Okay you are ready to take a stand for freedom!

You are going to use an OS that isn't going to bend the knee and comply with age verification laws. I solute you, comrade!

Here are the likely consequences of your choice:

The Feds aren't coming after you. You aren't going to be out on a watch list.

What will likely happen is that if you try to log into your Facebook account you will get a message that says "Your Operating System is not currently supported. Your user experience will be limited to Groups labeled "Everyone"."

That's basically it. Your personal user experience will be limited to "kid friendly" areas of the Internet. (Same with apps and games.)

That's the real driver of these laws. Facebook and other app producers know that the days where they can just shrug off child predators using their products is coming to and end. Regardless of your opinion on age verification is as a solution, child predators are a real world problem and it's not just the parents fault. The platforms have some responsibility too.

Which is exactly what Facebook and the others specifically don't want -responsibility for their own platforms. That's why they are pushing for these laws that off load their responsibility onto the OS makers. Then they can just say "Oh, we don't have any responsibility for this child being abused in our platform. We asked the OS what the user's age was and the OS reported 18+. What else could we have done?"

So, that's the consequence if you choose to use an OS that refuses to comply. You'll just be relegated to the kid friendly version of website, games, and applications.

(On the other hand, if your OS chooses to falsely report to a website or an app an age for a child that is abused, then the OS should also be held responsible. But at that point you can go ahead and blame the parents too for letting their child use an OS that isn't safe for them to use.)

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[–] 24 points 7 months ago (1 child)

child predators are a real world problem

I cannot emphasize this enough - I absolutely do not care what your children do on the Internet.

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  • [+] [S] -9 points 7 months ago

    I know you don't. And you don't have to. No one is forcing you to care. No law anywhere threatens any legal liability on the user.

    But it's because providers of games and online platforms don't care that governments are having to pass laws to force organizations producing these products to care.

    (Which is also why Meta is pushing these laws so hard, so that it becomes someone else's legal responsibility to care.)

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  • [–] 18 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    It was literally never about the children

    There is a lawyer's wet dream of evidence against thousands of real-world non-speculative child rapists and abusers with names, phones, emails, and literal video evidence and written admissions of guilt of systematic rape, torture, abuse, and child sex trafficking that are legally usable in court.

    What has been done about it?

    Not one. Single. Arrest. Because the guys implementing the tracking are the same ones raping and torturing children.

    This is not a policy or tool to protect children.

    This is a way for the exact same sadist pedophiles to track children's identities so that they can use that plus data broker data to figure out what kids are most vulternable and target them to be raped, tortured, and abused.

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  • [–] 14 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Nope. The stats show that most child predators are either someone known to the child already, or other minors who don't know better. 'Stranger danger' is a moral panic that is not rooted in reality.

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  • [+] [S] -7 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Yes, that is common.

    But just Google child predators in video games.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago

    If you want to make a point...present a real source not a vague hint to google.
    What is the issue? Do you mean NPC predators in games? Probably should be 18+ rated then...

    If you mean multiplayer....no age bucket check will prevent predators on the servers....

    There is such thing as parental responsibility, if someone just lets their child consume higher rated media online without any discurse its a parental failure.

    What is next? Does the blueray player need to verify with photoID that everyone in the room is older than the movies rating?

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  • [–] 27 points 7 months ago (37 children)

    I diagree. Look at Privacy Policies and ToS. They are extremely invasive. Basically they say more or less "we will do whatever we want". Why? Because no one reads them or cares, and they want to CYA in any and all situations. Now picture you want to navigate to a website, but the website creator is afraid that, one way or another, some adult content may find it's way their website, so what do they do? Age-gate it. And now they've shirked any responsibility for such content. Every god damn website, the entire internet, will be age-gated. Not just Facebook and Reddit. Children and privacy-concerned adults will not be able to access the internet. And no one will care. That's where we're headed.

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  • [–] [S] -3 points 7 months ago (36 children)

    I'm not sure what you are disagreeing with. That's generally what I said. If you use a non-compliant OS, your experience will be "age-gated".

