Broadly speaking, you probably agree with the large majority of the views commonly attributed to whichever group you identify with - what are the exceptions? Something that if you mention without a caveat immediately makes people jump to conclusions or even attack you?

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[–] 28 points 11 months ago (8 children)

That Lemmy can be just as bigoted, hostile, and close-minded as the sites it set out to replace; it drives out views which aren't in line with the gestalt majority. This thread, then, mostly gets answers which are on the mildest end because those who actually hold opinions out of step with the majority know damn well not to speak up, or, well... be immediately othered.

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  • [–] 0 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Care to provide specific examples? I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just curious as to what things about this place that you consider to be "bigoted". Because my experience has been that the opinions that aren't tolerated here are themselves the bigoted opinions.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago (2 children)

    Look back on my profile at the recent comment where I mentioned Johnny Depp being a disgusting drunk rapist who groomed a woman half his age and sued her for defaming him when she spoke about the backlash she received for speaking out against his domestic abuse.

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    All you are saying here is ‘anything i declared bigoted shouldn’t be tolerated’.

    Yep. Basically this. And to bring it back around to OP's question:

    [Opinions] you mention without a caveat immediately makes people jump to conclusions or even attack you?

    ...well, it feels like this is a great example. Suggest that the fediverse has a bit of a bigotry problem, and you immediately get hit with an implication that no, everything is fine, if you're not happy then you must actually be the bigot!

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  • [–] 29 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    I think that gender dysphoria is a mental illness, as it causes mental distress if not alleviated with transition, but that it's not shameful to have it any more than it's shameful to have autism, conversion therapy has been scientifically proven not to work, and just as people with diabetes manage their condition with insulin, transition is the best way to manage it so people with it can live happy lives.

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  • [–] 16 points 11 months ago*

    As a trans person yes, absolutely the anguish we feel for not being comfortable in our bodies is 100% mental illness. And people get upset because we see mental illness as a bad thing, a personal failure, instead of a condition to be treated.

    Doctors have decided that transitioning, while it doesn't fix the problem of people not being born as their preferred gender, is much healthier treatment for the individual and society so that we can try to live happier lives where we get to feel as comfortable as cis people naturally feel.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    gender dysphoria is a mental illness

    I think that's the general consensus.

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I seem to constantly interact with people decrying the 'transmedicalist perspective'

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    That people take issue with this point of view speaks to a general stigma around 'mental illness' as a category. Some strides have been made but we're still not where I'd like us to be.

    Yes, gender dysphoria is a psychological condition. Yes, in many cases acceptance of identified gender and medical transition can reduce the suffering caused by the condition. It's not like there's been resounding success/better 'patient' outcomes for the alternatives.

    It's just such an obvious line of reasoning to me that I have a hard time understanding how some people don't grok it, unless they've been poisoned by shitty preachers.

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I hate being drunk as well as being around others who are drunk. So yeah, I'm real fun at parties.

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    I'm a militant ethical vegan. I basically don't talk about it unless directly asked, because it's probably a fight otherwise.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago* (4 children)

    I don't believe in the right to private property. This is completely non-discussable with family. I am very lucky to have friends more open to this sort of radicalism.

    I also have some strong opinions about colonialism and reparations that don't get most Americans, especially not white suburban Americans that I an surrounded with, very excited.

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  • [–] [S] 11 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Where do you draw the line on what counts as property? Surely people can have some things that are theirs?

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  • [–] 17 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    So a common misconception about property is that private property means personal property. This couldn't be further from the truth. When leftists discuss private property we are referring specifically to property owned with the purpose of producing capital for the owner. This essentially means businesses. Your house is not private property it is personal property because you own it for personal use. This changes if you own 50 houses and extract rent from them. A hammer is personal property until you own hundreds of thousands of them and distribute them amongst laborers who use them to create economic value that you now "own". Communists want you to own things, we just don't want individuals or small groups to own production and have legal entitlement to the value of worker's labor.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago*

    Interesting perspective I haven't heard about before, thanks for sharing this food for thought!

