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[–] 65 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Tips in the US must be entirely out of control. In my experience, 10% is for good service, above for rare exceptional and less if you weren't entirely satisfied. Not even printing anything below 16 is insane.

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  • [+] 33 points 1 year ago (10 children)
  • [–] 41 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Oh right i forgot about that. That's insane as well; minimum wage should be… well, minimum, obviously; for everyone.

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  • [+] 34 points 1 year ago (6 children)
  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    But nobody wants to work anymore!!!

    /s

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  • [–] 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Cant wait for this meme to be 20k pixels tall with new screenshots when I die

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    Should be changed to, “Nobody wants to work anymore because the wage isn’t livable anymore”.

    I was hired on my first job at $14/hr as a retail associate back in like 2005! Same job today has the same wage… well $15/hr but still 20 years later… savage! Hmmmm, wondering why no one wants to work, that job can’t even pay the rent of most places in America with all the other costs of living. (Car, insurance, phone, utilities, etc.).

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    Okay, this image would be better if it actually showed whatever article it came from, so we could verify the print and date. These could all be books printed in 2016 for all we know. But like I totally believe it.

    Edit: I have the grammar of a 3rd grader

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago

    I'm not sure it would be better without minimum wage for tipped employees rule. For example the minimum wage in Ontario is $17 and it's the same for servers, but all the restaurants have tip suggestions like: 18%, 20% and 25%

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Idk where you are living but in MN it’s $11.10/hr plus tips. I get paid more because I am an assistant manager as well so $15/hr plus my tips as a server. I make almost 3X more than when I was a teacher working full time and I have half as many hours..

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    20% has actually been the norm for a while. Maybe it was a bit on the upper end a couple decades ago while now it's more default, but I remember my parents tipping 20% for normal service back in the 90's. Of course, with prices soaring tipping is still getting pricier and pricier, but the expected percentage here has been relatively stable.

    The thing that's out of control is where you're expected to tip now. I often see a tip prompt come up at retail stores where the only service the employee provided was ringing up the items I brought. I never tip in those kinds of situations, and I doubt the employee would see any of it even if I did.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago*

    the idea of percentage based tipping is so wild to me, in my mind a tip is only based on the reason i want to tip them.
    If they did an impressive job but just did their job then i'll give them a euro or something, if they had to endure something miserable like cleaning up baby vomit then they get like 10 euro because god knows that's what i'd need to stay on that job.

    Also, importantly, the tip is in cash and goes directly to the person i think deserves it, and i'm going to tell the worker that wink wink nudge nudge if the employer asks then i didn't give them a tip.

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  • [–] 30 points 1 year ago

    Customer pays for product/service, and it's the employer's job the pay the employees. What the employer needs for this is his/her job to include in the price.

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  • [–] 79 points 1 year ago (13 children)

    I went to a restaurant recently with my wife for our anniversary. Had great reviews on Google Maps above 4.5 stars. Yes I know this should not be the only indicator of a good experience, but the food sounded good and it was in a neighborhood we don't often go to. Something new.

    When we got the bill, the server came to us and skipped past the food prices to the tip screen immediately. That should have been my red flag to stop and ask why she did that, but I didn't. I tipped 20%, then later found out that they already included that in the bill. So I tipped 20% on top of the total that already included 20%. Needless to say I won't be going back.

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  • [–] 51 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Do a review on Google maps, and TripAdvisor, if you are in a touristy city. Warn the world, and put the ownership on notice.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Also consider complaining to the secretary of state perhaps? Idk, it's not city tax revenue so not likely, but it's still fraud. But I would definitely consider a chargeback. This is just like in the old days when managers or severs would scribble in a different tip and total on the merchant copy.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    This seems like it is probably more of a server issue, and not a restaurant issue. The server has learned how to increase their tips, I doubt that's company policy. This is Management's problem to solve, not the government's.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    This is bad logic. Every industry has a thousand things they solve by regulation to establish a sane baseline that you experience every day mistaking this hard won normalcy for a self occurring default.

