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the other day a tanky said a sentence constructed like that to me too, while literally arguing for me to join his authoritarian group

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[–] 24 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Look man, you’re only saving 50% of the children from starvation, so obviously your idea is bad and we should continue letting 100% of the children die until someone comes up with the perfect solution.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    I suggest we start calling this The Musk Argument.

    As in, I won't spend an inconsequential fraction of my money to solve world hunger -- after I literally challenged you for a proposal to do so -- because I don't think you will be 100% successful.

    Instead, I think I will take public actions to kill untold numbers of poor people around the world while I continue my quest to be the first smart boy with one million million dollars.

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  • [–] 64 points 1 month ago (10 children)

    Perfect is the enemy of good (or good enough).

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    I was once explaining the upsides of UBI and someone replied "no, this would fix too many issues with capitalism, this would delay the revolution!" Like... Dude.

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  • [–] 29 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    I always think of this post whenever I hear someone dead-set on nothing less than massive, systemic change.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    True that. Do I agree modern society has gone crazy in many fundamental ways? Hell yeah. Will I reject an opportunity to do something small that will affect only a handful of lives for just a few days based solely on that? Nope

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    I've reached a point where I think if both the left and right tell you are wrong, you might just as well have arrived at the correct idea (usually, not always).

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  • We all are the only and best witness to our individual experiences. I don't think that's taught enough. I'm not saying that all truth is relative all the time, but I think it's very reasonable to be in a nation with a de facto two-party duopoly on the entire political system and come to a conclusion as an individual that there are many things and experiences, including your own, that aren't accurately represented or advocated for by either party's narratives. IMO, that's common sense. Just like America has one of the highest per capita incarceration rates in the world, it's also unique in that it (and all of the five eyes nations except for NZ and kind of Australia) is a western democracy that only has two parties with the vast control of natl. govt. instead of a coalition of many more. Competition almost always yields better results for customers in a market and in politics.

    We're in a system in which voters feel locked into a system of only two choices and then will turn around and berate other voters for not being 1000% committed to 'the revolution' after toppling the n*zis. Instead of providing a inclusive environment for old republicans turning away from and standing against obvious fascism, some of the left does a whole old timey Christian preacher "scare the hell out of you," narcissism-of-small-differences routine with zero prompting to try and push for a huge cultural and political upheaval before removing the awfulness that's currently in power. It's the Aesop's Fables lion giving up the rabbit (small win) to chase the antelope (ambitious win) and losing both. It's Anakin telling Obi Wan to join him with the Sith or die, his head so far up his own butt with his own issues that he thinks that's an actual choice for Obi Wan but it's not. It's shortsighted and self-centered and it's stupid. And for the sake of just getting through elections in the next 4 years I wish it would stop.

    Anyway. "Nothing is ever as good or bad as people say it is. It's always better or worse and you have to figure out how." Some of that is adjusting your own expectations and reactions, some of it is adjusting for the biases of others.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Haha I kind of see both your points, it kind of does the liberal thing of extending the umbrella of protection from exploitation while pushing exploitation farther to the sidelines. The worst case outcome is that you now have more defenders of the status quo, because they've got it good. Meanwhile the entire economy is still based on war and exploitation, especially of poor workers in other countries.

    But then maybe if us workers here had some more breathing room (perhaps not the best choice of words...) we might also have more capacity for solidarity with those exploited workers. Who knows, but it would remedy a lot of immediate problems here anyway.

    And all the trials have been very positive, so I'm inclined to give it a shot yeah.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    β€˜Let them get a taste of how terrible those guys are, and then they’ll vote us in and our system will rise!’ is what the Weimar Republic said about the Nazis.

    Never, ever assume making things worse will end up causing a few tiny problems and then everything gets better. Humans are, by and large, shockingly tolerant of rather terrible things. If you let things get worse, they will get very, very worse, and a lot of innocent people will die.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Right but you see the analogy of like union negotiations, like when management makes a sweet deal for a certain class of worker like full-timers, or people over a certain "grade", then leaves everyone else out to dry.

    I've seen it happen first hand. Things get better for us inside the new circle of privilege, but it's only because most of us voted for self interest.

