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[–] 24 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

Uh... Lawns, "electoralism", meat, anything to do with parenting using consequences of any kind (sub discussions about spanking, withholding or taking away items or privileges, messing with your kids, and "I dIdnT AsK to bE BorN!"), separating the art from the artist, cars, intelligence and the fact that some people are in fact just dumb as a shoe (and the corollary "why don't they teach me how to do my taxes in school instead of Pythagorean theorem!"), ...

Idk there are lots of them.

Edit: ... But why do you want to know? Do you have something planned? 🧐

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  • [–] [S] -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

    Planned? Like what? No I’m just trying to tailor my posts is all. Just curious about what I shouldn’t go for. But I guess if someone is annoying me, it’s nice to have options to annoy them back. So, you know, swings and roundabouts…

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Lol ok. Not like "how can I piss off the most people at once, but discreetly". Best of luck.

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  • [–] [S] -2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Missing the point entirely, but thanks

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    If your point is to go somewhere that people get jokes, Lemmy probably wasnt an ideal choice!

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  • [–] [S] 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

    You’re not kidding there, like. Check this out:

    https://sh.itjust.works/post/66813516

    I made this fun ‘meme’ post in the shitposts where I mocked the red bull slogan and its sugar content, and they turned the comments section into a mad argument about frickin’ sugar! SUGAR! They’re arguing about sugar and aspartame in there like bulls! Even this post asking about divisive topics has itself in places turned argumentative!!! It’s almost laughable.

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  • [–] 17 points 1 month ago (28 children)

    Sexism/misogyny. Lemmings get really upset if you point it out.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    This is legit but also I super appreciate coming in to the comment of a sexist post and already seeing a snarky comment about it being sexist. Makes my day.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    How’s the post sexist? I asked about divisive topics?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

    Oh I think they were referring to other sexist posts, not calling this one a sexist post.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

    Ah ok, fair enough

    Wow, just read your convo with him. you and he really got into it

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (2 children)

    Wow, just read your convo with him. you and he really got into it

    Oh with cattywampas? Yeah, I have a bad habit of talking these types of trolls into the dirt when they want to play like that haha

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    My advice is: sometimes it’s more profitable to just walk away

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Ah I've been on the internet long enough to know the positives of that advice, thank you :)

    Pushing back against these types of people help to heal me from many years of being taught to be quiet, meek, and cater to men's wishes.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Or that fourteen year olds can't consent to sex with an adult.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (2 children)

    There have been multiple posts where Lemmings argued about that. It was quite eye-opening when I first joined to be honest.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (14 children)

    If you want a real hoot, next time the issue comes up point out that women's clothing is the way it is (form-fitting, small pockets, etc.) because that's what the majority of women buy and that there are a lot of looser options with big pockets out there.

    Edit: I'm talking about men's opinions on women's clothing. Women are well aware of their clothing choices.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (12 children)

    That’s interesting that you chose women’s jeans as a response to a real complaint of the amount of misogyny that’s openly pushed on Lemmy.

    Second, the majority of women buy jeans with small pockets because that’s what is on the majority of shelves. Women’s clothing is purposefully made of less quality than men’s clothing because women purchase clothing at higher rates and capitalism will do what capitalism does.

    There are looser options with bigger pockets out there, but they’re not as available. You have to go hunting for them. And don’t even suggest women just buy men’s jeans as I’ve seen here - women’s bodies tend to be shaped much more differently than men’s bodies especially around our hips. Men’s jeans don’t fit the same.

    Again, very interesting that your response to misogyny is “women complain about pants!”

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  • [–] -3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

    My point is that "men complain about women's clothing" not "women complain about women's clothing." They white knight so hard they don't realize that the choice exists, then they go to "well they feel pressured to wear those things because of societal expectations." They are just trying so hard to take the agency away from women one way or another.

    Loose fitting women's clothing is not hard to find. It's in brick and mortar stores. It's online. My wife wears it. Kids wear it, loose clothing is very fashionable right now.

