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[–] 34 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Well this is bullshit I have ADHD where the heck is all the dopamine?

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  • [–] 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    It's a slow trickle. It's like the research that was done into gambling addicts. The majority of dopamine doesn't come from winning. The majority of it comes from the anticipation. Or in our case. Writing out a long comment that no one else will read.

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Is THAT why I write a long response and then just delete instead of sending my reply?

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that means you're unlikely to become addicted. You've course-corrected mid-post and now you're anticipating that the argument will be futile. A dopamine fiend would forge ahead hoping for some great win.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    It doesn't mean you feel euphoric. It's more like a reinforcement. -an addiction.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I know I was being flippant. What I mean is, the few (several...) times I've gotten into internet arguments I am always drained and unhappy and profoundly do not want to do it anymore, even if I am arguing over sincerely held beliefs. I guess I can see why trolling can be addictive, eliciting engagement is a kind of power over people, and power is addictive. And arguing over things I don't care about probably takes a lot less emotional investment than things I do care about... I feel like I'm talking myself into being an internet troll. Still though, seems like a miserable way to get your rocks off :/

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago

    Yeah, typically when someone is trolling, they're doing it just to piss off the other person. Like, Bugs Bunny doesn't get worn out from torturing Elmer Fudd.

    He stays bright and chipper and sassy the whole time while Elmer Fudd edges closer and closer to the aneurysm that will finally send him to hell.

    It's because the only dog he has in the fight is you

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  • [–] 68 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Pffff. This person is clearly incorrect about many aspects of this 🙄

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  • [+] 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)
  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Lol i just went to the comments to reply "yeah? Well i disagree!" To op's post - now i feel seen 😂

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  • [–] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Do you, though? I beg to differ.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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    [–] 20 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    I get a bigger kick by being helpful and sharing relevant content.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    We get it bruv, you win, you're definitely the most helpful rolls eyes

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    If you don't get it, I'm genuinely envious. Anger and using wit cruelly can be addictive

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  • [+] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child)
  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago

    Not all dopamine is created equal. Staring at your phone, bickering, empty calories, overeating, drinking, trolling on the internet, porn - all garbage dopamine sources, can feel good very briefly and will lead quickly to downward spirals.

    You want to be seeking positive sources of dopamine that relate to an overarching life mission. ADHD is a life of extremes, but I believe you can learn to choose extreme positives.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Laughing at sad attempts at cruelty is so much more satisfying.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    fuck. 🤦🏽‍♀️

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago

    Goddamn it.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 year ago* (9 children)

    Umm, yeah, actually I definitely don't argue with people online

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Yeah, you do. We're arguing right now!

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    No, we're not arguing. Idk what ur on about . . .

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago* (6 children)

    Wrong.. we are 100% arguing right now... Idk what you r on about! We can fix things if we can be truthful with ourselves... let's walk this path together, stranger.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    This is clearly not an argument, if it was we would be disagreeing and saying weird things to make ourselves look smart. Get a hold of yourself, jeez . . .

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)
    1. I disagree still, definitely an argument. 2. Im smart enough to end this "not an argument". Im that smart.

    😉

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    If you were really so smart you would know that there is no way this can be an argument. Clearly I'm smarter than you and all the evidence points to me being right because I'm so smart. Not an argument, buddy

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    How about this, can you interpret what my handle means? What it translates to?

    Hint: it'll be offensive to some, and if the mods understood it, they would probably ban this account.

    If you figure it out I will concede and admit that you have bested me and are my intellectual superior. (Its not even difficult anyway)

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I'm literally just being a sarcastic little shit pretending that an internet argument isn't really an argument, your homophobic username has nothing to do with this.

    Still not an argument, btw 😜

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    Ahh...haha okay, and fair enough. Sty I edited this a couple times.

    And its definitely more of an argument now than it has ever been before, no doubt.

    Edit: also I am of an ethereal realm more on occasion than not.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago
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    Often when I upset strangers online I feel bad and log out for a few months.

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    That explains why I get antsy when I havent been online for a while. I cant argue with people endlessly in real life. Nobody likes that guy.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    nobody likes that guy online either

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    That is one reason why i love arguing

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    [–] 6 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    So literally everyone has adhd now. Got it

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    The girlfriend doesn't have it, and she hates debating/arguing. She also doesn't post things online.

    I'll give you a minute to figure out the point I'm making.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    This is most of why I'm on lemmy, got banned from reddit for the same lol

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    Why would you post this? you don't even really have adhd

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I have been very pleased recently because I started shit in a sub. The post was all about some guy who stacked a bunch of modems to download a file at half a megabit per second (your home internet is probably 1000x that speed).

    I said it was a stupid and pointless waste of time. Nobody agreed and that little seed has produced a LOT of sweet delicious argument fruit. Funny what'll get people's goat. I didn't start out with a battle in mind but I'm feeling pretty smug about the whole thing.

    Now I get trolling.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Lol!!! I saw your comment, wrote something to get shit stirring at a bit higher pace, and pressed cancel. I don't have the mental capacity at the moment for the shit I was about to send in every direction hahahahaha!!! But I thoroughly enjoyed the shit that you threw about

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    That’s the beauty of it, you can just post that, and then let others sling shit at each other. I do it to my friends who like to argue about politics a lot. Start a conversation that I know is gonna cause them to bicker, and then step away and watch the fireworks while eating popcorn.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I was diagnosed by Dr Mirror

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