Renaissance festivals usually have a very lively adults only section in the primitive camping area.

Well typically it's a performance for other lesbians not straight guys so if you're in the scene you'll find out...

I know a lot of gay pro wrestling fans.

In sumo, Ichiyamamoto literally has a life sized poster of Wakatakakage in his bedroom (they're the same age).

I prefer being beaten with a stick by a beautiful girl, personally, but yes, many lesbian flirtation displays involve relatively stupid relatively low stakes violence.

Just like many straight courtship displays.

I mean kinda yeah at least enough of us do

It's like beavers when they hear running water and start collecting wood for a dam.