Yeah. It happens on occasion. Nothing to worry about.

I was on anti depressants for a while, which not only reduced libido hugely, they removed the ability to orgasm. Like, you'd get to the final crest of the wave but never be able to reach it. Very frustrating and I get why you're angry. Now and then I could climax but it would be pretty much without any satisfaction.

This is called a ruined orgasm, it's a thing

Kinda.. i was on tamsulosin for a while, and had retrograde ejaculation, which was very unsatisfying and felt a bit like ejaculating without climaxing, basically. Not really the same thing, but close enough for me to empathize, brother, i hope you get through this.. are you on anything that might explain it? Or was there a specific circumstance?

Once or twice, It came from 3 hours of tugging my flacid dick. Wasn't worth the effort.

Yeah, usually during very early morning sex. Like that your eyes are barely open and you don't even know how you started having sex or who started it but it's in full swing by the time you come to. Sometimes during that time, I feel nothing when I cum. It's not fun but rolling over and going back to bed surely is!

Anyway, if you're experiencing this on your own, try not spanking the ham for a bit and you'll get back to normal.

Oof. Yeah, I found anti depressants to be the culprit in those cases.

Whenever my testosterone drops too low (which it was for years) I get it. It's pretty miserable. I'm on monotherapy now and it keeps my testosterone in a good range.

Oh is that the term for it? It’s happened once when I was trying to edge for longer but then it happened and it was horrible. I don’t try that anymore.

Oh yeah, antidepressant fun. I'd like to tell you that it passes, but I haven't had an orgasm in years :(

Are you in anti-depressants at all? If so, there are others available that do not do that

Never had an orgasm in my life. Don't even bother to masturbate anymore.

I get that sometimes. It could be related to the antidepressants and other adhd meds I'm on, but I take it as a signal to take a day or two off. Just dial it back a little and then the feelings return.

of course that leaves me with an hour or two of not knowing what to do, but I figure something out. Usually something I forgot to do earlier that day like a craft project I've been putting off

Have I shot a wad and not orgasm? Sure it happens, back off, jack off and try again..

Oh yea, been like for years for me and I’m only 40. I jerk off just to get rid of the frustrating horney sensation anymore.

I've never had the ability to feel sexual pleasure, unfortunately. Was a confusing time growing up. It also sometimes makes me really feel like I'm missing out. When all media revolves around sex and you can't even feel pleasure from masturbation, it feels like you're missing something from the core human experience. Sometimes it has made me feel like a different species.

I guess at least for me, I "don't know what I'm missing" because I've never experienced it. I'm sorry that you know what it feels like so that it's more painful when you can't anymore.

Has anything changed in your life recently?