Since the family didn’t want to turn off RCS, I completely changed the app instead😂😂😂

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[–] 23 points 2 months ago

Moved my entire family to Signal. If anyone texts me I just ignore it. If they call me and ask, I say I don't check texts and to use Signal.

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  • [–] 33 points 2 months ago (32 children)

    Started using signal just in time for chat control 2.0 to drive it out of the EU 😞

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  • [–] 25 points 2 months ago (28 children)

    Has signal left EU?

    Quick search says they were threatening to leave, but didn't see anything to the effect that they had.

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  • [–] [S] -3 points 2 months ago (27 children)

    I comtemplated using Signal until I saw they you need the play store in order to use it👀

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  • [–] 25 points 2 months ago* (5 children)

    https://molly.im/

    My wife and I use Signal with each other. She also uses Graphene on her Pixel. Both were her choice. And now she wants to go further down the FOSS rabbit hole. I warned her it was deep. She's totally onboard.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    How did you get her on board? Can your wife talk to my wife? Over signal 😅

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  • [–] 9 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    She was getting fed up with the direction all the tech companies were going and started researching how to take ownership of her shit. I only found out because she asked me about Graphene OS, which caught me totally off-guard because she was an apple person for so long. We talked about it at length, then she decided to ditch her iPhone for a used P9PXL, and asked me to install Graphene OS as soon as it arrived.

    She is incredibly sharp and is more than happy to struggle with figuring out a whole new world of privacy and real ownership than deal with forced "upgrades" that do nothing except harvest even more data.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago

    Nice! Yeah my wide gets irritated if I even mention hosting something. She's still under the impression open source means poorly thrown together... I've self hosted things for so long, and I had a new pack of hard drives fail (4 out of 8) after moving about 50TB of data, so she sees how bad it can be to host; however, 90%of her stuff on her phone isn't backed up bc she won't let me install anything to help and she has no cloud storage.

    She works for a big (in its industry) software company and of course is always fed the "little guys" aren't as good, etc. I'm chipping away slowly but surely. 🤞

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  • [–] 19 points 2 months ago (4 children)
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  • [–] 4 points 2 months ago (6 children)

    I also use Delta over Signal for my own reasons, but heads up:

    Nah, download Aurora Store from F-Droid, now you have degoogled access to the Play Store.

    BUT a word of warning:

    You still have to be careful of what you download, it usually lists known trackers to help with that. And "requires google play services" is often actually not true, some things that claim that work fine or maybe just don't give notifications.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    It just makes sense to just download everything from Droid-ify and/or Fdroid ( almost all of my apps are from these two). Yeah but even with that, it can still get shut off. Idk. . I wouldn't risk it.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah I do when available too, but if something I need isn't on F-Droid I'll use Aurora begrudgingly, just nice to have the option.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 2 months ago* (1 child)

    They also got a store called Aurora Droid. Its another alternative to fdroid. Now I don't know if it'll help with some apps from Aurora store but its another alternative.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Never heard of delta chat. Glancing at it on F-Droid, it looks a lot like Briar.

    Any commentary on a comparison of signal v Briar v Delta chat on features / privacy?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    Never used Briar myself, but I like how Delta is decentralized and resilient to outages even supporting multi-relay set ups, easy to use for the "normals," it's private and secure, low (no?) metadata. Among other things I'm sure, that's just off the top of my head.

    The ease of use is one of the biggest, I couldn't send someone "normal" a link or QR code and expect them to navigate through setting up XMPP or Matrix accounts, but with Delta I've never had an issue, I've even gotten near tech-illiterate people like my mom to do it. Signal is easy too, but was out for other reasons (mostly phone number requirements.)

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    You don't REALLY but they also don't make it easy to use anything else.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    I don't know... some of these apps I've been experimenting with, even with microG, of not work properly just because your not getting it from the play store. Also,with September being around the corner, I would try to stay away from google as much as I can.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    If you do want to use it, there's a security focused fork called Molly on f-droid. You'll have to enable their repository though.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    I got most of my family on SimpleX because it does video and is reasonably secure. Encryption, no username, no phone number, and it's self-hostable if that's your bag

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago

    Yeah I got my young son and all his friends onto SimpleX because you don't need a phone number to use it. Works great except they don't use it, they still default to fucking Facebook messenger.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 months ago (18 children)

    What’s the impetus for turning RCS off?

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  • [–] [S] 7 points 2 months ago (17 children)

    https://www.klaviyo.com/blog/difference-between-rcs-vs-sms-vs-mms

    For anyone who is completely using degoogled android; unless your using microG, stock android messaging apps don’t support RCS. That is Apple (joined the bandwagon with IOS 18) and Googles controlled space. Everyone knows that google is anti privacy, hence, not using messages with RCS, unless google unleashes the reign of RCS, but unfortunately I don’t know if that is ever going to happen.

    You’re not really missing much except for high resolution pictures/ gifs, read receipts to confirm when messages are sent and how certain messages are sent with better resolution. Plus, also having the ability to send longer messages, along with messages sent over Wi-Fi and cellular.

    The problem I was having was I was completely using a stock SMS/MMS android app, but my immediate family (all with apple devices except for one android user) all are using their default messaging apps with RCS. Texting is big with us and I can’t receive any messages, so in order for communication to work, I’m having them download Delta Chat, we make anonymous profiles and talk in a private group chat. This is all happening all because to them I’m going, “off the grid” and They don’t want to turn RCS off, even though that would be easier😒

    So, I was able to make a compromise with Delta Chat.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

    I’m not really picking up from your link what you’re trying to say to be honest. Did you read what you linked? Why use a AI marketing platform article instead of one of the myriad of technical docs about it?