    I don't want to be like letting the πŸ’― be the enemy of the πŸ‘ŒπŸ», but I also think we should talk about how we plan on keeping from being the 1% to someone else.

    Does that make sense? I'm not against UBI, but it can't be the end of the discussion.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    And fascism ended up killing fewer people than the British Empire, USA, or French Empire and it wasn't tried again for 80 years.

    As you say, people are shockingly tolerant of terrible things. Especially when there is a socially constructed boundary between them and the victims (race, nationality, etc.). If you count nonwhite noncitizens as full people, fascism was less deadly than liberal capitalism.

    Do we care half as much about the death of a dozen people at a wedding in Pakistan as we care about Alex Pritti? Do we care half as much about the colonization of north America as about the Lebensraum doctrine? Do we care half as much as about the British colonization of India as about the holocaust and WW2?

    Fascism is capitalist abusers coming home. it is horrible, as capitalism always was.

    I would prefer capitalism to fall without a fascist period - not the least out of self-preservation as a white citizen of a first world country - but at this point every decade that capitalism survives is another billion dead from climate change.

    If we stave off fascism by embracing liberal capitalism, all our children and grandchildren will die violently. It can not be enough.

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  • [–] 33 points 1 month ago

    It's a demoralization propaganda tactic to effectively blunt any issue. People have internalized the idea that they can do nothing on an individual level. Like habits that form out of persistent actions, people have been demoralized into giving up completely. It's some sort of ego trap. Where the presumption is that an individual is supposed Superman saving the world, but of course they aren't. Nobody is. So why bother at all. That's not the point. It's about the the population as a whole determining the norm. Everyone is convinced it's pointless and hopeless. That sets the tone. The issue is dead in the water. Any issue can be killed this way. It's extremely effective. People fall for it every time.

    That's where climate change is right now. That's where wealth inequality is right now. People have listened to social media. They've internalized the quote repetitions. The demoralization mantras they saw on social media.

    Your adversaries can handle words on social media. It's meaningless to them. It has no effect on their daily lifestyle or their bank accounts. Throwing words into the cloud. Somebody else's computer. Those servers are owned by your very adversaries. You're throwing your comments into a meaningless suggestion box. In all likelihood the quote repetitions were seeded by them.

    Everyone is convinced that "the rich" consist of a few billionaires named Musk, Bezos, or Zuckerberg. This blinds people from seeing local issues. Like crony politicians or localized inequality issues. Ones where they actually have more of a voice. One where they can actually effect change.

    There's no more blatant manifestation than when reddit (happens on lemmy too) bleeds their hearts over those posts about some rich asshole. Those carbon copy posts about how hard it is to be making techbro level money while "struggling" to live in the most wealthy cities in the world. Who gives a shit. Why does everyone have sympathy for those rich people at all. Everyone crazy? These people are part of the problem. They are the rich too. They are the source of issues that affect you locally. The guillotines are for them as much as Musk, Bezos or Zuckerberg. They're out of touch rich people who have dragged you all into their reality where they're victims too. How convenient for them to have a few billionaire scapegoats that are untouchable. Whereas the average working class person can actually effect change on a local level.

    People have given up on climate change because they're convinced the one or two people must stop flying private jets then the problem will be solved. It's quote repetitions. Fed to them from social media. "If those jerks can fly private jets, then why can't I consume as much as I want myself. I'll use all the plastic bags and straws that I want." It's not about the bags or the straws. It's about the collective demoralization. The propaganda is so effective.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 month ago*

    There’s like two kinds of proposals, and whichever kind you make you get criticized. You make a big proposal, people say β€œWell yeah but how does that work on the ground?” You make an on-the-ground proposal, and people say β€œWell how does that scale to the whole thing?” Alright fine, then let’s just die!

    Douglas Rushkoff at Bretton Woods 75

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  • [–] 51 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    I see way too much of this on the internet, here on Lemmy included. Thanks for posting this. I have this thought a lot but haven't see this good of a way to put it before.

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  • [+] -10 points 1 month ago* (5 children)

    Its state sponsored propaganda using companies as proxies to bypass those pesky human rights laws and is vastly on the Republican side but you do have aipac dems and similar issues in other first world countries.

