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[–] 94 points 3 weeks ago* (17 children)

no game is going to bring back the era of being with your friends in a same physical space to spend hours gaming without a care in the world. the young don’t even have that now.

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  • [–] 32 points 3 weeks ago (13 children)

    It's so sad, it was so magical. I want that for my kids.

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  • [–] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    We have two laptops and a desktop, and we have three kids, so they get a bit of a LAN party experience playing Mineclonia.

    The desktop also has a big screen (34 inch ultra-wide I think) and 4 xbone controllers so we play 4 player games like Overcooked, Stardew Valley, Sackboy, Tux Cart.

    Generally we don't have screens on when their friends come over but perhaps when they are a bit older they might still have a chance for that gaming with friends experience.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (10 children)

    Don't buy them a tablet or smartphone then until they're almost adults, and limit computer time. I didn't get my first cell phone until I was 16, didn't get my first smartphone until 24. They will be okay.

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  • [–] 21 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

    They still won't get that experience. All their friends will be in their homes playing Fortnite.

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    Or they'll get the cops called on them for doing normal kid shit like exploring the woods or even just playing outside, because suburbanites are actually terrified of children doing children things and have been conditioned to hate and fear this.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Well if that's the case then it's on you. You're the parent, you decide whether or not the kid stays home all day. Like the other person said, arrange play dates. Also, take them places. Play at the park, go jet/water skiing on the lake, go to amusement parks, go camping, hiking, etc. There are endless activities you can do with your kids, many of them only costing you the price of gas or a train/bus ticket.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 child)

    Yeah for sure! I just meant, merely not buying them phones and tablets isn't enough. I rather like the idea of getting an old console with a bunch of split screen games and inviting their friends over like the other user suggested.

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  • [–] 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

    Millennial parents could buy some $30 8bitdo controllers (they're very good dual stick controllers for the price), and then download and set up a series of games that have four player split screen...

    ...tell their kidso they're doing a games night and should invite their buddies. Then see what happens.

    If you can still hear them at 1 am, it worked. Make sure to provide snacks and cola.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 child)

    they’re doing a games night and should invite their buddies

    As in table top? Pssh, that's so lame. I kid, I kid.

    But I do think it'd be "exclusive" to setup your own kids with a split screen experience, with platforms that seem new and exciting. Just peddle it as "exclusive," and it'll sell hotter than hotcakes.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago*

    I was thinking more get on the pirate sites (steamrip) after finding out "best split screen PC games"... And there's some pretty cheap overhead projectors these days. The HAPPRUN H1 for instance is extremely cheap, but still quite bright.

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  • [–] 40 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

    I've spent thousands on gaming and home theater equipment to realize I don't love TV/movies/gaming, I loved hanging out with my friends.

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  • [–] 29 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)

    I feel like there is a whole generation of millennials who has this feeling about MMOs - always chasing the high they felt playing WoW back in 2004, always on the lookout for the next up-and-coming MMO thinking this surely will be the one, never realising that they're longing for a moment in time that can never be recaptured, a version of themselves and a place in their life they'll never re-experience.

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  • [–] 11 points 3 weeks ago

    This happens to a lot of people in one way or another. Family traditions, vacations to the same place or event, favorite restaurants, and on and on. Once you recognize the pattern it is freeing to be able to say goodbye to the things that can't be recaptured, remember them lightning in a bottle they were, and move on.

    Wouldn't turn down a halo lan party though.

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  • [–] [S] 10 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

    Are you telling me that WoW Forever isn't going to do the trick for me in a couple of weeks?

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    I want to believe... No but for real though, I feel like WoWF might actually work for because of the horizontal progression style. Every time I tried to play again I just didn't want to be on threadmill but it was mandatory. IF they can actually manage horizontal-ish progression then I can approach the game differently and get a new, different experience which won't be the flaming hot passion it was in my youth but also might not be all that bad, and more importantly compatible with my current lifestyle.

    Or I'll just fall off (on?) the wagon again and cancel the sub, no Biggie.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 3 weeks ago

    Yeah, I think as long as they don't fall into the retail trap of making it incrementally easier and simpler until the challenge is gone, it'll be in good shape.

    People enjoy the comaraderie of going through a difficult thing together, and gradually removing that also removes that opportunity.

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  • [–] 28 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

    @The_Picard_Maneuver I'm still chasing the high playing Goldeneye on the N64. We played for hours everyday ::nostalgia::

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  • [–] 7 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

    Same except for quake 3 arena

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  • [–] 48 points 3 weeks ago* (23 children)

    Can still have it. I have semi regular Mario Kart and Smash Bros nights. Loads of fun, always stay up until way too late. Finish off with a dumb movie.

    You're only chasing that high because you don't embrace whimsy

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  • [–] 19 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

    Ah yes, let me just embrace whimsy with all these... friends... that I totally have!

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  • [–] 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

    I started the smash bros nights specifically to make friends post college as most of my college friends moved away. One of the guys I met online only once through a TTRPG discord and now he brings the good beer.

