This image is a popular Internet meme format known as the "Mother Ignoring Kid Drowning In A Pool Meme".The meme contrasts different levels of attention platforms receive, with "Posts on Instagram" getting the most focus while "Fediverse users" are depicted as neglected or forgotten.

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[–] 97 points 5 months ago (10 children)

There seems to be a neverending supply of complaints about the size and reach of the Fediverse and I'm just sitting here thinking this is about all the attention I'd like it to ever get. This is fucking nice. Doesn't monopolize your whole day, always has at least some fresh content, users are free with the upvotes and discourse is downright civil most of the time. Does anybody really want this place to be like Reddit or Instagram?

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  • [–] 10 points 5 months ago

    I'd been using Instagram as my scrapbook of neat things I've done/made for several years. Mainly it's for my own personal enjoyment but I left it public because artist types like showing off I guess. Anyway, I accidentally made a post that went mildly viral, 300k views and 8k likes, and it pretty much took the fun out of it for me. I guess I didn't really want an audience, I just wanted to look in the river like Narcissus. Now everytime I glance I get a notification that ripples my reflection.

    I caught the tiger by the tail. What a world.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    It should not get like Reddit, but I still wish for more users so that some more specific "subreddits" (what's the term used here on Lemmy?) are getting more users and more posts.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    Have you considered more fediverse to make up for that shortfall?

    If I run out of things on Lemmy that interest me, I switch gears to mastadon... If I'm getting tired of that shit, there's pixelfed

    With a lot of these new, non-algo driven sites you only see what you sign up for, so whatever kind of mood I was feeling the day I signed up, will influence how the site works for the first few months until it normalizes, and you find all your communities. i.e. my mastadon feed is chock a block FULL of self hosting Linux nerds, AND ITS AWESOME!

    the biggest gap still seems to be sports though, especially niche sports (I live breath and sleep MotoGP, and there ain't shit about MotoGP on Lemmy lol)

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  • [–] 55 points 5 months ago (11 children)
  • [–] [S] 35 points 5 months ago (9 children)

    All of them are my alt accounts. Sigh🥀

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Ooh, nice. I forgot this one, but then I remembered. Hello!

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  • [–] 36 points 5 months ago

    I get waaay more comments and replies on my posts here than I ever did on reddit around the API situation.

    There's less people here, but your comments aren't buried, and my posts are much much less likely to be removed by power tripping mods. (I've had posts about Stop Killing Games removed from the popular reddit gaming subreddits).

    This place is way nicer to interact with by far.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Great idea but there's a reason why people have a hard time getting the GIF train rolling

    #1 being that GIF is turning into an ancient internet image standard that is sort of kinda maybe adopted and supported ... it was supposed to be retired because it was an old format but it is surviving because of some strange attachment we all have to this format ... and any site that offers to host a GIF is often technically not really hosting a GIF but instead a WEBM masked as a GIF ... because to host an actual GIF, like the one from the top post of the highqualitygifs community ... you have to load a 47MB GIF file from an image website (the same video file for the same or better quality could be contained in a WEBM or MP4 for about 4MB). (Don't get me started on the whole WEBM / MP4 open source debate) The problems start in first creating the GIF file and to make it as high quality as possible while minimizing its file size ... GIF is not very efficient are reducing file size ... and whatever blood sacrifice, chicken entrails black magic you can conjure in order to make a great looking video file as small as possible and save it as a GIF is a dying art ... and even once you get that magical GIF, you have to find a good hosting service to carry it and display it while also not severely altering it or rerendering it in whatever format is suitable to them because every platform has their own peculiar way of hosting a GIF ... and then you run into the issue of which hosting site renders or displays a GIF is compatible with the fediverse platform you want to display it on and whether or not it will get displayed on the website browser or on a phone app (and also which app) or both or neither.

    I tried creating GIFs before and it is like pulling teeth from an epileptic shark ... and creating it is only the first step ... finding a way to have it uploaded and displayed properly on as many platforms and services as possible is akin to trying to pet a rabid hyena.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    On the bright side, at least the gif/jif/yiff debate will fade into obscurity.

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  • [–] 21 points 5 months ago (5 children)

    I like Lemmy. It's the only social media that I contribute to.

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  • [–] -2 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Is it a social media if there's no socialization and it's anonymous (just like 4chan)? How about a community board/platform?

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    It's a little more than a forum. Most forums have one main topic and some smaller offtopic areas and that's it. Here you get everything from memes to even more memes, oh well I suppose it is just a memes forum.

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  • [–] 16 points 5 months ago

    Ads can't reach us under water

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    No, this isn't right. Fediverse is on the edge of the pool, just getting feet wet. That's a pre-Reddit user on a platform long gone.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (6 children)

    Like Fark. Is Fark still a thing?

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    I went and looked back at Fark when abandoning ship at Reddit, but the feed is still super slow and the user base is minuscule even by Fediverse standards.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (2 children)

    Similarly I went back to alt dot Simpsons dot tee vee and two users posting everything, alternating who does the weekly recap with not much else... It was depressing

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago

    What are you talking about? My comment got an upvote no more than 2 weeks ago.

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago

    I'm not going back. I have gills now.

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    [–] 6 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    I don't bother posting the content (porn, but silly) I create here

    On reddit, it gets a lot of traction

    I don't care about the imaginary internet points, I like it when my fans tell me that they got a laugh from it

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    Luckily not such a thing here

    But, I've blocked plenty of fuckwits and creeps

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    Absolutely

    But not you, unfortunately

    My fiancée is the only one for me

    I'm the luckiest bastard on Earth!

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago

    Put a label that says "ADVERTISERS" across the adult, and you've got something going.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago

    I'm new and I love it here. More will come.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago*

    B-b-but aren't we the world's premier source of tankie vs. centrist drama?

    Mainly because we haven't fully defederated from one another (yet), whereas most places (like Reddit) only allow one or the other.

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago (1 child)

    I would rather use Reddit than Instagram. Holy shit have you tried to see your friends posts on IG lately? You can’t.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    There was some variant I couldn't find with 3 guys playing some card game (Durak? Uno?) at the bottom, fits here better

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    I know myself

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  • [–] 1 point 5 months ago

    TBH I feel reddit too toxic...

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    [–] 0 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    We're all here because A: We've put up with enough shit B: we got perma-banned. I'm B. Now I'm picking fights for just that little bit of interaction. It would be in this site's best interest to generate some attention for me.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (1 child)

    Oh, so you're a tough guy, huh? Well fuck you, pal! Come on, bring it! Put your money where your mouth is and your teeth in the sink. Who the fuck am I? Who the fuck am I, huh?! I'm Mr Tire Iron. And this is my friend: he's also a tire iron.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little shit? Ill have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and Ive been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and Im the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with saying that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we speak I am contacting my secret network of spies across the USA and your IP is being traced right now so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your life. Youre fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can kill you in over seven hundred ways, and thats just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in unarmed combat, but I have access to the entire arsenal of the United States Marine Corps and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the continent, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little clever comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking tongue. But you couldnt, you didnt, and now youre paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit fury all over you and you will drown in it. Youre fucking dead, kiddo.

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