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[–] 58 points 2 months ago (23 children)

Meanwhile “aggressive” vegan messaging just describes things for what they are, even downplaying them, because there is no way to describe the horrors in words

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  • [–] 22 points 2 months ago*

    Vegan, speaking gently and matter-of-factly: “Using animal’s bodies for producing consumable goods involves rape, imprisonment, torture and murder. Leftists are anti-exploitation and anti-capitalist, and using living bodies for profit entails that.”

    Leftist, yelling in response: “StoP foRciNG yOUr beLiEfs On mE, vegan, veGaNisM iS a bouRgEOIs phIlOsopHy!”

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  • [–] 40 points 2 months ago* (21 children)

    Vegan to leftist: Hey you know that pig that you're eating part of probably died screaming in a gas chamber? Are you ok with that?

    Leftist: omg stop being so aggressive don't you know there are reasons why I can't go vegan?

    Also that leftist: You have florp installed on your computer? Don't you know that one of the developers of florp made some posts on twitter saying they support Israel? Do you like fascism? What is your problem?

    Please make it make sense.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 months ago (14 children)

    Just today I saw a lengthy comment chain were one commenter argued first that is was too expensive to vegan, and after doing the math themselves (and thus showing that it was indeed cheaper), they moved the goalpost to argue that it was inconventient and never gonna happen on a large scale, because of calorie density.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago (12 children)

    Guess who is also arguing under this post? What a surprise...

    Sometimes I'm wondering why I'm even engaging in these discussions at all. By now it's probably just because I've reiterated the statements so often, that I just have the sources easily available, but I always know the outcome before I even post an answer. Such people aren't really interested in actually discussing veganism.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (11 children)

    Do you mind if I ask what you eat for breakfast usually? I try to eat vegan for most of my meals but after a while I'll start to feel pretty off and I cave in. It's like I can't totally shake it.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    Do you make sure you're actually eating enough and balanced meals?

    My breakfasts are usually either leftovers or oat porridge. Sometimes bubble and squeak, chickpea pancakes (savoury), bean based dips on bread, TVP patty breakfast muffins, or kimchi pancakes

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    Thanks, this is already giving me some more inspiration. So far I've had the best luck with oat porridge with nuts and fruit in it. I think I just need to push through until it's a new normal. Like quitting smoking or something.

    I feel like I eat quite well at lunches and dinners, and no trouble avoiding animal products there. Snacks are usually nuts or a homemade muffin... I feel like I'm so close to going all the way.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Junk food is something I miss the most and I have found this guy: https://theeburgerdude.com/ awesome.

    Sometimes you just want gross slop and his recipes are all pretty much that. Although the burger patties are actually relatively nutritionally sound (so is everything tofu based and not deep fried) if you don't have sodium intake issues.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    Not at all! However I'm not sure if I'm the best person for that, my breakfast eating habits aren't the best, I'd say :D

    I've been raised with eating cake for breakfast, as my mother really likes to bake. Or, if there was no cake, bread (the german kind, I guess that might make a difference from a nutritional point of view) with marmalade. This caused me to also pick up baking and experiment with recipes to make vegan versions of them, which was a lot of fun and is now a new hobby.

    Other than that, I usually drink black tea during breakfast, as I don't drink coffee.

    But most important is that you find your own "rhythm". Eating habits and needs differ a lot between people. A friend of mine gets really hangry if they don't eat a small snack every few hours in between meals. I can go for half a day without eating, but then also eat way too much afterwards.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    OK day one was really rough not gonna lie, but day two and I think I'm getting into the swing of it.

    I ended up g roughly following this tofu scramble recipe.

    I'm going to be kicking myself if all it took was pushing through one bad day...


    Anyway thank you again for your supportive words, they definitely helped push me through my reticence.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Awesome! That recipe sounds really nice!

    One thing that has been going through my mind, but I didn't mention in my earlier reply: another approach would be to look at what you eat in the morning and trying to get similar macronutrients, i.e. do you usually eat more protein, carbohydrates or fats in the morning. Then you could try to find a mix that fits for you. But seems like you have it figured out :)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    I think that's a good approach and worth trying in the future. I ended up going with just a lot of tofu (like 1/2 a block) and some veg for digestion. I figured that even if it's not what I'm used to I can at least tell myself that I have definitely got enough nutrition for a breakfast. And that kind of calmed me.

    I went down to 1/4 of a block today and that's probably what I'll stick with for now. Actually looking it up and that's basically how much protein I was getting before... maybe I'll throw in a slice of toast for the carbs...

    Good system! I'll pass it along as the opportunity arises

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Thank you! I know no advice will be universal, but it's just helpful to hear how other people are doing, and it helps normalise it too. Like eating vegan is something regular people do.