    The behavior that is described is actually fraud and if you consider across just this one employees year it probably is thousands of dollars in fraud. It would be normal to report such to the city government which reports such to the business which in turn fires the server and trains the rest not to defraud customers.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    This is one server, in one restaurant, not an industry-wide issue. Expecting some kind of regulatory remedy over an anecdotal issue is not the answer. I'm not a right-winger by any means, but even I know that the government isn't the solution to anything. There already is a law against this, so the local gendarmes are as far as this needs to go.

    Remember when your mom told you "Don't make a Federal case out of it?" This is the kind of thing she was talking about, literally.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It actually already does cover it. He's tricking folks into tipping twice by failing to disclose that they have already tipped. It's simple fraud.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Right but the fraud is with the server, or possibly the restaurant, not the industry as a whole. I just think getting the government involved to deal with a dishonest server is going a bit far. Just make the manager and corporate aware. They'll deal with it.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Bullshit. Hopefully it’s one server and management should take care of it. But it’s appropriate to complain to the right authority so they can see if it’s a pattern in need of enforcement.

    This is how things get done. A single instance of food poisoning can be a mistake, but a pattern of food poisoning is potentially in need of enforcement and remediation. But they can’t see a pattern if no one complains

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  • [–] 22 points 1 year ago

    I call and complain for crap like this all the time now. I make sure to let them know I bitch to all my friends and coworkers about it too.

    My latest crusade is restaurants that put 4% service fees to help pay for people's health insurance. Just raise the price on the individual items on the menu. Making me math out what you are actually charging like that is bullshit.

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  • [–] 55 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

    No because I live in Australia where the govt forces restaurants to Pay their staff in full rather than outsource their wages to the customers directly.

    Edit: Pay, not Pauly.

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  • [+] -27 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Wow must be cool living somewhere completely irrelevant to this post!

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  • [–] 154 points 1 year ago (20 children)

    Restaurant tries to scam customers, yet they still give a 20% tip?

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  • [–] 137 points 1 year ago (11 children)

    Pretty sure the waitress wasn't the one who fucked with the register. Probably the restaurant trying to ensure they don't have to pay the difference if the tips come up short and leave the staff below minimum wage.

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  • [–] 53 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I feels like reasoning like this is why it would never end.

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Shafting the waitress is not going to end it either. Most people wouldn't notice this, so they'd still keep doing it if you didn't tip.

    The play here is to tip the waitress in cash if possible and slam the establishment on every review site.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    If the worker or anyone else not gonna unionise or protest the government for a better minimum wages, then the culture gonna continue. Slammin and jammin the establishment will do absolutely nothing, as with all non-disruptive protest.

    I swear tipping is fetishized by american.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    It's logical, it's not the wait staff's fault. You're correct though that it's an endless circle, with the only solution being that everyone stops supporting places that don't pay employees well. Which means don't go to any US restaurants, or any retail. There is the bigger endless circle, trying to get the masses to all participate in such a boycott.

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  • [+] 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)
  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Are you comparing the waitress not proofreading the math on a preprinted receipt (arguably not their job) to soldiers actively committing war crimes?

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  • [+] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)
  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    Have you ever heard of ICE?? They are committing out right kidnappings of citizens “under the orders” of a helmet haired toddler who shits his own pants… really? They clearly are upholding these illegal acts and do not care! They don’t even show their faces! SHAME!

    Plus also, Nazis in WWII went along with Hitler when they shouldn’t have for an example. Or putting Asian Americans into camps after the bombings due to fear they were ALL somehow involved!?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Yep, that's a solid 0% for me

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  • [–] 11 points 1 year ago

    Yeah that restaurant owner will certainly learn from the fact that they don’t legally have to pay their servers minimum wage and you still paid the owner what they would have gotten whether or not the server got a tip

    As another commenter said, in this situation pay the server in cash, and then review the restaurant badly everywhere you can

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    The solution is to never step foot in the restaurant again not punish the server.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago* (2 children)

    Thank you! I am just one server do not punish me because you hate the tipping culture of America! Don’t like it, like you said, don’t go to a damn restaurant then! Easy peasy!