    Though I don't think they will completely block access entirely. Collecting data on kids is extremely valuable to these companies, because kids grow up to be consumers. They will happily continue to let you in, but you won't be able to go to the 18+ areas.

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago* (27 children)

    That’s basically it. Your personal user experience will be limited to “kid friendly” areas of the Internet.

    I'm disagreeing with this. I'm saying there will be no "kid-friendly" areas of the internet, outside of areas that are explicitly for children.

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  • [+] [S] -7 points 7 months ago (26 children)

    I don't understand. There will still be porn sites for people.

    The way it will work is that when you tell your browser to go to a porn site, the site will ask your Bowser for your verified age. Your browser will then ask your OS for your verified age. Your OS will respond "18+" to your browser. Your browser will tell the porn site "the OS says 18+". Then the porn site will say "Cool, here's the porn." That's it.

    If you use a non-compliant OS, then your browser will say to the porn site "I asked the OS and the OS says 'null'." Then the porn site will say, "Well sorry. Then your OS isn't supported. Come back when you are using a supported OS."

    That's it.

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago (24 children)

    The browsers sooner or later will always respond "18+" and do not ask the OS.

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  • [+] [S] -15 points 7 months ago (23 children)

    ... And if a kid using that browser was abused because the browser lied to the website about the users' age, then the browser's creators should bare some consequences for lying to the website that otherwise would have put up protections. Right?

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago (10 children)

    No, absoluetly not. Because the whole thing is notnto protect the children, but to gather more data.

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  • [+] [S] -9 points 7 months ago (9 children)

    Do you also believe that the Boy Scouts and the Catholic Church also have no responsibility to protect kids, because doing to would similarly require collecting data on people?

    (I would disagree with you if you said yes, but I'll respect your position for being consistent.)

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    (3rd option: don't accept the premise)

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  • [–] [S] -5 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    So you are going with: Deny the problem of child sexual predators exists at all.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    There will always be sites that don't care and won't comply with any OS level restrictions in the first place. You will never solve this.

    Also, in the USA - there's no suggestions floating around for a 16 or under age ban on accessing social media, moreover, I'm not sure if that specifically is even constitutional.

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  • [–] [S] -3 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    There will always be sites that don’t care and won’t comply with any OS level restrictions in the first place.

    And I'll support strong laws that hold those sites accountable for negligence. I'm really struggling to see why this is so controversial.

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  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Many of whom won't be based in the USA.

    You want a "papers please" internet and technology sphere, and you're calling for this on a federated platform heavily populated by people who want to get away from all of that. What sort of response do you expect?

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago

    There are laws that make cism illegal in pretty every country. And most countries and companies are pretty quick with takedown requests. So why do we need age verification? CISM is illegal for everyone

    Now for other stuff that is legally age gated in one country, but it is hosted in another country which has another legal age limit. Which one counts now?

    Does the lawmakers have the reverse law in place, that when a page requests the age bucket, even if there is no legal requirement, does the pagebget fined as well? Otherwise it just leads again to the "cookie banner issue".

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago

    That is a completely different premise. A) putting "Catholic church" and "protect children" in the same sentence is already a bold move B) if I place my child in the boy scouts I do have some expectations on them to protect the child, correct. But that's not the all or nothing situation you mentioned in your example

    My point is the same as with DNS Blocking: It is proposed under the umbrella of "think about the kids", but it doesn't work for what they propose it and it is a first step in creating the base of a censorship infrastructure. The govements (and by that I mean all of them not just the US) should hold the platform's accountable for shit they mess up now and don't accept "Sorry we can't do that at scale" as an answer. Google and meta should act much harder on reports by the community. interestingly, they CAN act fast and hard for copyright stuff or other things which would reduce their earnings. As long as the governments won't act based on existing measures, I can't take any new ones serious

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  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago (11 children)

    Ever heard of parents? It’s not the job of the OS or the browserto monitor and control a kids internet access.

    In most jurisdictions you need to be an adult to legally get an Internet access.

    So people using the Internet are either adults or under the supervision of adults.

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  • [+] [S] -8 points 7 months ago (9 children)

    It’s not the job of the [Catholic Church] or the [Boy Scouts] to monitor and control a kids access.

