I'm sure the audience will find it anyway without spamming the entire Fediverse with your porn preferences. Announce it on your nsfw instance and it will be sufficient.

Edit; oh boy, the gooners sure are taking this personally. Chill nobody is taking your porn away but also nobody cares about your little porn kingdom.

Edit 2; it seems that there has been a cleanup and the admin at that porn instance is working on it too.

Final edit: Now I know what hell it must be like to be a teacher with an unruly crowd of horny teenagers that can't think beyond their genitals. Oh, well.

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[–] 104 points 8 months ago (2 children)

If I interpret this comment and this comment correctly, this may be a feature of PieFed that automatically (or with a checkbox?) announces new communities to this one, so the people who are doing this might not be completely aware that this is what they are doing and might end up not reading this post.

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  • [–] 22 points 8 months ago* (3 children)

    I'm fine with it


    and I think that it improves searchability to have one per community, rather than some bulk post -- but the posts need to be marked NSFW, and some of the announcement posts are not, which means that people who have NSFW stuff blocked are still getting them. I think that that's the real problem.

    My understanding is that this is something of an exceptional situation, as apparently lemmynsfw.com


    the biggest NSFW community host on the Threadiverse


    went down and the admin was supposed to be away for some months, so it's not coming back up in at least the near future, and so it sounds like people are setting up alternatives on other instances.

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    I think it is too reductive that NSFW means porn. It could be nudity in arts or otherwise graphic topics or imagery that you don't want to engage with in every situation. I follow several arts communities that frequently have NSFW post without them being pornographic or even sexual but flagged because some people browse social media where such still would be frowned upon. I think the Fediverse would benefit from having multiple flags for porn, nudity, gore, common triggers and so on instead of just one

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Ah, so your porn is fine and everyone outside your kinks is a perverted freak who should be ashamed of themselves? Eat a dildo, hypocrite wanker.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 8 months ago

    What on earth are you on about?

    My dude, do you believe all imagery that might be sensitive to pop up in, say, a job setting is porn? Or do you mean that in your mind there is only porn or not porn and anybody not embracing all the porn everywhere all the time is a hypocrite? And finally, do you think all nudity or other explicit imagery or imagery that could be wise to flag as a NSFW or a some sort of trigger warning is for the purpose of arousal?

    And hey, that entire shaming thing is all in your own head. Maybe you should ask yourself where it came from and why it made you so angry. Because I really don't care what kinks you have. You do you and that goes for everybody. Just respect each other. Is that shaming? Maybe if your kink is a persecution fetish and you are desperate for some attention.

    This topic was about the flood of NSFW materials scrolling across the screen entirely unmoderated. I don't know why you guys find it so triggering.

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  • [–] 34 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I was slightly critical of this post and tone, buuuut after checking all the recent posts...it is quite excessive.

    I think the general post about the new instance is perfect, and maybe including a link to a nsfw specific 'new communities' sub that's part of the new instance.

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  • [–] 39 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Why not just tag the posts NSFW and let users filter out NSFW posts if they don’t want to see them?

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    [–] 38 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Maybe 1 post for all of them together would've be sufficient lol

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  • [–] 76 points 8 months ago (24 children)

    ...why are they any different than any other community you don't care about? There aren't pictures included in the announcements, and you can easily scroll past the post.

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  • [+] [S] -7 points 8 months ago (21 children)

    Because for normal people there is a subtle difference scrolling past single announcements for communities about gardening and games vs gaping assholes and huge dicks and especially when you get tens of the latter in sequence.

    Not everybody is a porn brain gooner.

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  • [–] 23 points 8 months ago (11 children)

    Sorry, I forgot "normal people" are afraid of being reminded that porn exists somewhere else on the internet 🙄 nobody's forcing you to visit the subs.

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  • [+] [S] -23 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (10 children)

    Dude, everybody knows and nobody cares. The problem here isn't that porn exists but that it is an annoyance with spam with explicit terminology. Can you let go of your dick and scratch your head long enough to figure that one out?

    Here is counter example for you. What about, in the middle of your special times session, a barrage of political discussion, news reports, Gaza footage, imagery of children starving, oceans dying because of pollution, and just when you are about to shoot your special milk, your porn content is replaced with grandmas playing Christmas plays.