    Don’t punish another person for your thoughts, feelings, etc about the situation of tipping, it’s not their fault, it’s yours for not tipping them because “you don’t agree” then go to damn McDonald’s!

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I've never worked as a server but I did date one long ago who said something to the effect, "that $5 means more to her than you" and while I was not nearly as financially stable back then, that idea has stuck with me.

    An extra isn't going to make or break my day but it could make someone else's day.

    Another way I've been thinking about this is how for a brief moment you someone's "boss." If you've ever complained about unfair compensation what does it say about you that you're using than brief moment of power to be what you hate.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I agree! $5 to you might not mean much but to a server it would mean everything. It makes up for bad tippers or worse the no tippers at all. The little things makes servers day honestly!

    And yeah, but I am not truly “their boss” it’s more that I have to deal with unsatisfying customers, intake orders of food and beverage vendors, and ensuring all customers are satisfied plus doing my server role… so honestly, it’s me dealing with all the issues but still having tables. I love my place of work and will never leave since I make like $3-4k a month as a server and that’s like 1/2 of what I was making as a teacher full time but some customers are the worst and would rather get paid less than dealing with them honestly…

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  • [–] 24 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    This may be anecdotal, but I ran into this exact same issue a few weeks ago. The suggested 20% was significantly higher than the 20% on the bill. It took me a little bit to figure out, but we were at the restaurant for a steak special and happy hour. The 20% tip was for the non-special price. For example, the steak and two sides special was $18, but the normal price was $28. The drinks were $5 but the normal price was $8. So the suggested tip was 20% of $36, not 20% of $23. These aren't the exact numbers, and there were two of us, but you get the idea. The POS/Tip suggestion is setup so the servers don't get the shit end of the stick when the restaurant is doing a deal/special. I'm not sure I fully agree with it, and I have my own beef with tipping culture in general, but I'm just looking to explain what might be seen in OP's photo.

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    [–] 39 points 1 year ago (17 children)

    I'm surprised no one mentioned that a lot also calculate the tip after applying taxes.

    Example: Meal was $40, then a 20% tip would be $8. But if taxes were $4 (making the total bill $44), then the receipt would show $8.80.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    Makes me wonder how many servers out their think their customers are being cheap because they only tipped X% when in reality they actually tipped 15% or whatever before tax.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    I got chewed out on reddit once for being "cheap" because I said tip before the tax. Guy was super pissed over what amounts to a difference of cents. Went off on a huge rant belittling me like I admitted to murdering puppies..

    Like... Dude, if your whole life comes crashing down over 40¢, to the point that's your reaction, maybe there's a much bigger problem going on here?

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    Sorry to inform you, but I've been told recently that 20% is now considered bare minimum and cheap. Yes, I eat out a lot less accordingly.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I don't care what people think, I'm still doing 10% for okay, 15% for good, and 20% for great.

    It's not my job to give servers a raise. The food prices have already exploded, they are already getting more in tips just because the base cost went up

    My $10 meal and 15% tip ($1.50) is now a $15 meal with a 15% tip ($2.25) which would have been a 22.5% at previous prices. They already come out ahead in that scenario without tip percentages increasing.

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  • [+] -9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    How many years did you work as a server?

    I find this sort of behavior is common against people who have zero hours of experience and don't know anyone that has worked these jobs.

    The pride people feel over being cheap is telling. Going into a transaction with known expectations and flaunting the choice to under perform is not a flex. It's a symptom among many in this flailing county.

