This is exactly it. I think the game is a goddamn masterpiece. The most infuriating fights feel like huge accomplishments, not just relief. Phenomenal game all around, but that difficulty curve isn't for everyone. I can say the same about any Soulsborne game, love them to death but it's definitely too much for some folks. Difficulty options are a good thing, if a compromise has to be made just have it disable achievements or w/e.