    Yes it is. It absolutely is. If you provide a service, you should responsible for the safety of that service, especially if you are providing and advertising that service to kids.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    At its core, neither an operating system nor a browser is a service. They are effectively data that the users are serving to themselves. There are certainly some operating systems and browsers that contain the ability to connect a service as a plugin or (I would say) maliciously include a connection to a service by default such as targeted advertising, but those services are neither the OS nor the browser.

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  • [–] [S] -5 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Right. That's why Facebook is trying to get the laws changed so that it's the OS that is responsible.

    There is a big conspiracy behind this, it's just not a shadowy-government one.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago* (1 child)

    I don't know if you meant to, but you completely ignored the point. Your comment directly quoted @Dirk@lemmy.ml and edited out "OS" and "browser". You then began talking about how "services" have an obligation.

    EDIT: I jumbled usernames. My bad.

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 7 months ago

    Right, I was making the point that just like the Boy Scouts and the Catholic Church can't just shrug off their responsibility, online orgs don't get a free pass either.

    But if these laws are passed, then they will get a free pass, and just point at the OS maker as the problem. Be mad about that and I'm on your side.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    You are misleading yourself.

    Consider a vehicle. We understand that there is a threshold of age and responsibility to operating a vehicle safely, but we don't hold the vehicle manufacturer responsible for driver error if the driver is under the age of licensing.

    You are suggesting that an os maker can be held responsible for user decisions, which is both unenforceable and legally unsound.

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Correct. Right now the OS maker is not responsible. That exactly why Meta is pushing so hard to change the laws to make them responsible.

    Your analogy is a good analogy. In your car analogy, today, no one blames the car manufacturer for a drunk driver, but we do blame bars and bar tenders. In many states, bars have to be licensed and if the bar tender allows some one to get drunk and drive home the bar and the bar tender can be held liable. This situation would be like if bars got together to lobby state and national governments to make it so that the car manufacturers had to install breathalyzers in every car so that the bars could reduce their liability and responsibility.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

    I don't think you've thought this analogy through, or else you haven't had much experience with bars. Drinking establishments have a duty to "cut off" intoxication, but that ends at the door.

    The us military has a history of being very interested in recruits from tweens and teens online. And obviously the us military isn't alone in this.

    If what you are suggesting is true, that "it's all OK because protect the kids", it would be fairly awkward to explain this practice.

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  • [–] [S] -1 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I didn't understand your disagreement. Yes just like a bar shouldn't be responsible for a person that gets plastered drunk after they leave, Facebook shouldn't be responsible for the actions of a predator that goes to a porn website to lure kids. Just like the Catholic Church shouldn't be responsible for a public school teacher that rapes her students at school. The only times any of these organizations are responsible is when the abuses happen while using their services.

    I don't get why this is controversial.

    I can't speak for the military's recruiting practices. Yes, I fully agree that the military's recruitment practices are very predatory, and should be reigned in. Politically, I personally think "enlistment" shouldn't be an option at all. It should be random draft. Every year the military should tell Congress how many new recuits they need, and Congress should approve a draft of 18 year olds for that many new recuits. The draft should be random, with no deferments or other ways out of service other than health reasons as determined by a military physician. (But that's way off topic.)

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago

    My disagreement with your posture is your implied insistence that protecting children is the only goal of these proposed laws. The military example should have shown you that this is obviously not the main goal of these laws, but you seem to want to ignore this.

    Most ppl agree with protecting kids from mature content.

    This law(s) is framed in a way to be unenforceable, yet the laws are coming regardless. This would suggest there is another reason for the laws.

    • How would the law work for new Linux server rollouts?
    • Over 18 only, no learning Linux in school?
    • Change working age laws so no under 18 can administer servers?
    • Consent on every automated install? How would that work?
    • If servers are excluded from the law, will ppl just use a server install and add a DE on them after?
    • How do we validate who is actually at the keyboard? (Hint, you can't)

    Are you seeing how unworkable this proposed law is yet?

