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[–] 82 points 9 months ago (17 children)

Don't get into woodworking if you have a compulsion to achieve accurate, precise results because wood is fiddly as fuck.

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DO get into woodworking if you have a compulsion to achieve accurate, precise results because it will burn that shit right out of you If you don't die from an aneurysm first. It'll teach you to build all sorts of wiggle room into everything in life, not just furniture.

People will think what you made was amazing, that it took so much skill.

Nope.

Only you know how you put everything together loosely, then tightened screws incrementally while adjusting clamps and smacking it with a rubber mallet until it looked right. There are pilot holes they can't see that don't go anywhere. You definitely missed gluing something important. You might have weighted a piece with epoxy and cat litter because you forgot to buy weights, it was 3 am, and you were unintentionally high as balls on stain fumes, but you really wanted to finish in time to surprise your partner for their birthday.

They don't know, they'll never know, and they don't need to know.

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  • [–] 23 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Don't forget the thousands of dollars in tools you'll be compelled to buy and never being able to throw out even the small piece of wood because "you might need it someday".

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

    Tell me about it, and there's always something better than what you have. How to be smart about buying tools deserves its own entire comment chain.

    I didn't know about these until recently, but I now recommend folks check out local tool libraries to get started and see what they want or need for low to no cost.

    We have a one car garage full of maintenance and fabrication tools I've acquired over my life. They've paid for themselves multiple times over in even just the last decade, but the cost and space requirements are prohibitive for a lot of folks. It's one of those "having money saves money" situations, but tool libraries can help a lot.

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  • [–] 17 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    My foray into woodworking began and ended with figuring "sheesh, custom picture frames are so expensive, how hard could it be?!"...

    By the end of that experience, nothing felt real anymore. Every foolishly pure mathematical concept, every platonic ideal - shameful indulgences of the young and weak. Our grand edifices of knowledge, little more than piles of tattered rags with which we clothe our nakedness, arrogant and hubristic in our vulgar conceits.

    Don't do it y'all. That abyss gazes back.

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  • [–] 10 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    My partner complimented my new shelf recently. Then she looked closer and realised it was a few boards stacked up on the cheapest engineering bricks I could find but rotated so the holes are not visible.

    Only got a folding hand saw which I suspect isn't the best for making straight cuts, I had considered cutting up a railway sleeper for blocks instead of the bricks. Bricks worked out cheaper. Wooden blocks could look nice though.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago

    After having worked with wood and son of a cabinet maker, I crave the strength and certainly of steel. I got into welding in a big way.some aluminium, but mostly steel. It's such a wonderful material. Cut it, weld it, grind it, bam, new and bigger steel. You can't make a piece of wood bigger.

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  • [–] 58 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Eating all the food you cook will make you fat

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Especially if you want to make "good" food. I'm not saying there isn't good food that is healthy for you. But if you want to make things taste like they do in a high end restaurant, it's probably going to require a shitload of butter/ghee and salt. And then probably cream. And also highly fatty meats.

    It's usually just butter. So much fucking butter.

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  • [–] 59 points 9 months ago (13 children)

    The correct number of guitars to own is n+1, with n being the number of currently owned guitars.

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  • [–] 19 points 9 months ago (9 children)

    Same for cameras, axes and chainsaws...

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  • [–] 13 points 9 months ago (5 children)
  • [–] 19 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    And freeway lanes necessary to solve traffic

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  • [–] 29 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    In cheaper and more fun to get parts from the junk yard.

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  • [–] 27 points 9 months ago

    I did astronomy like 25 years ago, yes a good telescope is kind of $$$, eyepieces, etc. I wanted to do some astro-photo but back in the days it was top$. But anyway the biggest problem, being in eastern Canada, is that you can only use it at night (hé), and in winter it is so freaking cold it's almost unusable, so you only have summer where night starts at like 10PM... When you have a life, job, house, partner, house, kids, name it, you don't have time or energy for this.

