Autistic guy here and sorry for the political rant. There is a lot of intense and horrific things happening all over the world like the recent war with Iran. But let me say this. If you voted for Trump and your friends and family cut you off because of it, then I do not feel any sympathy for you.

Especially if you have a loved one who is neurodivergent or is special needs. The amount of grief and hopelessness this administration is bringing to thousands, if not millions, of families in the USA is indefensible. Families have been torn apart because of his draconian policies towards immigration. Legal immigrants and regular tourists are being jailed because they committed a minor infraction. Education and social safety programs are being gutted, while the ultra-wealthy keep getting richer and richer.

Canada, Australia and Europe, which we have seen as friends for the previous couple decades, are moving away from the USA after Trump's annexation threats of Canada and withdrawing from several agreements. And I don't fault them for boycotting the USA as there are other friendlier countries to travel to and buy products from. Compared to Europe or Asia, the only good things we have going for us here are the universities and the national parks. Yet Trump and most of his cabinet want to dismantle the national park system and remove all federal funding from these universities. I'm not sad that Canadians and Europeans (and Australians) are boycotting the USA, and at this point, I would happily boycott the USA as well if I didn't live here. I'm sad because I really enjoy talking to international people. Plus many of these cultural ties between certain states and certain provinces (like BC and the NW USA, or Quebec and the Maritimes with New England) have been severely damaged and will be very difficult to repair. What makes traveling fun for me is having fun conversations with international people from all over the world.

All of this to make the USA safer?! Really?!

Now that Roe v. Wade has ben overturned and many states are implementing harsh laws preventing women from getting abortions, the USA will very likely its own Mahsa Amini. And when that happens and another wave of nationwide protests happen, Laken Riley will really be turning in her grave when she finds out her death was used for far-right authoritarian policies to dismantle healthcare for millions of women.

Safer from school shootings and gun violence since Republicans want to ease all gun restrictions? Safer from diseases since there is an anti-vax skeptic who is the secretary of the US health and human services and wants to remove all vaccine requirements? Out of fear that vaccines cause Autism which has been debunked countless times by countless scientists? Safer from pollution now that several environmental regulations have been eased? Safer for plane travel now that majority of the FAA has been fired? Safer traveling out of the country because American citizens (who even have Global Entry) are being put into waiting rooms for hours.

You voted for him to lower the cost of groceries and gas prices?! How is $2.80 per gallon of gas expensive, unless you casually drive a large pickup truck? Due to the tariffs and now the war in Iran, gas and gadgets are going to become A LOT more expensive. People in Oklahoma are going to be in for a very nasty shock when they are suddenly paying Massachusetts prices for utilities and food in a matter of time, unless the entire world can forgive the USA at this point.

If you voted for Trump in 2016, I would still think you have a good heart, even if our political opinions are different. If you voted for Trump in 2024 after Trump proved to the entire world that he has no respect for his political opponents, the constitution and law by putting members of the entire US cabinet in danger on 6 Jan 21, then I don't think you have a good heart and you deserve to be ostracized.

This is why I have such a heard time sympathizing with those who lost friends and family connections because they would rather die of heart failure or cancer than have a well-qualified woman be president, and instead sympathize with those that did cut off friends and family if they voted for Orange Man. I hope everyone who voted for Orange Man will financially suffer. Because we don't have a difference in political opinions. We have a difference in morality and ethics.

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[–] 1 point 1 year ago

I feel similarly about people who voted Labour in the last UK election.

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  • [–] 47 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Because we don’t have a difference in political opinions. We have a difference in morality and ethics.

    That exactly is the problem. They claim morality, but don't have them. They claim to be faithful Christians, but Jesus himself would probably take the whip again and drive them out for so violently abuse his teachings.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    I've heard that autism world view is more governed by values instead of which group you're a part of. The question "describe yourself" was studied and autistic people respond with "conscientious, stubborn, eager to please, sharing and believe firmly in the pursuit of knowledge" while neurotypicals respond rather with "white Christian man from the Midwest" etc.

    Honestly, to me it's painfully obvious what Trumps game plan was going to be and there was an example of it before where he enacted the Muslim ban, had an anti Latino sentiment, inhumane detention camps and so on.

    It seems to me that the voters didn't feel included in the economy and they felt their way of life was slowly being removed by the Democrats so they voted for fascism. Instead of voting for the bad option they voted for worse because the bad option hadn't been working for them so far.

    US politics is a shitshow.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    If you voted for Trump...

    Sir, this is Lemmy?

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  • [–] 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    There are those who chose to hedge for clout - sit it out in smug virtue, while avoiding accountability for allowing him into office.