    I'm wondering if this can be extrapolated beyond physical things like the hammers and houses you mentioned. Would a rule of thumb like "one shouldn't be able to appropriate more resources than one can personally make use of" fit with your point of view?

    E.g.: nobody should earn 3 million a year (thinking of the mozilla ceo here specifically lol, but I'm sure it's common among big businesses), not leaving the heater on if you're not home because (in most cases) someone else could have used that electricity or gas, selling or donating non-sentimental things you're surely not going to use it again so that someone else can get use/value out of it, etc. As ideals to strive for of course, not necessarily all hard-and-fast rules

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  • [–] 7 points 11 months ago

    When people talk about private property, they generally aren't talking about personal property: your desk, your refrigerator, your home. They mean private ownership of eg. farms, factories, cyclotrons

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago (8 children)

    I’m a Democrat who values the 2nd amendment and doesn’t think we should just ban guns in the U.S. Stronger regulations and safety measures? Sure, absolutely. But I do think people should have the right to own and use firearms for recreation, hunting, personal protection, etc.

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    I think you'll find that most people by a wide margin agree that prohibition of anything generally doesn't work, and what they are looking for is regulations and enforcement.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    I know plenty of people on the Left who want to ban guns, European-style. They think anyone who owns one is partially psychopathic and have a fetish about killing things. You're right, they're probably in the minority, but I question by just how much. I don't think they're as fringe as some people would like to believe.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago (2 children)

    Personal firearms ownership is legal in Europe.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    My understanding was that it’s only legal under highly restricted conditions. If you’re just Joe Schmoe, you’re not going to be able to get a firearm just because you have no criminal history and no evidence of mental illness.

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    I agree up to the point where the amendment is pointed at as disallowing reasonable regulation. If that's the case, end 2A. But my goal is regulation, not abolishment. If 2A folks (mainly the Supreme Court here) can accept regulation existing in parallel with 2A, then I'm happy.

    I'm mainly thinking about preventing school shootings and domestic violence and murder, so restrictions of some sort on mental health / violent history.

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    [–] 7 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I keep getting downvoted because I advocate always voting left. Even if currently the democrats aren’t left wing, they are more left than Republicans. And if you keep voting for the most left candidate then over time they’ll keep shifting more and more left. Republicans will learn they’ll never win unless they start moving left so they’ll move left, then the Democrats will move more left.

    Letting republicans win because the current democrat isn’t left enough is, IMHO, stupid.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago

    Thank God…. I hate the edgy leftists who think they’re being morally righteous by not voting or wasting their votes voting 3rd party. These people also never work on voting reform either which is essential in escaping our 2 party systems.

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  • [–] 28 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    I don't hate AI. It's fine. I don't love it either, but it's neat and often useful.

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  • [–] 14 points 11 months ago

    Just gonna vent a little, don't mind me. I don't hate AI. I hate how it's being used. In a vacuum, AI is fine. But we don't live in a vacuum, we live in a capitalist hellscape where everyone saw how AI was going to be abused even before corporations started jumping on every chance they got to do so. Now we're stuck in the timeline where the public consensus is that using AI for any reason at all is seen as fundamentally unethical. People are zealously anti-AI and the nail is only getting pounded in further with new reasons to hate it appearing every other day. And it didn't have to be this way. Photography didn't try to pass itself off as painting, it had time to develop into its own art form. But AI didn't. Out the gate, it was being used deceptively, and continuously became worse. People want to abolish AI as a whole, but it isn't the problem. The problems run way deeper. Our world is a sinking boat and AI is showing us where all the leaks are. Lack of education, lack of access to mental health professionals, those in power using every chance they get to screw over the working class by cutting every corner. Any new technology in any form that can be used to exploit people, WILL be used to exploit people. The hate on AI may be justified but it's too generalized and unfocused to bring about any meaningful change. There needs to be regulation, but I fear that any laws that are passed will only benefit the rich and horrible.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    You're fine with companies stealing other people's work?