    So I went to RC cars, cheaper!!! can be used during the day, even for 10 minutes, not requiring a setup, just take the remote and the car, make sure the battery is charged, that's it. Buy one for the kid too, bash them, take a brand like Traxxas and you can find cheap parts everywhere for 20 years.

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  • [–] 20 points 9 months ago (1 child)
    • It's always more expensive than I thought
    • It's always more physically demanding than I thought
    • There's never a local hobby/support group for it

    ... Sums up pretty much every hobby I have tried/am trying

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  • [–] 20 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    Buying more expensive and better gear will not make you better at it. I not even going to tell you what the hobby is because this applies to so many of them. If you can do your hobby with the gear you have and you think "oh man I wish I had that, I could do awesome things" - it's only worth it if you spend a whole lot of time on your hobby. If you're like me and you only spend a couple hours a week or month on your hobby, it's usually not worth it. Unless it's something that let's you do stuff faster. Because then you can do more in the few hours you have. I'm sure there are other exceptions to the rule, but in general, before you buy some shit, think to yourself "Do I really need this? Or do I just want it?"

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    This does NOT go for watercolor painting! While you certainly dont need a lot of colors and brushes. The quality of both is paramount for progress and a decent outcome! Paper is even worse. You need a lot and of the expensive stuff. Acrylic paintig is not as bad but still...

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago

    Not sure what hobby this is, but honestly it goes for almost every one of my hobbies. Especially photography. I could probably just get good with my Canon EOS 40D for digital and my Canon EOS 300 for analog photography. But collecting new gear is so satisfying. There's always something new to improve. "If only I had X, then I could really do Y well". Though I at least feel like I've somewhat contained myself. I haven't bought any new camera or lens that was more than like 500 bucks, and honestly with what I have now I don't really feel the need to upgrade.

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  • [–] 19 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    The benefits of keeping old devices. Before we moved several years ago, I had several computers/laptops, storage devices and some other miscellaneous devices that I'd be able to use and actually benefit from if I had kept them.

    • I have games that I can't get working on either Linux or newer versions of Windows.

    • Hard drives from old computers and laptops can be relatively cheaply converted into external hard drives and, while they wont be fast and possibly not reliable if used too much, they offer decent storage for the price.

    • I often use smaller storage devices (like SD cards and MP3 players) for transferring files from one computer to another and I also like to use them as temporary storage to preserve my hard drives when I don't need fast storage.

    Another thing I wish I had known about, was just how quickly emulation would get good for older games. I've wasted so much money from buying older/retro consoles because I thought that emulation would stay as just a niche interest. Nowadays, while some games and systems are still iffy, you can emulate a wide variety of consoles and a lot of emulators even work well on some older and low end devices.

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Photosensitive polymer resin is nasty stuff, and stereolithography 3D printing requires a lot more safety considerations than FDM printing does! No regrets though, it’s still a lot of fun

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  • [–] 18 points 9 months ago

    My boss pushed us to research and acquire a resin printer a couple years ago. My coworker pushed the high-budget Form Labs direction due to his poor experience with resin printing in college. I had zero experience with resin (mostly only used Prusa FDM at that time) and pushed toward the relatively low budget Anycubic Photon direction, from the standpoint of "this is really not what we need to be doing with our budget, and this doesn't make sense for our use case, so I'll try to waste less money."

    Now that my coworker's been gone for over a year, my boss thinks no one uses it because we don't know how. I know how, but FDM is just so much more approachable. I can swap filaments, click print, and walk away in about two minutes and trust that I'll come back to a usable part.

    Changing out resin is its own special hell, and good luck if you have a print fail and have to clean off the bottom of the tray. I didn't get to a point of trusting prints to finish. Even when it does finish, you still have to wash and cure, and every part I ever made in resin seemed to be dimensionally unstable. Even the sample parts a Form Labs rep sent us were badly warped in shipping. The Photon hasn't been used in well over a year. CEO wants us to get rid of it, and I agree. Boss isn't letting go.

    Meanwhile we just got two P2S printers that are cranking out parts like a champ. I would rather take a leisurely stroll across Eastern Ukraine than print with resin ever again.

