Reading. Too many people say they hate reading because it's boring or there is no point. Most cite the books they went over (probably never read) in school. They think everything is going to be like Romeo and Juliet or something. They don't seem to realize that you study classics in school and that there are troves of modern books that they'd enjoy. I like to find out their favorite movies and get them an audio book in the same genre. It's easier to get them to listen to one than to read one. I now have a handful of people who come to me asking what they should listen to or read next.
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Politeness. It changes the atmosphere of a conversation/community/country when people are polite.
understanding technology
Otherwise-smart people who just throw their hands up and say, “I just can’t do this high tech stuff!”
Motherfucker it’s easier to operate than your car, how do you even live
Obligatory answer on behalf of rest of Lemmy: Linux
Other than that, going for a walk without listening to anything. An idle and undistracted mind is great for mental health.
Obligatory answer on behalf of rest of Lemmy: Linux
Just because I'm on Lemmy does not mean I run Linux.
I mean...
I do run Linux.
But it's not because I'm on Lemmy.
(I tried to put this on the Will Smith meme, but my meme creation skills failed me.)
I wish people would stop killing all the insects. We've kicked the bottom out of the food chain, and no one seems to have noticed. I've seen populations tank over the last two decades, even year by year.
Summer before last, when I took the kids to the creek we'd have to start a smoky fire to keep the mosquitoes and flies off. Didn't bother this year, not once. Went hiking yesterday and only had 2 mosquitoes annoy me. Y'all, that creek is surrounded by swamp. Saw a few frogs, zero fish, not even minnows.
September in NW Florida has always meant a lovebug invasion. They were so bad when I moved here that natives advised me to wash my car a couple of times that month because their guts would eat clear coat. Last year I saw a few dozen couples, stuck butt-to-butt (hence the name) in my driveway. The month is all but over and I've not seen a single one. Not fucking one.
Five years ago I'd count the tree frogs and salamanders on my front porch. I leave the porch lights on 24/7, so free food for amphibian friends. Haven't seen either animal in 3 years. Used to have to spray the bug guts off the lights several times in the spring and summer. Just looked, they're fairly clean, haven't sprayed them for over a year.
For context, I'm on the bleeding edge of town. I can walk 10 minutes and be into hundreds of acres of forest and swamp. This ain't the middle of the city from which I'm observing these events.
Nothing else makes me so internally panicked. Rise of fascism? Historical trend, it's here, someday it will be gone. Global warming? Not so immediate, not seeing clear and deniable changes year to year, not so much up in my grill. My planet is dying, I'm scared shitless, and no one even notices.
Also in Florida and yes the insect apocalypse is the most ominous sign of doom. And their life cycles are so short, just lay off for a couple of years, they would probably bounce fast!
Thought I saw a firefly on the trail last week. Probably not. Haven't seen one since I bought this house 8 years ago. Not one. And at that time? Only one.
I've got a pretty wild yard. We've brought frogs back, and next year I hope dragonflies mature and come boiling out my little water features. Pretty sure we're driving the butterfly population, and the hummingbirds are slightly more populous than last year.
But my god man, I'm only one person, with one yard, and I'm nearly broke. I have 40+ guns, but I can't go out and fight fascism by myself. I want to scream and rage, but I do what I can do, defend what I can.
From what I know, fireflies love dead leaves and laying eggs under those. So don't rake the leaves! Let them be. Or some of them at least. We haven't raked leaves from under our bushes for ages and we always get some fireflies in the summer now!
I've never seen a firefly, they don't come this far south. We do have dragonflies, and I still see plenty of lizards, and unfortunately the squash bugs are doing fine, but the city of bees that used to appear when this one random bush bloomed by the garden never comes around anymore, and I can fearlessly turn over bricks piled in the yard, that used to be a nightmare with a palmetto bug under every one!
If it's any consolation I spent some time on a lake in canada this summer, and there is a bunch of wildlife: frogs, ducks, even a loon! And way too many mosquitoes and black flies.
Point being its not quite that bad everywhere
Accelerating when merging onto the highway, rather than slowing down.
I'd say, even if a driver is making a mistake, yelling at them while they're driving is not the solution. I understand being nervous or frustrated while in the passenger seat, but yelling at the driver just doesn't seem helpful, even if you're yelling useful advice at them. If anything, you're likely distracting them from making a decision at a critical moment.
I'm very comfortable behind the wheel, but my wife is not. I could not imagine yelling at her while she's already in an uncomfortable position like that.
We'll have to agree to disagree. If anyone yelled at me in such a manner while I was driving, I'd never offer to drive them anywhere again. If they're that existentially uncomfortable with the ride, they can drive themselves or walk. Dunno why they'd ask for a ride from someone who they clearly don't think can get the job done without being yelled at in the first place.
Spacial awareness in public, especially in grocery stores. People often stop with a cart right in the entrance and seem oblivious they are blocking the way for others while they dig in their bag for the shopping list.
Self cooking with more vegies and only meat once a week or so. And so sugar in diet
Spatial awareness? Make sure the amount of space you're taking up isn't prohibitive to others, e.g., let people with burdens through, don't take up more than your share of a walkway
Everything is political.
That said, I wish people cared more about the arts and arts funding. Conservatives have been trying to discredit it all as weird and worthless for ages now, and that's unfortunately permeated deep into our culture. Art is literally one of the tools we have against fascism.
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