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  • [–] 10 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    As far as I know, the jury is still out on whether that is infringing (not stealing). Based on my understanding, AI is transformative and would fall under fair use. That being said, claiming fair use and then selling the output is problematic to me.

    Every single model should be open weights and uncensored. I wouldn't have any issue with companies adding value or supplying the compute to run the model.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 11 months ago

    In this particular case I'm okay with it but I don't see it as stealing. Human artists are influenced by the art of other artists the same way. It's only stealing if you're selling copies of the original piece as your own. I wouldn't have any problem with someone copying my entire photography portfolio to train an AI to generate pictures with my style because it takes nothing away from me. Just sell them as your own then instead of claiming they were taken by me.

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  • [–] 12 points 11 months ago (5 children)

    That having a better education is directly tied to income levels, so talking down to 'idiots' is actually some bougie bullshit.

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  • [–] 7 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Lemmy is a website full of people who are left-populists on paper, but hate the population.

    The average Lemmite should never be in charge of anything that their IT degree doesn't qualify them for.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Lemmy wants the baby without the labor pains.

    "Destroy Capitalism!"

    "But what about the millions who will die in the ensuing chaos!?!"

    "Well dont do it that way!"

    "Which way then?"

    "DESTROY CAPITALISM!"

    Yeah the system is fucked and definitely needs change, but its either gradual or violent and as someone who came up with rough crowds in rough places. Most people arent cut out for when the actual violence starts.

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  • [–] 0 points 11 months ago

    You're not entirely wrong but their are outliers like me! I graduated top of my class from a boogie High School (the most expensive in CT) I dropped out of college and now work as a dishwasher, its the most fun I've had in my past decade of employment from various companies, and the best paying? Why does that happen? I'm being paid $18/hr to wash dishes, its my dream job (no customer interactions) I studied CS in college and I'm very literate in all computer related tech (Fuck AI)

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  • [–] 6 points 11 months ago (1 child)
    1. Bigotry and prejudice is always bad, even if it's not against a "protected class". Hating on white people, straight people, cis people, men, or anyone else for the way they were born, what their ancestors did makes the world a worse place. Heck, "white" itself is a nebulous concept that changes over time and is different depending on which racist you're talking to. Just because someone resembles your oppressor does not make them your enemy.

    2. Kind of related, but I don't broadly judge categories of things. I was at a party recently and someone asked me if I liked anime, and I responded that I like some anime. Most of it I don't like, but that's not specific to anime. In my experience, roughly 80-90% of all media is somewhere between "garbage" and "mediocre", and it's the 10-20% at the top that I look for. A lot of my favorite bands happen to be metal, but I'm not going to like every band that uses distorted guitars.

    Perhaps another way of phrasing it is that I usually find that the parameters which define genre are often separate from the parameters that determine my personal enjoyment.

    My theory is that most people are more concerned with the social groups around media than the media itself.

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    Something along the lines of "well I actually don't like anime!". And started talking about how people expect him to be an anime fan, and how he lived in Japan for a while and liked manga a lot but not so much anime.

    It was a a party with a lot of "alternative" people, most of whom probably would just say "yeah I like anime". I think the guy was expecting me to say that so that he could that he could then subvert expectations, but my more neutral response kind of derailed things.

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    [–] 16 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I think violence should be the last resort, not the first, when speaking of revolution.

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago

    "Pro-gun" - am left-of-center, anti-estsblishment, progressive US Democrat, people probably assume I'm far-right if I just say that no context

    "反共" ("Anti-CCP") - Amongst Mainland Chinese, they'd probably look at me like the classroom "troublemaker", even my parents don't like me talking shit about CCP at home, we don't even live in China. Someone from a Chinese Lemmy instance probably assumed I was a white dude that hated China and Chinese people and asked why I "hated China". I had to use pinyin to type my response in Chinese, my native language, explaning I'm ethnic Chinese and born in mainland China and I only hate the party/government. Their response afterwards was quite "chill", very understanding. Amongst westerners, if I say I'm anti-CCP, they'd probably assume I'm a conservative lol, nah fam, fuck the rightwing radical lunatics and fuck tankies

    Me prefering visual media over books - Lemmy seems to overwhelmingly like books better, for me, nah, partial aphantasia, hard to imagine things like someone elses thoughts, I can picture my memories quite well tho...

