It's about making women have low self esteem and always willing to change ourselves to meet expectations. It makes it easier to get us to submit in other ways.
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Someone happy with who they are and what they have doesn't make as many purchases. In a capitalistic society, that's unacceptable.
Conversely unhappy people who can't fix what's making them unhappy will go find people who can tell them something they can fix about themselves to make them happy in a different way.
All potential solutions will be offered and the ones that resonate are the ones that target things we dislike about ourselves, call it out as a Big Solvable Problem, and offer you a solution at retail prices.
So yes, everything on the right hand column is always being offered to everyone all the time, and the ones on the left hand column have enthusiastically self organized and sought their matching targeted self esteem exploit.
I feel like that's some serious question?
It is like that coz some wants profits.
It is not enough to sell beauty products, as once achieved, income could drop - You need to pursuit another beauty. And poof, we have a fashion.
Nah, it was still not enough, so, they started to make You feel ugly, so spend more. Follow all these photoshopped ai enhanced pictures from ads everywhere, unreachable standard. Spend.
Fuck it, ignore standard, go get beauty in self from self (whatever that mean, rarely someone can judge self as "good enough" or "damn pretty enough").
Thank you. As a plus-sized girl, this is something that I really needed to see tonight. I've been feeling very ugly & disgusting because of my weight.
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Being plus-sized is not a flaw and I hate how badly society treats plus-sized people. That's disgusting, the shame and fatphobia society directs against plus-sized people...it's really extreme.
You're neither ugly nor disgusting. I see you and appreciate you. I hope you are well 🩷
The logical conclusion of this is that only men are beautiful
Thus it is not only not gay, but indeed a moral imperative, to kiss the homies.
WHAT, HOW? 😭
I mean, it's true that I only find men hot, but like...how did you come to that conclusion?? 😭
Kinda accurate tbh. British comedy sketch even did this.
Women's advertising: everything is going wrong and its all your fault, you need to buy all of this shit
Men's advertising: Shave and get drunk. Because your already brilliant.
For some reason this reminded me of the foot binding stuff in the Benedict Wong Marco Polo series, which is legit some of the most uncomfortable scenes in TV ever.
Creating demand is a centerpiece of a Western world since about Edward Bernays.
I feel more like I got close to what I'd choose, just never quite to the point I couldn't do better, if that makes sense? I'm tall for a girl, 5'9" but would have liked to be one inch taller, in my legs. Thin but would like to be thinner. Pretty happy with my hair, actually, except for the color. Loose curls are what I'd choose, and are what I have. Never had a waist, and yes did want one, bone structure thing, but "elongated athletic" is a body type I like, I don't care that much.
All my hangups relate to weight. I've been thinner but never actually felt like it wouldn't look better to be even thinner, which I realize makes no sense but is still how I feel.
Agree a lot of it is created by commercial interests trying to sell things.
A less interesting explanation is that everyone's comparing themselves to the mean. If any attribute is too different, it needs correcting. Weight, skin tone, number of fingers and toes, etc.
It's the opposite, you're comparing yourself to what's exotic in your community and generally only achievable by the elites.
In Scandinavia, being tanned has been a beauty standard for decades. As most people work indoors.
In Asia being as pale as possible is the aim, as the peasants have been working outside. Being pale was the beauty standard in Europe throughout the mediaeval years, as peasants then worked outside.
Anything that can make you appear well off tends to be a beauty standard, it's arguably the main reason some circles have obvious hideous plastic surgery as a beauty standard today, it proves you're able to afford such surgery
If you take a mathematical average of all women or all men, you get someone out that is quite attractive. A few parameters are deemed more beautiful at the extremes, but if you are: neither overweight nor starving, have slightly wavy hair, are of medium height, have averaged away all illnesses... you're starting from a good place.
I am trans, and my goal is to look as trans as possible. Take that society!
Women with brown/black hair are encouraged to dye their hair to look more "unique".
Women with blonde hair are encouraged to dye their hair to avoid blonde jokes.
Women with red hair are encouraged to dye their hair to avoid ginger jokes.
"You can never please
Ever-y-body
In
This
World!"
The Shaggs
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