Remembering to look for and ignore folks with that telltale indicator has made the fediverse so much more enjoyable.

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[–] 116 points 10 months ago (51 children)

You know what's funny is .ml was one of the first instances I signed up for. I thought it stood for machine learning or something to do with programming.

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  • [–] 56 points 10 months ago (21 children)

    I knew it was a leftist instance. I went into it (naively) excited to engage with a more thoughtful leftist internet space, considering it was a bunch of reddit exiles who were upset about heavy handed Reddit censorship. I was quite disappointed to learn quickly that it was just more of the same tankie brain rot, with more of the same tankie censorship you can find in a thousand different tedious places.

    Even then I stuck with it for a bit. And then I learned that the head admin was potentially the most fragile person on the Internet, who literally will not post outside his own instance because he cannot handle any internet where he does not have (what he believes to be) a "win argument" ban button. It is literally so cringe, I cannot stand to be associated with it, and I don't understand how other people tolerate being associated with his antics.

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  • [–] 19 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    MLs are essentially incapable of arguing in good faith. You know how Christians quote to bible to "prove" their religion is true? MLs are the political version of that.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago

    I opened a thread just yesterday and the top comment was "I recommend you read this article if you want to know what Noam Chomsky is really like". It was upvoted. I like to learn things, and don't really listen to a lot of Chomsky. So I started reading.

    It was the most uneducated, biased, ragebait crap I'd ever seen posted to the fediverse. I started mentally building my reply about how "people are saying" is the worst kind of fallacy, and providing a quote from someone else with a different opinion doesn't count as opposing evidence. I actually got a little upset, disillusioned even, wondering how anyone could fall for this idiotic "argument". I didn't agree or disagree with any point, but it was just so poorly made.

    I went to reply, thinking I should provide some warning, then I noticed I was in an ml community. I'm mobile, so it sometimes doesn't show the community until I've clicked (I know I can change that in the settings). I considered posting anyway, but it felt so fruitless. It feels like they're either sheep or assets. I moved on. I feel better getting to let it out here instead.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    Honestly I will half agree with you. Really we should be providing primary sources if we want to prove anything.

    Not because I don't believe socialist news sources are inaccurate it's just that liberals are not going to believe it.

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago

    As someone leaning ML, this makes me feel like I haven't argued with my own side in a while..... Or I am less ML than I think I am.....

    I have an ML account and usually just jump back and forth between .world local posts and .ml local posts and I swear I'm not seeing all this hostility people talk about anywhere

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago (13 children)

    excited to engage with a more thoughtful leftist internet space

    considering it was a bunch of reddit exiles who were upset about heavy handed Reddit censorship

    Lmfao. What's leftism to you?

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  • [–] -2 points 10 months ago (12 children)

    Tankies are lefties alright. Just braindead ones

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    What do you consider a non braindead leftist?

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    As long as you avoid campism and are ready to criticize the USSR and Maoist China for what they did wrong you're not braindead

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  • [–] -5 points 10 months ago (7 children)

    Braindead is when you deviate one millimeter from western capitalist state propaganda

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  • [–] 14 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    You can deviate without lapping up Kremlin propaganda

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  • [–] 8 points 10 months ago (5 children)

    Five communists got enjailed in Ufa last week for reading Lenin. Being pro-USSR and anti-USA+EU doesnt equate with being pro-Russian Republic

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    You were defending the Russian republic just two days ago need i remind you

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    To you, exposing and opposing blatant disinformation about fascism in the west is defending the Russian Republic. To me, it isn't.

    By propagating the conspiracy theory that the far right problem in the west stems from Russia, you're not just being western supremacist (as in "our problems must always be caused by some foreign nation"), you're also obfuscating the very real material reasons why Europe and the US have a fascist problem, and that's my issue with you. You're whitewashing fascism by making up that "the problem with fascism is that it comes from outside".

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  • [–] -3 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    By propagating the conspiracy theory that the far right problem in the west stems from Russia

    This is what happens when you don't have proper training in logical argumentation. If you can find me a single instance where i say that fascism is exclusively coming from Russia I'll concede this argument to you.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago

    ... we don't?

    I literally can't do what the meme suggests, because I've already blocked all users from that instance automatically.

    You might try slrpnk.net for what you were looking for. I guess you know that by now, but in case anyone else is reading and thinking similarly.