    The rise of right wing extremist politicians and the world also going to shit is no coincidence.

    They'll also tell you things such as "don't trust the government" while also being the party in control. It should be obvious to anyone who isn't a cultist.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    It should be obvious to anyone who isn’t a cultist.

    I love the 'no true scot' part here.

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    Actually it's a logical fallacy. As in your previous comment makes no sense at all so it doesn't need to be argued against. Just dismissed as the drivel that it is.

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  • Because people are fucking stupid, i deal with this shit at work everyday nothing to do with global politics or whatever. Sometimes our vendors fuck things up for us, so therefore there's no point in us getting more organized at work -- literally how my supervisors think.

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  • Perfection being the enemy of good (enough).

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago* (3 children)

    I have been told this my whole life, how our silly little actions didn't mean anything because they were too small or fringe or whatever.

    The difference is I can look back across the decades and see a lot of people who I have helped, and who have helped me in turn, things have been directly made better as a result (well, at least some of the time). Meanwhile, their "more realistic" approach centred on voting has seen periods of glacial progress and rapid retreat, leaving them further back than ever before in my lifetime.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Individual actions rarely cause big changes, but they help individuals all the time. Nothing wrong with that.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    For the sake of clarity, I meant actions in the sense of direct action; typically some sort of anarchism flavoured so prefiguration was often at least kept in mind. Nothing has ever snowballed of course, although some actions have spawned some lovely little related communities that are thriving too (and others that since ran out of steam, true); I'll always choose small victories over chasing the best loss as electoralism endlessly expounds. But I don't at all disagree with the sentiment!

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    Im saving this in high hopes that I will remember it when I could send it to somebody, butt (&titties): I have observed that older posts seize to exist after some time on lemmy (I’m saving it to my device)

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    I agreed up until the "or else" caveat at the end. Many people simply do not have the energy to be curious or proactive at any particular time. That needs to be okay, otherwise the end destination is alienating a lot of people who might agree with a cause.

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  • [–] 22 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    There’s a good chance that anyone making this argument doesn’t see it as a problem in the first place.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    That's correct. Dismissal of the effort and disgust for the goal seem to go hand-in-hand.

    Digital privacy? They've got you anyway AND I don't care about privacy Environmentalism? Nothing is 100% green anyway AND I don't care about the environment

    Lots of examples like that.

    They want to beat down both your goal and effort, because admitting even one of those being reasonable threatens their worldview.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago

    Also there is crossover. Even if you managed 100% green, maybe some engineer who worked on it accidentally hit some Palestinian with their car, so now the entire project is just a secret genocide.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago*

    Things have gotten worse over my lifetime in small, almost imperceptible ways, which have all accumulated into the humungous shit sandwich we find ourselves consuming daily. The only way things will get better is in the same small, incremental way. Should we fight for more, faster, better? Absolutely! Should we let that get in the way of small wins? Hell no. It's not sexy, it feels like trudging through mud every day and requires a level of faith to believe that the small contributions each of us make will matter in the long term. But it is the only way given the realities of the world we live in. Everything else is apathy or accelerationism.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    Don't make Perfect the enemy of Progress.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    "This is not a perfect solution, and therefore it is not a solution" is called the nirvana fallacy, and is poor reasoning. Somehow people are really susceptible to it.

    The argument "this solution only partially solves the problem, and further entrenches us into a system that makes the problem this solution aims to solve much, much worse in the long run, and as such the benefits do not outweight the costs" is a different argument, but it is often mistaken for the former argument because people are incapable of long term thinking.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago*

    Interesting, now I know that type of argument has a name. I think many rationalizations are a veneer for laziness. Taking the stance that doing something is useless means you don't have to feel guilty about not doing it. Likewise, when there's a widespread delusion that simple, ineffective actions make us heroes, people will do those actions and nothing else, because giving themselves a gold star is all they really want. It's important not to confuse spending hours in social media circlejerks with "spreading awareness".

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Sometimes layering bandaid improvements is ultimately worse than solving the problem correctly.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago (10 children)

    This is only valid as long as your partial/incomplete solution doesn't encourage people who would otherwise keep working on solving the whole problem to decide that since there's a solution they can just knock off for brunch and leave you to it.

