It was the deal breaker for me. The end of my 21 year relationship with steam. I don't give a shit that they've let me through because of the account age, the fact that they locked it down briefly and may do so again in the future means they can fuck right off
All fixed. We had an issue where one of our servers reports space in use that isn't being used, and nothing short of a restart will fix it. We've done that, cleared up the space and upgraded piefed at the same time (and by we, I mean Kaity)
We're on it. It pulled our piefed instance down too. And of course it happened in the middle of flooding (IRL flooding)!
That's not new. They've had it for a long time now.
Just up the road from me
Birdnet-go
I feel you! This was my place yesterday

Admin hat on here.
You need to be very careful about how you phrase topics like this. It's ok to express your opinion. It's ok to say that surgery is not for you and to be open about why.
What's not ok is telling people that surgery, or any other aspect of folk living life authentically on their own terms isn't isn't for them either.
You can talk about your own experiences and perspectives, but don't push them on to others
You don't. Because that's the goal of the bigots. You treat everyone as good faith until proven otherwise, and/or you simply don't interact with folk you're unsure about
AgX all the way.
Aside from the name stub, which I understand your issue with, the things you mentioned are not the "lore" of that community. The stub itself unfortunately, can't be changed, but there is a reason community is called "Transfem" and not "MTF". The opening sentence of the sidebar is "This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people" for a reason.
I've defederated entire instances and banned countless accounts over their exclusion of gender diversity outside of the binary and bigotry against otherkin.
There are undoubtedly folk in the existing community that hold binarist views, and there are undoubtedly folk in there that hold cisnormative views, but that is the same of every trans community on lemmy including this new one. What matters is the response to those views being expressed, and that should look like education and awareness, which is I hope, how it will manifest in this community. Exclusive language steeped in transmedicalist perspectives is steeped in our history, because it was forced on us by cis gatekeepers, and that's impossible to completely escape from as long as people who lived through that experience are part of the community. And whilst that's history in some parts of the world, in many others, it's still a requirement to access care and support, and that harmful perspective that is forced on us, shapes many peoples internal view of themselves and their community.
We can't make that go away with rules or a ban hammer though. It needs to be met with support example setting. If someone refers to their own experience in terms that lean on exclusionary language, a good response isn't telling them how they have to refer to themselves, but instead, showing them by example that there are more inclusive, open ways of thinking about their own experiences in the way you talk about your own experiences. Change comes from giving folk room to grown and showing them empathy whilst they navigate the unpacking of enforced binary and transmedicalist perspectives.
Where it crosses the line is if people start to use that language to deny the experiences of others, if they double down on using language for other folk that other beings have said makes them uncomfortable, it's time for a moderator to step in.
And that's what I'm saying to you or to anyone else reading this. If you do see exclusive language being pushed on to others, flag it, because it has no place in any community on blahaj.zone.
Doubt...
Different height above the water, different wall above the water, different ledge width above the water, and no source...