    We don't prevent kids from going into hardware stores that carry dangerous tools, we assume children are accompanied by a responsible adult. This is no different.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    I’m not sure what you are disagreeing with. That’s generally what I said. If you use a non-compliant OS, your experience will be “age-gated”.

    There will just be OS and OS forks that mimic other OS to 'trick' websites into thinking they're verified.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Collecting data on kids is extremely valuable to these companies, because kids grow up to be consumers.

    This is not true. From an adtech perspective, child user data is virtually worthless. Because COPPA exists, most demand platforms (including those outside COPPA jurisdiction) simply will not issue any bid for that type of traffic. To try to bypass this, sketchy publisher groups will try to issue a regs.coppa=0 in their bid requests with the justification of "we couldn't determine that info". COPPA is largely self-reporting based if you didn't know.

    Outside of that, what you are describing is called the Chilling Effect. It is were legitimate activities on a site are restricted out of fear that they may break a vaguely worded law. This is a genuine concern and one that federated services had when Lemmy first started to take off. Instance owners were faced with the possibility that without CSAM detection processes in place that they could be held liable for that material being present on their instance.

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  • [+] [S] -6 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    I don't think that COPPA says that companies can't collect data on kids l at all. Just that there are limitations on how they can use that data while the kids are still kids. When the kids grow up then the previously collected data is fair game. (Why the do you think Facebook, YouTube, Amazon, etc. are so willing to invest in "for Kids" products?)

    And, we'll probably disagree on this, but I generally think that people and companies that provide a service are responsible for that service. That includes the Boy Scouts, the Catholic Church, and Lemmy hosts. And everyone in between. (Including parents, but the responsibility is no only on them alone.)

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago

    We aren't talking about publishing side groups like Youtube, FB, etc. We're talking about advertisers like DV360 or Tradedesk (the largest ad firms). COPPA has vastly decreased value on the demand side. And user data isn't stored for 20+ years expecting to capitalize on it. After several weeks that data becomes stale and useless. In the 11 years I've worked in adtech engineering, I can confirm that how you think this works vs how this actually works is not the same thing.

    And what you are talking about for responsibility is part of the Section 230 amendments being made to force liability on hosts for the "sake of the children". These amendments have nothing to do with children though. They have to do with opening hosts up to liability in defamation suits raised against them to force silence of political critics (this has been WELL documented).

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago

    Collecting data on kids is extremely valuable to these companies

    Nope - it is extremely risky/costly. Facebook is actively pushing for these laws to push the "blame" onto the OS to get out of a potential $50 Billion worth of fines due to COPPA violations for collecting data on kids. Facebook wants the OS to do all of the actual collecting of data while being required to share that data with Facebook - they get all of the benefit of stealing your data without any of the liability (or work). That's the entire point of these laws.

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  • [–] 12 points 7 months ago

    Paraphrasing Karl Mark:

    original quote

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  • Call me a cynic, but I absolutely do not believe that companies "know that the days where they can just shrug off child predators using their products is coming to and end". I don't believe they give a fuck at all. In fact, if somehow a case made it to court and the court laid the blame at the foot of, say, Facebook, or whatever company, for a child being harmed, they still wouldn't care because the money they make simply existing as is so wildly outstrips any fine they could possibly be levied that it doesn't make economic sense to do anything differently.

    There is real damage being done now and no one seems to care enough to stop it. Why go through all this negative PR about privacy violations if you can just keep doing the same thing?

    Now, I can't claim to know what the "real reason" these laws are being passed is, but if I had to hazard a guess, it would be because it gives more accurate data on users to sell and it is cheaper to advertise to your users when they directly tell you their age. Now, you can freely show pornographic ads, gambling ads, whatever, to your adults without ever having to worry about buying user data to know who will receive it. If a kid sees porn, well, you shouldn't have let them on an adult account.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    What will likely happen is that if you try to log into your Facebook account you will get a message that says "Your Operating System is not currently supported. Your user experience will be limited to Groups labeled "Everyone"."

    That's basically it. Your personal user experience will be limited to "kid friendly" areas of the Internet. (Same with apps and games.)

