[–] 1 point 1 month ago

My plush toys. I talk to them. I cuddle them. I have a spreadsheet with all information about them that I make up to create stories (name, gender, family, close friends, disabilities, personnality…).

Some are recent but some have more than 20 years.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Njalla. I switched to that after Mullvad was called out. I asked a refund which they got me. I compared some VPNs and no other seemed to fit. I miss some Mullvad stuff but at least they aren't fascists.

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  • [–] 35 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Yep. There's a general confusion between gender identity and gender expression, that's why you "expect" non-binary to look androgynous. But indeed, a nonbinary can have a cisman-passing or a ciswoman-passing. I am non-binary and I "look like a man" and it causes me to be insulted or mocked when I go out with makeup or wearing a skirt.

    But yeah basically all you need to understand is that gender identity does not have to match a gender expression.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    In the past year, I've donated to Moodist (one shot, maybe it was the year before though. Not sure.), Monocles (one shot) Zen Browser (monthly). I also donate each end of year to various association for around 300€ : against violence to women (to shelter them), for animals (antispecieist associations), anti-advertising, LGBTQ+ associations and human right associations. These are mostly french associations except "La Ligue des Droits de l'Homme" I think.

    I donate to homeless people too, though I do it less recently because I try to think more about my future... and I watch free roller derby games 3 times a year in my city. It is free but they take money if we want, so I give a little (like most people I believe).

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Specieism. Although, living a fully antispecieist life is only possible since a short time (being vegan was not possible before). But it is not normal now that it is possible for animals well-being first, for fighting starvation and for the planet.

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  • [–] 9 points 8 months ago (1 child)

    I checked quickly and I agree but the way you say it is clearly an issue to me. You seem really judging + you fall into every ragebait... nevermind I hope you will be heard 'cause it's boring yeah.

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago

    I love it because I bought everything I need to feel good in my office : a dock to switch easily between work and personal computers, a standup desk, many things to reduce back, neck and shoulder pain too. I have a wall painted that I can look at when I need to have a break. I don't have transport, so I wake up 15mn before work starts. There is no noise. When I feel I can work less without feeling tracked : as long as I get my work done in time, there's no issue. I can take breaks to do some house-related tasks (tho I don't take breaks lately, but I could do it).

    I could not go back to any job requiring me to go to the office.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    I don't personnally ask people at dinner but I do it outside when I go to rally and do public actions. Any problem with protests, standup actions and democracy? 🤔

    PS: most of the time others do not hesitate, at dinner, to comment what I eat tho. But I have a feeling you feel bad about being part of mass murder and torture of sentient beings, don't you?

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  • [–] -1 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    You don't cover your mouth with your hand, I thought since Covid crisis it was common knowledge.

    Also, commenting food choices is political. Why can't I comment food of speceists eating animals or animals derivated products in order to understand what allows them to eat such food and how is it ethical at all? 🤔

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    J'ai regardé la location d'un garage mais ça m'a l'air un peu nul. Mon objectif c'est de faire grossir mon capital pour plus tard (10 ans minimum/optimiste, 25 ans sinon).

    J'investis déjà en bourse via un PEA et en crypto. Je me disais que j'allais juste couper cette somme et mettre 2000€ dans la crypto d'un coup et les 6000€ restants en DCA sur mon PEA.

    Ça vous semble correct ? Vous voyez d'autres possibilités ?

     

    J'ai vu un commentaire sur Lemmy disant qu'il n'y a rien à voir comme contenu sur Peertube. Je suis plutôt d'accord. À part quelques vidéos destinées à des tech, des vieilles vidéos politiques dans des qualités pas ouf, il n'y a pas grand chose à voir. Mais je me suis demandé-e : qu'est-ce que les utilisateur-rices souhaiteraient y voir ? Des let's play de jeux vidéo ? Des stream de programmation ? Des dégustations ? Des "j'ai acheté ces objets des pubs TikTok" ?

    Alors, je vous le demande, que voudriez-vous voir sur Peertube ?

    Edit: je parle bien de type de contenu et non de chaînes en particulier qui pourraient être mirrorées (ou transférées, soyons rêveur-euses) sur Peertube.

     

    It's been a while since I noticed that but I can't find the reason. I selfhost :

    • a linkding with docker
    • a writefreely
    • a bludit blog
    • a CalDav (radicale)

    There is a syncthing running for backups done with borg at night (automated with a crontab).

    When I htop, I don't see anything to hint me to what is causing the heating.

    Any ideas of what I could do to investigate that?

    Thanks a lot.

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