    Partial solutions to a polluted creek that's choked with litter? Yes please, then we can see what comes next

    Placebo solutions that make people who've made no difference feel like they've done their part to fight fascism and can go back to brunch? Gtfo with that shit.

    Hint: if the "problem" is a societal one, nothing you see or hear suggested by anyone who has advertisers is going to actually solve anything, and is likely to work against anyone trying an actual solution.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    And here we are. The exact sentiment described by OP.

    You are the one describing the solution as "placebo". I think the effort I implement is a positive step. I believe strongly that you are one of two types of people: Anti-solution and an agitator trying to divide and dishearten; or... maybe... you're invested in the positive outcome and you will continue the greater work while I try to ensure you still can.

    If you were only doing it because it was 100% bad, then you're just as much of an idiot as those 'why wouldn't you rape without sky-daddy watching you' christians. You can still work to solve it when it's only 90% as bad as it was, since it will still be 100% bad.

    Hint: Telling people to either be fully dedicated to solving the big issues or give up and 'go to brunch' is reductive and not encouraging the way you want it to be.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    No.

    The "solution" they're clearly trying to defend without naming it to make it obvious is "voting for liberal politicians". That absolutely 100% is a placebo, and every time the liberal shitbag wins, all their Blue No Matter Who voters (or whatever the equivalent is in other countries) go back to brunch and pretend all the problems have been solved

    Hint: "go back to brunch" is a derisive way to mock liberals, and wasn't intended to be encouraging at all to anyone.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    all their Blue No Matter Who voters (or whatever the equivalent is in other countries) go back to brunch and pretend all the problems have been solved

    From the other poster: Using a paper straw does reduce plastic usage. So will using reusable grocery bags. A person can quite easily do both. Deriding the paper straw as a useless step just seems unhelpful to me. When the plastic bags and straws are reduced, we can attack other angles too. As an anecdote, I rarely even get offered a choice of straw nowadays - it's either not present or paper. that's a minor win, but a win nonetheless. Some people worked hard to make that happen and this talk of placebo is derisive of that work.

    This is you presuming to know the motivations of all other people and deciding for them when they stop working on new things. Just because I want people to be involved in their political processes doesn't mean I stop at the voting booth, or can't also be doing service in my community. I don't love the catchphrase 'Blue no matter Who' - but I recognize that not voting blue is always going to be detrimental to the cause until enough people are involved in local level organizations to change the candidates from the ground up. Until we get there, I recommend we vote blue.

    Discouraging civic engagement only benefits the wealthy. Wanna fight fascism and oligarchs? Encourage people to participate instead of telling them it doesn't matter or there can only be revolution instead of incremental progress.

    Hint: β€œgo back to brunch” is a derisive way to mock liberals, and wasn’t intended to be encouraging at all to anyone.

    That's my whole point. Don't discourage.

    More encouragement of participation is better. Tell me that's wrong.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    Plastic pollution in the ocean is not from consumer waste, it's from industrial fishing. Plastic straws LITERALLY DO NOT ADDRESS THE ISSUE. It's a fantastic example of this.

    Discouraging civic engagement only benefits the wealthy.

    Look at the people telling you to engage in these ways.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (4 children)

    This is the epitome of the issue I'm talking about -- you people seem to presume the engagement ends at the simple step. For some, it will, but those people weren't likely to engage larger in the first place and reducing the consumer waste doesn't hurt.

    For others, it will make them aware of the larger call to action, to get them to join advocacy groups that punish industrial and systemic issues.

    I can't stop fascism or climate change or pollution on my own. I need MORE people engaged and telling people we need all or nothing solutions can only lower the number of people willing to take action. Individual, even trivial steps matter.

    Look at the people telling you to give up.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (3 children)

    No one is saying to give up. The fact that you hear "stop wasting your energy trying to solve things in ways that are controlled by the people profiting from the problem" and interpret that as "give up" tells us all exactly how engaged you are with anything that actually might make a difference.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (2 children)

    Your lack of reading comprehension tells me exactly how much you think.

    My point being: 'give up' is what some people, who would otherwise be our allies, are hearing. Stop telling *them* to give up.