    Well, that makes no sense because that means that using an unvetted machine is more beneficial for groomers and predators than a vetted one. Meaning they'll be incentivized to use that, instead of some perfect system where they'd be easily trackable and held accountable.

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  • [–] [S] 0 points 7 months ago

    The problem the predators would have if they are relegated to the "kid friendly" sectors is that those sectors are much better policed by users and the corporations.

    It's not really the public content that is the problem, the problems really come when a predator can lure a child into a private chat. That's when the predator can start their process of grooming that eventually leads to blackmailing the child (grooming is a process and it's damn evil and damn sinister). By relegating the users to "kid friendly" areas, the opportunity to pull kids into private spaces is greatly diminished.

    Now, will the predators stop being predators? No. But if the platforms have strong child protection policies that make it more difficult for the predators, then they will move on to a website that has weaker policies. Which is just about the best an organization or platform can do, make the predators uncomfortable enough that they go hunt someone else's kids.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (25 children)

    Right now? Nothing. Down the road, life in prison for terrorism. I’d suggest moving away from that jurisdiction

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 7 months ago (24 children)

    If their goal is to find an excuse to declare you a terrorist then there are much easier ways to do that that are already available to them. This really isn't an efficient way to do that.

    And, as best as I'm aware, no age verification laws anywhere threaten any consequences for the user. The consequences are only for the OS makers.

    (Granted, the California law, at least, could be read to say that it's the entity installing the OS to confirm ages, not necessarily the OS maker. So for most Linux distros that would shift the user age verification responsibility completely to the user installing the OS, but I'm not sure how that would work out in courts or whether websites and applications would recognize that. It will probably never actually be an issue that is adjudicated.)

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    This entire post is the frog sitting in their comfortable pot of water saying “This is fine, nothing to worry about!”

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago (21 children)

    Exactly. I’m super surprised how many people are just kind of OK with all of this.

    “It’s just a date, you can lie, don’t worry”

    “It’s just your ID, if you’re over 18, don’t worry.”

    “They’re only looking for criminals, if you’re not a criminal, don’t worry”

    “They’re only looking for people who don’t act like them, look like them, believe the things they believe, vote the way they do, speak the way they do, so as long as you match them exactly, don’t worry”

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  • [–] [S] -3 points 7 months ago (20 children)

    My biggest frustration with the community is not that people don't like the proposed solution but that

    1. There is so much flat denial that there is actually a major online child predator problem, and/or
    2. No one should be held responsible to fix it, and/or
    3. no one is offering alternative solutions.

    I'm really not upset with individual users here. I understand that you are removed from the problem and don't understand it. I really don't blame you personally. I have had training on youth protection and it's not an easy problem, and just throwing the parents under the bus isn't fair. When it comes to child predators, they are often just as much the victims as the kids are. (Yes, I mean that.)

    I'm upset with the EFF. They don't have an excuse for their ignorance. They've been taught the problem many times and just refuse to acknowledge it. (Red flag if there ever was one, if you ask me.) If they didn't like the verification rules then they need to start proposing alternative solutions (which they don't have).

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  • [–] 10 points 7 months ago (15 children)

    Age verification laws have nothing to do with child predators. They never have. If they cared, they would focus on the problem—the platform. But they don’t.

    The real single problem here is parents aren’t monitoring their children. When these bad things happen, the parents are ALWAYS like, “I had no idea that was going on.” The fuck are they doing with kids then?

    But nooooooooooooooo…. Asking someone to be responsible for their own offspring is way too much for people to handle.

    It’s 10pm, do you know who your kid has been talking to today?

    If you don’t, you’re a shit-fuck parent and your kids should be rehoused.

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  • [–] [S] -4 points 7 months ago (14 children)

    They are focusing on the platforms. That's exactly why Meta, et. al., are pushing for these laws. To off load that responsibility.

    And if you are blaming the parents then you don't understand the problem.

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  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago (13 children)

    If you are saying that parents shouldn’t be responsible for their children, you are the problem.

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 7 months ago (12 children)

    Are you saying that you literally haven't read any things else on this thread?

