I'm new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don't know anything about lemmy etiquette and don't want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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[–] 116 points 11 months ago (9 children)

Take advice from Detective Frank Drebin

"Like a blindman at an orgy, I was going to have to feel my way through"

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Fair, I just like to check these things so I don't offend anyone or do anything mean. Thanks. Have a great day!

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago* (3 children)

    I was making light of your question ... partly to have a bit of fun ... and partly to show that the community enjoys sharing these silly little bits of movie quotes that act like memes. The one I was using is from the movie "The Naked Gun" (the original film from 1988 with Leslie Nielson)

    A lot of the meme communities enjoy old slapstick movie content as there is a lot of memeable content there ... films like 'The Naked Gun' series, Hot Shots, any of the Mel Brooks films and Monty Python.

    Don't be afraid to test your boundaries, comment as you like but with an open mind and kind heart ... people will let you know if you've said or implied anything negative or positive. Don't be discouraged if you get no response either ... it's not a popularity contest. The longer you stay, the more you comment, the more you get to know people and the more they get to know you and eventually you become a regular part of the community.

    Welcome to Lemmy and welcome to the fediverse.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Thanks, and I've seen Monty Python and the holy grail and flying circus! Very silly and memeable lol. Have a great day!

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  • [–] 89 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    It’s smaller, but more personable. It’s full of neurodivergent, queer, and tech oriented people. It has its own inside jokes—you will want to read up on beans.

    Overall, I have enjoyed the experience. Sometimes, I have been surprised when people can’t detect obvious jokes or sarcasm, but then I remember how many people here are neurodivergent and try to reply with something kind and straightforward so we’re on the same page.

    People tend to be very leftist compared to the rest of the internet, so it’s good to remember that the opinions here are not always representative of the world at large.

    A huge chunk of Lemmy is German, and that part of the community remains a total mystery to me because I don’t speak German. They seem cool from afar.

    Which communities you are able to see depends pretty heavily on which instance is your home base—I’m with DB0, and we federate with pretty much everyone who isn’t doing something detestably illegal, but LemmyWorld is much more exclusive with who they federate with, so their users don’t see the same instances that I do. Pick a home instance that fits you best because it will matter a lot as you find communities.

    You will see interactions between communists and anarchists. Try to remember that you don’t have to comment on everything you might disagree with.

    Welcome to the Fediverse—we’re happy to have you.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    Speaking of federation, do you know if there is a site that compares federation from instances. It would be nice to make a good decision before creating an account. Like I am on lemmy.ca and have no idea what you may see that i don't. Personally I feel like lemmy.ca is good but have no comparison point other than lemmy.world I used a little.

    And for OP if you browse on mobile I tried a lot of apps and settled on "Summit". It's great and stable.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 11 months ago* (2 children)

    Thanks, have a great day! :D

    I have more excuses to learn German piling up lol (I have a German friend... 2 actually, and also this platform. I wanna learn something that seems interesting to me)

    Also I have diverged neurons (joke, I mean I'm nd) I'm AuDHD.

    Please don't treat too different just because I'm nd yall (I've had bad experiences with ableism, long story)

    Anyways thanks again :D

    Wait a minute... I've seen you before... forgot where on here though.

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  • [–] 4 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    I get around, lol. I’ve been on Lemmy for quite a while now.

    My girlfriend is also on the spectrum, so I try to handle neurodivergent misunderstandings here the same way I do with her: cunnilingus, uh, I mean, a clearly worded rephrasing of my statement.

    Glad you found us, it sounds like you’ll fit in well here.

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  • [–] 147 points 11 months ago (23 children)

    If you haven't already then you need to switch to Linux

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  • [–] 7 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Don’t forget GrapheneOS and Jellyfin! Anything else you can think of? It’ll be a lot easier if they can convert everything in one go.

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  • [–] 13 points 11 months ago (18 children)

    But only some distros should be used !

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  • [–] 20 points 11 months ago* (15 children)

    Arch
    Debian
    Mint
    NixOS

    Did I miss any?

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    I have seen a video on that. I am not a 40y/o discord mod lmao (/j)

    (no longer /j in this part) I'll try arch, and if I'm really that bored, I might try it, but it looks like something I don't want to get caught dead with for the next few years.

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    It looks like silly fun, but as they say on their own page, they don't recommend it as a daily driver, specifically because it was designed with humor in mind, not maintainability.

    Could be worth spinning up in a VM or giving away on an old laptop, though...

