Just deleted reddit and working on getting off of facebook. I'm actually glad to be here. It's a bit of an adjustment but I think it's for the better. Cheers everyone.

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[–] 69 points 7 months ago (12 children)

It's actually quite nice, conversations seem like you can get heard and people are generous with upvotes. It's like Reddit was in 2010, but it's been that way for a couple years (for me) now. I hope it continues.

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  • [–] 15 points 7 months ago* (11 children)

    Depends on what instance and what opinion you are towing, still. Though it is still a far cry better than Reddit.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Lemmy does seem to have some insular thinking (just like all social media communities). Feels like you can actually have discussion and at least learn why people hold those views instead of just being chastised.

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    I'm very confused about your comment.

    a) Is it not okay to use 'big boy' words? Do you disagree with the statement or just with the diction?

    b) The second point you make has nothing to do with my comment. I'd have thought you accidentally responded to the wrong comment except for you pointing out 'insular'. Why are these things relevant to the discussion?

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago (8 children)

    It's easier to choose and curate for oneself. Blocking comms actually works (even if blocking instances or users doesn't). I don't see any tankie comms anymore, even if I still have to argue with .ml users in comments on other threads.

    And even though mods can ban from communities or instances, no automated admin bots can give you a site-wide ban over petty reasons. I can say I hate nazis without getting my entire IP banned for "hate speech"...

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    You can still get your account nuked by butthurt admins.

    Though again, still far better than Reddit.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    Really? How? I thought instances had the highest level of control? Or are admins a per-instance thing?

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago* (5 children)

    The admins literally administer the instances. Many of them directly running the instances on hardware they pay for. Even if the API didn't allow it, they could just directly delete your user record from the DB.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    Right, exactly, that's my point. None of them can ban you from the fediverse, just their instance.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (3 children)

    Well getting your account that you groomed up for who knows how long nuked is pretty damn close. Especially if you're a main contributor to a comm or two and all that work disappears.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (2 children)

    You sound like you've had personal experience with this...

    Also, that doesn't change the fact that no instance admins can ban your IP across the whole fediverse, so it's still not as bad as reddit...

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Never said it was as bad as Reddit. I've only said the oposite.

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  • [–] 46 points 7 months ago* (5 children)

    Welcome. It's smaller, but the people are better. Most of them, anyway. Sometimes some of them are brilliant and amazing, just like on Reddit. Sometimes some of them suck (sometimes including me) but it's not so overwhelming because there aren't as many. Small is beautiful, even if it is a little quieter than you're used to. You'll get used to it though, and it's better for your mental health.

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  • [–] 21 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I love it being smaller. I actually read people's usernames here because there is a non zero chance I run across them again in the future and that makes me happy :3

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    That's definitely a thing I enjoy about lemmy! Old forums were nice because they actually felt like communities. The Centralization of the Internet has meant that it's just a faceless mass of people (and sometimes robots) popping off their hottest takes at every single moment

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  • I haven't checked Reddit habitually in a while, and it's remarkable what a difference it makes. The Fediverse is a lot less scroll-baity, so I tend to get up from the computer and do other things at more regular intervals. Sometimes I just immediately go back to computer but at least the breaks are more frequent.

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  • [–] 34 points 7 months ago

    We're glad you are here!

    🤗 4
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    Welcome! This is a real place with real people. Far less rage bait and bots.

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  • [–] 14 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Welcome! You better pick a favorite Linux distro to argue about in the comments :D

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 7 months ago (3 children)
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    Rookie move, should've gone with Bazzite, all the cool gamer kids such as myself* use it!

    *Disclaimer: I am neither cool nor a kid lol.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    cachy is actually awesome for gaming! only thing that it lacks is basically what every distro lacks which is the anti cheat games. otherwise it's solid!

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    I know, I only kid. Tbh I'm actually somewhat considering trying it out, I've been on Bazzite for a few months now after distro hopping a bunch, but I've heard good things and I'm curious now lol

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  • [–] 13 points 7 months ago

    Heck yeah! I've been trying to actively make the switch too. Getting away from big-tech algorithmically-driven social media platforms feels very nice. I do miss a few of the communities I was a part of that don't have a counterpart here, but I'll get used to it eventually.

