Just got dumped after two years in a relationship while clocking in to work. I hate being in Texas. I hate having no friends, no family. I'm so tired of being thrown away over and over for nearly 40 years

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[–] 19 points 1 month ago* (2 children)

Not sure what I can say as one enby to another woman but please have confidence in yourself✊

I'm sorry your current situation sucks.

As far as I'm aware, you didn't deserve to be treated poorly and yeah Texas is pretty brutal towards transpeople, I wish conservatives and republicans wern't such assholes but yeah they're assholes.

But anyways, you are gorgeous and you deserve to be loved! I wish the winds of luck fly in your favor!~💪🏳️‍🌈

Stand strong girl as you are not alone!🤗🌻🌸

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  • [–] 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Breakups can be brutal, I feel your pain. Take it slowly, let it sink in. You are allowed to feel shit. It proves you are a loving person, capable of feeling emotions. 🫂

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  • [–] [S] 11 points 1 month ago (1 child)
  • That's fine. It takes some time. Sad feelings are valid. You are valid, even when you're sad. I won't tell you to stop feeling sad. The past relationship and the breakup are a part of you, like a scar. Take a deep breath. Allow yourself to heal. Things will get better, and for now, it's enough to reasonably internalize this, even when the mood hasn't yet.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago

    You don’t deserve any of this. Please don’t blame yourself for the failings of society that was meant to cherish you.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago

    Hugs, we will make it through this 🫂

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    No way in heck you're ~40!

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago

    I believe in you.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Small thing, but at least you have Skeletonwitch. \m/

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    Im sorry girl.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Sometimes I wish I could open a safe place for trans people for them to have a safe haven. For them to get up on their feet or just having a home and some people they decide to be family. Or just stay building as nice community.

    I barely can help myself though.

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