life or death situation is something we're more equipped to handle (at least in our imagination) than societal problems so big that are effectively impossible for us to influence.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    I guess a possible part of the solution could be breaking these problems down into manageable chunks?

    "Think globally, act locally", as they say... and "locally" doesn't have to be a physical locale. It can be a fedi instance or a niche group of some kind.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    I honestly loved covid. Am I crazy? I got to stay in with my girl, be comfy, work from home, then watch movies and play video games, all with zero fomo.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago

    Great for me; I'm "neurodivergent" anyway. Perish the thought of being forced to deal with sociopaths and other stressed-out employees I'd need to work with all day, every day until you die? Now that's my idea of going crazy!...

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  • [–] 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    Is that not a normal feeling? Because I felt that way long before things got this bad.

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  • [–] 22 points 2 weeks ago

    i have always attributed this feeling to the fact we live in a system where our contributions dont really matter, as in that we only work for a number to go up, and not because its actually needed (with few exceptions)

    tldr: i think its capitalisms fault. as always

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  • [–] 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
  • [–] 32 points 2 weeks ago

    "it is easier to imagine the end of the world than the end of capitalism"

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  • [–] 13 points 2 weeks ago

    I like to refer to this state as "Existential Apathy".

    At some point, you just stop giving a shit and want to stop having to pretend to give a shit more than anything else.

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  • [–] 13 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

    I'm at work and this hit me like a freight train. and I like my work.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    I feel like getting hit by a freight train would be a little too far, but like ... at least my kids would get enough money to be OK?

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  • [–] 12 points 2 weeks ago

    I'm knocking on the door of 60 but this has always been an idle daydream of mine.

    As I've got older I've come to realise a. that I'm no longer young enough to be the heroic, plucky survivor of my teenage daydreams, and b. just how utterly horrific societal collapse would be.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    My therapist told me that, in fact, it's not normal to wish to be hit by a bus on the way to work every morning just so you could escape from going to work.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 weeks ago

    What we would get instead: being sick and still forced to work after societal collapse, and pretend everything is fine

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  • [–] 10 points 2 weeks ago

    Watch for when Zombie/apocalypse movies start getting popular again.

    It's absolutely a sign of mass despair at "the system".

    Zombies make everyone equal again. The executive actually becomes dead weight compared to folks who have spent their lives doing physical or practical labour.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 weeks ago

    I felt this a little bit too much. I'm tired too. I'm tired of being tired. I'm tired of picking myself up again and again, saying it's fine and moving forward.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    “We’ve reached a point where Americans would rather the world fall apart than get off their cowardly asses and do something.”

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago

    It's always the same

    The fact that plenty of them, most famously that poster-boy for 'Murican shit Henry Ford was a huge fan of Hitler and his bullshit gets glossed over

    They sat out the war until they were pushed

    And it will happen again and again, even when the problem is in their own house

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  • [–] 9 points 2 weeks ago

    I had a serious injury that meant staying in bed most of the day for a couple of years. It sucked hard, and I did none of my hobbies, just watched all of Netflix.

    I'm mostly better now and am able to go to my job which also sucks.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 weeks ago* (1 child)

    Yes but somehow I would guess people in war zones, say for example in Ukraine, somehow wish for this boring normality we seem to be tired of. I try to think of that every time i seem too tired of the grind. Though in some way, I think everybody matters more in a war than in a peaceful economy

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago

    The ol' grass is greener on the other side paradox. I get it though, I sometimes catch myself thinking it. I don't even hate my job, it's just exhausting for reasons I'm working to resolve.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    This is the topic of a very unique and largely unknown TV show called “Paranoia Agent.”

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

    That's why I never really fell into religion. Like 10 times in recent history, the apocalypse or rapture was supposed to happen; people were clapping their hands for Jesus' return, thinking they'd be chosen to ascend or go wherever. For how long exactly? Have they always been like this? I can't help but stand there wondering if those people aren't wrapped too tight and loose with reality; they kind of worry me. It's like they actually want the world to end every waking day, and they believe it.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago

    oh come on, haven’t you seen Elon’s new car? It’s all like vrroooom skeeeerrr pssshhh! Finally a solution to all those half pipes out there.

    So there’s hope.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago

    I think one of the biggest issues is that nothing is real anymore. 90% of what 90% of us do is utterly meaningless. For the average person, life is entirely solved. Our problems are mostly by choice, be it ours or someone else's. The only real things in our lives are tragedies that we'd never have been able to prevent or resolve anyway.

