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[–] 120 points 5 months ago (78 children)

That's exactly why you should not blindly follow things though. There is literally no advantage to a nicely made bed except that it looks nice. If that is not worth the effort of making the bed, then why would you do it?

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  • [–] 27 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    I make my bed purely because my wife likes it that way. I'm not bothered either way, but I do it because it's important to her.

    She wakes up before I do and goes to bed before I do. I make the bed nice and tidy when I eventually wake up so she has a nice neat bed to climb into at night.

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  • [–] 17 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    it feels nice to me anyway, a cluttered bed makes me anxious. plus tucking yourself into a made bed is such a nice feeling rather than trying to find your sheets in the mess

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    Easily solved by not using top sheets.

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  • [–] 45 points 5 months ago (34 children)

    it has an advantage for your mental health, because it helps your mood to know you have finished a task, have a routine, and cleaning.

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  • [–] 87 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Having to make my bed has a negative effect on my mental health. But yes, that's why I said to evaluate it individually.

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  • [–] 12 points 5 months ago (7 children)

    Contrary to what JP says mental health isn't tied to a clean bedroom, or in this case a made bed.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago* (4 children)

    nah, fuck him. but a routine definitely is.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    no, but making the bed may be one of those mundane things that bring you into a routine!

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago

    You sweat constantly, you just don’t notice it. I “don’t sweat” at night, that doesn’t mean there isn’t moisture in the sheets. Your body is a semi-permeable water sac, of course there’s going to be moisture in the sheets after spending 8 hours in them.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago*

    I sweat a fair amount at night. At this point in my life, I open the window, have a fan blowing air around the room, and sleep with minimal sheets and no clothes. I still end up sweating at some point in the night.

    Mine is likely perimenopause related though.

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  • [–] 6 points 5 months ago (4 children)

    If those are the advantages then the same advantages could be accomplished by daily filling a cup with water, pouring out the water, drying the glass and putting it back in the cupboard. I'd argue the cup with water is far less effort and yields the same results.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago

    For me living in a space that's clean and looks nice does have a pretty big positive impact on my mental health. I feel better walking into my room to the bed being made than I do when it's messy. Maybe everyone doesn't get that but I would bet there are a lot of people that think they are in the "there's no advantage" camp who actually aren't. I thought I was that way when I was younger but when I actually started keeping up with it there was a noticeable improvement I had to acknowledge.

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (20 children)

    The process of making your bed confers several hygiene benefits.

    For starters, we release a ton of water when we sleep, both through sweat and exhalation. A made bed dries more efficiently

    Making the bed also has the effect of shaking loose skin and hair that came off us throughout the night, and casting it to the floor. This is especially true if you use the objectively correct technique of grabbing the corners and flipping your bedding up into the air so that it settles down into place like a parachute

    Takes five seconds, looks nice as you noted, and has many other mental and social benefits we haven’t even touched on. For one of many examples, if I go to a guy’s place, I’m not gonna be inclined to get into his bed if he “won” the bed-making argument with his parents and stuck with that philosophy ever since

    Edit: Tyler thinks you’re too stupid to actually read his linked study. The fact that he needs to lie about something so easy to verify tells you everything you need to know about his alternative theories about reality

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  • [–] 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    It's also good to not make your bed, the warmth keeps the little pesky allergy generating beasts alive and reproductive (they still do, but less or so I have heard).

    If you sweat like a pig (I sometimes do), don't make your bed but hang your comforter(I guess that is the word, duvet ?) on some chair instead, and wash it when needed.

    That said, do as you please, the cops can't stop you!

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  • [–] 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (16 children)

    Wait what? Making the bed does the opposite. It traps the moisture in the bed, meaning it dries less, causing it to smell more. How the hell would making the bed cause it to dry better, that’s complete nonsense.

    Edit: for those that don't believe me, this has already been studied. Making your bed traps moisture. It's honestly crazy to think that closing up a damp environment somehow makes it dry faster.

    Think of it this way, if you soaked your entire mattress in water and then put it out in the sun, is it going to dry faster if you just leave it there or if you cut it open and expose all the insides?

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  • [–] 11 points 5 months ago (15 children)

    You’re wondering why a completely flat piece of fabric with maximal surface area exposed to the air dries faster than one that’s bunched up and covering itself multiple times? Are there any other situations you can think of where things dry better bunched up rather than splayed out? Towels, swimsuits, tarps, tents?

    Who mentioned smell by the way? Is your bedding noticeably smelly?

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  • [–] 7 points 5 months ago

    Huh? Maybe this is a country difference. If I make the bed, there’s going to be more than 3 layers of fabric on top of the sheets that were actually touching my body. There is zero chance in hell of those sheets drying faster covered up. The sheets being pulled back to expose the area that was actually touching my body is what allows it to dry.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 months ago (3 children)

    Where do you think the person’s body was? The spot where all the moisture would be? Probably the big gaping area where there’s a person shaped layback of the sheets.

    The options aren’t “let the moisture out by making the bed” or “let the moisture out by leaving the bed unmade”… the options are “don’t let the moisture out at all by making the bed” or “let most of the moisture out by leaving the bed unmade”.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 months ago

    Do y'all find people who want to have sex with you in a bed like this?

    They are in fact so unaccustomed to the concept of sex that they posted this 100% seriously, without realizing that this example more than doubles the amount of fabric covering the location where your partner sleeps

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