Report them to who? Actual violent rapes get reported to the authorities all the time and never get prosecuted. Plus, age of consent laws vary between states and are often subject to "Romeo and Juliet" laws that take into account the gap between the consenting parties.

I think you may have a misunderstanding of how the legal system operates. They aren't mandated to investigate and prosecute every instance where someone reports a crime, they get to pick and choose when and who they throw the book at.

Since the majority of authority figures are conservative men themselves, they often will take the side of the young men in these cases and choose to turn a blind eye. So reporting these crimes often ends up not bringing you any justice, and instead you end up being judged by the community for being sexually promiscuous.

Again, that misses my point. Victims do not owe random people an explanation of how they handled things, and requesting an explanation in response to someone sharing a harm they endured is unhelpful. That is not an indictment of you or your character, it's just important to me that people be able to express they were harmed without being subjected to questioning for it

Your second use of "him" implies we may be reading the comment differently. If I am understanding correctly they are a woman who was abused by a male superior at work.

Regardless, people do not owe the world perfect victimhood, and whether we treat someone's statement of harm with compassion should not be predicated on an evaluation of whether they "did things right" in the wake of the abuses they suffered.

Its a vulnerable thing to say you were harmed. Let's not interogate whether they performed victimhood correctly, and they dont owe us any details one way or another. It minimizes an expression of abuse that is generally not listened to in the first place.

Tell me you're privileged without telling me you're privileged

I'm getting a lot of reports on this. Chill on blaming the victims,

You did not just say that.

This is not up for debate. It is always rape if consent is not given, regardless of whether the authorities care or not.