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    My anarchism.

    Anarchism in general makes me the other when dealing with most people, but the specifics of my views on it also generally make me the other when dealing with most "anarchists." (I oppose any and all attempts to institute anarchism - I believe it will arise organically or not at all - and I similarly reject any and all stipulations regarding what sort of standards, norms or systems may, may not, must or must not be a part of an anarchistic society),

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    Hey friend. This is basically what I came to write. I consider myself a "dictionary anarchist" which to me just means a complete lack of hierarchy whether natural or imposed.

    I don't think of it as a political philosophy but more just as a description of how I believe the world actually is when stripped of the systems we've laid on top of everything.

    I also have no interest in figuring out or enforcing this belief on other people or groups.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

    I'm amazed and pleased. I almost never encounter anyone who shares my views, even among self-described 'anarchists."

    Most of them carry around lists (figuratively at least) of all of the things that will be required and all of the things that will be prohibited in their "anarchism," antagonistically immune to the fact that by doing so, they've already stipulated institutionalized, hierarchical authority and thus proactively eliminated anarchism.

    I don’t think of it as a political philosophy but more just as a description of how I believe the world actually is when stripped of the systems we’ve laid on top of everything.

    Very much yes.

    My anarchism is rooted in my view that authority is a contrivance, and an ultimately unjustifiable one.

    Tom lives alone on a desert island. That means that Tom, within the constraints necessarily imposed by simple reality (he can't, for instance, flap his arms and fly) enjoys complete freedom of choice.

    The only way that that freedom can be constrained is if another person is introduced and that other person acts to constrain Tom's freedom.

    So as you note, the state of affairs in which Tom's freedom is constrained beyond anything determined by simple reality is some additional element that's laid on top of the base state.

    And as such, it's the thing that must be justified. Tom doesn't have to justify being free from constraint imposed by another - he already was so free, and would have remained so were it not for the fact that the other has chosen to try to introduce constraint.

    Therefore, the introduction of constraint is the thing that must be justified

    And there's no possible justification for it that doesn't ultimately establish a hierarchy by which the other person is seen to effectively be a superior being, such that their determination of what Tom may, may not, must or must not do is superior even to Tom's

    If the tacit presumption of innate superiority isn't made, then any and all noninal justifications for authority over Tom's decisions fail, since any argument by which any other party might justify imposing their will on Tom is also an argument by which Tom might justify imposing his will on them, and any argument by which they might claim to be rightly free of the imposition of Tom's will is also an argument by which Tom might claim to be rightfully free of the imposition of their will upon him.

    This is where and why institutionalized authority inevitably goes wrong, which in turn is why I'm an anarchist.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    What do you think about Cheran in Mexico?

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Without first hand knowledge, I couldn't say in any detail, but I expect that ambitious, greedy, power-hungry psychopaths are already angling for Council positions, from which they'll exercise tacit authority until such time as their positions and their authority can be institutionalized, at which point they'll become the new generation of corrupt officials.

    That's not to say or imply I oppose the effort - if nothing else, they've gotten some breathing room. And hopefully the next time they throw off their tyrants, they'll remember how they got their start and reject authority in and of itself and entirely, rather than deluding themselves that it can be constrained.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago*

    From what I've read, they didn't overthrow the government to abolish rules, they did it to replace corrupt state rules with traditional community rules.

    There is no campaigning allowed either for elections to the council, and no secret ballots.

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    [–] 5 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    That we should renationalise all public services here in the UK. I genuinely believe that. I'm essentially a left of centre capitalist, but I believe private companies using shared national infrastructure for shareholder profit under the lie of 'competition' is bullshit.

