no game is going to bring back the era of being with your friends in a same physical space to spend hours gaming without a care in the world. the young don’t even have that now.
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I've spent thousands on gaming and home theater equipment to realize I don't love TV/movies/gaming, I loved hanging out with my friends.
Over here on the other side, I minmax'd "buddies" over "home theater equipment" so now whenever I have someone over to watch a movie it's on my fucking laptop lmao.
I made my media collection portable so I can do movie nights at my friends' houses.
Thankfully, I invested selfishly so I get to enjoy my investment, not forlorn for a game/movie day with the buddies.
I feel like there is a whole generation of millennials who has this feeling about MMOs - always chasing the high they felt playing WoW back in 2004, always on the lookout for the next up-and-coming MMO thinking this surely will be the one, never realising that they're longing for a moment in time that can never be recaptured, a version of themselves and a place in their life they'll never re-experience.
This happens to a lot of people in one way or another. Family traditions, vacations to the same place or event, favorite restaurants, and on and on. Once you recognize the pattern it is freeing to be able to say goodbye to the things that can't be recaptured, remember them lightning in a bottle they were, and move on.
Wouldn't turn down a halo lan party though.
Are you telling me that WoW Forever isn't going to do the trick for me in a couple of weeks?
I want to believe... No but for real though, I feel like WoWF might actually work for because of the horizontal progression style. Every time I tried to play again I just didn't want to be on threadmill but it was mandatory. IF they can actually manage horizontal-ish progression then I can approach the game differently and get a new, different experience which won't be the flaming hot passion it was in my youth but also might not be all that bad, and more importantly compatible with my current lifestyle.
Or I'll just fall off (on?) the wagon again and cancel the sub, no Biggie.
Yeah, I think as long as they don't fall into the retail trap of making it incrementally easier and simpler until the challenge is gone, it'll be in good shape.
People enjoy the comaraderie of going through a difficult thing together, and gradually removing that also removes that opportunity.
Better pre purchase the deluxe mega edition to be sure
Thanks to Asheron's Call, Everquest, and Dark Age of Camelot I was already jaded about MMORPGs by the time WoW came out.
But yes. In this way for me the winter of 99-00 was a magical time.
@The_Picard_Maneuver I'm still chasing the high playing Goldeneye on the N64. We played for hours everyday ::nostalgia::
Same except for quake 3 arena
@WhyIHateTheInternet Forgot about Quake, though we played a lot of Unreal Tournament at Lan parties
This and Counter Strike 1.X, and some Diablo 2 when we needed a change of pace
Slappers only, license to kill.
House rule: no Oddjob, he's too short!
Have you seen Agent 64: spies never die kinda hits that spot.
@sicarius I'll have to check that out! Been using my steam link a lot lately when people come over to get back to gaming with friends in person
Can still have it. I have semi regular Mario Kart and Smash Bros nights. Loads of fun, always stay up until way too late. Finish off with a dumb movie.
You're only chasing that high because you don't embrace whimsy
Ah yes, let me just embrace whimsy with all these... friends... that I totally have!

I started the smash bros nights specifically to make friends post college as most of my college friends moved away. One of the guys I met online only once through a TTRPG discord and now he brings the good beer.
Also, whimsy can be everywhere. Step outside and watch a flower dance in the wind. Bam, whimsy. Go visit a cemetery and make up funny stories about what led to inscriptions on the tombstones as you map it for findagrave.com , bam, whimsy. You need zero friends for whimsy, but whimsy has led to many friends in my experience.
Missing the point and moving the goalposts all in one comment! Good job, here's an award 🥉
I think we've found the real reason you're talking about few friends on a thread about whimsy and fun...
Because you said "It's easy, just start a LAN party" as if you were assuming everyone already has friends to start a LAN party with?
The thread is about nostalgia, not whimsy. You introduced the latter, and you did so as if it's predicated upon having friends, and as if someone with no friends is really just failing to embrace whimsy, which frames it as a personal failure and not one that depends on the participation of other beings.
Dude, you're defending a nostalgia bait "back in my day" post. Yes I called it out. Maybe instead of sitting around here complaining about having no friends you do some introspection and recognize that why you are being called out here for complaining about no friends and being called out in other threads for complaining about not being allowed to approach women have something in common, you.
