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[–] 32 points 10 months ago (1 child)

Yeah no thanks. Cash doesn't expire, it also doesn't make me use a split payment because all of my gift cards have some but not enough, I'll just put it with the rest of my cash.

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  • [+] 30 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (9 children)
  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (8 children)

    i absolutely get the underlying intention, but the bad feeling of having missed the deadline and ending up with a voided present is just awful

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  • [–] 18 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    Most gift cards I know of have no expiration dates. Gift certificates, something from a more barbaric age, on the other hand...

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    No expiration date? In which country? I'm in Australia, I've worked in a couple retail stores and it's usually a 3 year expiry for gift cards. You also have the generic visa gift cards you can purchase at supermarkets, same 3 years.

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  • [–] 10 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah. That used to be the case in the US, but it’s illegal now.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Largely because, instead of expiring,after a year or so the card would charge a monthly maintenance fee until it was empty. This was deemed unreasonable and declared problematic.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    Now that's something I've never seen before. I agree, it is absolutely unreasonable. I find it interesting that instead of just removing the maintenance fee you instead remove the expiry as well as the fee. I don't understand the logic but, it is what it is I guess

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  • [–] 20 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Am I the only one who genuinely just wants good food and good company? Like, I have expensive wants, and cheap needs, I don't like just getting money cause it'll just go towards my cheap needs, my boss gave us a $50 gift card and I just used it on groceries. If I get anything, I would rather it be handmade, but good company is more than enough for me

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  • [–] 72 points 10 months ago (22 children)

    gift cards suck. don't decide for me where to spend the money, don't give me something that will eventually become invalid if i forget to use it (i probably will). they're such a scam.

    i pledged years ago to never buy those again. always cash instead, or wire transfer money.

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  • [–] 25 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Nice socks are an underrated gift.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Emphasis on nice. I would much rather receive a single pair of nice merino wool socks or something with a neat design than a 10 pack of Walmart white crew socks.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Depends, are they thigh highs :3

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  • [–] 13 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    I... what? This is so incredibly far from where I stand on the matter that I can't relate at all. Give me the gift card, please. I've never received a gift card that I didn't use within a week.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    Are you spending them on things you were already going to buy, or are you buying frivolous stuff?

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Would you rather receive $100 worth of laundry detergent or a $100 gift card at the Lego Store (or whatever your favorite frivolous store is)?

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  • [–] 12 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    I actually think gift cards can be just fine.

    Someone just moved and need to get furniture? I don't want to decide what lamp you get yourself. Giftcard!

    Or by using my self as an example; I never buy my self fancy chocolates, incense, scented candles or such, but I like having them. If I got a gift card for a store of that kind I would be forced to spend it there and thereby forced to make my self happy.

    Of course a gift card at Amazon or whatever would not be very fun. There is zero thought behind that.

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    why limit what someone can buy. Just give them cash.

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    Because this is part of gift? "Don't give me present, cash will do. No, I don't want any proof you care, just money, please."

    Damn ya all soulless

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    giftcards are a more controlling form of cash. It is not more thoughtful. Genuinely a shittier gift where you lock down where someone can spend their money.

    When you can give a real gift to someone, do that. When the choice is between cash or a gift card, then never choose a gift card.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago

    By that logic, giving someone a physical thing is the most controlling. @Hanke made the example of getting a gift card for a lamp or furniture store instead of picking a lamp. Isn't the card less controlling in that vein?

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  • [–] 8 points 10 months ago*

    People wrote around what it is. It's a gift. I can get you a new lamp after hearing you need one that you won't like or I can find a close, fancy shop with lamps, get gift card and give it to you.

    Cash always has more important things to get spent on. Gift card are just this - gifts. Shitty ones, like for whole mall, are sad. Specific ones are great, they give you choice while clearly showing thought and care.

    Hell. Both cash and non-specific gift cards aren't even gifts imo, there's no care nor thought behind them.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    If it's a gift (rather than helping me out because I'm struggling to pay my bills), I'd rather have a gift card. Give me cash and it'll just merge with the rest of my money and go towards bills. Give me a gift card and I'll spend it on actual treats.

    A previous employer gave me over £100 in Love2Shop gift cards (generic high street gift card) and I used them to buy a ton of art supplies that I wouldn't have bought if I'd just been given cash (which probably would have just gone straight into my savings).

    That reminds me, my last employer gave me £150 in cash when he had to make me redundant and it's still gathering dust as an emergency cash fund. So yeah, if he gave me a gift card, I'd have had to use it to buy myself something.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    Gift cards are a raw cash bump for stores perpetrated by idiots upon society. I’m rarely preachy irl, but gift cards always set me off. You’re just giving stores money for no reason. Why are you donating to Amazon? Bestbuy doesn’t need your money. I don’t even like massages.

    You know what’s better than a gift card? Cash or making plans to just veg out for a couple of hours together. I will gut you like a fucking fish if you hand me a gift card. I will end your bloodline if you force me to call a phone line and register an account to access fucking money as a gift. You’ve inconvenienced us both. Just place the bills in an envelope and draw a smiley face on the front before I have to invent a hate crime

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago*

    Edit: Per another comment, this seems to differ by country, and might be an impossible "win" for the US, where I haven't seen expiring ones in ages.

