I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I don't have any advice on my hands but I wanted to let you know that I deeply feel every thing that you described (even though I'm not in the US). Times are tough. Please hang on. I know it is really hard to find like-minded people, but you'll have to keep looking. Nothing makes me feel more safe (and sane) than knowing at least a handful of trustworthy people, even if we're not too close by any means.

Bipolar, sidelined my AF Miltary Career in 2006. In my own way I can understand. I need to do more research on the MAGA to understand that part of your post.

You are advocating for yourself, at such a young age. I'm assuming you may be a female, in no offense when I say that. I am and we end up masking symptoms because it's within our nature. When 1st being diagnosed we cling to the fact that something is wrong with us. Outside in vs Inside out thinking. DEF learn about your disorders but don't be held back by them. Neurospicy brain is actually how our brains are meant to be not counting the required societal constraints. Whilst your dealing with the world & your parental support system being in flux, try to focus on the things you can control. As for wanting to look back at that happy childhood years, that normal. What you are currently experiencing is a Identity Crisis & it's just your brains way of processing. I don't want sound like I'm telling you what to do. I'm 43, so I just have that, when I was your age mentality. Just keep getting your thoughts or feelings out, social media, a journal l, the partner etc.

I'm new to Lemmy but I don't like traditional social media myself. Hopefully I run into you again on here but you're in my thoughts now. Good luck fighting the good struggle.

Yea, I'm scared to go outside now.

My original country was kinda fucked, pollution, food safety, restrictive and oppressive controls on internal movements, etc..., so that's why my parents took our family to the US.

Now a decade later, we have this shit. The same tyranny we ran from. 🤷‍♂️

I'm still dependent and stuck with parents and kinda just helping out with their bussiness stuff because I'd need their help to pay for any depression treatments and I'm still on their insurance. I have too much issues to be able to live alone, I'd die, I can't handle it yet. And "touch grass" to help with depression wouldn't help, ICE is roaming the streets, so I'm just depressed at home most of the time. It take a monuments effort to find the energy and motivation to find a psychatrist. The last one kinda just told me to fuck off and throw a bunch of referrals at me, and told me to go somewhere else if I'm "drugseeking" since I expressed desure to be on antidepressants again (they didn't literally say it, but that's what it sounds like in my mind)

Sorry, no advice. Binge watch some tv?

I understand to some extent. We often in life have events that shock or unsettle us. Maybe you're still grieving for the loss of the parents you remember. Coming to terms with who they actually are now.

Politics is ugly and not nice right now. The world may feel a lot safer than it once was. It is out of our hands. We just have to learn to operate in that new world. We have to focus on the things we can control and make the best decisions we can in the circumstances. Are you in contact with the parent that left? Is there no possibility for you to live with that parent if you connect with them better. It could be that they left their spouse, not you.

Focus on the things in life you enjoy. It may not be everything but those moments of joy can give us energy during harder times.

I cannot really comment on the therapist situation. I don't know if there is a real risk to you and you cannot go into it. Trust is important in therapy, so that could be tricky.

As you are a young adult, maybe focus on your future, your life, what you want your life to be and think of what steps you need to take and what decisions you need to make to start heading down that path. You have agency and many choices in that so you can hopefully feel power in your control of that.

Forgive yourself that you feel unsettled though. It is normal and natural for things to affect us in life and it takes time to process it and move on. Allow yourself slack to be able to do that in your time.

Oh, and your parent is responsible for the decisions they make and the choice to listen. It may feel good for them to blame the other. Maybe they saw who this person was long ago and just could not continue with it.