    Also, whimsy can be everywhere. Step outside and watch a flower dance in the wind. Bam, whimsy. Go visit a cemetery and make up funny stories about what led to inscriptions on the tombstones as you map it for findagrave.com , bam, whimsy. You need zero friends for whimsy, but whimsy has led to many friends in my experience.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

    Missing the point and moving the goalposts all in one comment! Good job, here's an award 🥉

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    I think we've found the real reason you're talking about few friends on a thread about whimsy and fun...

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  • [–] 1 point 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Because you said "It's easy, just start a LAN party" as if you were assuming everyone already has friends to start a LAN party with?

    The thread is about nostalgia, not whimsy. You introduced the latter, and you did so as if it's predicated upon having friends, and as if someone with no friends is really just failing to embrace whimsy, which frames it as a personal failure and not one that depends on the participation of other beings.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    Dude, you're defending a nostalgia bait "back in my day" post. Yes I called it out. Maybe instead of sitting around here complaining about having no friends you do some introspection and recognize that why you are being called out here for complaining about no friends and being called out in other threads for complaining about not being allowed to approach women have something in common, you.

    Now, I set up another LAN party tonight and we're gonna have fun. We're going to experience that high the original post is complaining about chasing. You can stew on some response to this post by yourself, or redirect the energy to making friends and go have fun yourself. ciao

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  • [–] -2 points 2 weeks ago

    It's clearly shitpost-oriented. Not a genuine "back in my day." You can't handle a little bit of self-deprecation so you had to be condescending instead. That's not embracing whimsy.

    And the irony is not lost on me that although you came here preaching about whimsy, you completely failed to recognize the whimsy inherent in posting a fucking spongebob meme as an act of self-deprecating humor. That's not "complaining about having no friends," that's just whimsy; the exact thing you came here preaching about.

    But since you clearly felt so strongly about it that you felt the need to stalk my profile to prove a point (i.e., by condescending), I can only infer that you have a habit of making yourself feel better about yourself by putting other people down. Is that whimsy?

    And if your interpretation of that other thread was me "complaining about not being allowed to approach women" then you're completely misreading it based on pre-conceived notions that you walked into it with. I was clearly saying "Yeah, women have expressed that they don't want to be approached, so the right thing to do is to not approach." And making self-deprecating jokes in a thread with other guys in the same boat is called "emotional support," which is exactly what people say men need to start doing for each other. So if you really want to shame people about that, then you're part of the fucking problem.

    Enjoy your LAN party, where I'm sure you'll spend a significant portion of your time talking down about people who aren't there to defend themselves, because that's how you manage to feel good about yourself in a world where suffering is the norm and empathy the exception rather than the rule.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

    Having 4 or 5 PCs in different rooms at a LAN party is a whole different vibe than multiplayer, shouts coming from all the bedrooms, stuff like that.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    That's why we switched to smash Bros. Not everyone has a laptop or desktop they want to bring but I can pull out a bunch of controllers. It's so much fun actually seeing someone groan when they miss a super smash.

    We all bring our favorite snack and pass bowls around. Case of whatever beers. We're debating setting up a running leaderboard.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    We played 16 player Halo a bunch in college. 4 TVs, 4 XBoxs, 4 players each, such a blast.

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  • [–] 23 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

    I stopped chasing it and now I just get baked every weekend after the kids go to bed then sit and cry in my beanbag chair while eating oreos out of a cup of milk with a spoon

    this is also the title of my isekai manga.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Have you tried eating Oreos in a beanbag chair while playing Halo with your kids?

    It's pretty much the LAN party experience, but you will probably win more games 😜

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  • FWIW in my personal experience stoners make by far the best parents. And that's without even contrasting them to the boozing and cigarette-smoking parents. I have no personal experience with the fentanyl and meth parents, but I don't imagine they're strong contenders.

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  • [–] 16 points 3 weeks ago (13 children)

    You can play all of the Master Chief collection in VR now. It's fantastic!

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  • [–] [S] 9 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

    VR mods have been going crazy lately. I'm getting some serious FOMO.

    I also saw Mount and Blade: Lord of the Rings, Diablo 2, and a bunch of cool AR games.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

    How the fuck does diablo 2 work in vr?

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

    Like Project Zomboid does? So glad a buddy showed me pzvr. I can actually survive in VR where I die in flat

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  • [–] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 child)

    Is it worth playing now or should I wait for the jank to be ironed out?

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  • [–] 3 points 3 weeks ago

    It is worth trying, I find the jank tolerable. Sometimes you don't get the interaction popups, but they come back, I also lost 95% of my audio for a while, then it came back. Installation is all by workshop so quite easy to get running even on linux, mp in VR is not so easy

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  • [–] 4 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

    I'm looking forward to going through Titanfall 2 in VR. All reviews I've seen say it's like a AAA native VR game.

    The rapid release of VR mods is making it really difficult to completely hate AI, but I do keep trying.

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    I had a couple lan parties a while ago. That shit is so fun. Soldat was really popular.

    Last year i had my cousins kids over for a tiny lan with them, me and my sis. We played UT99 for ages and they loved it.

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  • [–] 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 child)

    Battlefield Vietnam

    StarCraft Brood war

    Supreme commander

    Unreal Tournament Edition

    Counterstrike 1.6 (I think) These were my 2001 lan party gaming experiences I wish I could reclaim.

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