I mean, any reason for not wanting a relationship is a good reason because a relationship where one person doesn't even really want it is going to be a shit relationship.

That said, I might still judge you if your reasons are shitty.

Why would I care about someone else not dating someone. That's insane behaviour

You have the right to refuse for any reason, that doesn't absolve you of how you will be perceived though.

my favorite is people who say they don't care about the reason, and then use the same reason to reject people.

or who whine about being rejected for a reason, and use that same reason to reject people.

Ok, we might have some news for you then…

That's not the important part, the important part is you now must figure out which Linux distro you'll be installing. I recommend Mint or FedoraKDE.

Depends on your life expectancy

I meant more generally speaking rather than in the AI bro sense

Yeah I mean you pay money and take a little course to become a notary and you have to reup every year (or three years? I can't remember). The point is you take on legal liability. A notary cannot claim, "i didn't realize, I didn't know, I didn't double check." Most of the money you pay is in liability insurance in case you screw up. Because if a notary stamps their name to something false, they bear the legal liability which is enough for a notary to not take the risk of flippantly stamping things that are untrue.

You can also legally marry people.

There are also legal limits to how much you can charge (like 10 bucks and document or something. It's not much). Since each stamp doesn't earn much, but the liability could cost you a lot, it keeps notaries pretty honest. It's a decent system.

Mostly only nerds are notaries anyway, so the promising and putting your name to something does some of the heavy lifting by itself

Anyone could be a notary – you just have to pinky promise that you saw something happen under oath

The notary has to be approved by the State. Basically, if a notary attests to some fact, it is as if the entire government bore witness to it.

You think that someone would break the sacred oath they took to become a notary? What is this world coming to...

Yeah I was gonna mention the menstrual cup thing. The fact that they perceive the vagina as a purely receptive sleeve also suggests that they've rarely if ever had a woman orgasm on their dick. Hubs reports varying perceptibility between different episodes but that the muscular contraction is often robust.

people who do professional sex work all have 'terrible wrong' with them?

I've had sex with 3 women and rejected sexual advances from 7, I don't think it's unreasonable to want a woman with similar statistics.

Someone might call me an incel for wanting a women with about three bodies but the truth is I've remained voluntarily celibate for the vast majority of my single life. I view sex as a big deal and something to be enjoyed only with someone you love. It's not crazy to want someone with a similar mindset, and if you have 10 bodies you either have too different of a mindset or you're way way outside my age range.

It's really ridiculous how extensively I need to spell this out to not get called an incel. People have reasons. We don't need to jump to conclusions with the least charitable interpretation all the time. Unfortunately it seems like that's literally the only thing a lot (if not most) people are capable of doing nowadays.

Sure, you CAN do these things. That doesn't mean it's not diminishing your capacity to be emotionally invested in your relationships.

We can spend all day blowharding and traversing all the layers of subconscious processes abstracted into social constructs, how we are able to rationalize anything if we want to, and so on. But I think you can only get so far with that, when all I'm trying to describe is something pretty much everyone already understands intuitively.

"You can't turn a hoe into a housewife"

Works with gender/role flipped too, obviously.