    Good advice on finding a rhythm. For instance if I ate cake or pancakes I'd probably crash out hard before noon. But after that I find I'm able to tolerate baking much better.

    Probably one of those nutritionally dense breads like Ezekiel would work for me.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 months ago

    there are reasons why I can't go vegan

    The one which pisses me off the most are the people claiming their autism prevents them from maintaining a vegan diet because the mouthfeel is so triggering they'd rather starve.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    I’m curious about the gas chamber. I won’t deny that industrial meat production is cruel at best, the gas chamber makes little to no sense. It is far more expensive than the expediency of a bolt gun, and runs the risk of contamination (unless it’s nitrogen but the information I found in an admittedly cursory check says nitrogen suffocation is not used on animals.)

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  • [–] 30 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

    Wanna take a look? https://www.farmtransparency.org/videos/frbqvwrjoo

    I haven't watched that video, not sure how horrifying it is. That site has lots of videos of electrocution and captive bolt gun if you'd like to see how humane they are. Personally I would not euthanize myself using any of these techniques but maybe you would and thus maybe you will think they're humane.

    The answer as to why, is as all terrible things money. Throughput is high, CO2 stays where you put it and it's cheap, nobody cares if pigs spend their last moments drowning and panicking.

    Pigs have very thick skulls, they are powerful and rather noble creatures when not locked immobile in a pen and overfed (not much difference between domestic pigs and boars really, they grow large and hairy if you let them roam wild). Bolt guns and electrocution have an extremely high rate of failure on them.

    Edit: everyone always asks for proof, never looks at it, and downvotes it.

    Why ask, why be dishonest about whether you care?

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  • [–] 13 points 2 months ago (20 children)

    The famous achieving of utopia by doing nothing and crying on twitter strat

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  • [–] 25 points 2 months ago (18 children)

    "we need to radically transform society"

    "I agree, tried eating different?"

    "omg too hard"

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (17 children)

    Not trying to pick a fight, trying to understand...

    Can you explain how going vegan (I assume what you're referencing when you say "eat different") would stop, slow, or in any appreciable way alter the rise of fascism? Or genocides? Or police brutality?

    The two seem, while granted one is exponentially better for the planet as a whole, completely disconnected from one another?

    Or are you merely saying that the act of switching eating habits is good practice for the hardship and sacrifice required to change the other, aforementioned issues?

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  • [–] 18 points 2 months ago (12 children)

    The entire moral foundation of leftism is is that we ought to arrange the world such that suffering is not inflicted on others for the gain of the few.

    If you are unconcerned with the horror of carnism you are only concerned with the rights of those you deem sufficiently similar to you based on arbitrarily selected metrics, the reciting of which has a curious tendency to make someone sound like a Nazi: intelligence (as defined by an ability to peform certain specific tasks rather arbitrarily selected), or appearance, or genetics.

    Either we are concerned with suffering or we are not. The practice of continually and regularly brutalising other creatures we know feel and suffer as much as we can know any other human does harms us, slaughterhouse workers suffer PTSD and display rates of violence above the normal. There are reasons that Nazis copied factory farming. It trains us in the process of dehumanisation (even that term is loaded), it harms the people involved, it harms the animals, and it gets you practicing that it is simply ok not to care or change anything if the treats you get by doing so are sufficiently enjoyable.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (11 children)

    Thank you for your response, if it's okay with you and you have time, I would love to ask a few more questions. Again, I promise I'm not trying to pick a fight or poke holes, I'm genuinely trying to reconcile things inside my head:

    Has all of human history been fascist since humans have always consumed other beings?

    The horrors of factory farming are indefensible, no argument. What about the farm who only raises enough for his family? Take that one far as you want, a single cow...flock of chickens, you get the idea. I'm more interested in the spirit than the semantics.

    This one kind of spins off of question one, but I'd like to delve into this one...what about the Native Americans, who harvested, utilized the entire animal, had reverence for its spirit, its sacrifice?

    Thank you for your response, it has been enlightening thus far.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (10 children)

    literally all arguments for veganism have already been hashed out. Go look them up, it's a waste of my time to present worse versions off the top of my head.

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    You're not gonna look them up lmao

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago* (7 children)

    You know what they say when you assume.

    The question becomes which source? Considering the fact I know nothing about the political ramifications of a system I don't take part in, I'm essentially starting from scratch. I can go toss is a search engine "political ramifications of veganism" and wade through a million million lines of AI slop and opinion pieces and still be no closer to an answer than when I started.

