I also think for women, the pure visual isn’t quite as important as their movements and actions. That part gets tricky since tastes vary.

I find Wolf (sekiro) very hot in part because of how his movement is animated. BUT the man looks like he hasn't bathed in weeks so... He's more of a "hear me out'.

And also not thinking about visuals... Yeah, a sexy voice can do a lot of heavy lifting for a character.