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  • [–] [S] 13 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    In my personal case, especially among the people I hang with here, my positive attitude toward generative AI seems like one of the major ones. Many people really don't seem to like it when someone mentions enjoying using these tools.

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    We Americans used to at least try not to look for "foreign monsters abroad". I was raised on that sort of old fashioned idea. Do you ever feel like an impossible person from a land that never existed?

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    It still is a right wing position, but the trouble is not right or left specifically, it's that the empire is overextended with its military obligations, the dollar has been badly debased, the US pays more in debt than its GDP, and despite all our spending, the US couldn't possibly meet all of its military obligations if more than one big thing happened at a time. The dollar is still the world reserve currency, but only because there's not yet a credible replacement.

    The sad fact is that instead of minding our business, America wanted to be an empire - and empires have a pretty standard lifecycle. I don't think it's a question of if, but when, it goes the way of Spain and GB.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Probably being an absolutist instead of considering case-by-case leaves room for criticism.

    In your example, Biden pulling out of Afghanistan. Was it wrong to intervene in the first place, probably? But pulling out at that point caused the deaths of western allies and handed victory to the Taliban, causing millions to suffer eg. women can’t get jobs and single-mother families starve to death… and it was entirely foreseeable.

    I would argue that Humanitarian Intervention should be excluded, and certain UN-led actions (although the bureaucracy has certainly led to interventions occurring after mass deaths, unfortunately).

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    If a Taliban victory was inevitable, this is yeah totally true. The “rip off the bandaid” approach.

    The question of how long it takes to peacefully handover power in a colony is an interesting one. It can be an absurd amount of time, may never be 100%, or it may never be peaceful, if resentment persists. I think it is possible, but we may differ there.

    It’s certainly hard to justify the long-term cost to American life, expenditure, energy and focus to attempt beneficial cultural change on the other side of the world.

    Unsurprisingly perhaps, some things are actually better in Afghanistan, since 2021. Definite evidence that war is in fact, worse, generally, than even a very dickish government. Looking at the data, I might come down on your side, it’s tough.

    WHO Health data overview for the Islamic Republic of Afghanistan

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago* (10 children)

    Religion and spirituality, broadly considered, are not inherently evil. That organized religion can justify great evils is a function of human weakness, nothing more.

    Then again, this is coupled with a 'there is no god but that we create ourselves/god has no material existence, but is no less powerful for that'' POV, which is admittedly a weird one that I've been pulling at for a bit. Nothing to do with the nature of our reality or first causes, everything to do with our relationship to reality.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Came here to comment on the religion part. Humans are biologically programmed to be in a tribe and we need an "other" and we need a bad guy. On its own religion could be a neutral or a good thing, but it fits that need for tribalism and a common enemy and feeling superior. It's the same mindset as nationalism or racism or when fans of sports teams riot and beat the shit out of each other for no reason. If religion never existed humanity would have just discovered some other way to segregate ourselves, feel superior, order each other around with arbitrary rules even the in group can't agree on, and isolate and kill those who don't comply. Add in manipulative people who are all too eager to hop into leadership roles and use them for their own power and selfish gain and you have pure evil, but it's the system, not the religion, that's a distraction.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    I largely agree, but I don't think people actually need to have an "other" to hate. I suspect it's an easily activated community-level defense mechanism, if that makes sense. One that's easily a used by manipulative people.

    I'm just trying to figure it if there's an evolutionarily-selected use for having manipulative power-seeking types in our populations, or if they truly are more analogous to a parasitic mutation of a more conventional personality type.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago* (2 children)

    I can't say that I disagree with anything here. What bugs me about it is that at an idea at the core of many religions is that all us humans are of one kind, some particular expression of the universe (however that's conceptualized), and can/should act in that fashion, towards each other and the world around us.

    But it's almost always turned into a footnote among a bunch of other bullshit that perpetuates tribalism, subjugation and violence. Going to use words that are easily poked apart, but I hope the idea comes across: we all contain something of the divine. It's a miracle we exist at all, and maybe it's possible we can all act like it and set aside meaningless divisions. One 'tribe', the world over, created by mutual recognition and respect rather than force and othering.

