no hobbies. sad.

nothing expensive, or with an unreasonable learing curve. something easy to start doing that requires little setup so i can pick it up anytime i want

you guys got any ideas?

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[–] 55 points 2 months ago (3 children)

That's very little to go on, so my suggestively is reading.
Very cheap to get into as well as something that's is easy to pickup and let rest. Plenty of free options around too.

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  • [–] 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I believe many libraries have ebooks now too, which makes it even easier if transposition is an issue!

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  • [–] 36 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Explore your neighborhood

    • geocaching
    • contributing to open street maps (Street complete)
    • photography with your cell phone
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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago

    I almost commented earlier and suggested Street Complete myself, on the grounds that if someone is sad, which OP said he was, getting outside and getting exercise can be helpful.

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  • [–] 26 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Electric drum kit is fun, cathartic, and quiet outside your headphones. Chilis are easy to grow, and they certainly entertain the mouth. Running saved my life. Tennis balls from the machine launcher. Rock wall. Skateboard. People love pickleball, but you need friends. Darts. 3D printer. Electric piano. Cooking class you can meet a girl, cook for her, get back rubs. Singing lessons. Fetish exploration. You got this.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    While you’re against boring, have you considered whittling?

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  • [–] 33 points 2 months ago (5 children)

    There are exactly zero boring hobbies, through the right eyes or right lens.

    boring as you use it, is a term which works best when describing a person. Take from that what you will.

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  • [–] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Well you could start drilling a hole down into the earth for fun. That would be a boring hobby...

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  • [–] 16 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Bird-watching or star-gazing or both. A pair of binoculars is all you really need for either. You can print some stuff off online if you wanna get fancier with it.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 months ago* (1 child)

    Zero cost:

    • Running
    • Yoga
    • Bodyweight exercise

    Zero cost if you have a library card:

    • Reading (fiction)
    • Reading (non-fiction)
    • Online discussion

    Price of pencil and paper:

    • Writing (creative)
    • Writing (journaling)
    • Drawing

    Fairly cheap:

    • Music (playing)
    • Music (listening)
    • Painting
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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Painting. Can be done for relatively cheap and scales up to a lot.

    Birdwatching. If you have a smartphone you can get the merlin app and start from there. Collect 'em all like pokemon.

    Photography. Really helps you see everything with a new perspective. Learn natural scapes, urban scapes. Interesting people. Flowers, Social activism documenting homeless, or cool or interesting people if you live in an urban freakshow. You can make the ordinary extraordinary.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Photography can get hella expensive though, even when you stick to the used market. That said, most phones nowadays can take HDR photos so they also serve as a starting point.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    You can do amazing work with a smartphone. It can be hella expensive. It doesn't have to be. Most of the best photography in history was done with total shit compared to what's available now.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Origami. Very cheap to begin with, still cheap when you're deep into it. Unless you got so deep that you're travelling the world to go to conventions but that's another story, the biggest expense is buying books once you decide to have them physically.

    Don't use printer paper, kraft paper is cheap and works perfectly. Only down side is having to cut it.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    I'll second that. Got into this a few years back and its so low profile other than getting nice paper every now and then, its really great. That said, if you are not a patient person, I am not sure it is for you.

    I add in a link to my favourite site with mostly easy diagrams https://en.origami-club.com/index.html All free to look at.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago

    Cycling: Get a bicycle and start exploring your area. It doesn't need to be a nice bike; check garage sales and Craigslist and get whatever fits comfortably. Wander off your usual routes and you will encounter new corners of your town that you never knew existed.

    Music: Pick up a used acoustic guitar, electric keyboard, banjo, or whatever you can find. The world is full of inexpensive books and free YouTube videos to teach new students.

    Drawing: Make doodles, little comics, or sketches of whatever is around you. A pencil and paper are all you need. Look up YouTube videos for daily sketching practice exercises.

    Amateur radio: An entry-level license involves a basic quiz and a nominal fee. Cheap radios can be had for less than US$100. If you meet an old timer with a garage full of gear they might hand you a pile of old equipment for free.