    You won't make more anti-capitalists by squashing the people who see the problems and want to solve them just not in your way. That only accelerates us towards the fascism you claim to be against.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    My point being: 'give up' is what some people, who would otherwise be our allies, are hearing. Stop telling *them* to give up.

    The actual point being that nobody who hears "give up" when they're told to stop wasting energy on the "solutions" provided by the people who don't want the problem solved will ever be an ally until they first stop giving oxygen to the non-solutions. Until then they are an adversary, not an ally.

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  • [–] 12 points 1 month ago

    for all the good tankies might do in a moment at the end they just create new issues, which if they are successful will be quite bad again. so not worth it since it's completely unnecessary

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    Remember, that is exactly what an exploiter will say to you. They'll always try to place the blame on the individual for the damage they're doing collectively. Same with the BP Oil campaign when they invented the "carbon footprint of the individual" while being one of the worst polluters in the world.

    If you look at real, concrete, systemic changes in the world, the times where it has happened because of "optimism" is close to zero.

    Remember that the exploiters will always demand that people use the proper channels, because they own those channels, and can make sure nothing ever gets through.

    There are only two ways to deal with exploiters. You can try and use your voice a few times, and if that doesn't work, you start using your hands.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    I feel like this is type of thinking is a cope for people who don't want to actually do anything but maintain what they think is the moral high ground.

    They realize that if they admit that you doing something is positive, then they'll be forced to confront why they aren't doing it.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    We need a word for people who are either willfully ignorant or just 'too tired for politics'. Like it's nearly the majority of people I find, but they're so used to being the default idk if they ever consider other options

    Kinda like how the word 'cis' pisses people off because it makes them realize their state of being (like all states of being) is neither eternal nor predestined.

    I almost want to call them 'muggles' just to spit in Rowling's face, but she really doesn't need the free advertising

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    Me sitting here drinking soda with a soggy paper straw made from recycled toilet paper rolls:

    Overly classy french.jpg

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  • [–] 16 points 1 month ago (12 children)

    It's such a lazy answer and we see it everywhere. Check any discussion on veganism and you'll spot it.

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  • [–] [S] 18 points 1 month ago

    moral envy:

    feeling of envy and resentment directed at another person, not because the person is wealthy, or gifted or lucky but because his or her behaviour is seen as upholding a higher moral standard than the envier’s own

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    That's exactly what I thought when I read this. We have multiple antivegan accounts on my instance that spout this crap and troll others. If they get banned, they come crying back instead of realizing how unwelcome they are. What a waste of time to spend it this way instead of actually helping people. You can't talk about veganism on here without the same type of asshole coming out of the woodworks.

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  • [+] -11 points 1 month ago (9 children)

    it's one thing to do something ineffective, but be optimistic. it's another to waste others time and morally grandstand if they won't do ineffective things with you

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  • [–] 14 points 1 month ago (8 children)

    Problem is in this case it's effective

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (3 children)

    I'm sorry you ran into assholes.

    Edit: yeah you can tag this one as an antivegan debate pervert and move on.

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  • [+] -9 points 1 month ago

    In this paper, we link a validated food frequency questionnaire (FFQ) to estimates from a review of 570 life-cycle assessments3 (LCAs)

    lca studies are disparately methodized, and cannot be combined. this is junk science

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Sorry, can’t hear you over your failure to solve the entire problem. /s

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago (4 children)

    Make a comment about the benefits of fully eliminating direct usage of fossil fuels from your life and inevitably you get replies like: I can't do that because I rent. You are so privileged, most people can't afford an EV.

    I think many have this idea that removing fossil fuel usage has to be expensive. It can also be by just not buying them. Yes I know not 100% of people can remove 100% of their direct usage right now, but a lot of people could do more than they are doing but don't. Some because they don't care, but others may not realise options they have, and positivity posting can help spread that kind of message.

    How I fully removed direct fossil fuel usage from my life: never learnt to drive because I couldn't afford it, for years used the bike from my teens before getting a new bike in my late 20s. Once I bought a house I had the broken boiler replaced with a heat pump, due to how old the central heating system was it all needed replacing anyway do it didn't really cost any more than staying on fossil fuels. Had the gas meter removed from the house after a long conversation with the provider that no I really don't need or want it, get rid of it. The engineer said he would see me again when I need it turned back on, not seen him in a few years now. Still don't want it.