    Literally all the bones are there, you just have to cast out the outdated divisive bullshit. But doing so also involves actively rejecting some ugly facts about humans as a group, which is, well, hard - to put it mildly.

    Idk - this is all why I don't talk about my beliefs (such as they are) too much, and just try my best to act with the good stuff above in mind as much as possible.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I'm not at all religious now, but I was raised Christian. There's some awful, awful shit in the Bible, but Jesus was such a chill dude. If everyone acted like Jesus, the world would be an awesome place. He was just a hippie who drank wine and hung out with his bros and made friends with prostitutes and outcasts and condemned the church leaders who abused their positions. According to legend he was the legit son of God and yet when he was asked to judge sinners he was like yo dudes that's not my place only my dad can do that I'm not worthy and neither are any of you, maybe instead of worrying about what other people are doing you should deal with your own issues, ok? Can you imagine if people actually lived like that? I'm not as familiar with other religions, but from what I know other major prophets were pretty chill, cool dudes too. If people actually followed the prophets of their religions instead of being assholes, religion would be great. Instead we have poor people being exploited, women and children being abused, and the entire system is fucked and corrupted because of human nature run amok.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago

    100%. It's why (when I take a look at things from my bottom-up god POV, which is a key stumbling point here re:implementation) I think a Christian movement that interprets the fucked system behind such outcomes as 'Satanic' corruptions to be cast aside would be interesting and possibly pretty cool. Or it'd just continue the cycle of fucked up shit with new window dressing, idk.

    Satanic in quotes 'cause there's lots you can unpack with that term/figure, but you know, popular broad strokes version - evil force trying to keep us from what we can be. It's really just us getting in our own way IMO.

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    People have passions about other things than Jeebus. They are often irrational and they tend to become attached to their pre-existing notions. These basic facts about humanity doesn't make their other passions a proxy for religion.

    Typical cultist thinking. People's politics and thought processes are a religion like bald is a hair color.

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    Religion and politics are oft intertwined that doesn't make them the same thing. In fact you might note that insofar as MAGA membership in a christian cult is highly correlated with being in a political cult.

    Some of us aren't in any cult. Maybe that can be you one day.

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    I had figured you to be one of the hurr durr atheism is a type of religion hurr durr types which are almost always Christians or the flavor of agnostic that holds so many Christian beliefs that you might as well call them Christian in everything but name. Did I guess wrong?

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    You seem to have a reading comprehension problem. An atheist is merely someone who has no religion like bald is someone who has no hair. Language often works by analogy. We describe groups like cults even whilst they aren't in any way shape or form a religion nor a replacement for one.

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    [–] 15 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Having children is borderline unethical given the capitalist hellscape they will be born into, the relatively high likelihood that they will not be able to live to old age due to risk of large parts of the planet becoming uninhabitable with climate change, and considering that reduced birth rates is the most ethical path to a lower population on the planet, which, though technically not a strict requirement of a greener future, certainly makes it a lot easier.

    No shade for any kids living today or parents who choose to have them despite the above. I understand why people do it and I don't blame anyone for it. But it is worth pointing out that current birth rates in most countries are not sustainable, and the seemingly constant fearmongering about falling birthrates in places where it's low needs to go away. Yes, it's bad for the economy if the new generation is smaller than their parents. That's a problem with the system and its design (one of many), and not at all a rationale for having kids.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    I will be honest, I held this same view for many years and still agree with it on the face of it but there were two things that people said to me that softened my view.

    1. We need good people to make more good people. (Apparently my friends think I’m a good person. Weird)
    2. There be dragons in our society but what good are dragons without dragon slayers?

    Obviously these weren’t the only factors but they both really resonated with me. My first dragon slayers is due this month

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    The trick here I think is parenting in a way that passes along whatever good you may have to your child. Unfortunately (or fortunately, in some cases) the moral compass and general ethics of the parents don't always translate to the kid. How to do that effectively is a whole other psychological debate. Either way, congrats and best of luck!

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