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i met my husband on grindr, 14y together, it's possible, keep believing <3
Grindr has been around 14 years? Weird way to feel old.
Tinder (do the kids even use this anymore) is from around the early 2010s
"online dating" for me still makes me primarily think of match.com and okcupid, lol
Huh, my experience has been mostly unsolicited dick picks from sentient thumbs that appear to be other peoples' husbands.
grindr is not the place to find a long term relationship
You’d be surprised… I currently have two LTRs that started as Grindr hookups…
Same here! Found a couple really great people on Grindr I'm happily still with a few years later. Met a bandmate there too, lol
How old are you? Or is your definition of an "LTR" like 3 years?
i think most people would agree that 3 years is a long term relationship
Really? Maybe I'm just weird about intimacy or something but my shortest relationship that wasn't a literal joke was like 3 years, most being 4. If people are frequently under that then I wonder why they're diving into relationships they don't have high confidence in... Do people count grindr hookups as relationship?.. I guess I've never been one for dating so...
I was married for 3 years. Felt like a thousand tho. How is a grind hookup equivalent in any way to a 3y relationship?
No, I don’t count hookups as relationships, especially not long term relationships. But when they turn into significantly more than that, I do. I don’t need to defend my relationships though.
My definition is relationships I’ve been in for a good while that I intend to stay in. Why the personal attacks though? Seems pretty rude for no reason.
Neither is the hospital
What about the guy who shat in that dudes mouth? Dreams can come true...
I was looking for that post the other day cause I was curious if he went through with it, and it looks like it got deleted.
You could say the same thing about Tinder, and I've been married for over 8 years because of it.
So... How long term are we talking? "Til death do us part" like, two hours?
You gotta shoot your shot though.
SHOT THROUGH THE HEART!
... and you're to blame...
Darling, you give love...
A BAD NAME!
guitar sting
This is light years beyond the level of multitasking I aspire to on my best days, so I really have to give my respect.
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