    It’s a protocol, and if messages are sent to non-RCS compatible devices they should not be sent as RCS, by default. It’s on your carrier.

    Where is this otherwise?

    Also why use that over signal? All around I’m confused by the “solution” to your “problem”

    After googling it’s an android only problem with their messages app, shot yourself in your own foot. But you can just use another app that supports RCS and move on?

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  • [–] [S] -5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    With the link, I was just showing what the difference was and how much your really not missing unless your concerned with certain features. Also, how the hell is that AI? It looks like a regular general blog post to me, where are you getting the AI part from?

    I’m on a degoogled device, you don’t have RCS unless you’re using MicroG and gets an app that uses it. I don’t want to use it and for some reason, regardless of turning RCS on/off, messages are not working properly, so I decided to pick Delta Chat. it’s easy to use, straightforward and I direct everyone to one place. What’s the fucking problem?

    Signal uses the google play store. I would have to use microG to use it and I don’t want to do that. What’s the problem, with that?

    I also picked Delta chat because in the states, we have been having serious issues lately with Cellular power outages. I still want to connect with my family if, god forbid we have a complete blackout. I know as well there are other messaging apps for that case as well.

    You people on this freaking app annoy the shit out if me, and get so easily triggered, when someone doesn’t pick the same apps, applications, products or procedures when using FOSS. Its fucking annoying honestly. FOSS is fucking FOSS for a reason

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  • [–] 8 points 2 months ago (10 children)

    RCS: google and apple can spy on your messages and control it

    SMS/MMS: everyone, google, apple, the government, your cell provider, their mother, and their 5th cousin twice removed can intercept and view your messages in plaintext and they are stored in plaintext forever at ISPs for anyone that wants them. I remember as a teen when my mother would get emails with documents containing every text that me or my sister had ever sent, from the SMS provider.

    Not to mention all the technical limitations. Nobody at all should be using SMS in 2026.

    Any encrypted message service (signal, delta chat, simplex, matrix, XMPP, etc...) Is a huge improvement to SMS in every way.

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  • [–] -3 points 2 months ago (9 children)

    everyone, google, apple, the government, your cell provider, their mother, and their 5th cousin twice removed can intercept and view your messages

    Uhhhh nope, just the carrier(s) (and the government)

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (8 children)

    SMS/MMS is famously possible to intercept, by anyone, what are you talking about?

    Otherwise it would be sufficient 2FA and we wouldn't have to bother devising other methods.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (7 children)

    Intercept how? SMS is overwhelmingly the default 2FA. So much so that many banks and companies won't let you not use it.

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    1. This is not "anyone", and definitely not Google or Apple. This is malicious actors doing illegal shit.
    2. You would know if they were doing this as your phone would stop working

    Sakari responded to Ars with a statement saying, “We’ve now closed this industry loophole at Sakari

    Is SMS insecure? Absolutely. Is Apple, Google, et all maliciously SIM swapping users? Absolutely not. What are you talking about?

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    That was an example, the point is it is possible to intercept it. It's been done in the wild - again that's why there's such need for other methods of 2FA.

    Re: Apple or Google That's even easier for them, because, you know, they've got access to the phone. Heck, famously Apple had a bug/feature where it stored text of notifications which affected Signal, too. In that case it was law enforcement who took advantage of that, though.

    I wouldn't go around sounding the alarm about SMS, because I don't think many people send stuff that shouldn't be plaintext via SMS. I like using SMS, actually, because how simple it is and you don't need 4G for that.

    But the fact is messages can be read one way or another. If you want to conspire, definitely use something else.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    Re: Apple or Google. That's even easier for them, because, you know, they've got access to the phone.

    Okay, so no mobile chat apps are safe?

    The point here is that Apple and (especially) Google are most certainly collecting your data when using RCS. And only the carriers and the govt are collecting your data in SMS, not Google or Apple.

    In that way, I don't think any RCS is superior in any way outside of functionality.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago*

    Okay, one last time. Those are two different issues.

    The whole point of this thread was that it was possible to intercept the messages. That's all. I doubt the OP needs to worry about that. But it's possible as was stated by the other poster.

    It's like claiming that mail can't be intercepted. Of course it can, but generally speaking you don't have to worry about that. Though it would be foolish to claim otherwise (especially when one quick web search can show you cases when someone successfully pulled it off)

    Good day.

    Edit: typos

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago* (1 child)

    the default in america

    Developed countries use literally anything else. TOTP apps, encrypted apps, Card reader code generation, identity providers, 3rd party verification programs, etc...

    America uses it because it is cheap and easy and it pushes the infrastructure cost to someone else, not because it is secure. My american bank I keep only had SMS from american numbers to start, now they have TOTP app support, passkey support, and are going to phase out their SMS because of security.

    Also, SIM phishing is pretty common... There doesn't have to be any physical access to the phone. It is a standard phishing attack and they get all your SIM details and spoof it in an automated system.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Which other options did you consider? By any chance, could you compare it with Element or Snikket or Conversations (or other Matrix or SMPP clients}?

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 2 months ago

    Umm tbh I haven’t tried any of those.

    I picked Delta cause it’s the most user friendly, you send a QR code of your chat or channel, make an anon profile and boom your done.

    I know for myself I will go down and try those but I’m dealing with people who really don’t understand what FOSS and AOSP is, so I gotta take it slow.😅😅 My family thinks using Delta alone is going “off the grid” I don’t want to scare them off.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    Which app did you land on?

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