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[–] 34 points 1 week ago (18 children)

I've seen women hit men as a form of flirting

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  • [–] 17 points 1 week ago*

    I had a FWB years ago who would do that up until the day where I wasn't able to stop the response reflex and punched her right in the tit. Felt kinda bad since it wasn't exactly consensual, but we did worse than that regularly, so it wasn't a big deal.

    She'd still do it periodically cuz she liked getting punched in the tit, but that was at least negotiated 🤣

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (10 children)

    My brother's SO does this to him all the time, it feels so gross to me.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 week ago (9 children)

    I've had that happen as like a light tap when I said something teasing them. I think it was a test the waters of "is it okay to touch?" kind of thing. There was never any heat behind it. I'd rather they do that if they're into me than nothing.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

    Yeah no this is more forceful then that, semi regular slapping on the chest/face, punching, etc.

    He's never mentions anything about it so its been nothing more than me and my wife noticing and talking about it together but it just feels weird seeing it.

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago (6 children)

    You should tell him that you noticed it and let him know you are a safe person if he needs help exit... if you are that ofc

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  • [–] 5 points 1 week ago (5 children)

    Or maybe they just like to play rough.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago (4 children)

    In that case there is no harm voicing your support

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    Sure, I'm just saying that you shouldn't assume that it's an abuse situation.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    I didnt assume that it is, just that the risk is there. Do you assume that there isnt a risk of abusive behaviour if you see someone hit a supposedly loved one?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

    I hope most people can tell the difference between a punch which is playful and a punch which is intended to cause serious harm.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    Yes, but there are women out there who think because you're a guy they can hit you as hard as they like. It's done playfully, but actually it still hurts and isn't a fun interaction. If you ask them to stop, they'll usually call you a pussy or a crybaby or some variant.

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