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Why is 15% considered cheap when 15 years ago it was perfectly acceptable? A percentage is a percentage. Yes, cost of living has gone up but that includes food prices which means tips go up as a result automatically, hence the example I provided.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    My Dad taught me that as a kid. I'm extremely supportive of wait staff, and I'm an excellent tipper (25% is not unusual), but I'm not tipping on tax. I draw the line there.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    How is that different than tipping 22% (or whatever) on the post-tax? I swear people lose all rationality when it comes to tips.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago*

    Probably nothing, but it just makes sense to tip on the actual bill. Why am I tipping the government tax?

    So now I have to figure the 25% tip before tax, then the 22% after tax, then decide which I want to pay, etc. Just tip on the pretax amount. Why is that controversial? How is that "losing rationality?"

    Why does this require any discussion? You want to pay a tip on the tax, go wild. I've used my method for decades, and my servers get tipped well. I don't think I've lost any rationality.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

    Your logic is inverted. The lines would have to have a place for folks to add in the taxes. Otherwise the math would work in the opposite direction – the calculated amounts would be lower than the amounts based on the number at the bottom. (Unless a discount was applied that’s not shown.)

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    I'm not sure what you're saying. But to expand on my point:

    A lot of receipts have an area where they show you a "calculated tip" for some %s. Many restaurants calculate the tips using the total (meal+tax) rather than the subtotal (meal).

    On those receipts the person still has to calculate the end amount (meal+tax+tip).

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  • [–] 33 points 1 year ago (18 children)

    Wait so you get scammed but still give 20% tips? This would be an automatic 0% tip

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    You think the wait staff setup the machine to do math wrong?

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (13 children)

    Yeah, what's likely happening here is that the tip numbers were calculated off the subtotal intentionally. So say you buy a "happy hour" drink and it is $3 instead of $6, they tip is calculated before the "discount".

    Their machine could have actually been wrong, but using a total before discounts seems more likely.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago* (12 children)

    On the surface, I can understand this. It’s not the server’s fault that they got the happy hour rush when everything is 50% off. If anything, they had to work harder because it was busier. Why punish them for that extra work with lower tip calculations? The drinks aren’t any easier or faster to pour just because they’re half off. It should at least be transparent, but I at least understand the reasoning.

    What does bug me is when the tip calculations are based on the after-tax total. Fuck that, I’m already getting taxed 10% on this, you don’t need your 18% calculated from that extra 10%.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I don't really follow this reasoning, so a drink cost X but you calculate Y because at other times it costs Y.

    So if you go to a cheap restaurant you increase your tip because the restaurant next door has higher prices? The staff in the cheap restaurant works just as hard, maybe harder.

    This whole tip thing need to die ASAP. If everybody just stopped tipping staff would get a normal pay or a better paying other job. But if you don't tip, how do you show appreciation?? Well, do you tip your wife when she does something nice for you?? No, so people can show appreciation without money.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (4 children)

    Wow! Servers are providing a service of waiting on you when you could have made your own food at home without “tipping” your wife. That comparison is asinine and doesn’t belong in your comment. Vastly different!

    And the previous commenter stated just because you got $100 worth of half off drinks so $50, you shouldn’t tip off the $50. Drinks were the same, service was the same, etc. just because you have a discount doesn’t mean you had “discounted” service therefore, should still tip off the TOTAL BEFORE DISCOUNTS!

    I agree tipping culture needs to die but in America where I was a teacher for years and now make more money as a server with half the hours shows the broken systems of America. Something has to change and not tipping your server isn’t going to do anything but hurt a fellow human trying to just get by like themselves!

    Want change? Go to the govt, create a bill, talk to reps for your state, but stop punishing servers for your selfish beliefs and actions! Don’t like it, don’t go out! Want change, then do it!

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Go to the govt? Really? In Japan there is no tipping culture, in fact a tip is seen as an insult. Do you really think that has anything to do with their government? Well maybe the exception is that the US allows this BS by not having a decent minimum wage for any job.