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  • [–] 36 points 9 months ago (10 children)

    Warhammer 40K is what some may call…MEGA EXPENSIVE.

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  • [–] 23 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    I remember in college, when someone would get into MTG, we'd jokingly say coke's cheaper.

    Now, when someone I know gets into 40k, I much less jokingly say "MTG's cheaper"

    Then again, if you're just playing for fun against friends, a $200 3d printer is cheaper than any army I've seen. Still costs more than a $45 booster draft, but at least the printer's a one-time cost

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  • [–] 4 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    Oh look, you just bought your way into a 3D printing hobby

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    I did that for unrelated reasons, I just 3d printed my way into a 40k hobby :P

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I'm thanking my lucky stars I've newer really gotten along great with resin printing 😂

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    I only have an FDM printer xD You can still do a lot with it, though, especially if you're willing to get a heat gun involved. Though after printing out the character in my profile pic, I did realize there's a lot of small detail that gets lost with FDM.

    Alas, though, small animals, a cat, and poor ventilation make resin printing a bad idea for me

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    Honestly, I don't find it a ton of fun. I use mine so occasionally, you kind of forget how little post processing you do on an FDM print for the most part. Though I definitely see the advantage for minis especially if you're going to paint it afterwards.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago

    Come give Warmachine a shot, army sizes are usually smaller and the rules are less "my rule book was published more recently, that means I win" (Plus the models are slightly cheaper).

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  • [–] 35 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Losing Joann's has made it really difficult to find fabric locally. Michael's needs to step their game up.

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  • [–] 24 points 9 months ago

    Yeah, there really hasn’t been a good alternative for fabric. Lots of people were quick to jump on the “lol join the 21st century and just buy it online” side of the argument, but buying fabric is an extremely tactile experience. You need to feel it to know that it will have the correct texture, weight, see it will hang, which direction(s) it will stretch, how much it will stretch, how easy is is to stretch, etc for what you’re trying to make, because all of those qualities will heavily impact the end product. Those things are difficult to quantify, and nearly impossible to judge purely from photos on an online listing. Two fabrics that look identical online can have vastly different weights, stretch, textures, etc…

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  • [–] 17 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    That my knees were going to go to shit, and carrying a backpack through the mountains needs good knees. Fuck, I miss those trips.

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  • [–] 6 points 9 months ago

    Find a good physical therapist. There are some good ones out there, I promise. But you might need to travel and/or pay out of pocket. And the best source for good PT recs is friends in the same sport - so make friends with some ultra runners and ask them.

    Hit the gym and do yoga. A big part of a lot of knee pain is instability in the low back and hips.

    Read up on psychosomatic pain, and integrate exercises into PT and gym time.

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  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 child)

    That those forensics chaps can find the tiniest spatters of blood on your clothes, on your skin, and in your hair. And people make a lot of spatter.

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  • [–] 16 points 9 months ago (5 children)

    I wish I'd known how much pot space fruits and veggies need to thrive. Indeterminate tomatoes are supposed to have at least like 20 gallons.

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Companion planting, friend! You can grow garlic and basil in the same pot. They all three work well together. Also, if it’s indeterminate, trim that thing. It doesn’t have to keep growing to produce. Learn to compost, too. Take care of your soil and it will take care of your plants.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    garlic and basil in the same pot. They all three

    Wait, are you counting garlic, basil and the pot, or how are you getting to three?

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  • [–] 43 points 9 months ago (6 children)

    Cocaine can become addictive really quickly

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  • [–] 8 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    I have a pretty addictive personality and I thank the stars that I've never enjoyed coke on the handful of occasions I've tried it. It just made me feel overly talkative to the point of being annoying.

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  • [–] 11 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    I have done a fair share of coke and while it was nice to be able to party for two days straight I never really felt addicted. But that's probably just me cause downers on the other hand my god that's shits addictive.

