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Kink Shame (lemmy.world)
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[–] 29 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

Because conservative griftlords, MRAs, and toxic incels push the idea that Real Men^TM^ should maintain exclusive access to their girlfriend's pussy like it's the Cave of Wonders or some shit. And so they've been calling people "cucks" like it's an insult for over a decade now because conservatives are stupid.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 weeks ago*

    Nah. I don't own my partner's pussy, but we have been together for over a decade now. We have learned to talk about EVERYTHING. So that we don't cross and boundaries we have put down.

    I think most folks don't even think about talking. We talked for 3 years before we ever did anything with anyone. We roleplayed it with toys and porn. Etc etc.

    The first step is communication. Most folks dive head first without considering how they might actually feel.

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