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  • [–] 18 points 10 months ago (20 children)
  • [–] 68 points 10 months ago (12 children)

    Technically it is the top-level domain name for Mali.

    I’m fairly certain that the Lemmy devs chose it because of their two favorite socialists/communists: Marx and Lenin. But I can’t find a reference to that right now.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    Nah, they chose it because the ccTLD along with few others had been free for a long time. I was there when lemmy was just a few months old.

    Someone made up these reference about marx/lenin claim and was perfect for wankies to circle jerk and the tankies didn't refute it or went along with it, so it stuck.

    Before that the free domains were mostly used for spam/phishing (because it was free and being similar to .mil), some called it machine learning, my links, my library and so on. US military sent lots of emails to this cctld because of unchecked typo.

    Except lemmy (& maybe reddit? to detract people from the fediverse), the .ml domain is not considered marxlenin anywhere else.

    https://dev.to/bauripalash/lets-get-your-own-free-domain-5f16

    https://www.reddit.com/r/selfhosted/comments/15vrq8o/now_with_freenom_closed_is_there_any_other_way_to/

    https://www.theregister.com/2023/07/18/us_military_mali_email_typos/

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  • [–] 38 points 10 months ago (10 children)

    Marx was a socialist political philosopher, that helped define the social end goal of communism. Lenin was a militant revolutionary that thought he could ignore Marx's slow natural social evolution to communism. And force it under authoritarian boot heel. He was aspirationally communist at best, but not communist. His ideology has failed to achieve it everywhere it was tried. Generally, creating a new class of Petit Bourgeoisie or even collapsing into open fascism.

    Other than that you are correct. Lemmy.ml hexbear.ml and lemmygrad.ml all chose the Mali TLD because of the abbreviation.

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  • [–] 12 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Just like .TV domain is actually Tuvalu but Twitch and other livestreaming sites use it as abbreviation. These countries actually make a lot of money from selling top level domains like that.

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago

    Lenin was a militant revolutionary that thought he could ignore Marx's slow natural social evolution to communism

    Huh, I never thought I'd encounter an actual Menshevik on Lemmy.

    Please tell me through materialist historical analysis: without a strong vanguard party pushing for rapid collectivization in 1929 in pursuit of industrialization, and the rapid industrialization (15% GDP growth per year) between 1929 and 1941, what would have happened to all peoples standing between Berlin and the Urals?

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    Have you read either Marx or Lenin?

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  • [–] 2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    A more important question is, did you think critically about what you read. And compare it to actually historical outcomes. Not just take it as dogma. Why do you think the Soviet people ultimately rejected the party Etc. At least symbolically. Why did former vassal States often demolish former Soviet monuments. Did they not read enough Lenin. Or had they lived it.

    Unlike the states built around Lenin's ideology. I believe people should absolutely be allowed to read about opposed ideologies and even organize around them. If they reject you, generally that means you aren't filling their needs or are being a net burden. Though I also generally reject the idea of, or need for the state entirely. Far too much concentration and corruption. Whether it's technically left or right.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

    I did think critically about what I read, and it's astounding how many predictions that they made came true. For instance the monopolisation of whole sectors of industries was a really specific prediction to make in Marx' time when nearly every town had their own manufacturers but look at us today with the global food supply controlled by only a handful of corporations.

    And the majority of its citizens did not reject the Soviet Union. It was dissolved against the will of the people. Why do you think the CPRF is the second largest political party still today? Why did other communist parties fare so well in the elections after the dissolution? Why did NATO need to systematically destroy Yugoslavia if the people largely disagreed with the system?

    Also, I'm gonna be very honest with you here, your statements about Marx and Lenin when you clearly didn't read them make you look rather silly. As an example, it is widely accepted that abandonment of vanguardism caused the collapse of the SU. Therefore it was in fact abandonment of Leninism that caused the collapse. Vindicating Marxism-Leninism. If we're talking about comparisons to historical outcomes... And his view on the "free press" still hold up today, in particular when viewed from the side opposing the gaza genocide.

    Leninism is the only noncapitalist ideology actually practiced, so I wouldn't really call it failed. China, Korea, Vietnam, Cuba and Venezuela are the most prominent examples of course.

    I can only recommend, once again, Comrade Cowbees introductory reading list. In particular Marx as viewed by Lenin himself.