    A ex heroin addict once told me that when I talked about the downers I was using that I sounded like an heroin addict and that I shouldn't ever try heroin. (Which I guess is great advice in general but the way she said it still stays with me)

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    Understandable, my brains already unfocussed jumping around, coke would just make me say all that shit out loud, downers would calm me down and make me feel normal

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago

    I'm basically coked out by default, it would simply keep me from blacking out or bring me out of one when I used to use it. Otherwise no change, it's the same with alcohol, it takes a lot to actually bring on a change, most people usually think I'm still sober or barely drunk blacked out apparently. Never really felt addicted to either, weed on the other hand, apparently not addictive, but it forsure ruins my mood when I try to quit. (Haven't drank in over 6 months, and had a fat gap before that, don't think of it, haven't used coke for over 2 years probably, don't think of it either, weed + nicotine I still use daily) I'm not trying to quit them either, just not around fun ppl or things to do since moving back home after college, so I just never think to do it.

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    What the consumables are. As a noob, you don't look at a metal bike cassette and think "that's going to wear out". Or at a metal 3d printer nozzle. Or at paint brushes (I keep ruining expensive ones! 😭).

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Hey! Long time artist here who paints all kinds of things, from metal lawn art to actual paintings. Rule number one- wash your bushes out in cool water, not hot or warm, as hot water can loosen the glue that holds the bristles in. Second get a small tub of brush restorer. A little goes a long way. Once the brush is dry, add a little brush restorer and reshape the tip and bristles. You can use sharp sizzors to clip and stray brush hairs that won't stay in place. And keep paining!

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago* (1 child)

    I just do miniature painting, so it's the really tiny detail brushes, keep ruining the tips trying to get into little corners.

    Might have a look at the brush restorer.

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  • [–] 15 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    The predatory FOMO nature of Games Workshop is real and harmful to the hobby as a whole. The editions of the games could last for years yet we're on a 3 year cycle to adjust stats and change rules that don't need changing. It creates a cycle of I liked this edition but everybody moved on so I'm forced to move up or give up on the game.

    Luckily there's a million other games but they're micro in comparison. You're stuck either creating a community on your own or hoping there's a group within a reasonable distance that you can help with. If not... Sorry about your wasted investment.

    If you do get sucked into it and you end up investing into every GW game system with multiple armies across every system, you're gonna run out of space. Unless you live in a multi story house or have a shed with nothing in it, these things take up space.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

    Yes, tabletop gaming is so much bigger and more varied than GW's games. I love 40k and Warhammer fantasy, but just as one part of the hobby.

    The high pricing and FOMO churning is pretty perfected by GW. It is easy to fall into just thinking and buying GW products at MSRP. There are many ways to avoid it and play for much cheaper, but it means breaking out of the GW exclusive ecosystem. (I have many specific suggestions how to do this btw.)

    I can't stand the modern tournament culture which has this sort of e-sports stink on it.

    As a mild piece of good news OnePageRules seems to have decent traction and isn't too difficult to find groups who play in stores. It has its shortcomings, but at least the rules aren't subject to the constant market driven churning updates.

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Oh I know there's so much more than GW. I got my start with Warmachine. I had a group of 6 that met bi weekly for years until the game imploded. Then we scattered. Infinity was the next big thing. That got two of us and another from the store I frequented that wasn't apart of the Warmachine group. Then that dwindled and all that's left is GW.

    We tried converting some of the 40k players to Infinity. They all like the look, like the idea, see the elaborate tables we cook up, and show enthusiasm for the game. None of them pull the trigger. There's never a right time. It's like trying to pull Artax out of the mud.

    I understand both sides because I had a friend try to get me into Otherside and iirc that game doesn't even exist anymore.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago

    OPR skirmish is the easiest to talk people into since it uses GW minis they probably already own. All it needs is people reading the free rules and making a list. It feels like a proper skirmish game instead of the strange hero battle game modern Kill Team is. This is doable if a store has a Discord or something to do barebones meetup planning even with strangers.

    A little more difficult, but doable if you've eased people into alternate ideas is getting people to agree to an older 40k edition. It requires buying or, uh, finding the rules and codexes, but it sidesteps the problem of constant rules changes. My preference is 3e (I have very little personal interest in Primaris marines) which is much less bloated than modern armies of the same points value.

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