In college I arranged a co-op at IBM. They made me take a drug test which I failed (for marijuana). A person from IBM's HR called me and said literally "you need to clean up your act" and they brought me in to do the co-op anyway. I have no idea what the fuck that was all about.

I also got pulled over for speeding one time and the cop smelled the joint I had been smoking. Luckily he let me go with just a speeding ticket, but he made a point of scolding me -- not for driving while high but because I was 49 at the time. He told me it was time for me to grow up. I was seriously enraged by that but of course I kept it to myself.

Well why do you have a dram every night then

As a dumbass kid, I lit my grandmas oxygen tube on fire. It was wild; oxidizers are no joke.

Oxygen isn't flammable.

It just helps other things become ashes faster.

Meh. Not enough fuel to O2 to cause any real issue even if the tank was purging for hours in a mostly closed space.

Appreciate the concern. But, no, I'll pass. I honestly believe the last couple times of being open and honest only got me worse service. So until I start having bad experiences from not saying anything, that'll be my policy.

If they're abusing drugs aren't the drugs the victims, not them?

Holy shit... I thought that was hair until I read your comment and zoomed in. Regardless, I agree.

Because he's not living his life to the fullest like her.

Try some drugs, then see if it makes sense to ask that question.