    Second you completely ignore parts of my response, so if you need to tip the full amount, why is is fair to tip lower at a cheaper restaurant? These people work just as hard.

    But let's go even deeper, you say I'm selfish because these people provide a service? So what? My mailman provides a service, the roadworker that fixed the road I use every day provides a service? Why is tipping even a thing? I need to pay extra for someone doing the job they got hired for?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    Wow! I can’t even get into this since you are in Japan and never would understand, even if you wanted to, we can switch lives for a month then you can understand how fucked up the US is with providing for their citizens.

    But you would know the most since US fucked your country over the with your surprise attack on Pearl Harbor then we “A bombed” you, (don’t agree) but you out of everyone should know how fucked up America truly is…

    Also, PUBLIC SERVIANTS are state owned workers with benefits and pensions… servers have NOTHING of the sort… but I also give them a Christmas gift because I feel bad, but legit get paid more than me so again, not the same! They have state benefits and pensions, we relay on people to be GREAT people to tip for service. If you don’t want that service go thru McDonald’s and fuck off!

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I'm not from Japan, I'm from Europe. I understand how fucked up the US is for regular hard working people. That is why those people should be paid a living wage, not depend on the kindness of people tipping. This entire system needs to be replaced, and it can start from either the government or people refusing to tip. If people stop tipping wages are going up, or restaurants basically can't find people willing to do it anymore.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    You do realize that not tipping people will NOT help the problem but only hurt the people trying to work their asses off for tips and such… (you alone cannot change govt - you only hurt fellow citizens). But I agree we need to be paid more but note…

    I quit my teaching job to make 3X as much as a server with half the hours… that’s the fucked up problem in America!

    Also, how much we are taxes to see no change we threw tea in the ocean but we’re letting the current govt collect like 30+% of our wages as billionaires pay nothing their entire life.. THATS THE PROBLEM!

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I'll meet you half way, we'll not suggest you pay tips on taxes, but you will pay a $2.99 dining room fee to use our facilities. You can avoid this by doing pick up with a $1.99 convenience fee.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    No deal.

    *Goes to the place across the street with no BS fees.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    Perfect, then I don’t waste my time, table, and food waiting on someone who won’t tip vs someone who will.

    I agree if you don’t like it, don’t go there, stop punishing others based off your beliefs.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    "punishing others based off your beliefs"

    Lmao, the sense of entitlement from this one...

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)

    “ punishing others based on your beliefs”

    Said Osama bin Laden when he planned to fly planes into American buildings… and every other Muslim who supported his attack on Americans… (entitlement?)

    “Based on beliefs”, can mean more than what you think… I meant if you don’t believe in tipping culture then fucking don’t that’s your belief but don’t punish servers due to that… basically, just fuck straight off… golden rule, don’t fuck with people who serve you food…

    Watch the movie “Waiting” and then get back to me…

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I'm guessing the tip is calculated before any discounts/comps, which would be conspicuously cut off in this photo

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Why would you calculate the tip before the final amount? And why would that incorrect amount be printed out for the customer?

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  • It certainly shouldn't be the default "pre-caluaclated" amount, but if I have a gift card or something, I'll still tip based on the pre-discount.

    Say the bill was $100 for a group of 4 and we use a $50 gift card, I'll probably still tip the $20. Seems kinda scummy to only leave $10.

    It's a terrible system that exploits people. I can't change the system, but I can do my part and tip someone fairly for the hour they've helped me out.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    That would be quite optimistic, but this is something I've noticed at multiple restaurants myself. I saw the tip "suggestions" were not accurate so I checked to see what numbers they might have been using and tried the after tax amount etc, but nope the numbers are just inflated artificially. It's happened with or without alcohol on the tab, with and without sale items, and I don't ever really get anything "comped" unless it's a sauce on the side or something. I wouldn't say it's a scam, but I did roll my eyes the first time I noticed it.

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