Now, I set up another LAN party tonight and we're gonna have fun. We're going to experience that high the original post is complaining about chasing. You can stew on some response to this post by yourself, or redirect the energy to making friends and go have fun yourself. ciao
It's clearly shitpost-oriented. Not a genuine "back in my day." You can't handle a little bit of self-deprecation so you had to be condescending instead. That's not embracing whimsy.
And the irony is not lost on me that although you came here preaching about whimsy, you completely failed to recognize the whimsy inherent in posting a fucking spongebob meme as an act of self-deprecating humor. That's not "complaining about having no friends," that's just whimsy; the exact thing you came here preaching about.
But since you clearly felt so strongly about it that you felt the need to stalk my profile to prove a point (i.e., by condescending), I can only infer that you have a habit of making yourself feel better about yourself by putting other people down. Is that whimsy?
And if your interpretation of that other thread was me "complaining about not being allowed to approach women" then you're completely misreading it based on pre-conceived notions that you walked into it with. I was clearly saying "Yeah, women have expressed that they don't want to be approached, so the right thing to do is to not approach." And making self-deprecating jokes in a thread with other guys in the same boat is called "emotional support," which is exactly what people say men need to start doing for each other. So if you really want to shame people about that, then you're part of the fucking problem.
Enjoy your LAN party, where I'm sure you'll spend a significant portion of your time talking down about people who aren't there to defend themselves, because that's how you manage to feel good about yourself in a world where suffering is the norm and empathy the exception rather than the rule.
I embrace whimsy all the time, but a lot of people I know, don't.
Having 4 or 5 PCs in different rooms at a LAN party is a whole different vibe than multiplayer, shouts coming from all the bedrooms, stuff like that.
That's why we switched to smash Bros. Not everyone has a laptop or desktop they want to bring but I can pull out a bunch of controllers. It's so much fun actually seeing someone groan when they miss a super smash.
We all bring our favorite snack and pass bowls around. Case of whatever beers. We're debating setting up a running leaderboard.
I was an IT guy, had loads of crappy PCs I could scrap together. If you remember Half Life, it would play on a toaster. :) This conversation got me thinking I should setup my kids when I get them for Thanksgiving.
We played 16 player Halo a bunch in college. 4 TVs, 4 XBoxs, 4 players each, such a blast.
Mid 2000s was peak LAN era. Halo, CS, Starcraft, some guys playing Magic in the corner.
More people need to just embrace whimsy.
“Those were good times, Rorschach. What happened?”
“You quit.”
I stopped chasing it and now I just get baked every weekend after the kids go to bed then sit and cry in my beanbag chair while eating oreos out of a cup of milk with a spoon
this is also the title of my isekai manga.
Have you tried eating Oreos in a beanbag chair while playing Halo with your kids?
It's pretty much the LAN party experience, but you will probably win more games 😜
FWIW in my personal experience stoners make by far the best parents. And that's without even contrasting them to the boozing and cigarette-smoking parents. I have no personal experience with the fentanyl and meth parents, but I don't imagine they're strong contenders.
You can play all of the Master Chief collection in VR now. It's fantastic!
VR mods have been going crazy lately. I'm getting some serious FOMO.
I also saw Mount and Blade: Lord of the Rings, Diablo 2, and a bunch of cool AR games.
How the fuck does diablo 2 work in vr?
Check it out. I was so impressed by this.
Like Project Zomboid does? So glad a buddy showed me pzvr. I can actually survive in VR where I die in flat
Is it worth playing now or should I wait for the jank to be ironed out?
It is worth trying, I find the jank tolerable. Sometimes you don't get the interaction popups, but they come back, I also lost 95% of my audio for a while, then it came back. Installation is all by workshop so quite easy to get running even on linux, mp in VR is not so easy
I'm looking forward to going through Titanfall 2 in VR. All reviews I've seen say it's like a AAA native VR game.
The rapid release of VR mods is making it really difficult to completely hate AI, but I do keep trying.
This sounds both incredible and vomit inducing due to the fast traversal.
I think the dividing line for me is: when it's speeding up work on tedious things or accomplishing tasks that we haven't been able to - vs - when it's being used sloppily for a product that's worse than the old way.
AoE 1 lan party.
I had a couple lan parties a while ago. That shit is so fun. Soldat was really popular.
Last year i had my cousins kids over for a tiny lan with them, me and my sis. We played UT99 for ages and they loved it.
Battlefield Vietnam
StarCraft Brood war
Supreme commander
Unreal Tournament Edition
Counterstrike 1.6 (I think) These were my 2001 lan party gaming experiences I wish I could reclaim.

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