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  • [–] 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

    Lenin wasn't trying to erase that transition to communism is gradual, but instead correctly identified that the beginning of that transition is revolution, which Marxists at the time had erased from Marx. Dialectical materialism posits that there are revolutionary leaps after quantitative buildups, the transition to socialism is the beginning of the next long gradual process of achieving communism. He did not "force it under authoritarian boot heel," but instead was the leader of the bolsheviks, a mass party chosen by the working claases.

    Contrary to your position, Marxism-Leninism has successfully established socialism in many countries, and is so widely adopted by leftists partially because of its practical success. It's the western leftists that endlessly move goalposts to invalidate socialism outside the west that results in perpetuation of bourgeois narratives surrounding socialism as it exists in real life.

    Honestly, your appraisal of Lenin and Marx makes it come off as though you haven't actually read either. Have you?

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    because of its practical success

    That's like a doctor saying that shooting a patient in the head was a success because they don't have headaches anymore.

    a mass party chosen by the working claases

    a party that seized control and maintained it's grip on power with violence against the working class

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago

    That’s like a doctor saying that shooting a patient in the head was a success because they don’t have headaches anymore.

    Doubling life expectancies, providing free and high quality healthcare and education, low-cost or free housing, full employment, reaching full literacy, democratizing the economy, defeating the Nazis, and taking a semi-feudal backwater to the pinnacle of scientific and technological development, even reaching space in a few decades, is not "shooting the patient in the head." None of your accusations make any sense.

    a party that seized control and maintained it’s grip on power with violence against the working class

    No? Fascists, capitalists, and landlords are oppressed by socialists, but not the working classes. More fantasy on your part, it's all vibes with you in the face of actual facts.

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  • [–] 6 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    i’m a leftist and have an ml acct. but it’s like there is no engagement or linking or such - i dunno. i’m a newb.

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  • [–] 30 points 10 months ago (3 children)

    You'd be hard pressed to find many on the fediverse that aren't some flavor of leftist.

    But yes. A lot of instances defederated from the .ml ones for the same reasons ml were generally blocked and banned from similar sites in the past. Which ironically led to the start of Lemmy and the link aggregation portion of the fediverse in the first place.

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  • [–] 13 points 10 months ago* (2 children)

    A lot of instances defederated from the .ml ones

    Last time I checked, infosec.pub was the only instance of any nontrivial size (319 users / month) that was defederated from lemmy.ml.

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    There's a push recently on lemmy to make people think that .ml instance is unpopular, it's user wrong and you should leave it or be ostracized.

    This is the nth post about it I've seen in the past few months.

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  • [–] 22 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Solid rule: verify the source before the outrage. Saves your blood pressure and your feed.

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    Honestly these kinds of posts don't bother me. I'm usually on here answering people's tech questions or trying to provide useful resources to people. If they don't see it because they have ml blanket blocked then that's their loss.

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    Yeah, there are plenty people who ended up there early when they're weren't many other options. Or just didn't know. Though it's your loss as well. Cut off from several instances for the behavior of others. It definitely sucks.

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  • [–] 11 points 10 months ago

    Sure, but seeing posts like this encouraging discounting other people based on the instance they signed up on doesn't make me want to switch instances so I can spend more time with them. Posts like these make it harder to care about what I'm missing tbh.

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  • [–] 0 points 10 months ago (6 children)

    I mean, you can say that, but its not really their loss, because you're asking them to accept a lot more than just you.

    It's a package deal, and that package deal includes a boatload of clueless tankies who will happily copypasta the most outlandish ideas from their troves of propaganda to explain why actually brutal dictatorships are model societies for the left to ascribe to.

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  • [–] 7 points 10 months ago* (5 children)

    When I say I don't usually engage with these types of posts, it's because I remember several others like it that I chose to ignore. Checking OPs history, it seems they posted every other one that I remember. I don't count it as a loss at all if people like this make their own decision to block ml because I'd rather not see this kind of drama all the time. It doesn't matter to me if they see it as a loss or a gain, I'm still gonna be here engaging with and helping people who need help in various communities. To me it's not a loss if someone isn't able to receive my help if they decide that it's not worth it to them - that's their decision to make, and I'd rather not worry about people who are going to behave like OP.

    The constant handwringing and wishing about ml users suffering more from being blocked because you don't like certain users honestly reeks of a sore ex who wants to twist the knife. If ml bothers certain users (I'm looking at OP especially) then just block ml and stop posting about it repeatedly (looking at you OP).