    Of course, any of these can become expensive and time-consuming hobbies if you go down the rabbit hole. But that just means you have found something you love.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    Needle felting. Like ten bucks for some needles, some wool, and a sponge. It's a no-skill-required art form that consists entirely of stabbing.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago*

    I just want to point out that any hobby you engage in for entertainment without it feeling like a chore is by definition not boring (to you). Personally I couldn't see myself in a situation where I'd be collecting stamps, because I would probably find it very boring. But others enjoy it, so it's a valid un-boring hobby, just not for me.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago

    Frisbee golf

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago* (5 children)

    If you live in a city with a parks and recreation department, check out their website for classes and activities.

    If it's a sport that requires equipment, such as racquets or bats, loaners are usually available from the department or other participants.

    You really won't know what your mind and your body enjoys until you actually try it, so just YOLO random activities, but keep it safe of course. Avoid stuff like highrise roof edge parkour, and you'll be okay.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    aw man those parkour videos look so cool though lol

    thanks so much for the suggestions 👍

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    Also, I hate to say this, but you will likely enjoy something that one of your parents enjoys.

    Obviously stay away from genetically disposed addictions like heavy drinking or gambling, but doing the positive hobbies that one or both of your parents enjoy can let you interact with and understand your parents, which is a good thing now and later in life.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    If you’re in reasonable shape and have the right attitude, regular parkour can be fantastic. My kids had a blast taking parkour classes at local playgrounds: think “the floor is lava” applied to fences, benches, playground equipment.

    You do have to be prepared for some painful falls though, even from ground level.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Reading. You got a library near you? Great, you're set. You don't have a library near you? E-books.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    slinging. that is making a sling and learning to throw things with it. get some rubber balls large enough to not go through the fence at a tennis court and go to the court when no one is there and practice.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Oooh, where do you start with this? Like are there YouTube tutorials or a forum or something?

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    there used to be all sorts of things. like forums and meetups. definately should be able to still find plenty of youtube videos. You can even make a sling from string using macromae which might lead to another hobby.

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    Inexpensive, and little setup, with no steep learning curve?

    Off the top of my head:

    • singing
    • drawing
    • playing a tin whistle
    • dorodango
    • dexterity games (card flourishes, astrojax, yoyo, pen spinning, etc.)
    • reading
    • kumihimo
    • customising things with paint markers
    • yoga
    • whetstoning
    • writing (prose or poetry)
    • journaling/journalism
    • cross stitch/embroidery
    • jelqing
    • rock/object balancing
    • meditation
    • knife throwing
    • macramé (using beading floss)
    • playing the spoons
    • whittling
    • eating
    • scrimshaw
    • nålbinding
    • henna tattooing
    • primping
    • cloudgazing
    • looking at fucking everything through a high mag loupe
    • tarot divination
    • contact juggling
    • kefir making
    • key duplication by hand
    • sleeping
    • hiking
    • floccinaucinihilipilification
    • origami
    • talking to nearby friendly looking strangers
    • polishing
    • cleaning
    • caligraphy
    • drugless hallucination
    • soapbox public speaking
    • zen gardening
    • guerilla gardening
    • pitch ear training
    • 'easter egg' hiding
    • local botanical/ecological studies
    • flint knapping
    • home/interior design (as long as you don't actually buy anything)
    • knolling
    • marble running
    • solo RPGs like 'Alone Among The Stars' (okay this one wasn't technically off the top of my head. I couldn't remember the name, so I looked it up.)
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  • [–] [S] 7 points 2 months ago (3 children)
  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (2 children)

    Looks like you got a lot of good suggestions! Any of them have you excited to jump in and try?

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  • [–] 7 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    If you have a mediocre PC there are a ton of non-graphically intensive cheap indie games on steam. Rimworld is $30. Stuff like VR Chat is free.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago

    Honestly, photography.

    You probably already have a smartphone with a decent camera.

    Start experimenting with framing, focusing, and other settings.

