Why ... is she talking .... like that ... though ... ?
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Step 1: Be attractive.
Step 1A: find a shared interest, which helps make you fulfill Step 1 goals.
Yep. Too many people think attractive only means good looking. I may not be good looking, but I'm not real smart either. I forget where I was going with this.
Well if she doesn't find you handsome. She should at least find you handy.
I've never seen anyone take the "step 1. Be attractive Step 2. Don't be unattractive" as anything but a meme. I don't think it's meant to be actual advice.
Like what you are saying tracks and is fine, I just didn't expect someone to actually turn it into a reasonable 2 step program 😄
Caveat: you have to actually have any interests. Unfortunately many men mistake jerkin it to anime for an interest, and so fail to follow this step as well
i don't understand the appeal of stuff like roblox.
i played second life back in 2003 and it was boring as shit to me then. robox just seems like the kid-focused version of that in 2025. and yet three of my nephews are addicted to it.
Doesn't it have loads of games within it? When my son plays he might be shooting, or driving, or doing some kind of obstacle course.
It is a game where you can create your own games.
Playing minigames is nice, but using it as your own game engine is great.
Up to a certain extent, until it just becomes a storefront that takes 70%+ of your money instead of 30% (steam, app stores) 10% (epic) or 0% (self-published, etc)
From what I understand, it's more like a Garry's Mod type game. Just a sandbox that let's you build fun and/or dumb stuff to do with your friends. I've never played but I understood the appeal after it was explained to me that way.
i don't like doing dumb stuff because it's dumb and a huge waste of time.
sounds like it's the reality tv of video games.
I don't consider having fun a waste of time, just like I don't consider yummy cuisine a waste of food. Half of the reason to be alive is to enjoy it, and the other half is to endure it.
yeah i don't think life is a burden. i notice a lot of people who spend a lot of time doing nothing and bullshitting and consuming low quality products.... tend to think life is a burden.
Roblox is a really stupid platform with a lot of really bad exploitive ideas.
But I think the popularity of games like it and fortnite are huge indicators that we need more third spaces for our children. There's nowhere really for any kids to hang out easily anymore other than at school or online. When school ends, what are they supposed to do? Sure. Some kids are lucky enough to have transportation and can hang out with each other. Can bike across the neighborhood. But in our car-centric society that's not so easy for everybody, especially children.
These online spaces tend to be the easiest route for children to hang out in the modern age. If we want kids to be spending less time online, we need to build them spaces they can spend time in real life.
Many of the games in Roblox manage to basically recreate many "real" games except within Roblox where kids don't have to beg their parents for another new game. That's the big thing for kids, tons of replayability with a single purchase so they don't have to rely on their parents spending more money
I think the idea is that if you can make a functional game within a game, that leaves a lot of room for experimentation that otherwise wouldn't get done, like has been done in the past with modding tools. Some of the games within Roblox seem pretty innovative, it's just a shame that the way they do business is so focused on microtransactions and psychological manipulation/exploitation of children.
You sound like a vulcan. Sorry not all of us can be as efficient and practical all the time I guess? Quit yucking other people's yum
Different strokes for different folks I guess. I consider doing dumb stuff with your friends when you're a kid to be one of life's greatest joys
To me it's like fishing or cards. Technically there's an activity, but what you're really doing is shooting the shit in a casual social setting.
Years and years ago I worked for a startup that was building a 3D social media world (think Second Life meets Facebook). Dev asked me to do research on Second Life as a new user. Give my opinion of things like sign up, getting to know the software and worlds, whats wrong with it, what's good about it.
I spent a week in that thing. It was horrible and lonely.
This would work on me for many games. But I don’t drink. I’m at home playing the games.
Fuck this timeline.
Why tho? This is cute. Maybe she had some clothing or accessories on that gave it away. If not then its just a crazy lucky guess. Either way its wholesome.
If you know anything about roblox culture you wouldn't think this is cute.
Is this something new? Because I played Roblox kind of obsessively a while back, and I have no idea what you're talking about. I talked to a little girl about Beanie Boos. Lots of kids inventing ways to bypass the swear filters.
They have a pedophile problem that the company refuses to address, and they also exploit children. Which I read they wanted to double down on that. I also played it with my kids. Even built my own game. But after what I learned I stop playing and also stop giving them money.
People Make Games has a 2 video series talking about the problems specifically for developers.
- "Investigation: how Roblox is exploiting young game developers" (23m) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_gXlauRB1EQ
- "Roblox pressured us to delete our video. So we dug deeper." (35m) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTMF6xEiAaY
Ah yes because there have been pedophiles playing a game, the whole game is unplayable now? I never even played roblox, but by that logic minecraft would be just as bad.
Part of me agrees with you, but also there's definitely more the company could be doing in terms of moderation. The entire internet has been suffering from the removal of human mods in the last two decades or better. Maybe there should be regulations regarding how many human mods you have to employ based on site traffic if children are allowed on your services.
Ah yes because there have been pedophiles playing a game, the whole game is unplayable now?
Good ol' social media logic.
Can't play classic games, either: some skeevy shit must have gone down at some point in history with every one of those. Same with the English language: did you know every English-speaking serial killer & child molester spoke English‽ Same with being human: all horrible people were human, so humans are monsters. Humanity is overrated anyway: better to burn them all.
The rewards of genetic fallacy.
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