    When you say "not as available" what does that mean? That less of it is sold? That's because it's what sells. Most women want form-fitting clothing with smaller pockets.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (10 children)

    There are more pants with small/no pockets available than there are pants with deep pockets. How is that hard to understand?

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  • [–] -2 points 1 month ago (7 children)

    Yes, and that's because it's what most women want to buy. How is that hard to understand?

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    Source for your claims?

    According to a 2018 study by The Pudding, the front pockets on women’s jeans are on average 48 per cent shorter and 6.5 per cent narrower than they are on men’s jeans.

    You see, since the ’50s, there has been a role reversal of sorts in the fashion industry. Handbags, which started as a convenient accessory and a fun extension of an apparel brand, are major money-makers for many luxury brands. According to Fortune Business Insights, in 2022, the North American handbag market was valued at $16.3 billion. By 2030, that number is projected to grow to $26.47 billion.

    A former designer assistant at McQueen, who wishes to remain anonymous, muses that with so much money at stake, clothing could now almost be considered an accessory to the handbags. “When Tom Ford debuted his first collection for Gucci in the ’90s, almost every single look had a handbag to go with it,” they point out. “Since then, ready-to-wear and purses have gone hand in hand.”

    Fellow Canadian designers Eliza Faulkner (formerly of Erdem, Roland Mouret and Zandra Rhodes and now creative director of her own brand) and Caffery Vanhorne (who worked at an undisclosed luxury house) echo our anonymous source, with Faulkner reiterating that “brands make money off accessories, not clothes.” Vanhorne also admits that he has witnessed seasons where “more than half the clothes shown on the runway never went to production — they were just to showcase bags.”

    What does this mean for our original question: Do brands purposely exclude pockets in women’s clothing so women will be more likely to support the purse industry? Well, it doesn’t take a genius to read between the lines above. To quote the great philosophers known as ABBA, it all comes down to “money, money, money.”

    Like J.Lo gaslighting us into believing that her and Ben Affleck’s relationship history was “the greatest love story never told,” the handbag industry essentially barged in and seduced women into believing that the purse was the answer to all their portable needs. The only obstacle in their way? The pocket.

    By that logic, as long as women are denied pockets, they would be forced to spend more money on bags and thus an entire industry could be sustained by reducing the size of pouches or excluding them from women’s clothing.

    Capitalism forced small pockets in women's clothing.

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  • [–] -2 points 1 month ago (5 children)

    When your headline is a question, the answer is "no."

    You said yourself "capitalism will do what capitalism does" or words to that effect. So if more women wanted looser clothing, why would companies not start selling it?

    The answer is that they have. Do just one Google search for "baggy women's jeans with pockets" and you'll see that they're readily available.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

    Yeah, yeah, it's all women's fault for how we're treated, the products we're offered, probably even the "pink tax". It's our fault, we should shut up. You're totally right!

    Thanks for derailing the topic of misogyny to complain about some women's pet peeves about pants.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    https://duckduckgo.com/?q=baggy+womens+jeans+with+deep+pockets&iar=shopping&t=fpas

    Anybody can buy baggy pants with pockets. From shein to Levi's to designer.

    My issue is with men. Specifically chronically online white knights and their ironically misogynistic stances. My issue is not with women.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Saying that pants with deep pockets are less available than pants with small pockets does not mean pants with deep pockets don't exist.

    You are pushing the false narrative that women want small pockets and then want to complain about small pockets.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    They are quite available.

    You could buy, in the next five minutes, three different styles of baggy pants in three sizes each. They'd be at your front door in a couple of days. You could try them on, test out the fit and pockets, and return the ones you don't like.

    If you live in a big city or near a shopping mall, you could walk into a store and buy some big ol' pants within the hour.