    You can get some great photos with a smartphone

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Board games. I would not call it very cheap but probably possible to buy some on the second hand markets. And does get me out of the house and socialise a little. Probably the hardest part is finding people to play with tho (can try online, maybe there are some board games group in the area)

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago*

    There are few very good solo games I would recommend:

    • Thousand years vampire is a journaling game about being a vampire through history.
    • Under falling skies is kind of a space invaders/independence day.
    • Sleeping Gods is a sandbox game where you have a ship crew in a big world to explore, trying to wake up the gods.
    • Waste Knights is similar to Sleeping Gods, but in a Mad Max apocalyptic wasteland world.
    • Witchcraft! Is about witches and pretty fantastic solo.
    • Maquis is a neat quick game about running the Resistance in an occupied French town.
    • In the Ashes is a pretty fantastic game-book and an easy recommendation for anyone that likes fantasy books but also likes games.
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  • [–] 11 points 2 months ago

    May I suggest simple crafting, like whittling, ancient/native pottery, wood carving, paper basket weaving, origami, crochet (or the slightly more addictive and expensive knitting), braiding, weaving, macrame, yarn spinning, decorative knotworking, flower pressing, dyemaking, hand dying, flower arrangement, make walking canes, etc?

    Or maybe an instrument? Someone mentioned guitar, but why not harmonica, ukulele, bongos, simple percussives, or why not take up singing, there's typically a choir almost everywhere, or you could try solo, or whistling, or yodeling.

    Or maybe take up gardening/growing? In pots, hydroponically, maybe on a growing lot, or someone's yard?

    Or take up community projects, like either sanctioned or guerilla gardening, greening, forestry, litter picking, maintaining communal spaces, volunteer, start a community project (pollination diversity, bee keeping, growing lots, food drive, food forestry)

    Or take up a cause? Build community, take affirmative action, demonstrate, protest, coordinate, communicate, with an established org, or on your own?

    Maybe the outdoors could entice? Take up walking, ornithology, watch bats, discover new insects, take up chabana/ikebana, learn to forage, learn survival skills, go hiking, stack rocks, track animals, learn trapping, get into scouting, make bark boats, learn to skip rocks, climb trees, jump in puddles, pretend (or practice) animistic rituals, feel rain on naked skin, sleep under a bare sky, pick skulls, horns and bones to craft with.

    Perhaps create stories, tell stories, write poetry, learn magic, juggle, poi, take up clowning, go swing/country/folk/traditional/ballroom/social dancing, try Butoh, write sketches, join a theatre, start a business, take up decorating, or just embrace whimsy?

    I can also warmly recommend trying a new thing every week/month/period and see what sticks and not.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    So here's the problem: you can't adopt someone else's hobby, and find it interesting by proxy. Any activity (not just hobbies) can only be "not boring" if you yourself are actively interested in it for its own sake, not just as a time sink. Your attention and investment in the activity is what makes it interesting and engaging. You get out of it what you put into it. Low-energy, low-investment time sinks are entertainments, not hobbies. Play some video games, no shame in that, it's relaxing, inexpensive, easy to start and you can pick it up and put it down whenever.

    To really give you an answer on a hobby, we need to know about what you're interested in. Hobbies are about developing some kind of skill, for your own benefit and growth as a person (probably not financial benefit). Hobbies are about exercising your personal passions on your own terms, with no obligations except those which you set for yourself. What kinds of skills do you have as a starting point, and what do you wish you had? What kinds of activities do you enjoy doing? What kinds of activities do you actually make time in your life to do, on your own, regardless of whether other people are involved?

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    I'd say a hobby doesn't need to develop any skill, it just needs to have some kind of achievement and progress. Video games are absolutely hobbies, but it's the difference between one with a story that you progress through, and candy crush. (Which doesn't exclude that some people play candy crush to "make progress" on their high score, but most don't)

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Whittling. Check out Dough Linker on Youtube.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Badminton, swimming, jigsaw puzzles, blogging, video games, cooking and reading.

    These are the low barrier of entry stuff that keeps me going.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    heard about it and saw some things about it online. still not sure what it is but at least its outside activty (i think)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    Almost always outside.

    To me, it frequently gives me reasons to go explore lots of new places/parks/etc. And I treat it as "hiking with a goal" (although definitely not everyone does it that way). And I've found a lot of really interesting/cool geocaches that way.

    Also will do with my wife, family, friends, or solo. And have made friends that way. There's ever regular meetups all over for the hobby.