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  • [–] 23 points 1 year ago (12 children)

    I haven't spoken to my mother since Jan 19. She voted for this asshole (again). My partner is at risk because of my mother. I may never speak to her again. I still sent flowers on Mother's Day, however.

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 1 year ago

    I lost contact with some of my closest friends in college that I knew for more than a decade because of their politics and other things happening on social media. It's sad, but my parents and I recently moved to another city in a different state so I am forgetting that friendship already.

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  • [+] -32 points 1 year ago (11 children)
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    You are responsible for the actions of people you vote for. You don't get to drop your vote and move on. If you regret it you apologize as if you yourself had done it.

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  • [+] -15 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    "If you don't agree with me I'll never talk to you again!"

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    Man, we can disagree on politics all day long. But I ain't spending my free time associating with a motherfucker who wants me and people I love dead, gone, out of sight.

    I imagine none of your friends or associates actively call for your elimination from existence. How many Nazi friends you keep around?

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    My brother in Christ, drop the dumbassery for 5 seconds. How many friends of yours are racists against your race? How many friends you got that actively call for some part of your life that you have no control over to be made illegal? Cmon, how many you got? Mr "disagreement is good" should have a plethora of friends and family wishing you dead.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    You see, that's my point exactly. You wouldn't call someone a friend who wanted you dead. You might even not talk to that person. I know, what a shocker.

    So when a person comes in, family, friend or acquaintance and starts talking about how he doesn't think trans people should exist, I ain't talking to him anymore. When some mothefucker comes in saying gay marriage shouldn't be legal, I ain't talking with that motherfucker no more.

    Because you can't really talk to someone starting from the position of "you should not exist and your existence right now I find morally apprehensible". They are telling you they want you dead, gone, or in the closet. Whatever you choose.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Yes people are allowed to have whatever opinion they want to have, although I doubt you actually understand the people you disagree with. If they are literally causing you harm, sure stay away from them, probably report them to the authorities, but otherwise stop being so fragile and learn how to communicate.

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    I want you to Google "racist town Texas" and find my home towns wikipedia page. I didn't grow up in a liberal bubble, I very much understand their view points. They were mine for the majority of my life.

    I am also a cis white man. I am not the one directly effected or endangered by those people. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't treat their fight as my own because theirs is a righteous one.

    No man is an island, Entire of itself. Each is a piece of the continent, A part of the main. If a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less. As well as if a promontory were. As well as if a manor of thine own Or of thine friend's were. Each man's death diminishes me, For I am involved in mankind. Therefore, send not to know For whom the bell tolls, It tolls for thee.

    In short. Maybe it is not me who is too sensitive, but you who is too insensitive. Perhaps you should spend less time thinking about how you should give passes to offenses in your life and more about the people you fail when you let their detractors say what they want unchallenged. Grow a spine. Stand for something.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    You are advocating for policies that will literally kill innocent people, simply to indulge your hatred. Nobody is under any obligation to agree with you, or indulge your immoral beliefs or opinions.

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    Why should racist Nazis who would literally kill members of their own families for their political beliefs or their life choices, expect the luxury of love from those same family members? They chose MAGA over their own families, being shunned is the price they pay for indulging their hatred.

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    [–] 11 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I'm not sure if Lemmy is the place where the right idiots will see this, but fully agreed.

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  • i hope they suffer emotionally as well.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Only on the Internet is fundamental responsibility questioned.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    You could do toxic positivity and say "any Trump voter can be redeemed. Realizing your errors of supporting trump and seeing how it affected people around you is a good start"

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    Right now they are coping or doing mental gymnastics

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  • [–] 18 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    I got extremely yelled at for saying this about the last five presidents.

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    I mean, we can go back farther than that. Carter reappointing Paul Volcker and deregulating the airlines + oil/gas anti-gouging laws really fucked us.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I mean, I feel like Reagan was a watershed moment but if you go Carter you might get all the way back to Teddy R

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago

    Reaganism was definitely a new kind of politics, in the sense that he was the bellweather of the next generation of the GOP (and Dems tailing after).

    But if we're just looking for an excuse to yell at people for how they voted, I can't think of maybe half a dozen Presidents undeserving of that response.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Yep, it's a classic Leopards Ate My Face. They got exactly what they voted for.

    A couple I knew in college, basically they'd been together since childhood, moved to rural Minnesota, because conservative. They were militantly anti-mask and anti-.odern medicine. They refused the COVID vaccine and the whole family got sick several times. The husband finally died, on a respirator. His wife blames Biden. Sad.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (9 children)

    Then it sounds like you have an absolutely normal amount of empathy as an American.
    Which I should add is incredibly low, and my greatest shame of being an American myself.

