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[–] 36 points 8 months ago (8 children)

You’d be surprised… I currently have two LTRs that started as Grindr hookups…

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  • [–] 3 points 8 months ago* (1 child)

    Same here! Found a couple really great people on Grindr I'm happily still with a few years later. Met a bandmate there too, lol

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  • [–] 4 points 8 months ago

    Yep, I’ve found it really comes down to setting the right intentions up front, and being selective in who you play with. My goal was never to be on Grindr forever, but that’s where I had to go to meet fun kinky trans people in my area.

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  • [+] -10 points 8 months ago (5 children)

    How old are you? Or is your definition of an "LTR" like 3 years?

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  • [–] 73 points 8 months ago (3 children)

    i think most people would agree that 3 years is a long term relationship

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  • [+] -13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

    Really? Maybe I'm just weird about intimacy or something but my shortest relationship that wasn't a literal joke was like 3 years, most being 4. If people are frequently under that then I wonder why they're diving into relationships they don't have high confidence in... Do people count grindr hookups as relationship?.. I guess I've never been one for dating so...

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