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[–] 85 points 3 months ago (12 children)

When we saw Wicked, I turned to my wife and said "someone needs to fix that girl a sandwich."

Seriously though, it's sad to see. No healthy person is that skinny.

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  • [–] 40 points 3 months ago (10 children)

    Some video of hers came on my spouse's Spotify just now, and we both said the same exact thing. Except cheeseburger instead of sandwich.

    Humans need muscle mass and bone density. Please, it's ok.

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  • [–] 38 points 3 months ago (9 children)
  • [–] 18 points 3 months ago (5 children)

    Not all sandwiches are cheeseburgers.

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  • [–] 66 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Once the body uses up fat reserves it starts using muscle. Indiscriminately.

    Including the heart.

    This is why so many people with eating disorders die from cardiovascular complications.

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  • [+] 61 points 3 months ago (13 children)
  • [–] 21 points 3 months ago (12 children)

    They usually ask that after they die. Right now, there's nothing anybody can do.

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  • [–] 46 points 3 months ago (11 children)

    People have been calling her out. Just the people near her just tell her what she wants to hear so they keep getting paid.

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  • [–] 11 points 3 months ago* (8 children)

    Anything past 2013 looks weird. 2011 doesn't even look like the same person

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  • [–] 19 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    I know the phrase "It's ok to be White" is a loaded phrase with a lot of bad history, but maybe someone should tell Ariana that.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago*

    eh looks the opposite to me. 2011 looks like a lot of white foundation or whatever tf it's called. after that she seems to have eased up on whitening herself. except 2021 obv.

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago* (4 children)

    Up to 2020 looks like becoming an adult and losing kid cheeks to me. I won't comment on 2021, because yikes (plus her makeup obscures her facial structure), and 2023 looks like she’s too thin or got work done. More recent pictures make it more obvious that she’s getting thinner and thinner though.

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  • [–] 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

    2018 was the red flag. She could be accused of masking as Hispanic before, but that could be explained by a change in diet and a summer tan. 2018 is the hard, The Emperor Has No Cloths moment where everyone knew something was wrong, but wouldn't say anything to her face about it.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah, 2018 is fucked up and here likely indicates some sort of psychological issue, but there’s a long tradition of white people exploiting other people’s cultures for financial gain. It’s not an automatic red flag for mental illness for me in general.

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  • [–] 0 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Yeah it's sad that she has issues and that's what the post is about, but have you heard about how "white people" are always exploiting everyone's else's "culture"?

    For financial gain no less?

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  • [–] 58 points 3 months ago

    i feel pity for her of course. also, thanks lemmy o grant me (a 47yo dude, basically listening to either deadmau5 or Motörhead) a peek into today's pop stars, so that I can have an awareness discussion on this body image thing with my 14yo pop culture sensitive daughter. i don't think she's got a body image problem, but good to nail it now.

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  • [+] [S] 158 points 3 months ago (6 children)
  • [–] 67 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    I went to read a few articles after seeing this post. They all cite "fans" criticizing "body-shaming" her for being "too thin". I don't think those people ever knew someone who had anorexia or how dangerous this is.

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  • [–] 0 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    For what I have heard, it's a deadly disease, no way out. But maybe medicine has moved forward since that was true.

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  • [–] 10 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    It can be deadly, but you can recover from it. I do not think you can ever be really cured of the mentality, but it is possible to get it under control.

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  • [–] 37 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    I’m been trying to figure out what she did to her face for the longest and I finally found out she had several different face lift operations. Brow lift being the one that made her eyes look dead inside. She definitely has some form of body dismorphia

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  • [–] 17 points 3 months ago

    I mean that's been obvious since the start. Since around when she was on nickelodeon she was on the eating disorder side of Tumblr. Having been famous for long unfortunately is only going to make that worse since beauty standards are so extremely fucked, especially for those in the public eye

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  • [–] 37 points 3 months ago

    Holy fuck thats rough

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  • [–] 35 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    oh hey, we're back to the issue with size zero we had when I was a kid.

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  • [–] 100 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    Some people in the comments need to read up on what eating disorders are and fix their hearts

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  • [–] 25 points 3 months ago

    I've got sympathy for her going through anorexia, but that doesn't really absolve her from being a generally kinda shitty person. She doesn't deserve anorexia but she's still just another rich asshole fuckin up the youth.

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  • [–] 109 points 3 months ago (11 children)
  • [–] 51 points 3 months ago (6 children)

    Actually 🤓 Ariana Piccolo, her surname is from Italian origins

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago (5 children)
  • [–] 20 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    You're confusing Starbucks with anything Italian. They're an entirely American purveyor of milk shakes.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    While we're at it, there are Sbarro locations in 28 countries.

    AFAIK, Italy isn't one of them.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago

    I certainly haven't seen one in 10 years of living in Italy. But they might hide one in Milano.

    Starbucks has arrived, though. Just a handful in the largest cities. I haven't been inside one, but I hope they're full of tourists.

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  • [+] 24 points 3 months ago (4 children)
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    [–] 95 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    Don't particularly care, except for that she is essentially just promoting anorexia to her fanbase of young girls who don't know better, which is pretty fucked up because Ariana should know better.