    If you can't feel bad for people who don't know they're victims of what may be the longest and most expensive con this nation has ever known, I don't know what else to say.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (3 children)

    From the outside it looks to be a deep rooted issue. I don't think it's the grooming, rather a lack of shared cause.

    Trump is bringing you together unlike anything.

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    More people converting away from far right now, than in the last 5 years

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    I hope that’s true, but there’s no real evidence in the news. While it’s amazing and inspirational how many people stood up to protest, that doesn’t imply any political conversions. In fact it could indicate further divisiveness

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    If you can’t feel bad for people who don’t know they’re victims of what may be the longest and most expensive con this nation has ever known, I don’t know what else to say.

    I don't feel bad for them because it required willful ignorance, hatred of others, and refusing to acknowledge his first term in office to 'fall for it'.

    Fuck 'em. Hope they suffer more than the people who are suffering because of their choices.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    This con has been decades in the making. It's not just Rump specifically.

    They've been getting groomed since before Regan.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago

    Quite literally since birth.

    You watch neighbors grow up and mature thinking we'll all reach some kind of educated, experienced consensus. But I've got people I've known since middle school who are so sheep dipped in propaganda they can't tell up from down. And I know more than a few others who have put up with Eric Adams and Andrew Cuomo and that assortment of liberal sleeze so long they can't tell the difference between parties.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    I agree that they brought it on themselves.

    There are a few concepts that are getting muddled here, blameworthyness, and empathy. Both for you as the observer, and they as the subjects.

    I don't think it's good to equate the two. They're distinct.

    Should a laid-off oil worker struggling to feed their family be worthy of empathy from a republican voter if they themselves had voted Democrat? Would you celebrate the republican proudly declaring they had no empathy?

    Would Elon Musk be celebrating your announcement now? He has declared empathy to be weakness, and you've announced that you've managed to squash yours for a large swathe of the population.

    People can be to blame for their own pain. Does that mean they deserve no empathy?

    And, what have you done to yourself in doing so? What human part of yourself have you killed or let whither to get to where you are now?

    It's easy to be empathetic to people who are like yourself. It's more difficult to be empathetic to those different.

    Regardless of blameworthyness, I don't think we should be proud of our ability to feel no empathy for others. It may be the case, but that's a personal weakness.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    People can be to blame for their own pain. Does that mean they deserve no empathy?

    If they are on the side of evil, gleefully snickering as brown people are loaded onto planes, then yes.

    If they don't want to feel the ire of our burning contempt for their low-trust, anti-social behavior, then they shouldn't be doing it. Be on the side of good. Learn to be pro-community, or perish.

    This doesn't mean I want them to starve. Though, I wouldn't be strictly opposed to some system whereby welfare is stripped from people who voted against it. Some people just gotta learn from consequences.

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  • [+] -6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

    You're still muddling concepts.

    Someone can be blameworthy. That's one thing.

    Then bad things can happen to them, and those things might be just. They might DESERVE those things. That's another thing.

    Can you feel empathy towards that person, that's a third thing still.

    I can't stress enough: these three concepts are distinct.

    It's also worth pointing out how lacking empathy actually trends towards horrible actions, and that those horrible actions often produce reactions baffling to the empathy less and obvious to those with empathy.

    Honestly, what you're describing sounds a LOT like the lines out of Israel Re: Palestinians. The royal "they" support Hamas? Time for consequences, or they'll never learn. Oh, now they hate us even more? The generational cycle of hatred continues? How could they not graciously accept our lessons?

    Like... It's the obvious outcome. Intentionally thrust people into poverty to teach them a lesson?

    I understand where it comes from, the Trump stuff. I get it. There is no justice. It's FRUSTRATING.

    One can dream of justice without lusting for punishment

    Don't confuse a thirst for justice with a disdain for empathy. Killing your own empathy ISN'T justice, and the only thing you've done is made yourself lesser. Send not to know for whom the bell tolls

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)
    1. Supporting literal nazis is nearly different than supporting terrorists out of desperation because every non-violent attempt at asserting basic human rights is met with murder and collective punishment.
    2. Paradox of Tolerance. They have violated the social contract and gleefully supported every attempt to harm others and are trying really hard to trigger mass murder of unarmed civilians. Give an inch and they'll create about Holocaust and/or wipe complex life from the Earth with nuclear fire. There's no safe way to empathize with that.
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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    Empathy and tolerance aren't the same thing.

    You should not tolerate intolerance.

    All of that, ALL OF IT, is completely tangential to the concept of empathy.