    There tend to be a lot of geocaches hidden in places like parking lots and things to but I have less than zero interest in that. It has to be somewhere that I would enjoy going to in the first place.

    One was hidden in a book in a public library once (with the blessing of the library), which was pretty cool. Another I had to open a lock after solving a puzzle. Another was in a tree and you had to do something special to lower it down (which was super cool). Most I go to are just hidden in a nice place, though.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago

    Reading or chess are pretty cheap.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    My hobbies can be considered torture for some people. It is 100% up to you what is boring or not.

    If you want to do some crafting here is a list from the top of my head for cheap(ish) startup with kits online:

    Leather working, wood carving, wood burning, miniature building (💀), bonsai, grow your own spices, epoxy kit for jewelry/dice/dominos, candle making, soap making, bath bombs, sourdough baking, beading, crochet, knitting, English paper piecing (💀), tatting, cross stitch (💀), embroidery, diamond painting, paper quilling, air dry / heat hardening modeling clay, model planes/cars/trains, miniature paiting (warhammer $$$), macrame / friendship bracelets, jigsaw puzzles, get a 10w laser cutter, 3d printing ($$$), coffee roasting/brewing, making beer / liquor, learning cocktails, cooking, baking.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago

    Am I guessing no social stress neither? Because I was going to recommend joining a non-profit on whatever you find cool, art, sport, nature etc. We are social animals we need some contact to be happy, and having a target activity will reduce the fear of feeling awkward.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    What about fixing things? like clocks or small electronics. Lots of places have small community groups now.

    Maybe a worm farm?

    How about whittling or crochet?

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

    Meditation ( Creative Commons guided meditations )

    Hiking ( some old OSM hiking trail maps )

    Boardgames and cardgames ( Spiel de Jahres - awards 1979-2026 ) - Game of the year list, any winners or nominated games are excellent

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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    What hobbies have you liked in the past or have sounded fun? That helps everyone pick a direction.

    Geocaching has been fun for me. Gardening but, I've gone full !nolawns@slrpnk.net lol, lately I've gotten into retro website building in NeoCities.org relearning HTML, CSS and Java script has been fun.

    If you have a PC checking the steam sales for cheap games is nice. I just finished my 3rd round of stardew valley.

    You can volunteer. If there's a habitat for humanity near you you can even learn new skills.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    Motorcycle pole-vaulting. On ice!

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    It's not expensive. But there's a cost.

    Perler beads. Spent like $20 for a bunch of colors.

    Then made various video game sprites like Mario and Sonic.

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    Mushrooming. Cuts expenses, and extremely rewarding. Start with one safe type, learn the more toxic ones, and build on that. There are probably organisations or people in your community that can help you get started.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    Yarn crafts are fun. I knit and crochet. At the end you have something like a hat or scarf that you can keep, give away, donate, ... Yarn can get expensive but there are cheap options too. Some people even buy sweaters and blankets at Goodwill, take them apart, and use the yarn to make something new.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    I was thinking of taking up birdwatching, maybe that?

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago*

    Learn a language. This basically morphs into other hobbies, like reading or listening to stuff. But it's gratifying.

    Video games - but a little different from other suggestions, get really deep into a game. Learning to play some games is a hobby in itself. Speedrun your favorite, get into your local fighting game scene or play Fightcade, get Slippi and play Melee online, go for high scores in some shmups, competitive Tetris or Puyo Puyo. Etc etc (Though re-reading op, I guess a lot of these may have unreasonable learning curves)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    Astronomy is as cheap as your local observatory's entry fee (and the gas to drive there) (assuming you have a local observatory)

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    Lokal volunteer run radio, if you have something like that in your area. Find out when they recruit or send them a mail. There are several in my area, and they are very social, perfect wether you want to talk, code, write, do audio or something else. You can often start from zero there, or find a way to use something you already know.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    You could always make extruded incense sticks. You can get started with the spices in your kitchen.

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    Coloring books.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    Soap making.

    Some silicone molds, lye, measuring cups, cooking thermometer, and cooking oil is all you need to get started. And after a while you will be making awesome smelling soap.

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