    Total electricity cost is under Β£1k a year and winter usage is 3-4x summer usage. Recently switched to working in office so I can adjust the heating timing and zone layout this winter which should save some energy too.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Conscious consumption! I like it. It's a big part of what they advocate on the Frugal Friends podcast. Just need to figure out the "we have McDonalds at home" of fossil fuels. Hybrids & bikes can be a good first start.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Frugal/anti consumption. It used to be by necessity but now I continue by choice, to the point I don't really know what to spend my money on since I started earning full time adult minimum wage. Now on Β£29k and continue to not really know what to spend it on! I do get nice things but most of them don't really cost much. Like a cast iron pan I need once and doesn't cost much.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Same. When I was at a point where I was skipping a meal a day to save for rent, it was the boots problem. If I could get the nicer, more durable thing, it was always worth it in the long run but not usually affordable up front. But sometimes there are easy wins. I found my first and only cast iron skillet I've had in the last 15 years covered in grease & surface level rust next to a dumpster on the way home. Some oven cleaner and flaxseed oil and it has been good to me ever since.

    It started then by saying no to eating out bc it's unaffordable, now it's saying no to eating out at a lot of places bc they have awful food, service, and management treats their workers like crap. Starbucks wasn't worth it to me for a long time before the anti union stuff, now I have two reasons (actually more) never to go there again.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    Yeah, but this post won't stop everyone from saying that /s

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    I think this applies to doomers as well. Why would they argue that there's nothing that can be done? Why pull anyone into your pit of dispair?

    I'll help pull you out if you first stop resisting.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    I do things that make no difference globally because I don't want to take part in the bad things.

    I did not vote for the government that is ruling my country. My single vote did not make any difference, but it makes me feel better that I did not vote for this government.

    I travel by train instead of a plane and I ride a bike instead of driving a car because I don't want to be part of the club of high CO2 emission citizen.

    Doing that does not matter globally, but I feel better about myself that way. I don't tell other people what to do or to follow my example, but I think some people around me do notice and maybe it does get them thinking?

    But I have no illusions, most people are busy enough and do what is most convenient every time. I am the only adult in my circle that does not own a car. But I feel powerless beyond my personal life to change anything.

    I know it is not good enough, but I don't know how to change other people.

    I did try and sometimes I still do try, but to no effect besides annoying people. 🀷

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    I generally agree but not across the board. Bandaid solutions, half-assing things, etc often leads to worse problems down the road than you had to begin with.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly. If you wait until you feel great and have all the time in the world to ever go to the gym you might work out 1-2 days a year. If you wake up late and are tired but commit to at least going out and walking down the street and back at lunch and you do the latter more often then you'll be way ahead of the former situation. Maybe different strokes for different folks. Perfectionism ruins a lot of dreams and ambitions of people that would accomplish a whole lot more if they just stopped overthinking about it and learned to leave well enough alone. Just ask any former 'gifted and talented' student.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 month ago

    What a person should do is pretty contingent on their agency.. If someone doesn't have leverage to organise a systemic solution, they should absolutely apply a bandaid solution. Ideally while keeping half an eye on the possibility of a better solution in the long run, but yeah.. Depends on context and capacity.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    'be curious or you're blocked'

    womp womp

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Infodump ahh meme

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Even though I agree on parts of it, don't forget that Trump has upended the whole system and decades of progression in six months. So next time democrats tell you that "change takes time and needs patience" you should also show them the middle finger. Especially so if they say this in relation to changing back things Trump has done.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    You have to take into context the type of change that's being discussed. Destroying things takes less time than building things.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    Agreed but if they say the same things about bringing back the systems that Trump has abolished, I would be more suspicious of them trying to benefit from those changes while pretending that their interests are aligned with their constituents. We have seen how fast progressive democrats can move when they want, like Mamdani. So that makes me believe that in many cases previous "change takes time" were delaying strategies.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    What about games other than chess?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    Agreed we are

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