Me and my wife vs our kid.

If you and your partner can actually actively do this, nothing will stop you.

This is great advice, but you should always remember that it's not a hard rule. Unfortunately, sometimes your partner is the problem. It happens, and it can be really hard to just move on

When I get hangry or really upset and I can't manage to be nice to my partner in the moment, I always try to at least let him know he is not the problem, the world is.

Desmond Tutu had a good take on this in his interview on Late Late Night With Craig Ferguson. He said just say sorry, it’s the hardest and easiest thing to say no matter what.

I find I prefer the term partner to wife or spouse.

Partner implies a team, spouse as a word has been abused for generations to vary from someone you’re just stuck with and hate to someone you own as basically property.

I just don’t associate marriage with any meaning other than partner, teammate, the person who I get through all of life’s problems with and the person who shares in all of my joys.

Sometimes the problem is one of them. Or both.

Just did this today

"Him"??