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (11 children)

    That statement means nothing. It’s just an attempt to avoid providing a response by shifting blame or implying ignorance without any reasons.

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  • [–] [S] -1 points 7 months ago (10 children)

    Okay, for your ignorance, parents bare some responsibility but not all the responsibility.

    Just like the parents didn't bare all the responsibility with the Catholic Church abuses or the Boy Scout abuses, they also don't bare all the responsibility for the online abuses. The providers of the service also share in that responsibility.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (9 children)

    The parents sent their kids to an institution they know rapes kids.

    The parents let their kids on the internet knowing they would be exposed to predators.

    You’re doing as much as you possibly can to blame everyone else BUT the parent.

    I don’t want kids communicating with me. Verify they are a kid and have kid only platforms. Not the other way around.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago* (8 children)

    Verify they are a kid and have kid only platforms. Not the other way around.

    Just in case you weren't aware, this also doesn't work in practice. People are selling "age-verified" Roblox accounts to adults https://www.wired.com/story/robloxs-ai-powered-age-verification-is-a-complete-mess/

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    Sure. There is no solution except asking the parents to monitor their kid.

    End of story.

    We don’t need age verification laws of any kind. We need proper parenting.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (6 children)

    I agree that we don't need age verification laws. At the same time, I disagree that there is no other solution. The certainly is no ONE solution and there are no solutions that will capture all edge cases, but seriously going after specific companies for their lack of care in moderation will certainly help. Better moderation tools for federated social media will certainly help. Better education for parents on how to moderate in the modern internet will certainly help. Better tools for parents to create their own gated systems for their own kids will certainly help.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Most of these systems have tools in place to help parents. The parents don’t give a shit—that’s the actual problem. Everything online is avoidable. There’s always a block button. Having your priest get touchy and not knowing how to handle it is waaaaay different than CR33PYGIRL6969 trying to be a perv online. Push block. Done.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (4 children)

    Having been in this advocacy space for a while, when it comes to the internet, most parents I talk to just don't understand. It's important to also state that many parents are working multiple jobs, are maybe single parents, and have very little time and energy for anything. That is not a personal failure, that is a systemic failure. At the same time, society is continually moving to an internet-first paradigm for everyone including children, and there is not much these parents can do to affect this situation. You need an internet connected device for schoolwork, for public transit, for after-school programs, and for socializing (because it's where your friends are, which is a reality we need to wrestle with).

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (3 children)

    Provide me with a scenario where a child is online and approached by someone of ill will and the child cannot just block them, and/or go to their parents?

    It is my understanding that all social media applications have a method to block other users. The same thing goes for games with social aspects, like Roblox.

    If the scenario in which this happens is due to poor parenting, then the problem is poor parenting. As far as I’m concerned I should never ever have the effects of someone’s poor parenting touch me in anyway.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    If you don't understand how a child can be manipulated by an adult online, I don't know how to help you.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    And then the parents find out because they monitor their online conversations.

    PARENTS ARE AT FAULT FOR NOT MONITORING THEIR CHILDS ONLINE COMMUNICATION.

    End of the fucking story.

    Do you know where your kid is? Do you know who they talked to today? Do you know the names of their friends online and where they chat? Do you know what websites and apps your child uses?

    If you said no to any of these, your child should be rehoused.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    just to contrast with @org@lemmy.org here, I agree that this does not just fall on the parents. That is the same line of reasoning that gave us recycling as a solution for climate change. We need serious legislation and serious judicial action from our governments, and we're not getting that. ID gate laws are a flimsy attempt to do something that looks good on the news and maybe even seems like a no-brainer to people who are unfamiliar with the technical side of things. These companies that show clear negligence need to be seized by the state and stripped for parts. Only then will companies (maybe) be scared into good-faith engagement to protect people that need it. Really though, serious anti-trust action would make a huge dent in this issue as it would have a chilling effect on a growth-first economy. Really really though, we need revolution against capital.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago

    Yeah someone needs to get sued hard and have a big loss. But the reality of the world is that everyone keeps passing the buck, and right now it has landed on you and me, and that’s pretty fucked up.