    I'd imagine this be a slight annoyance of yours, though manageable. Would it mean that you deny any of mentioned above to exist or that they scare you? Or would you think that everything has it's time and place and this is your porn place where those do not belong?

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  • [–] 19 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Here is counter example for you. What about, in the middle of your special times session, a barrage of political discussion, news reports, Gaza footage, imagery of children starving, oceans dying because of pollution, and just when you are about to shoot your special milk, your porn content is replaced with grandmas playing Christmas plays.

    I would scroll past it... literally the exact same way I interact with all of the content here that I'm not interested in.

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  • [+] [S] -8 points 8 months ago

    I would just...

    It's funny and sad that I was hoping this simple analogy would penetrate through the horny and make it relatable, but I knew this would be the exact response from at least one person thinking they are really clever. And hey, presto! Not a problem for you, not a problem for anyone!

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  • [–] 13 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Bro your analogy is crap. These announcements are sparse and aren't as numerous as political content. You can literally scroll past one of these announcements and not have to see another for a day or two. Stop complaining and touch some grass

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  • [+] [S] -12 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Bro you obviously weren't there before the mods cleaned up and there were batches of tens of porn communities at the time and no sign of anything stopping soon.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Here is counter example for you. What about, in the middle of your special times session, a barrage of political discussion, news reports, Gaza footage, imagery of children starving, oceans dying because of pollution, and just when you are about to shoot your special milk, your porn content is replaced with grandmas playing Christmas plays.

    Literally my Reddit feed.

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  • [–] [S] -5 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    My dude is so close to getting the point while bandwagoning about Reddit. Come on my dude! You can figure it out! I believe in you!

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago

    What am I supposed to get? That the reddit feed that I created by subscribing to shit was exactly what you described, and I could fix it at any time if I wanted, much like you can here? I didn't even state an opinion about your bitching. Though, now I will after reading all your comments being a condescending fuckhead. It's stupid. The sub is for posting new communities, it doesn't stipulate they be SFW. In fact it says that if the content is not rule breaking and you don't like it you should just not engage. Not create an entirely separate post to complain. Go touch grass.

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    Oh no...did your poor special eyes have to witness the words gaping asshole? You going to recover from that one?

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  • [+] [S] -12 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Go talk about gaping assholes with your mum for reference. Maybe she's into it, I don't know. But if that is a normal convo in your family, well... I have some bad news for you.

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  • [–] 15 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    So you're ready to start censoring the fediverse because you're too immature to handle big boy words?

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  • [+] [S] -15 points 8 months ago

    So when people are talking about the state of the world and censorship you think it is about not having porn exactly everywhere? Dude, let some blood back into your big boy brain once in a while.

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  • [–] 6 points 8 months ago

    I think it'll only be a problem for a week anyhow.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    None of the images from these new subs are loading for me so it's double-pointless!

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

    You might try changing the sort or filter to new or hot. Mine was defaulted to active I think, and no posts loaded until I adjusted sorting.

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  • [–] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    Crazy that this is controversial even though those 26 posts from yesterday were all heavily downvoted. Maybe commenters aren't representative

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    Possibly not, but I’ve seen a few posts around wondering why there isn’t a lot of porn on the Fediverse so there must be some interest.

    Gotta admit after seeing those comments then seeing the downvotes a couple weeks later, I had a chuckle.

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  • [–] 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    whats the point of this community if not to announce new communites? I don't see anything in the right side bar about it. I would think you would bring it up with the mods to put a rule in and maybe change the name to new puritan compliant communities.

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  • [–] [S] -3 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I'm not sure what to call this clutching of pearls about porn but I'm pretty sure necklace is terminology that would be fitting both as reference and kink.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    yeah its like a get if there is a bunch but is it any different that a sudden surge of gaming groups and are they going to have an issue if some out group has a bunch of communities come up in a short amount of time.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I checked quickly and I agree but the way you say it is clearly an issue to me. You seem really judging + you fall into every ragebait... nevermind I hope you will be heard 'cause it's boring yeah.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 8 months ago

    It seems the mods have done some cleaning and that the sysop at that porn instance is aware and working on it too.

    In the comments here I'm amusing myself in banter with what I hope are teenage boys rushed by their hormones but I fear are middle aged men whipped by their demons.

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  • [–] 7 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    oh god! why did you tell me! I can't control myself anymore! I'm on a train right now!