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  • [–] -4 points 10 months ago (4 children)

    To me it’s not a loss if someone isn’t able to receive my help if they decide that it’s not worth it to them - that’s their decision to make

    You specifically said

    then that’s their loss.

    though. Like they're missing out.

    The constant handwringing and wishing about ml users suffering more from being blocked because you don’t like certain users

    That seems like you're going out of your way to ascribe malice to people who don't want to be inundated with a certain type of tankie as if their goals are to hurt people as opposed to not be annoyed by their feeds.

    honestly reeks of a sore ex who wants to twist the knife. If ml bothers certain users (I’m looking at OP especially) then just block ml and stop posting about it repeatedly (looking at you OP).

    You can't think of any reasons someone might not want to block but might still complain?

    I mean here you are simultaneously advocating for not throwing out the baby with the bathwater when it comes to ml users, but then in the same breathe, you are saying people should simply block ml if they have complaints.

    It doesn't seem consistent to me.

    More than that, people can choose which instance they want to be on. You could switch to a different instance at any time, and many people have accounts on multiple instances.

    With no public vote scores etc, all you lose is a post history that is spotty anyways due to how many posts get deleted on lemmy.

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  • [–] 5 points 10 months ago* (3 children)

    To me it's not a loss

    I think it's a loss to other people

    These are not mutually exclusive and not contradictory at all

    That seems like you're going out of your way to ascribe malice

    Do you not see the post at the top of this thread??

    You can't think of any reasons someone might not want to block but might still complain?

    Imo this is not complaining, this is shit stirring. This meme isn't even acknowledging that there are multiple types of people on ml, but advocates for treating everyone the same. Do you not see an issue with that?

    I mean here you are simultaneously advocating for not throwing out the baby with the bathwater

    This is your assumption. All I've said here is that I don't care, I'm only commenting because this is the 3rd shit stirring post made by this OP, and I consider it a loss to those who block ml, but not to me. I've glossed over multiple posts like this from OP in the past so I clearly do not care if people view ml like this, it only reinforces the fact that I'm not missing anything by not being able to engage with people who are this immature.

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  • [–] -2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

    These are not mutually exclusive and not contradictory at all

    I mean the first one said its not a loss generally, not specifically but I can accept that you meant it differently than typed.

    Imo this is not complaining, this is shit stirring. This meme isn’t even acknowledging that there are multiple types of people on ml, but advocates for treating everyone the same. Do you not see an issue with that?

    I don't think this has the full context.

    You can't really conveniently sort tankie from non tankie.

    ml is a self choosen label though, so people can choose not to use it.

    This is your assumption.

    How is it an assumption at all? You literally say it again here where you advocate for not treating everyone the same.

    All I’ve said here is that I don’t care

    You've spent multiple comments expressing that lack of care.... which doesn't make it seem like you don't care, but instead makes it seem like this bugs you because you feel its unfair, and you've said as much here.

    it only reinforces the fact that I’m not missing anything by not being able to engage with people who are this immature.

    But you are engaging with them... I am very confused. The people you are seeing the memes of are the people you are engaging with. The others, they probably aren't posting about this and simply have it toggled off.

    Mightn't this be a case of the loud ones being the people who are complaining vs the silent who simply have moved on?

    Anyhow, I just think its impossible to ignore that certain servers obviously follow some cultural trends. Some are even enforced by said servers and its communities. Many really, when you think about it (Its kinda what rules do to some extent).

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  • [–] 4 points 10 months ago* (1 child)

    but I can accept that you meant it differently than typed.

    I did not mean it differently than typed. I said "to me it's not a loss" and I mean that. To me it's not a loss, to them it is.

    ml is a self choosen label though, so people can choose not to use it.

    And people can choose to treat people the same based on that label, and I can choose to think it's immature. And at the same time I can not care if people choose to cut themselves off from ml.

    You literally say it again here where you advocate for not treating everyone the same

    No, I advocate for not dismissing people solely based on their chosen instance without taking into account their actual views. I do not advocate against blocking ml entirely, because I don't view being cut off from people who make those types of assumptions as a loss for me.

    You've spent multiple comments expressing that lack of care.... which doesn't make it seem like you don't care, but instead makes it seem like this bugs you because you feel its unfair, and you've said as much here.

    Only because you and other people have spent multiple comments not understanding me so I'm only repeating myself. I'm only commenting because this is the third shit stirring post by the same user, and I only chimed in to another ml user that I'm not bothered if people decide to block ml because it's a win to me to avoid immature people and in my view a loss to others because I spend most of my time on lemmy giving tech support to others.

