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[+] 139 points 3 months ago (38 children)
  • [–] 67 points 3 months ago (5 children)

    I hope that clears things up.

    Not really. You had me in the first half, tho.

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  • [–] 10 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    Right? I'm clearly far too American to understand. I'm more confused than I was before.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 child)

    He's making things up and moved the goal posts of his claim several times when he got corrected.

    Apparently, according to him, the terms 'afternoon tea' and 'high tea' have been informally switched in the UK, and apparently everyone knows this but it's not in the wikipedia artical because...

    Second goal post move, he's apparently not talking about the British custom of tea here, but of tea in some other as yet un-named country.

    Edit: Chat we've hit 3 goal post moves! I repeat, the third goal post has been moved. Our man isn't playing on any team now and has gone rogue on the pitch as apparently now everything he's said was all supposed to be just a flippant joke! Lmao.

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  • [–] 25 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Dinner, as the main meal, used to be closer to midday in agrarian times, with the evening meal being a light supper. Only the industrial revolution, with workers spending most of the working day in the workplace, changed this.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago

    Interestingly most Psych units I've worked (US) serve (roughly timed):

    0800 - breakfast

    • along with a lightly caffeinated coffee or tea, the only caffeine routinely served

    1200 - lunch

    1700 - dinner

    2000 - snack

    • usually prepackaged chips and crackers, sometimes cookies or ice cream. The long stay hospital gave the patients 25¢ for every group they attended and they could order nicer stuff from the staff member who made the weekly Walmart trip.
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  • [–] 13 points 3 months ago (7 children)

    Then there’s high tea, which yes, features tea. Often a pot and almost never a mug. It frequently comes with anemic sandwiches and perhaps a scone.

    Wrong way round.

    High tea is/was the working class term for an evening meal as it was had at the table, and it would usually include cooked meat.

    Afternoon tea is the posh one in the afternoon with the cucumber sandwiches with the crusts cut off.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Interestingly, in Canada "high tea" is a fancy afternoon tea with little sandwiches and desserts. Often something you can book at posh hotels like Fairmonts.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago* (3 children)

    Ok, go edit the wikipedia article then if you're so sure of yourself.

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  • [+] 2 points 3 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago* (2 children)

    The wiki article actually says that too.

    Can you quote the bit? I'm not seeing it. The only place anything similar is mentioned refers to it happening outside of the uk.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 child)

    Bruh. You literally posted this: https://slrpnk.net/post/40256413/23312028

    I'll copy it over too, just in case you also don't remember how to click on links, chief.

    Explanation if any of our foreign cousins want it.

    Tea, short for tea time.

    In the South you used to (and still do) have the following three meals a day:

    Breakfast, lunch, dinner.

    In the North, however…

    Breakfast, dinner, tea.

    Both might tie the end of the day off with supper too. Brunch is for the jobless middle class and wandered into the conversation with yuppies in the 80s.

    There’s also a tea break, which is usually just a cup (or mug if you are a ruffian) of tea. Not to be confused with tea time, where you might reasonably expect to eat your dinner.

    Then there’s high tea, which yes, features tea. Often a pot and almost never a mug. It frequently comes with anemic sandwiches and perhaps a scone.

    I hope that clears things up.

    So apparently all this here isn't you explaining about the British custom of 'tea' in a top comment on a thread about 'wacky things British people say', but is actually you just explaining about the 'tea' custom of a totally unrelated and as yet un-named country?...

    Seriously, chief, this one is on you. You goofed up and didn't like being corrected, so you had this little tantrum trying to 'no, you' your way into still being right. Lmao. That's pathetic.

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  • [+] -2 points 3 months ago (1 child)
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    You said something wrong and were corrected and instead of taking it graciously, you doubled down and 'um akshually' three times now by moving the goal posts to desperatly cling on to being 'correct'

    First time, apparently you know secret, but very common, but not so common it's on wikipedia, information about how British 'tea' culture terms have been transposed.

    Second time, apparently no, you weren't even talking about the UK when you offered to explain british 'tea' culture to any foriengers here.

    And now thirdly, oops it was all a joke! You didn't mean to claim any authority on the subject, it was just owo silly boy humour and I'm a big ugly meanie for calling you out.

    Lmao, this was hella embarrassing to watch you go through.

    Next time you're corrected, take it on the chin and don't double down with your bullshit. It only makes you look bad.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    In my house we use the Southern words during the week and the Northern version on Sundays, as in Sunday Dinner. Are we weird or does anyone else do that?

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    I’m from the north but live with southerners now. I grew up with dinner at noon (in school—dinner time, dinner-ladies).

    We’ve now compromised on breakfast, lunch, tea, and on Sunday it’s a grey area between Sunday lunch and Sunday dinner depending on how much the schedule has slipped.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago

    There's also a tea break, which is usually just a cup (or mug if you are a ruffian) of tea.

    Then there's high tea

    What time do you usually have these?

    Not to be confused with tea time, where you might reasonably expect to eat your dinner.

    Are we talking South dinner or North dinner? .

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    It's not a north/south thing It's a working class/posho thing

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    This however also directly correlates with the historical rich/poor divide of the country.

    The south has historically been richer, and this is still seen today even with the wealth accumilation that major cities have developed.

    https://www.ons.gov.uk/visualisations/dvc1370/

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago (1 child)

    You can also have "breakfast, lunch and tea", or breakfast, dinner and dinner".

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  • [–] -1 points 3 months ago (5 children)

    In the South you used to (and still do) have the following three meals a day:

    Breakfast, lunch, dinner.

    In the North, however...

    Breakfast, dinner, tea.

    In the South, we sometimes have "breakfast, dinner, supper" (especially in rural areas; city folks are more likely to have "breakfast, lunch, dinner") and our tea definitely has ice and a fuckton of sugar in it.

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    It was meant to be a tongue-and-cheek confirmation that, yes, I was joking about the American south.

    It didn't land well.

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