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  • [–] 3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    I'm currently running KDE Linux and I must admit I like it ! The immutable system feels weird but kinda safe. But the lack of Midnight Commander is a shame ! And I guess the not working transparency in yakuake is due to it being coded for X11.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    I thought KDE was a DE, not a distro? (I'm definitely wrong and offending someone, aren't I?)

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 11 months ago

    Working on it lol.

    Dad doesn't want to switch to linux, because "his files" or something (libreoffice and ddg??? he uses ddg on some devices already and libreoffice is like free ms365) so if I get Frankenstein the Floor Computer running, yes, I will linux (I plan on dual booting mint/arch, but not being toxic about it)

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  • [–] 30 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Welcome! Lemmy is like Reddit was in its infancy.

    Don't be a jerk and you'll be fine. :)

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  • [–] 59 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Each Lemmy instance has its own rules, and each community as well. Please read them before posting, because rule #3 for this community is:

    1. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
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  • [–] 20 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    I switched from reddit awhile back. It is similar, but so far have seen a lot less hostility than reddit. I don't have time for those types , so if they turn to insults rather than proper dialog I just block them, even if they weren't talking to me directly. It makes it a much more pleasant experience

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  • [–] 13 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Hey screw you buddy,

    But seriously it is much friendlier, the only thing i do differently is i tag users who bother me or who i see being and agitator.

    That way i see who it is and don't react. I also try not to block people because we all have bad days and it's kinda like killing them with no trial.

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  • [–] 150 points 11 months ago (17 children)

    One thing to note is more often people here reply with genuine comments and in good faith. There is also a lack of clever snarky comments and baiting due to the lack of karma system.

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  • [–] 24 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Isn't the up / downvote just like karma?

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  • [–] 86 points 11 months ago* (1 child)

    Karma on reddit tracks the accumulated likes and dislikes a user has gotten on all of their posts. Lemmy does not have a number like that.

    Edit: What this means in practice is that on Reddit there are some users who make a lot of low-effort posts to get that karma number to go up and get a sense of accomplishment from that (even when they get a negative reputation among the other users), whereas on Lemmy that's not really a thing. Lemmy has power-users that become well-known, but they're more well-liked because they aim to gain actual reputation instead of just farming a karma number.

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago

    This was the first thing that threw me off: people here tend to comment in good faith. I’m so used to people begging the question and generally having iron clad closed minds…from Reddit.

    …but here conservations have often come to conclusion where I and another user agree to disagree amicably, or one of us moves towards the other in light of new information or a logical argument.

    it’s really weird…but I hope it stays like that so I can get used to it.

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  • [+] -17 points 11 months ago (6 children)

    No they don't. You're lying and you know you're lying. You're just trying to suck up to the thread so you can get more karma. No one at Lemmy does that.

    "lOok aT Me, i kNoW leMmY eTiQueTte. More oFteN PeoPle heRe rEply wiTH gEnuIne ComMenTs aNd In gOOd fAiTh." You're so full of it. Watch this, my comment will recieve more upvotes than you

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  • [–] 8 points 11 months ago (4 children)
  • [–] -3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    Right, that's what I meant (BTW, I'm being sarcastic so I don't mean it)

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 11 months ago (2 children)

    I'm sorry, but even knowing that it's sarcastic, it comes off very snarky (it's ok though)

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  • [–] 28 points 11 months ago (3 children)

    A major difference I noticed with Lemmy from my time on Reddit is communities aren't quite as rabid about strict adherence to their topic or gimmick. r/whatisthisthing banned me for seven days once for elaborating what an E6B flight computer is for. Because "This community is for IDENTIFYING the thing, not DISCUSSING the thing!" Not...so much of that around here.

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  • [–] 26 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    No need to show off. Don't be a snarky asshole. Be nice to people, but be real. Don't be afraid to be weird or answer with an autistic essay. It's okay to dissent, just don't be a fucking asshole about it. Realize that on Reddit, that shit is all bots and Nazi trolls and meek confirming bitches afraid to be real and tell shitty people that they're wrong and exactly why. Welcome. Prepare to have your eyes ripped open.

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  • [–] 52 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Don't be a jerk and you will be fine.

    We are all mostly human here. Just remember that. Hope you have a great time on the fediverse!

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  • [–] 88 points 11 months ago (14 children)

    Please do not drag the same tired jokes over from reddit (e.g. broken arms). Stick around long enough to learn Lemmy's tired jokes.

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  • [–] 39 points 11 months ago (10 children)

    Beans, how not to poop for 5 days, ed Sheeran, and I use arch btw? I’m sure I missed a bunch, too.

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    And no subreddits as hashtags. Oh how I hated that shit so much. I hated awards too, cluttered up discussions with bullshit award speeches. It’s so much cleaner discussing here.

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