    1000003089

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  • [+] [S] -10 points 8 months ago* (4 children)

    Dear diary. Today I was utterly destroyed by a horny teenager with a clever and super original copy pasta they had gotten from some of the thousand of times it had been posted before, though each and every time then with some effort to be funny. I spent much many time worrying how much emotional distress I had caused this poor darling by suggesting that porn doesn't have to be everywhere and all the time. I can only hope they can resume their daily wank routine and recover.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago (3 children)

    it's funny you think I'm a teen.

    I'm probably older than you 🤣

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  • [–] 5 points 8 months ago

    But where my big mommy milkers at

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    [–] 3 points 8 months ago

    An upside of the porn spam is that it linked me to what new instance to block before it became an issue. I don't like blurring nsfw by default for artistic nudity or non-porn nsfw content, but I also don't like my global feed to be half porn, so I find blocking the instance to be a good enough solution.

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago (4 children)

    Does FediNSFW have an equivalent community? It does kinda make sense to at least temporarily block these posts, and maybe sticky a link there instead.

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    Yeah, exactly.

    Places on the internet that allow porn have a way of becoming all porn, and that's what seems to be happening here.

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago

    sybau lil broski🙏

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  • [–] 2 points 8 months ago* (3 children)

    There's been a couple different accounts that do it, just block the account the first one time you see it, because they'll keep doing it till they're banned then make a new account.

    Most likely its just one person who likes putting NSFW places it's not meant to be, which is why they were/are using porn pics as thumbnails so they show up on /all

    I just blocked the entire domain honestly, it's what you need to do if you really want to prevent it.

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  • [–] [S] -4 points 8 months ago (2 children)

    That is true. For some reason it dropped out of my mind to block the entire domain, despite being a power user.

    Still, I don't think it needs to be standard procedure to announce every fringe porn community. As stated above, the audience will find it. And it is unnecessary for new people to the Fediverse getting the impression that this is what it is all about.

    I suggest a live in peace treaty with porn instances. Do your thing, I really don't care. Let people subscribe to whatever communities where they are federated. Again, I really do not care. But please block the instances dedicated to porn from posting anywhere else. There is really no benefit to it except the weirdos that not separate their porn addiction from regular social context.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Still, I don’t think it needs to be standard procedure to announce every fringe porn community. As stated above, the audience will find it. And it is unnecessary for new people to the Fediverse getting the impression that this is what it is all about.

    I mean, to be honest if you're trying to get that message to users of the porn instance, I never quite understood why you're saying it here where there's already a problem with spam about and none of them will even fucking see it...

    And why you wouldn't make this post over there where they'd see it.

    But we all have different thresholds before we reach for that block button I guess. I'll keep being proactive about not seeing stuff I don't want to.

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  • [+] [S] -6 points 8 months ago

    I don't have an account there and I have no interest in arguing with people that live with porn 24/7 why the rest of us aren't prudes for wanting to be able to scroll through social media without being bombarded with porn. Again, I don't mind porn, but it doesn't have to be everywhere and all the time.

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    Gets more Cringe with Every edit.

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  • [–] 1 point 8 months ago

    thanks, i'm going to reply with a screenshot of this thread anytime anyone asks me what's going on over on lemmy

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  • [–] -1 points 8 months ago

    https://youtu.be/j6eFNRKEROw

    Why don’t you showcase and amplify uses of the Fediverse that you find novel and compelling even louder and drown the other announcements out?

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  • [–] 0 points 8 months ago

    Especially if you/they can't fix the "are you 18" bug. I click yes, it just reloads the prompt. So you're basically just wasting our time. (I think you have to be a member of that instance to make it go away? Just guessing here.)

    As someone who browses /all, I have no problem viewing the image/link if you post from the community, but posting the community itself, on that instance, isn't helping anybody. Maybe just post the instance once a day and list the new communities it has? But posting each new community isn't really doing anything.

    I'm all for people posting communities here, but if there's nothing in the community/I can't see it, my time's been wasted and I'm gonna drop the rare downvote.

    As for porn, I don't much care either way, but I'd like to see some more female-friendly porn. Not because I'm female (I'm not; cis/het male here), but because the dehumanising and objectification hasn't been "hot" for me for decades. If it ever was. At least show the gal getting something out of it.

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