Many times. Since I don't celebrate Christmas, I'm just cooking and watching LOTR movies.
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Often. I'm not a christian, I don't observe Christmas, and see my family regularly through the year.
I do enjoy Christmas movies from the 90s though, so I'll usually snuggle up with the cats and watch them while I sip a hot beverage.
Yes, a few times.
Why? Because I could. Various friends were spending time with their families. I was invited, but politely declined, having made the mistake of accepting in previous years.
It was glorious: pizza, pot noodles, mince pies, cheesecake and whatever I wanted to binge watch, read or listen to for about 4 days solid.
Why was it a mistake to accept the invitation in previous years?
I only accepted the invite from one friend, but did so a couple of times. They were a large and competitive family (I had been warned) who seemed to view family gatherings as part inquisition and part contact sport.
After the first time, I thought that it wouldn't be as bad now that I had met them, but then discovered that they had been holding back out of politeness the first time. I realised the error of my ways after that and could see why my friend was in two minds about going at all.
almost always, i don't have anyone to spend it with and it also isn't something i have much emotional attachment to, so other than sending out a few "merry xmas" type messages i just treat it as a normal day. if there are pretty lights in the park or a cute market or something around that time of year, i will go along to that (but i also do that alone). i don't really know much other way to do it tbh, when i was growing up it was always a hugely stressful thing with everyone angry or upset, so i like mine a lot better now :bc_smilomsweat:
Well, not completely alone, 2 or three of my friends also stayed far from home, so not sure if this counts?
And it was in Munich while living only a few blocks from the Winter Tollwood Festival, which is one of the most interesting "Christmas Markets" (quotes are on purpose...) in Germany which also didn't have its closing day on Christmas Eve already, but stayed open until Three Kings Day.
So, during daytime I was working in a relaxed way basically alone in the office, while during the evenings I was at a slightly crazy place eating exotic food and listening to strange, but top notch live bands.
I had a great time, did this twice or so!
Caveat:
I think that only worked because I am one of the lucky guys who have a stable family bond and also know that.
Gives you the safety to try stuff without fearing some none-recoverable loss.
I have been married all through the millenium and I don't recall not being with people before that. My wife and I have had xmass just together lots though.
A few, it was just like any weekend day except I couldn't go shopping.
Christmas doesn't have any significance to me or my mother, so we don't go out of our way to spend time together. In fact she tends to gleefully pick up extra hours at work because they pay her more. If I'm single or my partner is unavailable this results in me spending Christmas alone, which I honestly enjoy. If I'm in a relationship, I usually get sucked into whatever Christmas shenanigans my partner's family gets up to.
Most Christmases I spend alone. I used to have a good paying job so I would buy myself a Christmas present. I lost my job because of Trump and Musk cuts to government contractors. Last Christmas, I watched Looney Toons on Internet Archive under a blanket, trying not to think how lonely I am, cold I am, or how hungry I am.
I hate Christmas.
Back when my family still spoke to me I ended up having to spend one Christmas in a lockdown psychiatric facility. Couldn't even contact them. My life is pure chaos and it's only getting worse. The part I fear the most is that I'm only middle-aged.
In 1994 I spent Christmas alone in Germany. I joined the US Army in may of 93, did all the training etc and got to Germany in November.
It was a blast and really was the most enjoyment I had at Christmas up until that point in my life.
Yes. I typically live far away from family, and may or not not have a significant other or friends to celebrate with any given year. I often get invited by someone, but I don't always take them up on the offer. I'm no longer religious and tend to avoid overtly religious Christmas celebrations. Sometimes friends are inviting me to join their family who I don't know. While I'm grateful for the invite, I would rather relax and not navigate strange family dynamics.
Not Christmas day itself, but days before and after my company is mostly closed with just a few people working. I often volunteer to work those hours. My coworkers who care about Christmas more are grateful so I get first dibs on other popular vacation holidays.
Lots of people do that every year. Some out of choice, some because they have no choice.
On the other hand, I'm someone who has always been with family. There was only one year where I wasn't for the day itself and that's because I was on nights. It was a little hard to deal with, but I've had worse experiences.
Like, say, the first summer I had a full time job after decades of school and university and suddenly not getting that six-week break. It was like I couldn't breathe.
Or the existential horror of working nights and realising that there's no great reset from one day to the next. You might not even realise you think of time that way until you have to be awake at the "wrong" times. Time's continuous. No break. No fanfare when the weekday changes. Relentless unending time.
So yeah, that Christmas was kind of lonely, but I slept through most of it, and saw family a day or so later.
Once, I got a whole pizza pie from the place down the street, and ate it while hanging with my cat and playing some nice single player games.
Another time, a friend of mine surprise ordered me Indian food. Ate it while playing video games with the cat.
Different time, was cat sitting for a friend. She ordered me a pie, which I ate while playing games and chilling with the cat.
All were pretty good, really.
The why was "I'm not that close with my family, don't want to travel, and I'm not seeing anyone who invited me"
I had knee replacement surgery just before Christmas one year, couldn't get about. So I got a big grocery delivery, and spent the day pigging out, drinking and having video chats with friends and family. It was great.
Only once, this past year. (Not quite alone tho, my wife was with me.)
I started feeling nauseated and heavily fatigued Christmas Eve, and by Christmas Day I was pretty sure I had some kind of stomach bug. Sucks to be laid out in bed sick on a holiday.
But also kinda nice to defer the celebrations a couple days and spread out those family visits.
Sort of. My spouse worked nights in the oncology ICU during COVID times, then slept most of the day. Then back to work. 1 accumulated hour of actual Christmas spent eating breakfast and opening gifts sucked.
Yes, and it was amazing.
Just sleep in, chill, cook myself a nice dinner, watch some movies.
Yeah I was sick one year when my niece was an infant. Family asked me to stay home.
It was fine. I watched TV and smoked my hookah. All in all a pretty good day.
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