    An apocalypse is enticing because then our actions would have direct consequences. Right now, the consequences of our actions are filtered and diffused through a trillion layers of bullshit where the positive and negative effects are basically invisible unless you make a ridiculous amount of money very quickly, or like, kill someone with your car.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    I was told my entire life that "the apocalypse will set us free"

    They meant rapture. I have leaned into the idea of it meaning the societal collapse of climate change will bring about liberation.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    The question is free from what? Free from scrounging and fighting for survival? Absolutely not. Free from modern medicine? That’s a guarantee

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  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago

    I actually have money and a stable job and even I want a change, I’m tired

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  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    When i was in a bad job and bad future prospects situation i fantasized/hoped for this. Was into zombie movies (id be among the first ones eaten, really).

    Corona & homeoffice changed things. Lock down was bad but iwas already training for new job and had no time to go out.

    Saving the commute is the only way i could imagine having time to raise kids. Well and another shit job that is also very chill because economy is bad so no reason to fight for raise.

    Now, job might aswell be non existant by next year and all the shitty failing companies are pushing for RTO thinking mobile work is the reason of the fail, not idiot managers.

    So, yes life is becoming unbearable again and i think this is part of the reason people are protesting aggressively, voting extreme parties in hopes of easement.

    Politicians answer with more surveilliance, police brutality and less democracy.

    I think with AI taking jobs, more extreme climate events we will see this more and more until revolution/civil war/collapse in europe & america.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago

    I live in one of the fattest towns in the country. No chance I would be first eaten, they would take days just to eat through the outer perimeter of the town before they get close to my house.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 weeks ago

    We do still need to finish the civil war. That's something better we could be doing with our time, instead of doing what billionaires and their conservative minions want us to do.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

    Also because people come together during major crises.

    And unfortunately, it does not look like we'll be able to get rid of capitalism (and more importantly capitalists) without either a mass uprising or a devastating catastrophe (like total ecological collapse).

    Currently we're about to reach the latter, which I don't think is preferable, but perhaps it'll turn out well in the end. I sure hope so.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    Also because people come together during major crises.

    Since COVID I no longer believe this. Where I live, people immediately started hoarding essentials, threw low-paid retail workers under the bus, refused to follow even the most basic precautions to keep others safe (and had full-blow childish meltdowns and screamed in the faces of anyone who tried to ask them to comply), overwhelmed the healthcare system unnecessarily, burned down cell phone towers etc. Just a complete orgy of idiotic fuckery right from the start.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    I agree. Since covid I lost my long held belief that humans are basically good.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago

    Where I come from originally is kind of a remote place, that relies on tourism. We already have a huge problem with everyone buying their second holiday homes there and pricing the locals out of buying homes (which is a big part of why I moved.) Anyway, during COVID, because it's remote and sparsely populated, it had one of the lowest COVID rates in the country. As soon as the travel restrictions lifted, everyone descended on the place. There were mayors of towns on TV begging people not to come. But they came anyway, wrecked the place and left garbage everywhere, caused a huge COVID spike (in an area that has one hospital and a lot of elderly people), and when people complained about it we were told we should be grateful that the tourists are there spending money.

    Luckily my family that still lives there were okay (you get good at not being where the tourists are after a while) but still. It's an area that's perpetually underfunded and neglected, and when it was at it's most vulnerable and just needed people to be just a tiny bit considerate for a moment, they trashed the place, used us as their disposable COVID bunker and then made fun of us for being unhappy about it, not to mention putting my family directly in harm's way.

    The world seems to have largely moved on from that whole time now, but I will not forget this.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago

    Thats one of the worst things about being a parent to a small child. I used to get excited about getting the flu. Week in bed just gormed out watching crap on TV.

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    You're like, "That's gonna kill me. That's real. That lives on Earth."

    I thought I was gonna get eaten! I'm not a stupid fսckin' idiot. I know it was just a pig.

    And when your first thought is, "Great, don't have to go to work tomorrow," you're relieved because you thought you were gonna get eaten?

    What the fսck is this world? What have they done to us? What did they do to us?!

    That was the most consequential day because now I know I don't like work.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago

    I hate it, but I've been feeling this for a while now

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago

    I just started letting it all out. Its the same as societal collapse but happening in real time.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago

    people use alcohol to escape from certain things. i know people who did the reverse with work, they use work to escape from dealing problems at home.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    It's clear these people aren't thinking big enough. We need a very large asteroid to hit the earth. I don't want society to fall apart, I want it all gone. There won't be an apocalypse to survive because everyone would be dead.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    Sometimes I think about it too, but then I’m like damn.. if everything goes to total shit, Will I be able to sit around playing games all day still?? If the answer is no, then that usually brings me back to reality haha.

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