    But you are engaging with them... I am very confused

    No, I engaged with someone else on ml, and then you couldn't resist engaging with me. I don't see what's confusing about this. I don't think I'm missing anything by not being able to engage with this post. Yet it's here, so I'm engaging with it. That doesn't mean I value this engagement or would miss it at all. Let me again repeat that my preference is to ignore these types of posts, which is why I refrained from commenting on the other similar posts OP has made in the past. It's kind of silly to assume that engagement means you necessarily value the content.

    Do you similarly think engaging with a racist by arguing with them means you must also value their content or presence? Of course not. Chiming in to say that I would not miss them, but also disagree with their views, is not contradictory.

    Anyhow, I think I'll go back to ignoring these types of posts. I think this kind of blanket assumption about people based on their instance is a net negative to the community. That said, I don't think it's at all inconsistent to both view OPs attitude as immature while simultaneously not caring if they decide to block ml, precisely because being blocked by immature people is not a net negative to me.

    Merry Christmas!

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  • [–] -2 points 10 months ago

    And people can choose to treat people the same based on that label, and I can choose to think it’s immature.

    Sure, but I don't really think you've outlined good reason for feeling so.

    Are you dismissing the complaints about ml wholesale? If not, what of the fact that one cannot practically sift at such a fine grain level as looking at every single user?

    No, I advocate for not dismissing people solely based on their chosen instance without taking into account their actual views. I do not advocate against blocking ml entirely,

    How does the former not inherently functionally include the latter?

    Only because you and other people have spent multiple comments not understanding me so I’m only repeating myself.

    Is it possible that other people feel a legitimate sense of inconsistency in your comments, hence probing for more information? Or that people understand but disagree with some aspects of what you are saying?

    No, I engaged with someone else on ml, and then you couldn’t resist engaging with me.

    I think you've very much so misinterpreted my comment here and have taken a hostile tone due to that. My comment is referring to you engaging with the poster of this content.

    Your wording as if I would have any reason to need to resist engaging is an odd way to portray me as angry for having any questions about what seem to be an inconsistent set of opinions.

    That doesn’t mean I value this engagement or would miss it at all. Let me again repeat that my preference is to ignore these types of posts, which is why I refrained from commenting on the other similar posts OP has made in the past. It’s kind of silly to assume that engagement means you necessarily value the content.

    The misunderstanding here, is that you said you aren't missing anything by not being able to engage. This implies that you couldn't or wouldn't engage, but obviously your presence in this thread made that idea infeasible. That's what my confusion was referring to.

    It was (still is) unclear to me what you meant by that comment when you haven't referred to any actual way that you've been impacted by this, so it appears you are complaining that you don't care about a hypothetical thing that could but hasn't happened seemingly for no reason at all.

    Do you similarly think engaging with a racist by arguing with them means you must also value their content or presence? Of course not.

    This is truly getting ridiculous. Outlandish comparison to bring into this.

    Chiming in to say that I would not miss them, but also disagree with their views, is not contradictory.

    I've never claimed the opposite, and indeed that wasn't the point of that comment.

    I think this kind of blanket assumption about people based on their instance is a net negative to the community. That said, I don’t think it’s at all inconsistent to both view OPs attitude as immature while simultaneously not caring if they decide to block ml, precisely because being blocked by immature people is not a net negative to me.

    Actually in this very last sentence I think its pretty clear there is some contradiction. You say its a net negative, and this implies it matters any amount at all, or I suppose you could also hold the opinion that you don't care at all about the community but then why bother, and obviously just by way of using it you must to some degree.

    It just feels like you are trying to say "I have no dog in this race" to shield your opinion, when you very clearly do, hence debating it and hence the jump to anger present in this comment.

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  • [–] 14 points 10 months ago (2 children)
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    Hue hue hue

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  • [–] 9 points 10 months ago

    For sure! I did that once when I was new here, it went sideways.

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  • [–] 31 points 10 months ago* (4 children)

    Fuck! So .ml is not abbreviation for "Monster Lovers"?

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  • [–] 28 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (6 children)

    idk what the instance fuss is about and i dont care

    edit 8 days later: i get it now. .ml mods can suck my dick

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  • [–] 17 points 10 months ago (4 children)
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    Idgi, what's the deal with .nl?

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