    I get it, you've got a lot of hate. You SHOULD hate Nazis. It's an uncomfortable challenge to have the capacity for empathy for someone you hate.

    And like, I don't understand how people can't recognize the value of empathy even for a strictly pragmatic purposes. A byproduct of people with strong empathy skills is they're good at predicting what someone is going to do.

    Honestly, what are you afraid of? Are you afraid if you mentally explore someone else's situation from that persons perspective, feel the way they feel... That what? YOU'LL suddenly realize YOU'RE actually a Nazi too? Whoopsie Poopsie? Give yourself a little more credit than that.

    Anyhow, you and Elon should go for beers sometime and just agree with eachother all night about how you shouldn't empathize with people.

    Edit: also, for the record, the right wing appeals to the paradox of tolerance to justify what they do to undocumented people. They broke the law, the social contract, so the law doesn't apply to them (insert hillbilly laugh).

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Time for consequences, or they'll never learn.

    Are you disagreeing with... human pattern recognition?

    I'm sure what I've said sounds like a lot of things; there are a lot of people out there who lie.

    What I've described is pretty 1-to-1. If republicans are upset they lost their welfare because they were detractors from welfare, you know what we should say? "Damn, shouldn't have voted against it then, stupid."

    Don't confuse a thirst for justice with a disdain for empathy.

    See, the problem is you keep talking about empathy in the abstract. It's very confusing. What is it, exactly, you want people to do? Because what we're talking about is socially punishing fascists for being fascists. That is another 1-to-1.

    I'll lay an accusation: it sounds like you're giving a rhetorical defense for bad behavior—and thus enabling it, very naughty—by trying to lean on people's general discomfort with being too mean.

    So, let's be specific. Trump spent a lot of campaign time talking about illegals, he's since mobilized ICE as the American secret police, and grandpa voted for him. How should we treat grandpa?

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Yes, I am disagreeing with human pattern recognition. People absolutely do not work towards their rational self interests. Ayn Rand is/was wrong. People have been voting against their own self interests for decades. Centuries. People ALREADY are reaping the results of their actions. What do you think leopardsatemyface is? How many of those stories conclude with "still a trump supporter tho"?

    What is empathy? I don't have some wild definition. Cambridge is fine "the ability to share someone else's feelings or experiences by imagining what it would be like to be in that person's situation."

    Set aside any moral justification for empathy if you want, it's not even required to make the case for why you should have it.

    If you want to change someone's behaviors, ESPECIALLY ones that are from your perspective irrational, you need to understand why they're doing them in the first place. Empathy is how you can understand that.

    If you don't have empathy (Like Ayn Rand, for example) you'll end up with a wildly inaccurate model for someones behaviors (as in, they're working towards their rational self interests), and as a result your strategies for making a difference is going to be ineffective.

    "If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle"

    STRICTLY from a PRAGMATIC angle, empathy is a critical tool.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (5 children)

    This is just great thinking

    think about it. the Reps can use this endlessly to justify their apparent lack of empathy towards democrats

    So under this framework, all the actions they are taking currently are fully justified, not only by themselves, but by the perceived "enemy"

    Basically you have pigeonholed yourself into a pickle placed between 2 boulders called "a rock" and "a hard place", as you now cannot complain about anything they do as, well, that's the framework you are spouting about

    So all is good with the world when you get shown no empathy

    After all, in your heart of hearts, you voted for this 😉

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Collaboration with psychopaths just moves the needle to their side.

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  • [–] -3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    See! It's marvelous! Circular reasoning all the way down!

    Then we pluck each other eyes, and teeth for good measure!

    As I said, it is just great thinking 😉

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I'm not sure I see refusal to collaborate with horrible people as the same as being horrible people.

    Or do you think disagreement is violence?

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  • [–] -4 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    LOL

    "Well-qualified woman"

    There are no qualifications for president, and if there were, neither Trump nor Harris would be suitable candidates. What kind of doofus looks at 25% unemployment and tells people to 'just be joyful' for three months of a campaign and says they won't change anything, again in full knowledge of Americans' impoverishment and Biden's unpopularity? (Not to mention her wet fart of a primary campaign in 2020.)

    But if you want a woman with half a chance of winning, AOC is literally filling football stadiums in red states right now.

    I have sympathy for them. Most Americans didn't vote for Donald out of ideological concerns. They voted Donald because they've gotten progressively poorer for four years while Joe Biden did nothing meaningful to help them.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I think people are taking the my way or the highway approach to politics. You are suppose to have an extreme view one way or the other and everyone who disagrees is evil.

    I think it is the shortcomings of the current political climate

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