    So yes, I am going to look "them" up... just as soon as I figure out which "them" I'm looking for.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    why don't you try comlib or anarchistslib if you want to find writings by leftists for leftists?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (3 children)

    That is more information than I had 5 minutes ago, thank you.

    Bonus points if there are any authors or specific pieces you think would be beneficial to read?

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    could do worse than this https://caroljadams.com/spom-the-book for the intersection between carnism and patriarchy

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 child)

    I just read this one.

    It was interesting, and highlighted several misconceptions I've held about veganism in general. Thank you for sending me down this rabbit hole. I'll read yours next.

    Edit: it's an ad for a book, not a paper or article. I'll see if I can track it down through my local library.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

    You're framing your expectations of veganism in a way where you will always fail to see its significance. The answer to your question is trivial.

    "Veganism as a movement detracts from the rise of fascism, the normalisation of genocides and the prevalence of police brutality by challenging people to be more empathetic, live more sustainably and make individual choices towards a larger goal."

    You will never consider this an acceptable answer however and regardless of how you frame your reason for it being unacceptable, the truth is, for you it has to be unacceptable because you have a cultural connection to eating meat and an emotional reaction to the idea of changing that behavior. And in that sense your thinking is parallel to that of the fascist, the genocider and of the exploitative police officer.

    And if none of that makes it to you; vegans as are group are overwhelmingly left wing people. Why would that be the case if the movement itself wasn't inherently a left wing movement?

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago*

    The wholesale imprisonment, torture, rape and murder of living beings IS fascism, on the scale of trillions of exploited animals per year. How we treat non-human creatures reflects how we treat each other. We’re committing genocide towards all living beings.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago*

    So much this.

    It makes me wonder whether many “leftists” are just lib poseurs, who are only leftists when it comes to their immediate frustrations in the present. Like the type who “grow up,” earn a decent amount of money and abandon their values under the spell of a bigger paycheck. Or when the economy goes through a normal cyclical upswing, all of the sudden, capitalism is not so bad. Similar to 80s “yuppie” liberals. Then, they talk down to all the “lazy, unsuccessful people.”

    Like, if you’re really down with the cause - what you out on your plate is a high modifiable behavior that is well within the realms of cost and feasibility for everyone. If you can say, “Hey, I’m cool with paying half my income in taxes to ensure a better society for all,” why can’t you make another simple anti-exploitation concession?

    The excuses are wild. “Veganism isn’t possible for most under capitalism, it’s too expensive, it only becomes feasible under socialism.” WTF, you realize in a socialist world, if ridiculous demand for animal products is still a thing, then the means of production will still find a way to meet that demand?

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  • [–] 23 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Notable case of Goomba fallacy.

    altr

    There surely are fire breathing anti capitalist types who have some personal animosity against vegans but it seems likely these are not always the same people.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    Wait, the rich aren’t on the vegan approved diet

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    The "eating" is actually metaphorical. Just look at Elon Musk and think "I want him in my mouth"

    Yeah, just fucking shoot him in the back of the skull and dispose the body responsibly in a mass grave with others like him

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    I would never.

    I have standards for where I put my fun bits.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    That's not really a vegan unique thing.

    There are many varieties of leftist that are extremely focused on purity testing everyone and automatically reject anyone that isn't sufficiently pure by their standards.

    I choose to avoid them.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago*

    Almost there, keep going

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    I find leftist political events very isolating since rejecting carnism. It's hard to take people talking about fairness and humanitarianism seriously when they still have the flesh of vulnerable individuals stuck between their teeth. The whole time I'm there, that's all I'm thinking. But you know it's not going to be received well if you say anything...

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Yes, clearly leftism is the complete and total enemy of vegans and vegetarians. Surely conservative and liberals will be the true allies. Stunning argument.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (14 children)

    I don't want to be vegan. It has nothing to do with messaging, I just like eating meat. I don't support the way we abuse animals for food either, but I'm not willing to go vegan over it. Nobody's perfect. At least I know what I am and can accept that.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    Well you could still eat plant based meats from the likes of impossible and beyond. You might say that it's not the same, but is that difference really worth supporting animal abuse? (and yes, you are supporting it by buying meat). It's not even the difference between a burger and no burger, it's between a burger and another burger that maybe tastes slightly different. I've never been able to understand that. Am I missing something?

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    I went vegan around the time Beyond and Impossible burgers took off and after just about six months I’d ordered a Beyond burger but was given a regular one, and it was already pretty fucking gross to be eating dead animals even early on at that point.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Once the novelty of beyond burgers worse off, I couldn't really stand the taste. They are nauseatingly sweet, and have a very distinct flavour. Same with their sausages, stakes, they all taste the same.

    I've since found better more neutral local brands that I like much more.