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    These companies that show clear negligence need to be seized by the state and stripped for parts.

    Yes! That's what you should be upset about. These companies are pushing these laws to get out of being held accountable for their products. Be upset about THAT and I'm on your side!

    (But that would also mean that small developers and Fediverse hosts would also have to be held accountable for their service.)

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    I'm upset at both ID gate laws and the lack of strong anti-trust action. I'm also not going to assume a person only talking about one at a given time isn't also upset at the other. Discussions about what people "should" talk about are for leaders in organized movements to have with each other to create the most effective response. Doing so in a public setting like this isn't high-minded or insightful, it's a waste of breath. If you care about strategies and tactics, you can join an organized movement, move up in the organization, and have a real say.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago

    Everytime somebody posts something complacent like this telling us not to worry I remember a piece of speech by Arnim Zola in the Winter Soldier movie.

    "Hydra was founded with on belief that humanity could not be trusted with it's own freedom.

    What we did not realize is that if you try to take that freedom, they resist.

    The war taught us much, humanity needed to surrender it's freedom willingly.

    [...]

    For 70 years, Hydra have been secretly feeding crisis, reaping war. And when history did not cooperate, history was changed.

    Hydra created a world so chaotic that humanity is finally ready to sacrifice it's freedom, to gain it's security"

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E486XjhYHh8

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    I m sry, I must have missed something, OS that doesn't comply with age verification laws?! What is that?

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    I don't even understand how this is supposed to protect kids from child predators. Do child predators not want to hang out online where they can interact with kids? So not having age verification enabled keeps you siloed to where the kids are.... Meaning if anything it helps predators pretend to be kids better.

    Now claiming it as a way to protect kids from porn... I guess makes more sense. Because we all know that sketchy porn sites care about laws.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 7 months ago

    You don't understand how this protects kids because you haven't been taught to think like a monster. That's okay. But I have had lots of training in child protection.

    The way "grooming" online often works is to get the kid to a place where the predator can start blackmailing the kid, but that's a process. That often starts on chat apps. Those can be in video games or social media platforms, etc. The predators identify kids in the apps and then will start chatting with them. It will start off innocuous, talking about the game or whatever, but eventually it turns into the predator trapping the kid into a secret (it's always about secrets). The predator will ask the kid "Hey, want to see some porn?" or something like that. And of course a 13 or 14 year old kid is going to be interested in that. Then "don't tell your parents" always follows. Once they have agreed to the secret, the trap is set. The predator brings the kid darker and darker porn and makes the kid feel more and more guilty and uncomfortable. Eventually it turns into, "Send me photos of your self or I'll publish these chats" (or worse, like in person meetings).

    This is why "This is the parent's responsibility" is cruel bull shit. Parents can't be everywhere all the time and these predators make sure they stay out of parents views. The parents are victims too.

    Everyone that says "This isn't about protecting the kids" is half right. It's not really about protecting the kids, it's really about protecting Meta and other developers from liability. Users love private messengers, and internet companies love them too. But it's a problem for Internet companies because they are the dark corners that make the internet companies liable. And they do have a responsibility to protect users on their websites, and they can't just claim "we didn't know", because they damn well know.

    So, their solution is to require the OS to record the user's age, even if that's just "18+". The websites can call the age from the OS, get the "verified age" (they really don't care what "verified" means, that's the OS maker's problem) and then open their doors to the customer. (If the kid is using their parent's account or what ever, the internet companies don't care. They did their due diligence.) But if the OS returns "<18" then the websites can lock down the user's account. They can automatically turn on parental controls, require a parent's consent, etc. Most importantly for child protection, they can turn off or very strictly limit private messaging (all of the online problems start with private messaging). They can basically do a lot of the things they are doing now, just off loading the liability onto the OS maker. Which, personally, I think is better for the parents too. It's much easier for parents to monitor the OS then it is for them to monitor hundreds of websites and games.

    And Lemmy, Mastodon, and fediverse users (and especially hosts) should want this too. Hosts on the fediverse do not understand how much liability they are taking upon themselves (if they did, they wouldn't be hosting).

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