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[–] 38 points 6 months ago (21 children)

My grandma wouldn’t give me her recipe for my favorite dessert and she died:( My aunts try to reassure me by saying she probably didn’t have a recipe she probably felt it out.

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  • [+] 35 points 6 months ago (9 children)
  • [–] 10 points 6 months ago (8 children)

    When I asked for the recipe (fudge) my grandma legit sent me a cutout from the back of a marshmallow fluff jar. I am 100% certain that’s not the recipe she used.

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  • [–] 11 points 6 months ago (4 children)

    You might have been provided a "less-ipe". In communities where recipes are closely guarded, social pressures may force one to share what would be a personal secret. So they give an adulterated version ensuring only they, the original recipe holder can produce the beloved result.

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  • [–] 7 points 6 months ago

    One of my grandmothers had secret recipes, but when realized her time was coming to an end she taught each of her daughters different ones. So one was taught these sauces, another those desserts, and the other some special entrees. Of course the daughters got together and trained one another, but that was the point.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    It’s very likely:( I know some people who are holding out on their kids for that reason.

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  • [–] 2 points 6 months ago

    My mother has a couple recipes like this. Meanwhile I've taught the entire family (and my friends and some of the internet) all of my secret recipes. I only have two that I haven't taught her and I told her she can have them when she gives me hers.

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  • [–] 12 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    That’s why one day I insisted on standing next to my grandma to take notes. I‘m glad I did because otherwise her „I don’t have a recipe“ noodle dish would have been lost forever.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago

    I did this too! I had her write down the ingredients of my favorite Mac and cheese she made, and I still have it.

    1Tbsp salt in boiling water
    Add 4 cups macaroni When cooked, drain/add
    1/4 cup milk
    2 cups Kraft grated cheddar cheese

    I liked the grated from the bag as a kid because she made me grate my own cheese. Ha!

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  • [–] 10 points 6 months ago (7 children)

    I wonder if all great cooks "feel it out" or if that's just something I tell myself to help my disorganized ass sleep at night.

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  • [–] 17 points 6 months ago (5 children)

    Cooking allows for a lot of "feeling it out". For example, most spices you aren't really going to taste a difference between a tsp and a tbsp of the same spice. Just knowing what spices go into the dish you are making can often be enough.

    For example, taco seasoning is onions, cumin, oragano, chili pepper, and paprika. By far, the cumin and onions drive the flavor, you could almost leave out everything else. With that in mind, it mostly ends up being just the technique. Brown the onions, toast the spices, brown the meat. The actual amount of spices that goes in won't make a huge difference one way or another. What does make a difference is if you grind your cumin instead of using preground (that's true for most seed spices).

    Technique is often the most important thing vs exact ingredient measuring. The exception to this is baking. You must measure (preferably by weight) your flour and liquids. You can eventually do it by feel, but it's hard. You'll get much better results with a scale. Even then, it's mostly just the process of targeting the right hydration. 70% does well for a lot of white breads (For every 1 gram of flour add 0.7g of liquid).

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Thank you for the best and simplest explanation of doing __% hydration for dough that I've seen.

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago*

    No problem. I've definitely seen a lot of baking articles that somehow try and make this simple concept unbelievably convoluted.

    The only other thing to know is that 1 mL of water = 1 gram of water. Which means 170g of water == 170 mL of water (At STP... blah blah blah. It's not super important to hit exactly 70% you can hit 75% or 65% and you'll be fine. It's close enough to true).

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago (1 child)

    Wouldn't that be 41% hydration? You add 0.7g water to 1g flour, you get 1.7g of dough, 0.7g is about 41% of 1.7g

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  • [–] 4 points 6 months ago

    Nope. You aren't measuring the percentage of liquid in a dough. You are measuring the percentage of liquid relative to the mass of flour. That's why you can have 100% or higher hydration doughs.

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago

    Yeah, and even when you do taste a difference, it's rarely actually bad. Usually, it's just a different hint of something in the overall taste. If you make the dish often, those variations are actually good, because it makes it more interesting.

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