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  • [–] 17 points 2 months ago

    Yeah I feel the same way owning a diamond mine. I know I could improve conditions and to be honest they're pretty horrifying but I just really enjoy being able to buy whatever I want.

    Nobody's perfect, at least I know what I am and can accept that.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago*

    If you knew what you were doing was immoral, and you kept doing it anyway for pleasure….

    There is no moral way to use the bodies of animals for our personal consumption.

    We can say nobody is perfect, so I’m going to murder some of the time, because I enjoy it.

    It’s not nearly as impossible as you think to go vegan.

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    [–] -5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (18 children)

    Excellent bait - but does it serve the vegan cause?

    Judging from the responses in the comments, probably not.

    It's a good post if you want to feel good about yourself though I guess?

    Edit: given the downvotes, I suspect advancing the vegan cause was never the objective.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (12 children)

    At least one person has been brave enough to read at least one argument as a result. Are you brave enough to watch how pigs are killed?

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  • [+] -6 points 2 months ago (11 children)

    If you have sat with the dying and been with them at the moment of passing you will understand that there is no courage in watching death. To suggest so is an insult to those with cherished dead.

    Such tactics as these do not convince a person to embrace veganism; it seeks to shame them into being a part of it. Such tactics provoke ire over awe, and are ultimately self defeating; much as the provocative measures in the op.

    Do you have the courage to make your case to the unconverted without guilt as your only ally?

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago (8 children)

    Yeah man you're so enlightened for staying ignorant of the moral cost of your recreational dietary choices.

    Why do chuds immediately start writing like they're penning some missive in the east India trading company the moment they're called out? Is it a genetic memory of chuddiness?

    There is courage in watching death you cause or ignore, and there is also courage in watching the death of those who you are the witness and advocate for, or you know being there for someone's last moments.

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  • [–] -5 points 2 months ago (7 children)

    Ah, let's counter that.

    I write in an academic style because that is my profession - but I can understand this might be unusual to you.

    In your esteemed brilliance you've managed to conflate courage with a sense of justice, protectiveness, and compassion in a single paragraph. The courage of an action lies in the heart of the individual - not in the nature of the action. Your use of the word evokes only images of mindless zealotry - "be brave, do what I tell you".

    There isn't any more to be said here really; a consequence of your own actions. Such egregious arrogance has only harmed your cause - be better.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    wait are you a vegan trying to tell other vegans how to do better messaging or a carnist?

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  • [–] -2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    I'm someone slowly transitioning to vegetarian who doesn't like watching a good cause get mangled by utter arses.

    I don't aim to go entirely vegan as I don't believe all animal products are immoral (honey, real free range eggs (a friend of mine used to keep chickens, and their life was wonderful), snake shed (great for gardens) etc). I've opted for a slow and sustainable transition to where I draw my moral lines as I prefer certain success over dramatic gestures

    This is how I was persuaded to make my changes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5sVfTPaxRwk

    The posts I see on c/vegan have made this harder to do rather than easier, as they often denigrate the morality of those who choose to eat meat, and add to my doubts of the real morality of the movement. There are many folks in my life who eat meat who I judge to be morally superior to the shills I find on here.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    you do you - but I wonder what does your friend do with the chicks from fertilised eggs? or do they not have a rooster? and if so where do they get their replacement chickens? and if so what do those breeders do with their male chicks?

    and again I'm of the opinion that its better 90% of people go mostly veggie than 10% go fully vegan (from a practical point of view) but I'm also of the opinion that being annoying about veganism isn't like a cardinal sin - people are annoying for much less important things

    and yh while I agree that there can be less moral vegans than carnists (eg if you're a vegan exploiting people) - I would still rate most vegans as more moral than most carnists - since in my experience most vegans do it because of empathy not because of brownie points - from the outside it may seem different but you also have to recognise just how carnist society is and how jaded vegans become when they are faced with the same arguments day in and day out - when their cause (that is the single most beneficial thing one can individually do for people, animals and planet) gets dismissed as "uppity" - and it's quite hard to not lose your cool when every time some mentions bacon the first thing that pops into your mind is the hellish sound of pigs screaming as they die an excruciating death for the sole benefit of hedonistic pleasure

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    It's a post made to a vegan community, for other vegans to read. It's only function is, in fact, to make the poster feel good.

    No one is going to further "the vegan cause" by posting to a vegan community on a fringe website and that was never the point.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    I appreciate posts like this. The debates in the comments show people's beliefs are being challenged and it's reaching people who are at least willing to consider the argument instead of dismissing it out of hand. You can't change someone's mind without introducing doubt, and pointing out a double standard is a good approach. In contrast, a post with no objections is likely only reaching people already convinced.

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