    When is the last time you've used a gift card? I haven't had to fuck with making an account for one in over a decade. I'm also seeing other people in the comments talk about expiration, which is another thing I haven't had any of them due in quite a number of years (pretty sure some laws changed so they can't anymore).

    I'd totally prefer cash, but it's not some horrible affront to the natural order of things anymore.

    Outside of those psuedo-debit card monstrosities. I still see those with extra fees, registration, and expiration (technically maintenance fees down to a zero balance). Those are extra dumb as fuck. Just give me the cash.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago

    A bit extreme, but true. I fucking hate gift cards. 'oh but this one is branded visa and you can use it anywhere' well I want to deposit it in my bank account but they won't let me do that directly noooo so I have to send you the money you just gave me in this moronic format through fucking PayPal which will take a 3% cut so that you can send it back to me with less value so I can finally transfer it to my bank account. Plus whatever shitty fee that you paid to get this garbage piece of plastic.

    It took years of me saying 'just CASH' to family members, and eventually they started giving my gift cards, to which I recited a variation of this message, and the last few years they fiiiiiiinally have been just writing me checks.

    It took like 15 years but I get all my gift, you save 'card fees', no bullshit middle-man, everyone wins.

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  • [–] 34 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    I often prefer a well thought out gift card over money. It forces me to use that money on something. If I get cash then it just goes into my bank and becomes one with my spending and bills money. Yes, cash is the better form of money, but if you want me to actually spend the money on something, then a gift card is the way to go.

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  • [–] 20 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    The compromise is to do cash that's earmarked for something. My family will give me an envelope and say "this is for bitcoins" or "reddit gold". And then I tell them "okay..." And then just buy whatever I want.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    Meanwhile my relatives just give 紅包 (Red Envelope)

    But then the receipient also give them the red envelope in the same amount...

    so what the fuck was the point lmao 🤣

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    I imagine that this works out to give typically younger people more money, so the point is in pretending that this isn't what the scheme is.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago

    More like: Your aunt give you and your brother red envelopes that adds to total of $100, then your mom gives the aunts kids red envelopes that add up to $100.

    So $100 went to kids on both sides.

    Then I go home and mom tells me: "Hey 乖仔 (my sweet lovely son) give me the money 我幫你保管 (I'll safeguard it for you, "for college"!) 🤗"

    So like... wtf lmao

    Idk what happens on the other side tho... my cousins have Wiis in their house and Nintendo DS, I never had those as a kid. :(

    God damn privilaged af, the counsins won the US-Born Birthright Citizenship + Rich Parents lottery, I hate them. (They hated me first, they excluded me because I didn't know English initially)

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago

    Gift cards are just the dumb version of gifting someone money though.

    Giftcards trade a shit ton of convenience and usability for the appearance (only in the mind of the gifter) of having put any amount of thought into it.

    Skip the middle men fees and inconveniences and just gift people wads of cash or electronically.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Giving you money would be thoughtful. Involving a company is thoughtless and without reason.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago*

    A gift card can definitely be thoughtful, especially if it's to a place that aligns with their hobby.

    Like, I'm into hiking and backpacking, and I'm very particular about my gear. I don't really want someone to waste their money getting me something for my hobby that's A) junk gear because they don't know it's junk (happens a lot with knives), B) something I already have, or C) something that I have no use for. I don't expect anyone to actually keep up with what gear I already have, even my wife.

    With an REI gift card I can pick out something I might be hesitant to splurge on which will actually benefit me. Plus, I don't have to pretend to be excited about a present that will sit on a shelf for a year before going to Goodwill.

    With cash, the money is going to go towards paying bills, which definitely isn't the intention of the gift.

    The person getting the gift card has to put thought into where to get it from; cash is way more thoughtless.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    Gift cards are a scam, especially the ones that expire. These companies make shit ton of money from gift cards that never get used. Not to mention the free interest they make on that money.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    arent gifts supposed to be something someone wouldnt normally buy but would enjoy?

    unless they have shown interest in getting money as gifts, it feels like the most boring gift

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    If they thought I could use money, they should have just given me money so I can decide where to spend it.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    I don't like gift cards or money because it tends to end up being circular - so not a gift at all, just $50 that keep making the rounds.

    The group might as well spend that money on a wandering birthday scepter. Much better and you can hit people with it.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    Two people in my family regularly get gift cards. One due to being in Panama and the other is my grandpa, for gas. The closest the rest get is I'll take nephew and nieces to the book store and let them load down a bit after Xmas, which is really more an excuse to pal around.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago

    I love it when people think of money when they think of a present for me.

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  • [–] 1 point 10 months ago

    Give them an envelope full of cash with a note that says the utility is greatest when the receiver rather than The Giver decides where the money is spent

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    good grief. we have lost the basic decency of punctuation.

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