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[–] 36 points 7 months ago (8 children)

I've found myself in similar situations with past partners. I've found that "I need to go to x place. I'd love to have your company if you're not busy" is a good way to let them know that I want them there with me, but there's no obligation if they don't want to come.

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Thanks! I'll start using this, I'm surprised it's such a common thing, I tought I was just socially inept or something

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  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    see to me that sounds like guilting them into coming.

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