Nah. I don't own my partner's pussy, but we have been together for over a decade now. We have learned to talk about EVERYTHING. So that we don't cross and boundaries we have put down.

I think most folks don't even think about talking. We talked for 3 years before we ever did anything with anyone. We roleplayed it with toys and porn. Etc etc.

The first step is communication. Most folks dive head first without considering how they might actually feel.

Ah I gotcha. See for me, I'm not jealous. I'm also not ashamed of myself. My genetics gave me a bit more than average.

I can have a mfm or fmf encounter without it ruining my relationship. Which is fun.

Racist parts ya. Definitely see that. They do treat black men like objects, which I really never thought about until now.

Will say I have had better times with a black man than a white man. Not for any stereotype shit, but for me, imo, white men tend to run their mouths and act like they are king shit. Black men are just chill about it. That's just what I've run into so far though.

Eh. It's fine if you aren't into it, but I just think it's shitty to kink shame folks.

But as someone else said there is the racists side of it for some. Which ya...that's not okay.

I just find it such a shitty thing to do is to go after what someone might be into.

But at the same time I guess it's like calling someone a cocksucker. I like sucking dick, but have used it as an insult as well.

Ah to be human right?

As someone with a simmilar deal as the comment you're replying to: you are 100% right

Nah cuckold fetish is consensual and it's included with the dudes getting cheated on.

Yeah, I'm polyamorous and it's definitely not cucking. I've long been open to being a bull for another sapphic couple, but my wife and I's nonmonogamy is important to us, but emotionally neutral. By contrast, cucking is a form of humiliation play, and I just don't feel any of that when my wife is sleeping with someone else

That said, while to some people cucking has nonconsent implications, for the people into the kink it's consensual but playing with humiliation, jealousy, etc. In some ways it's often a consensual nonconsent version of being cheated on.

Thought that was using ai.

I mean we do have cucksumerism so yeah this tracks.