    If by "less available" you mean there are more SKUs offered or shelving space dedicated to "traditional" women's pants, then yeah I'll agree with you there. But it's 2026, you don't even need brick and mortar, and you can just order whatever you want.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Its hilarious to me because my research decades back was AI. But not like AI LLMs haha. More for detecting cancer. So I am VERY opinionated and nuanced on the subject.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Your and my both. I use the term "machine learning" more now to differentiate what I do vs what people think AI is. Lol

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago

    Yes that would be closer...however even then theres SO much nuance on what kind of machine learning algorithms have been made last 30 years. Theres a lot of re-discovering old algorithms that are starting to get useful again like Multi-modal systems.

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    Seemingly anything that suggests Americans might not all be dumb assholes.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I hate republicans and I hate liberals too but I really really fucking hate leftists.

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  • [+] -6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    I certainly think that all Americans are dumb assholes. So I guess this one is indeed divisive.

    Well done silly American.

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  • [+] 14 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (12 children)
  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago (6 children)

    I don't know two languages but being in the US means I am fluent in both metric and imperial.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Britain uses Imperial, we use US Customary units. There is a difference. (They get more beer in a pint, for one.)

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    Lots of good comments here. My favorite is parenting vs childfree groups. I've literally seen the communities back to back on my feed. It's mostly funny to me, a parent, because I agree with both communities and they aren't actually in opposition.

    Second favorite are those guys who are all "THIS IS NOT A MEME GTFO" when someone posts a twit or tumbler post or what have you. Lol

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  • [–] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Which Linux distro is the best.

    /me hides in the corner now

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  • [–] 15 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    IDK of enough people agree with me to make this divisive but Lemmy is fairly homogenous and loads of users don't have a lot of life experience.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Anything but big tech companies

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

    Can you explain in more detail?

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    There was a thread yesterday praising Cloudflare, half the comments were pro- and half were anti-, every one had tons of up and down votes.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 child)

    Mostly debates on leftism (typically anarchist or Marxist-Leninist) vs. Liberalism. This extends to debates where the conflict is sharpest, typically on views of China as an example.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    YouTube Premium. You will never get me to say that it is not the best deal in streaming.

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    Vegan pet food

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  • [–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

    Steam is more consumer friendly than GoG because it offers Linux compatibility and lets the customer choose whether they want DRM.

    All physical media also comes with a license.

    Men are encouraged to be more in touch with their emotions, but aren't given a safe place to explore them. Men-only communities should be just as accepted as women-only communities.

    "Yes, all black people" is just as valid an opinion as "yes, all men" for all of the same reasons.

    The US is just as progressive as the rest of the world when it comes to trans athletes playing women's sports (no country allows trans athletes to compete in women's sports).

    US gun control legislation has its roots in civil rights and class consciousness. Early gun control legislation was intended to directly target groups of marginalized people arming themselves against a tyrannical police force and that's still its main intent.

    "Political violence" is passing laws that harm people, not punching someone because they voted for the other guy.

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  • Steam is more consumer friendly than GoG because it offers Linux compatibility

    GoG offers Linux compatibilty, what are you talking about?

    [Steam] lets the customer choose whether they want DRM.

    I agree, the customer can chose to buy games on GoG if they want them to be DRM free. Joke, I know there is DRM free games on Steam too.

    However, all Steam games do require you to have a Steam account connected to this specific key (game) just to launch You also do need to be connected to the internet at least once every 30 days. Obviously this isn't an issue for some people but if you want to own and run your games offline GoG offers more ease of use.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 month ago
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    The definition of "sideload"

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago (1 child)

    From my experience just a few: Linux, boomers or generations in general, capitalism, whether US politics are important or not, whether you should have an opinion about everything, whether everything has to be serious all the time or not, asking for sources on statements made, whether a drawing of a clothed porn star is nsfw or not. Fortunately, I just learned the other day that besides blocking communites or people you can also filter on keywords.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 month ago

    If the genocide happening in Ukraine by Russia and against the Uyghurs in China by China are real genocides or if the genocide by Israel against the Palestines is the only real one.

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