    The community here is much nicer than reddit currently is. It feels more tight-knit. Almost like reddit was twelve or thirteen years ago.

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    In Australia, your username is a reference to dangerous Ford Ranger car drivers.

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    Welcome!

    Keep in mind there's no algorithm pushing things on us here, so it's best to seek out and subscribe to as many communities as you have interests. :) If there's a niche community on Reddit that you miss having here, consider making it yourself. Also, the most you can post and comment the better!

    One thing that's nice about the Fediverse compared to corporate social media is that there is far less bullshit, fewer ancient reposts by people pretending to post original content, almost no AI slop, etc... It's really nice, in my opinion. Reddit certainly has a larger quantity of stuff, but I think modernly the quality has become quite low.

    Nice to have you.

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah that is exactly what I'm doing. It seems piefed has a bit more stuff than lemmy and a little more active so I chose here for the most part. Thank you for the tip!

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago

    For the most part you should be able to see things across apps and servers.

    For example, I'm logged into fedia.io, which runs the Mbin software, and this thread is on lemmy.world, running the Lemmy software.

    It can take a while to wrap your head around all this stuff, but personally I find it really cool to be part of an infinitely scalable reddit alternative. 😄

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  • [–] 21 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Welcome and go fuck yourself /s

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  • [–] [S] 10 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    I'm definitely here for the linux and the furries lol. I use arch btw.

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    One of us!

    One of us!

    One of us!

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago

    Congrats on making the jump! Have a nice time with us on Lemmy and Piefed.

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago

    The more the merrier! Glad you're here :)

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago*

    I deleted my Facebook after downloading all of my files, same with reddit. Never going back. Currently dropping Google as much as I can and it has been a major headache figuring things out and transferring... I think it'll be worth it. Wish a lot more people would do the same.

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    Welcome aboard Ranger !

    Don't ever forget why you left. If you don't like something, be part of the solution.

    Hope you have a great time here!

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Welcome, fellow PieFed user! Our group is smaller, but that means you can have a bigger impact here. If you don't see enough of a type of content, try to post some here yourself. A little push can send us far.

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    Paul is that you?

    Send Ringo my love

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  • Welcome to the family!

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Welcome! You’ll see the same people over and over again, but it’s really nice.

    Enjoy your time and contribute! I only try to contribute with comments and not too much content, but maybe eventually.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Welcome in! There's lots to enjoy about Lemmy. Hope you come to see it's value over time.

    If you have any questions, like how federation (i.e. Fediverse) works or how to block, let me know!

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago

    Well good to have you here! Enjoy my friend!

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Off topic but your username almost matches my current DnD character: Ranger Dangerfield, a level 6 Ranger.

    Welcome, friend :).

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    Congrats and welcome.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Welcome!

    Please, help growing Lemmy/PieFed. Create content and engage!

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    hope you like beans

    every drink bailey's from a shoe?

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    Welcome aboard!

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    Hello! ☺️

    Welcome, we're glad you're here! ❤️

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Welcome aboard, stranger.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    welcome derangedranger

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Welcome! Hopefully this works for you. Might be less gripping mentally but hopefully more real.

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    Welcome!

    Lemmy and the Fediverse are a perfect replacement for Reddit.

    For Facebook I don’t know as it’s more about the willingness of people around you to try something else.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Welcome! Lemmy has been gaining some steady momentum and it’s a great time to jump in.

    The only thing I occasionally jump back into Reddit for are the sports communities, but I’m doing that with specific intent and not a general habit.

    Good things are coming here!!

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Cheers,

    May want to look into something like redact (or any of the other many scripts out there) that allow you to actually delete your posts from the enshitified web

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Hell yeah! Welcome!

    Lemmy is a lot of Linux nerds, trans people, leftists, and people who are really mad that those people are here lol

    The block button is your friend, curate your own experience, and enjoy! Lemmy, like any internet forum, can be a bit toxic. A lot of that depends on what instance you're viewing it from, so don't be afraid to instance hop a bit until you find a community you enjoy, and is federated with other instances that have content you like.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Reading the headline in Tom Scotts voice :)

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