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  • [+] [S] 140 points 3 months ago* (4 children)
  • [–] 36 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

    If you watch the full video though she's obviously "opposed" to the critique she's getting from the judges (the note), as she goes full Carrie on them in the end. The other girls celebrate her for it. My takeaway is that the pressure put on women is the men's fault, and women want to be free of it.

    And I'm guessing the contents of the notes are real comments she's gotten over the years, not self-written notes to her current self. I don't see how you can read it any other way than this video being about revenge and freedom.

    That said, I agree she looks sick and needs to heal from all of the pressure put on her. Obviously it's affected her a great deal. But I can't help to read this video as a means to get there, like public therapy, sort of.

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  • [+] [S] 45 points 3 months ago* (2 children)
  • [–] 13 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    So the video accentuates how thin she is, then shows her negative response to the group that told her to be thinner... that all sounds consistent with criticising that kind of commentary to me.

    I'm not going to comment on how thin she is, but that explanation seems the most likely, else why would the note be in there at all?

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    [–] 24 points 3 months ago (9 children)

    What the fuck? Why would someone be that skinny

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  • [–] -5 points 3 months ago (6 children)

    I don't get eating disorders (specifically the one where you want to look like a ghoul). Stuffing yourself makes sense to me, you wanna eat food and can't stop I guess, but not eating??? Like you enjoy starving?

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  • [–] 8 points 3 months ago

    It could be the pressure of 'staying pretty'
    making them hate themselves for eating to the point of detriment. I understood that ozempic, the weight loss drug, is also widely used, which could be additional peer pressure.
    These people are constantly scrutinised under a microscope, it's a lot to handle.

    Obviously all speculations, there could be other reasons.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

    Social pressures. Yes, being hungry is uncomfortable and even can hurt, but if you ignore it long enough, it can sometimes become a bit more like background noise. I have always been a healthy weight, but my entire life I have had the paranoia of becoming fat. And so I am very accustomed to feeling hungry. When they started me a psych med that people can easily gain weight on, I started monitoring my weight more closely. Often, I go to bed with hunger pangs.

    Quite frankly, I never understood how people are able to eat as much as I see them eat and still maintain a normal weight. I have always needed to eat less than others to maintain a healthy weight. My coworkers will eat 3 meals a day and be a healthy weight, but I have to eat 1 regular meal, 1 small meal, and maybe 1 small snack to stay a health weight. I'm guessing it's because I'm shorter so there is less mass at a healthy weight. Sucks.

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  • [–] 5 points 3 months ago

    Some people describe visual hallucinations as a component of body dysmorphia. Folks like this with serious eating disorders (like, going to kill themselves serious) are actually acting out of a delusion, not misinformed, rational thought.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 months ago (1 child)

    Meaning you can't empathize? Lucky you, I guess. I had so much anxiety around eating for so long, and it's not unusual. Until I was 25, never put one piece of food in my mouth without thinking about the calories and how it would make me fat. I'm sure she looks in the mirror and still sees fat.

    Yes more people have eating disorders in the other direction, and will eat when stressed. I have trouble wrapping my mind around that. It's been half my lifetime since I recovered but I still can't eat when stressed.

    It's heartbreaking and eventually fatal if you keep restricting. Skinny is not automatically unhealthy, body types do differ.

    There's plenty of pressure on women to be small, and when your life is out of control, one thing you can control is eating. It is oddly easy to fall into disordered territory.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago

    Thanks, your shared experience provided me some new insight. I thought it was just the continued desire to starve and not the fact that it's a state of mind. Even if she's at the lowest body fat she could possibly get, her mind might still tell her to go even further, which kind of solidifies that it's a disorder.

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  • [–] 49 points 3 months ago (4 children)

    I don’t understand horny Hollywood executives who hold a lot of power.. like why is their fetish bony, malnutrition women.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago*

    the hollywood look, face(equivalent to mar-a-lago face to stay in trumps inner circle) to stay in hollywoods inner circle for acting jobs. for women it has to be 20-something always to stay in hollywood roles, for men its on peds,roids. and both engage in botox, plastic surgery, otherwise they might not get any acting jobs. just look at the ISAIP actors, rob, kaitlyn, glenn.

    this aside from the legacy actors who are older and have significant connections.

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  • [–] 23 points 3 months ago

    I came here to laugh, not feel sad. :-(

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  • [–] 43 points 3 months ago (3 children)

    She's an easily influenced influencer. Remember her licking doughnuts as a trend? She was with "friends" at the time.

    Similar to Will Smith, she's a rich kid with a ton of insecurities and lots of bad acquaintances. She'll keep making mistakes because that kind of negativity leads your thoughts astray easily and you need something grounded to keep you going. I'm not sure she has that something to hold on to.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago (2 children)

    Do you mean Will Smith's kid, Jaden, by any chance?

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  • [–] 21 points 3 months ago

    I can fix her

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  • [–] 29 points 3 months ago

    Someone get this woman some beans and corn, stat! It's not too late to save her!!

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